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Nope - when this has happened to me, I’ve just assumed that he wanted to approach me and give it a shot, but was making an actual effort to ensure I didn’t feel intimidated or creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:35 PM
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lol you think that you as a man have a better foundation of how things come off to women than women do? Lol that’s a pretty big red flag🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:05 AM
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It’s definitely a shift for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:48 AM
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If the risk of going out into social spaces is so high, that you are willing to opt out of meeting new people and getting into a relationship like you want to do supposedly, than that’s something you probably need to be seeking therapy for, not making up excuse after excuse constantly painting yourself as the victim. Right now, you’re making broad assumptions about everybody you are going to encounter, without giving it an actual shot. There are tons of introverted women who get out of their com…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:28 AM
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Honestly, if you’re not yet at the maturity level where you’re able to seperate your identity from having occasionally doing things you don’t enjoy in order to achieve your goals, then you’re probably not yet at the maturity level to be getting into a romantic relationship in the first place. In healthy relationships, you do have to do things you sometimes don’t want to do in order to support your partner and your relationship. If you’re too petulant to ever do something you don’t inherently wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:15 AM
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That’s just an unwillingness to put in the effort to leave your comfort zone in order to meet new people. Even though I don’t drink, before meeting my partner I would go out to bars and order some appetizers and mocktails if I wanted to go meet new people. Yes, you need to put in more effort than more extroverted people do to meet new people and find a potential partner in the real world, but that doesn’t make it off limits to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:58 AM
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Well lucky for him, there are TONS of resources out there to help people who struggle with these sorts of things. Everything from one on one cognitive behavioral therapy from liscenced professionals, to well intentioned women happy to share pieces of advice on Reddit. It’s all just a matter of being willing to take advice, make corrections, and putting forth genuine effort to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:27 PM
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She’ll assume that it’s because you are trying to talk to her, yes. That’s obvious, but it’s the way that a man approaches that makes him creepy or intrusive, not the act in and of itself. Just make sure to approach her in a way that is about her tastes or personality; karaoke? Compliment her on her performance. At a bar? Ask what she’s drinking and if it’s any good. Is she sitting at the bar? Ask her for reccomendation on what’s good there. Not sure what to say? Compliment a part of her outfit,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:22 PM
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There are plenty of ways for men to approach women in social spaces hating don’t come off as creepy or intrusive. It all comes down to approaching a woman as a person rather than a sexual interest. It can honestly be something as simple as complimenting a part of a woman’s outfit, like her shoes, rather than commenting on her overall appearance, and maybe asking where she got them to engage her interest in further conversation. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:54 PM
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Well fortunately for all of us, there has been peer reviewed research into this topic! Researchers have found a direct correlation between an individual’s endorsement of the idea that a man’s masculine honor should be defended, and the expectation that a man should act aggressively when rejected. Summary of the study here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/attraction-evolved/201803/why-some-men-respond-rejection-aggression?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:11 PM
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Clarification question - would you have discounted a woman who had a phobia of clowns?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:34 AM
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I would argue that a lot of these are very superficial, as they aren’t based on who she is as a person. For starters, every single person will experience some type of mental health issue at different points in their life; stress, grief, etc. Everyone has these issues at some point or another. Her upbringing situation also has nothing to do with who she is as a person. Yes, individuals from “broken” homes are more likely to develop traits that introduce problems within a relationship, and it’s pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:05 AM
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Are you using “hit the gym” to means exercises a couple times a week, or you specifically expect her to go to a physical gym? If the latter, why is going to a physical gym important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:59 AM
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Welp - I’ve already got a gender essentialist who thinks certain skill sets are inherent to specific genders complaining. So no, not 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:51 AM
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If I identified as a man, or non-binary, it would have no impact on my ability to get pregnant. If my partner was AMAB, but Identified as a woman, she wouldnt be able to magically become pregnant now that she identifies as a woman. Reproduction doesn’t work that way. Additionally, if the expectation is based on one partner having a set of skills that the other partner lacks, then that’s not based on gender, but rather the skills, even though those skills are commonly associated with said genders…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:58 AM
