MechanicHopeful4096 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	Are women less romantic than men? OP, please don’t get your image of women from online or romcoms. In real life this doesn’t happen in healthy relationships. Anybody who expects their spouse to do all of the work, either man or woman, isn’t somebody that should be dating anyways and is immature. Also, just a piece of advice but anybody who does grandiose gestures/love-bombing is often a red flag. It’s very often a precursor to abuse. Yes, anybody loves to feel that they found somebody who is obsessed with them, but in real life …	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/24 09:48 AM
38	Are women less romantic than men? This is very generalized. If you want to take a look at statistics, men don’t seem to like their girlfriends better- have you seen the rates of domestic violence and how it disproportionately affects women? The rates climb higher once she’s pregnant. Yes there are men who genuinely love their spouses and aren’t abusive, I’m not denying that. In a healthy relationship both partners show love to each other. Women (and men) don’t just get divorced for no reason. Plenty of women work a full time job…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/24 09:25 AM
23	The redpill ruined my mental health and turned me (24, F) into a misandrist. Agreed. OP shouldn’t miss out on relationships for what, proving internet incels who hate women “wrong”? OP please just disregard anything these redpillers say. Anybody who dehumanizes women (or men) solely down to their virginity, age, and other superficial factors are not mentally healthy and your worth shouldn’t be based on their opinions whatsoever. Who cares what they think	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/24 04:18 AM
7	Does the Red Pill damage the nuclear family structure Interesting you say that, because RP tends to heavily put the blame onto women. You even blamed your ex wife for being the kind of woman to “give birth to RP ideology” so I’m a bit confused by what you mean you’re equal opportunity. Anybody who randomly decides to cheat on their spouse, deceives them, and abandons their family aren’t normal people regardless of sex. There are men do this, as well as women.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 10:47 PM
6	Does the Red Pill damage the nuclear family structure Agreed. I’m a woman and have dated abusive and terrible men before who didn’t start out that way and caused damage in my life. It’s not a woman problem- it’s a human problem. Solely blaming women for an ideology that actively hates and wants them subjugated isn’t going to fix bad or mentally ill people and their destructive personalities.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 10:28 PM
5	These alphas are afraid of one thing… Rules for thee but not for me Why impose strict rules on yourself when you can just impose them on women and call them “immoral” when they don’t follow whatever “purity” agenda you had in your head for them?	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 10:16 PM
20	Redpill boyfriend Honestly, I’d say leave him. He’s telling you straight up he’s more interested in 18 year olds and implying heavily he’ll end up cheating anyways. Not to mention the insane amount of misogyny he spewed out saying you’re basically not worth more than your genitalia. WTF?! RP ideology always plays mental gymnastics to appear unfalsifiable. Having a girlfriend shouldn’t be something you put in a glass case and admire, and rating anybody based on being “high-value” or not is dehumanizing and no real…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/24 01:59 AM
9	Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights. Alternatively, in RP spaces how does suggesting we take away women’s rights help anybody except men? By causing the opposite sex to suffer and become oppressed again? Nobody needs that rhetoric. In most feminist spaces we’re not “blue haired whales” ranting for no reason. There are real issues we talk about that affect both women and men of all socioeconomic and racial backgrounds, and we recognize that many of those issues stems from patriarchal issues and men who benefit at our expense. I’d re…	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/24 10:55 PM
7	Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights. Like what? Women not being virgin, young bangmaids to trap into a marriage without an option for divorce? There are problems men go through, but it’s not the fault of the entire opposite sex. I understand getting half your stuff taken in divorce is terrible, but the solution is not to ban no-fault divorce so women can’t even leave. There needs to be better awareness of why signing a prenup is beneficial, the courts need to be established in such a way where it doesn’t favor either sex favorably,…	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/24 10:24 PM
2	Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights. I think it can become easy to get sucked into these crappy movements. In my own experience, I really liked the financial aspect (how to make more money) and also the idea of “going your own way”, because well, I was/am very independent and enjoyed the idea of carving out a life without anybody else’s expectations placed onto me. Then you hear the misogynistic stuff. Some of it was subtle but others were blatant. The extreme toxic masculinity forced on other men. Seeing women as nothing more than…	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/24 10:13 PM
