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| 1 | How plausible is the type of man you want?I agree with that being the case once he starts developing, but he's more worried about how he feels with his perception of himself and his actions than with the reality of it. He's way too neurotic (at first) and thus, unable to REALLY be empathetic. He's obsessed with ethics, not ethical. When he's able to retain his memories? Absolutely with you on him being a great emotional role model, but I think that goes for all the cast honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How plausible is the type of man you want?If you think Chidi Anagonye is emotionally mature you didn't get the first 3 seasons. He literally gets in the situation of the whole show for being to emotionally immature and lacking self-awareness on his mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:07 AM |
| -1 | How plausible is the type of man you want?Gosh, do men not select relationship partners from the pool of women that they’re attracted to? Yes, but men are far more objective. However, we have to hear constant whining about how "hollywood stars/models set unrealistic standards for women and men don't even know how real women look like" while hearing how we're so shallow while women "look for what's inside". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 04:01 AM |
| 0 | How plausible is the type of man you want?That's the same thing pro life people say. And one day, abortion is made illegal once again, because you should, apparently, ignore when things shift in society and let them fester. I do agree with you tho. Someone so hellbent on banging their heads against the wall is not someone I want anywhere near me, but I do get the other user's point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveIf it looks bad then why do these women with obvious work done earn that much? Supernormal Stimulus. The same reason certain not-particularly-bright animals will try to mate with balls over potential partners if painted correclty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Should women only befriend men they are attracted to in order to avoid manipulating men?I repress mine all the time You earn 5 times what I do, can you not read, you dumb fuck? As per my last email. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 12:58 AM |
| 28 | Misogynist young adults get more sexCompletely anecdotal but: The time of my life I was fed up with EVERYTHING and started treating women like crap, like, literally objects, was my most "successful" time with women EVER. No, I didn't hit on them more, I didn't ask them out more, even a little bit less. The thing is; it's not the kind of women I'd wanna be around for more than one casual encounter, not even that now. I guess it's the same with women. If you act all "slutty/easy" or even blatantly as a gold-digger, you'll probably c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who was not romantic at all?I'd need to have a really good talk about making sure she feels like she can reject, tell me beforehand that she'd rather not or cut it off without feeling bad or guilty about it, but yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who was not romantic at all?Would cuddling from time to time be on the table? If so; yes. If no, then I'd have to think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 05:49 PM |
| 14 | You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted toAlthough I do get your point and agree with it (the more you have of something, it's normal to value it less), I wouldn't take imprisoned people as a accurate/representative measure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | You think you will benefit from sympathy but you won’t. Sympathy and pity is the opposite of attraction. As a grown man you need to fix your own problemI'm not understanding the connection. To be fair, I'm not very knowledgeable about theology, so would you mind explaining me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?I'm pretty average (except in height, I'm a little below average) but I've noticed that I do WAY better with women that get to know me (so, no cold approach, which I don't like either) than otherwise. The thing is, and I get the point RPs makes here, the first contact will always be visual UNLESS, by other life's circumstances, you get to share the same space for some time to let that kind of thing shine through. It can get a little tricky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 03:54 AM |
| 3 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?happens in drinking/drug environments Which is something modern feminism has made sure is seen as rape, no matter the circumstances, context or even if both are intoxicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex?I think the whole premise is the top 20% don't have the issue because they simply jump ship. Not the healthiest or happies life but no deadbedroom is something, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Men need to learn to let go.The FBI also proves another thing with that statistic. Mind being a little more specific? Or you're not comfortable saying anything outside of what's "ok" on certain echo chambers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:53 AM |
| 7 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationCould you rephrase your question? I'm not sure what you're asking me here. I'm answering to your question. The "?" is to imply the fact that it's basically pathetic having to point that out. InAfter "hur who cares about what other people think" "hur who cares about what other people think" =/= I'm a braindead ant who can only follow the parameters set by others. The fact that you think or fell you have any kind of mental or moral high ground to judge another person after writing the things I quo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 06:07 AM |
| 8 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationWhy would I be with someone who my peers feel is unworthy? Because the beauty of humanity is each person having their own personalities and parameters to what constitutes an attractive and/or desirable partner or anything, for that matter? We're not a hivemind. Could you imagine dating a woman whom all of your friends decided was ugly? I think it's a natural social behavior. Is this bait or you're really this easy to condition? Your partner has to be attractive to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:07 AM |
