Personally for me my childhood trauma is tied in with my unattractiveness. Kids bullied me for being short and ugly. Now as an asult I carry that trauma with me and I also get rejected constantly for being short and ugly. So yea even if i got laid my problems wouldnt go away but my problems were always related to attractiveness. If I off myself it wont be because i couldnt find a gf it would be because my entire life is falling apart and have nothing to look forward to.
Yeah I mean those guys are all normal looking dudes that have good hair. They all have potential. Im balding and my bone structure genuinely looks hella weird in my face (maxilla) so imnot one of them.
Were you ugly though? This story sounds similar to mine except when i made the desciob to fix myself I simultaneously started balding. And thats on top of having a noticeably unattractive face and being 5’3. So i just grinded and grinded trying to integrate socially with my peers but i just simply wasnt liked. People dont want to associate with others that have obviously low status attributes bundled up into one person.
My only question is: why do women insist that if men that are struggling with women just were better people they wouldnt sttruggle? Like when I say I struggle with women because im 5’3 and started balding at 18 every woman in a 5mile radius rushes to declare that her personality detector is tingling and is telling her that im actually just a shitty person and thats why I struggle. Morality and attraction have absolutely nothing to do with each other.