4	Reminder: Redpill and blackpill is a cult, exploiting vulnerable people That’s the one I don’t actually understand. I’ve been stuck in real “trad”/fundie communities before and women are actively discouraged from voicing their opinion publicly or showing themselves on social media, especially for money. It’s not considered “modest”. Serious delusion with these types. Also plenty of women get stuck in marriages without a way out, no work experience, no education, and responsible for a bunch of kids. Seems like a real dream 🙄	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/24 10:01 PM
3	I have a question about The Wall. It’s more often than not used to demean women who are older. I’ve heard it plenty of times from redpillers- women over 30 are ugly, used up, and therefore no men will want them unless those men are simps and must settle for “older women” who are “undesirable”. I’ve also seen incels completely deny the fact that older women can have an active, healthy dating life and instead buy into the false narrative that if they didn’t settle down by 25, they’ll become “lonely old cat ladies”. Also I think we…	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 08:54 PM
6	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into? I mean, there’s a lot of in between instead of solely being abstinent and ‘giving it away like candy’ That’s fine if it’s your value, especially since there isn’t a double standard. The problem is when it starts to become an expectation (particularly only for women) or expecting others to have the same religious values about abstinence around intimacy	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/24 07:13 PM
3	I think my boyfriend is a redpiller Seems like he chooses to ignore the very real problems women face, especially in societies where they’re not even seen as equal under the law without saying how bad men have it in the west because of “no fault divorce” or not getting laid or something not even remotely comparable to being oppressed by men in authority. Honestly, are you okay with dating somebody whose opinions are easily swayed by grifters who are blatantly sexist? You could have a convo and show him the various laws in where wo…	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/24 11:52 PM
42	Are men inherently misogynistic? I think it’s far easier for men to learn misogyny from a young age and never really question it because it doesn’t negatively affect them- in fact it benefits them to see women as lesser. Are men born with inherent misogyny? I don’t think so. It’s a learned behavior and has been, sadly, accepted as the norm for centuries. Only in modern times is it being challenged and men have to recognize this and actively work on getting rid of it.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/24 11:39 PM
1	Were people more faithful back in the day? (Crosspost) So many people cheated on their spouses back in the day, like divorce wasn’t even an option for many so they just hid their infidelity well. It was very common	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/24 12:56 AM
20	Virginity It only makes sense when both people are virgins and want the same for whoever they’re looking to date. It becomes a problem when grown ass men expect to only date virgins and believe every woman should save herself for one man while he goes and bangs whoever he wants. It’s a belief rooted in outdated, archaic, sexist purity culture. And more often than not, these men are a lot older and take advantage of the woman who have no prior dating experience.	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/24 05:54 AM
1	I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman. Bingo	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/24 05:39 AM
1	I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman. Not sure what you mean by that. Expecting anybody to solve your problems isn’t healthy or mature in the slightest.	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/24 05:36 AM
21	Virginity In my experience with dating, not at all. Didn’t affect me one bit. I’ve known many men who wanted to date somebody who knew what they were doing. The only grown men obsessed with a woman’s virginity are creeps and tbh you’re better off not interacting with them. Also I’d never try to live to the standards of random men. Bothered about my past? Don’t talk to me then. I’m not living according to anybody else’s opinion🤷‍♀️	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/24 05:28 AM
1	Boyfriend turned red pill.. now i need to leave.. but how? He’s an abusive prick that is using RP content as an excuse to treat you like absolute shit. Get out ASAP. There’s so many better men out there.	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/24 03:42 AM
1	I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman. No one woman will ever solve your problems. Stop expecting women, or anybody for that matter, to bear the weight of curing you. Its not anybody’s job except yours. Stop viewing us as some bang maid willing to essentially be your therapist.	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/24 03:24 AM
1	What turned you off of Red Pill? Bots are out. Dumbass couldn’t even figure out I’m not even a man.	/r/ExRedPill	17/01/24 03:15 AM
5	Challenging the "Red Pill" Notion: The Diverse Spectrum of Womens No- women don’t want angry, dangerous men unless they have serious problems they need to see a shrink for.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/24 08:58 PM