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Sexual attraction is a general, like he needs to want to be with me. Longer term stuff requires growth that happens naturally in a relationship. Kind and caring is also a general one. He generally needs to be a kind and caring person, and not treat me cold and stern at all times, which many many are prone to. No - holding different expectations isn’t something inherent. Expectations to be the one to carry a child is not on the basis of gender, but that I am the one capable of bearing a child. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 09:36 AM
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Well, which one of these do you think is reasonable to get rid of? Which one will cause me to not lead an untenable miserable existence to live with as a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:54 AM
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Yes, I am aware that there are a multitude of different reasons that would affect this, however it is not feasible to list them all, so I only picked two circumstances to illustrate how it really does come down to the specific situation on a person-by-person basis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:23 AM
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It really depends on the set of circumstances right? I would say mid to late 20’s if a guy has been actively trying to loose his virginity and has been making a real effort to do so. It gets to a point where if he was that determined, he would have saved up to visit a sex worker in a place where the practice is regulated. Of course, this is subject to change based on other factors, particularly personality traits and physical traits as well. That age range of course gets extended if the guy was …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:11 AM
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lol - it took me 7 years of being single to find my mister right. All of the things listed above are deal breakers, and it’s extremely hard to find a man who meets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:23 AM
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These public spaces literally exist in parts of Appalachia where the minimum wage of the area is enough to live comfortably. So no, it’s a self-inflicted unwillingness to pursue the availability of these public spaces in where you choose to live, since they exist in such spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:11 AM
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It’s no longer a preference when you are discounting people who meet your preference requirements because they have a separate set of attributes that are sometimes but not always causally linked to a preference you have. That’s where it crosses the line from being a preference into just pure discrimination. Like I said, it’s one thing to have a preference for somebody who are negatively affected by trauma, and have not grown past that trauma. It’s another to discriminate against all individuals …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:07 AM
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No - I want them to leave me the hell alone. It’s fine if they hold that sexual attraction towards me, but don’t ever act on it in a way that I have to engage with. Treat me as a human, not as a sexual object.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:58 AM
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I’ve been informed by many men on this sub that my standards are wayy too high, especially as a woman whose wrist makes my skin crease when I bend it at a 90 degree angle, so here it goes; Guy has to be be at least 5’4. Guy can be overweight, but cannot be obese in appearance. Needs to be in the age range of 28-38. If a guy is balding, he has to be doing so with some grace, no comb overs or toupees, even if that means shaving his head completely bald. He also needs to have good posture, and hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:55 AM
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No - it crossed the line of preference into discrimination. Saying that you won’t date someone because they have a life experience that makes them more likely to have an attribute that you find undesirable is discrimination; a preference would be just saying you don’t want people with a certain attribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:18 PM
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Individuals with poverty experiences are more likely to have substance abuse issues and other mental health issues. Many are emotionally dysfunctional as a result of the trauma faced as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:45 PM
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What you’re saying is akin to saying that women should avoid dating men who have experienced poverty at some point in their life, due to the potential of negative traits that could have resulted from that experience. Both are incredibly dehumanizing. It’s one thing to say that you should avoid dating individuals with unresolved abandonment issues, or who look down on people of lower social status than themselves. It’s another to completely disregard a person because they have a life experience t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:11 AM
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Well, then that’s clearly a self-inflicted problem with the area you have chosen to live in. Within my area, lots of women in the 20-40 range are at all these types of classes, including art, knitting, candle making, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:50 PM
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<image> And here are the women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:38 AM
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<image> Here are the men’s standard when it comes to messaging though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:37 AM
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<image> If you look at the other data collected in this study, it also shows that women are more likely to message men they see as “below average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:36 AM
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Art classes, dance classes, yoga classes, cooking classes, knitting classes, you name it. The big thing is participating in community activities that are open to all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:07 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:57 PM