| 3 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationDepending on someone's situation, they might not have that much of an option. Specially with things related to work, things might be a little sensitive, and that's without even adding things like having kids or someone else rely on you, so you can't just throw everything away and try for better luck. BTW, if all pills are dumb, WHAT DO YOU TAKE WHEN YOU HAVE A RISING FEVER, HUH? Gotcha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 02:37 AM |
| 21 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationBecause he had to study it thoroughly in order to correctly navigate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:20 AM |
| 3 | When you ask a girl out in Social Circle, you're not just risking rejection. You're risking your reputationMaybe you've had the luck to be in good places at work but let me tell you, I've been in both and the difference is day and night. It can absolutely posion the well or make no difference, depending on the context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Women advise men to be confident, but also get annoyed if a guy has the audacity to think he has a chance with themThe issue is most of the things in those lists are common sense. It stands to reason that people might think it's not being listed because it's not really part of the list. Otherwise it would've been listed, like the rest of common sense items. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Women tell that men don't approach women because they're scared.That click was to stop listening to the words and start paying attention to the actions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:21 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: if women don't respond well to men being vulnerable, why would we push so hard for it? What do we have to gain from lying?I'm with you, both in reasons and possibilities. It's like when men say they like forward women and so on, but then they shrink when they're approached by one. I'm positive any woman you ask who's been the one asking out and so on will tell you they've encountered that many times. People don't know what they like or want. Which is ok. The problem is that, instead of looking inwards and working it out, they try to set standards for everyone else and spill that shit everywhere, making it everyone'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 08:26 PM |
| 5 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.Justice system: Does this kind of studf. Also justice system when people inevitably take matter into their hands: NOOOOOO HOW CAN PEOPLE DO THIS, IT'S WRONG, YOU HAVE TO PUT YOUR FAITH IN THE JUSTICE SYSTEM. And then punishes that people taking matters into their hands WAY WORSE than actual rapists and killers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 05:14 PM |
| 4 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationI'll do you one worse (from my side at least): Being used to finding the clit really fast (in my experience, it's mostly easy to find) but then being with someone in which it's harder to find. Whether a ONS, casual fling or something more serious, that's just another argument for only being with people when both of you feel comfy/safe enough. I know women who would take great offense in being asked for help/directions down there, as well as men who would take great offense in being offered help/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 11 | The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulationIf she's comfy enough (or knows herself enough) to express it. I've been told time and time again by different women of different ages and backgrounds that they don't like or enjoy it when men go down on them, but end up really satisfied when I do. I even suffer from PE and most don't give a shit and want to repeat many times. BUT not only you have to listen to her (both cues and straight up wishes/instructions). You also have to make her feel safe/comfortable enough with you to actually express… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?You commenting this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badWhy empathize with people who refuse to empathize with you? It's that simple. When I see women who make genuine efforts to see what it's like on the other side of the fence, that's when I start being empathetic. But if they had though the same way as you, then they'd never shown you empathy, thus, you'd never reciprocated, correct? I'm not saying that you should STAY empathetic towards people actively undermining you, but maybe take a gamble that love/empathy exists and see where it goes? (Spoil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Hey PPD! What is an unpopular opinion that you are thoroughly convinced is true about modern dating after many years?I prefer coffee because it's shorter and usually chiller than dinner. If we've liked each other, the date can easily be extended with another activity and then towards dinner. If not, or either of us just doesn't have the time (which might put dinner out of question in the first place, taking longer to meet each other for a first date), we can go our merry ways in a shorter time frame. It might also help the woman feel safer for a first approach, as there's usually more people going about their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ?I never said it's impossible. What kind of reassurance do I get that the people doing that kind of work is doing it out of their free will? Or as much free will as anyone working on any normal job. Without that, just in case, I wouldn't want to be a part (nor see anyone be part) of possible human trafficking, and without customers, there's no demand and therefore, no trafficking. Granted, english is not my first language so I may have expressed it horribly. What I meant is that I don't have any … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ?I must admit I've not been around those parts of reddit enough to witness it, but I can tell you my (and most people I know) personal caveat with it: Slavery. What kind of reassurance do I get that the people doing that kind of work is doing it out of their free will? Or as much free will as anyone working on any normal job. Without that, just in case, I wouldn't want to be a part (nor see anyone be part) of possible human trafficking, and without customers, there's no demand and therefore, no t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?I don't want to talk in her stead, so please /u/SquirmingAddict correct me if I'm wrong, but her issue with seeing gay men as unmasculine seems to be only aboutt passiveness, not gay men in general. You know the stereotype of homo couples having one be the "male" and one be the "female"? I think it's something to that effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?You really need to learn abour manners and boundaries. You might be able to ask (ask, not command like you did) people for deep stuff, although I'd advise agaisnt it unless there's trust already. Complete strangers, and with bad manners? Dude... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 08:03 PM |
| 34 | Do you think a lot of your fears about men, might be purpetuated by the entertainment industry?Dude wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereThis is the same stuff the men and women who are getting convinced for murder tell me when they’re in the hospital for their health exams before they get sent back to jail. I'm sorry, I know this is COMPLETELY off topic but would you mind talking a bit more about this? If either not ok to do here because of sub rules or because of exposition, can I DM you? For context: I'm studying Psychology so just reading this really grabbed my attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphereEither you're a bot/false flag and trying to talk sense into you would be pointless, or you're a real person and the reason so many people are so wary about Red Pill. Thought you should know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversedDude that's ragebait and you're falling for it. There's "feminists" looking for basically a dad to take care of them? Absolutely. There's "strong masculine men" looking for basically a mom to take care of them? Absolutely. Are they the majority? No. They're the VERY VOCAL minority. And it kinda becomes a self fullfilling prophecy because look at how it's conditioning you, making you feel inadecuate and/or like the "other side" is being unrealistic, so you enclosure youself instead of proving the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 04:18 PM |
| 7 | What do men mean when they say they love deeper than women?Holy mother of based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Data show men are as unsafe around women as women are around men. 40% of women could imagine making a false assault claim against men, while 32% of men could imagine forcing women to do something sexual against their will.It's WAY harder to prove an accusation is false. Not only that, in places like Spain even if an accusation is proven false, they won't change it statistics wise, it's left just as "Rape accusation". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 06:14 PM |
| 9 | If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her?"Pro Choicers" try not to go full on Pro Life the second someone purposes the same treatment for men challange (Impossible: They didn't decide through reason they were pro choice, they were told they were) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Realistically, what qualities would make you overlook a conventionally attractive man for an unattractive one?There are positive and negative mate retention behaviours. So, not everything is abusive. But abuse is certainly part of it. By positive you mean doing things to be "deserving"? Like bettering yourself to match what you think your partner should have by their side? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 02:29 PM |
| 11 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.In LTRs with women, I felt the opposite. They cared about my opinions or the fact I played guitar. They complimented my sense of humor and asked me deeper questions to connect. I felt like they knew me better. Oh damn. Am I a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Question to the women here who have lots of matches on dating apps but haven't been in or don't care much to be in a relationship: How do you reconcile having so many options, and wanting to date, but yet finding all or 95% of men not good enough?I really like this. Short and to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:35 AM |
| -1 | "The bar is in hell" and other such sayings...I'm not sure why you single women out here. I mean I agree with you, but it DEFINETELY goes both ways. It might be "easier" to spot with women because of the dynamics we all know between sexes, but at the end of the day, the behavior is the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Sexual double standard is irrationalPeople could behave a certain way BEFORE a cultural wave and thus, others can pick on the patterns. You could also, however, make the opposite case. That someone that didn't sleep around is bound to do it in the future, wanting to try that experience out by themselves eventually. I don't think most people share that thought tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 01:42 PM |
| 5 | Sexual double standard is irrationalPeople don't need a study to notice patterns. The study just validates it afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?Mind sharing the source? Seems interesting. On the other hand, one could argue that they're less keen to saying something due to cultural background and/or conditioning? Not saying I condone that line of thought, as you're ultimately responsible for your own choices, but there's probably more than one conclussion to be taken out of the study you just explained, I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 10 | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?I'm not sure I'm following. Personally, I'm not interested in threesomes. However, if the opportunity arose, I MIGHT try it just out of curiosity, but only if I'm not in a couple, as I wouldn't like to share my partner, and wouldn't like my partner to share me with anyone, man or woman. I might not be getting the example here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 02:52 AM |
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