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| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himI'm a little confused, it seems like you're trying to argue with me, while I'm trying to agree with you and expand on it. The whole point im making is that people in a relationship where they feel safe and trust desire sex more often than people in relationships that make them feel anxious and scared about sex, or just anxiety in general. The other point I was making is that people can carry trauma from the second type into healthy relationships (along with things like religious and societal inf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himMy comment was moreso about pointing out the difference in how libido works for the average woman and the average man, and when you have a couple without a lot of mental blocks and both people are doing the right things (what I like to call "treating each other as humans", which I've been told is apparently rare nowadays), it just happens more often naturally. I did forget to mention the part about engaging in intimacy without the expectation of sex, and that each act should be enjoyed for what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Wives who don’t have regular sex with their husbands should never have married himTestosterone is only responsible for spontaneous libido, aka randomly being turned on with no triggers. Happens for men and average of every 3-5 days. Most women very rarely get spontaneous libido (like once a month), and instead have primarily responsive libido. For people like that, the most important things for having a regularly active libido are having a trustworthy and caring partner, developing positive views towards sex, identifying turn ons, and mitigating turn offs. Purity culture was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 08:25 PM |
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