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Not by that much. You’re just suffering from confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:04 AM
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Nope - at least in the U.S., that figure is pretty darn close to 50/50. This 1 in 5 is something you have made up in your head. Source: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:59 AM
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Saying, “let me make sure the wife is okay with it first,” doesn’t mean they have to ask permission. For many healthy relationships, that’s just checking for scheduling conflicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:14 PM
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lol - encountering the absurd isn’t something exclusive to men silly. It’s a common factor amongst most of humanity, men and women alike. You would know this if you read his two other works meant to be read with the Stranger. Camus is specifically arguing that you shouldn’t live your life like Mersault as doing so is the equivalent of committing suicide. But good job taking a piece of literature wayyy out of context to support your views, but that’s not what the book is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:16 AM
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Ummmmm, this justification of yours is actually pretty illegal in a lot of ways. Like, you have likely admitted to commiting benefits fraud here. WHO is cooking the food that your partner is eating? People who live together and purchase and prepare meals together are all considered one household under SNAP. So unless your partner is having completely separate food from the rest of the household, and you are taking other measures to keep everything separate, his income is meant to count towards t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 10:49 PM
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The individual needs to not treat me in an abusive manner, they cannot place a different set of expectations on me than what they hold themselves to on the basis that “I am the woman,” and they must respect my consent and bodily autonomy. Can these traits be found in others? Yes, absolutely. Are they difficult to find nowadays, especially with the proliferation of TRO ideology? Also yes unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:54 AM
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I don’t think any of it is misleading either, but if makeup is misleading, these things certainly are misleading then too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:17 PM
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If somebody doesn’t understand that people don’t naturally have flawless smooth skin that looks like porcelain, that’s a them problem. Who’s this person out there thinking sparkly blue eyelids are naturally occurring? I would think there are less of them than there are people believing that people can be naturally hairless, as there are actually naturally hairless people who exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:04 PM
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All I’m saying is if putting a cream with some pigment in it on top of your skin to hide the appearance of a temporary blemish is misleading and deceitful, then putting chemicals on your face for the purpose manipulating your skin cells to do things they otherwise wouldn’t in order to improve their appearance is equally misleading and deceitful. I don’t personally feel that either are deceitful or misleading, but if one of them is, it logically follows that the other is equally as misleading/dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:16 PM
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Let me see if I’m understanding your logic correctly: applying chemicals to the skin in order to manipulate the cells into doing things that improve the appearance of skin is okay. taking blades to the skin all over your body to make it appear as though you do not grow hairs in certain areas is okay permanently dying hairs on the eyelash so that they appear darker and more noticeable is okay taking hot wax to the skin in order to rip out dozens of hair follicles is okay However putting a cream t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:53 PM
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These things aren’t any more misleading than wearing makeup is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:31 PM
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Sunscreen and basic moisturizer is for just taking care of skin, yes. But actives such as retinol, acne fighting ingredients, etc actually harm the skin in a way that needs to be counteracted for the sake of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:01 PM
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Shaving, eyebrow shaping, lip waxing, many non-makeup wearers do eyelash tinting, skincare routines, and that’s all just for appearance. Then you have the non appearance things of wearing deodorant and perfumes. It’s all things to conceal or hide or mislead people about what a persons naturally occurring traits are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:35 PM
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Would you agree that all men who grow beards because it benefits the appearance of their face shape frauds too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:32 PM
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Even women who don’t wear makeup do lots of other things to enhance their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 01:31 PM
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The entire purpose of the stranger is to illustrate how people should not act, think, or behave in response to encountering the absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:47 PM
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How is a book which has the entire purpose of illustrating how a person shouldn’t act and shouldn’t think and shouldn’t behave supposed to help women understand men better?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:30 PM
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You proactively have to make yourself go out and socialize, in order to actually create situations where you are meeting new people of your preferred sexuality. You purposely and consistently make sure you are putting your best foot forward in public, ensuring you are always well put together, which takes a not insignificant amount of time daily to achieve. What folks don’t talk about a lot is the exceptional mental load of acting “ladylike” it comes easier to some than others sure, but it’s a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:24 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:03 AM