5	Challenging the "Red Pill" Notion: The Diverse Spectrum of Womens Can we please stop talking about women in a way that sounds like a science experiment? Yes, not all women are the same. It’s that simple.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/24 08:56 PM
4	Is escortmaxxing a good way to deal with emotional pain, have fun, and be adventurous in life whenever I’m feeling lonely, will it ruin my chances of finding a long term relationship, and will bragging about it on social media make the women who know me jealous? I’m not exactly sure of what this term is but from I read it’s paying for an escort to help you emotionally? Correct me if I’m wrong. I’ll give you my experience with dating men who paid for similar services. I once dated a guy who told me he used an escort at a party before, and I couldn’t have cared less. He also slept with lots of random women, which I was disgusted by but that was because he didn’t care really about protection. I also dated somebody else who eventually told me they used to o…	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/24 07:53 PM
10	How old does a guy have to be to be considered a "High Value Man"? It’s all garbage. In real life none of this matters.	/r/ExRedPill	02/01/24 02:43 PM
20	Red pill beliefs are ruining my life When I was 18 I was also really doom and gloom about life. Just a part of growing up. You won’t be alone forever, most men aren’t (unless they’re screwed up and/or abusive). Be healthy, work on social skills/confidence, love yourself, and work on your goals. That’s basically it and eventually everything else falls into place. Red pill ideology is very toxic. It only drags you down and compares you unhealthily to other men.	/r/ExRedPill	27/12/23 11:58 PM
21	Who are some of the most hilariously idiotic manosphere influencers? Myron Gaines from f&f. Dude just screams at women all day and puts them down. It’s just ridiculous and annoying. I think he actually might have a mental or personality issue because of how hateful and insane he can be. Says women are emotional but the guy is the epitome of baseless emotion. Pearl Davis. Chronically single but tells women how they should get a man. Can’t even live up to her own “standards” of a wife. Regressive mentality but she’s actually trying to appeal to a man, any man to da…	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/23 10:43 AM
4	OF is a void filler They’re angry at her because they’re alone and projecting their misery on somebody who gets a lot of attention (the kind of attention they crave). They also want to believe women who do OF will end up alone. It’s not true at all. Sure, some do just like anybody else but there are other plenty of other factors that contribute to being alone, whether they choose to or not. But plenty of women who do OF and even sex workers have a family/spouse, and there definitely are men who don’t mind that type…	/r/ExRedPill	25/12/23 08:06 PM
3	Accidentally dated a red pill without realizing (my experiences) I knew a mgtow guy before and he was honestly a very cool guy. He didn’t hate or disrespect women, he was just happy living life on his own terms after divorce, which I get. He also wouldn’t go into these rages where he victimized himself and blamed women, so he just seemed like a regular dude who realized romance wasn’t for him at that point in life. Now, I’ve also heard other red pillers bring up the DV shelters for men- and it’s always a guy who has no idea what women go through in spousal ab…	/r/ExRedPill	21/12/23 06:08 AM
8	Should I break up with my boyfriend when I turn 30 because he believes in the wall? “how is that even possible if redpill is correct?” First of all, redpill is not correct. It’s an ideology sold (yes, sold. It’s a business) to men who are unable to get women, or who have been through a difficult divorce and use that space as a coping mechanism to blame women for everything wrong in their lives. Don’t let this shallow ideology remove your confidence about aging. It’s inevitable and happens to us all. My own mother was nearing her 30s when she married my father, and they’ve been …	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/23 12:07 PM
7	What turned you off of Red Pill? I often watched red pill content mostly for the financial advice, and then I started hearing the views on women (Men can cheat but women can’t, you girls just need to accept that! Women NEED to stay at home at all times! Having a woman is for status and reproduction ONLY! And the kicker: No divorce! And women shouldn’t vote!) It’s just blatant misogyny. They claim it’s not, but it really is. They don’t respect or like women enough to even want them to have a normal life and want them instead to …	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/23 03:13 AM
8	Crosspost: Bodytypes women are attracted to When I was dating, height didn’t make much of a difference. Guys would brag to me how tall they were out of nowhere, only for them to be noticeably shorter in person than their original claim over texting- this showed huge insecurity on their part and was extremely unattractive. If they said nothing and just owned who they were, it wouldn’t even be a big deal and it’s not something I would have brought up. Also for the peacocking- that’s also extremely unattractive. I’d never date a man who made…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/23 02:42 AM