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I’m sorry, but my own personal experiences show us more about the nature of the human race than a study on the behaviors of prairie voles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:36 PM
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Do you really think your tax dollars should be going towards hiring chaperones for this purpose? We already cannot recruit enough federal employees to do the work at hand, leading to tremendous backlogs within our government agencies, and we cannot get the public to stick behind giving large enough salary bumps to resolve the issue, so how exactly are we supposed to add additional chaperone positions to satisfy this rule? And what of healthcare costs? Should we be paying even more for healthcare…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:11 AM
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You’re thinking of it the wrong way - why would somebody interested in you not want to put their best foot forward. They want you to see who they are when they are their true selves, not their sick selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:21 PM
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I am a woman and I do not feel this way, therefore it is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:31 PM
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That’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:30 PM
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More like when they are the type of person to take what she says out of context to make it a whole “woe is me” all about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:15 PM
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Nah, looks, status, and money are not what strong healthy relationships are built on. Now if you’re looking for a hook-up or somebody who deliberately wants to use you, those three things will get you attention, but is that really the attention you want. When it comes to healthy relationships, it’s all about personality, life philosophy, chemistry, etc. How you get along as a pairing. Do looks, status, and money matter? To some extent, yes, every woman will have a threshold of “good enough” if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 07:14 PM
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Since when is a person having a conflicting life philosophy that would make a relationship with that person untenable considered a “perfect guy” like FFS. It’s not like women are lying when we say that it’s not all about looks, status, or income. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:35 PM
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It’s not just he said she said, otherwise there would not be charges of tampering/falsifying physical evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:20 PM
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For starters, the wage gap exists even for women who never have any children. And no, they don’t need to quit, most parents don’t, and any benefits that the child may have from a parent being at home can also be gained by having their father quit work to take care of them, no reason it has to be on the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:47 AM
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No, this would make the lifetime wage gap that women already face soo much larger. As is, women already have a lifetime wage gap of between $250k- over $1million as things are now dependent on their circumstances, and this figure is based off of a 40 year career. Cut the length of the woman in half, you are going to more than double that lifetime wage gap. https://nwlc.org/resource/the-lifetime-wage-gap-state-by-state/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:57 AM
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lol - try again - I was in a prestigious career by my mid-20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:36 PM
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Hi, woman in a prestigious career that works with many other women in such positions: a lot of such women, myself and my colleagues included will often avoid getting in relationships with men who work even more prestigious and higher paying roles, because in a lot of cases it develops competing relationship dynamics that are detrimental to the woman. I myself learned this the hard way, as many such men will automatically expect you to make sacrifices to your own career to better support them, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:00 PM
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If someone is paying for one hour of interaction with a sec worker, first, the money isn’t all going to her, and second, it’s much more than an hour of the sex worker’s time dedicated to the hour of service. A chunk of the money goes to the establishment the sex worker is serving clients at, both for the physical location and its upkeep, as well as security. A lot of the money paid goes towards what are essentially business expenses; pubic hair maintenance, shaving, makeup, hair, lingerie, etc, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:37 PM
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I only condemn unregulated prostitution, and there is a huuuuggee difference. If a man is going someplace where prostitution is legalized, sex workers have workplace safety regulations, a fair wage, benefits, etc., more power to him. Supporting an underground black market industry where the women are frequently exploited, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:30 PM
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The way I’ve always heard it said is that one is miles away from any other people or civilization, so maintained hiking trails don’t seem to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:57 PM
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This!! When I get asked a question, my thoughts to go the rational scenario of me being alone in the woods, which as somebody living in Appalachia means that I would be encountering a North American Black Bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:56 PM
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Given that the knowledge of basic human anatomy among men in this group is so basic that they think that when you bend your wrist at a 90 degree angle that you should see no kind of skin creasing on your wrist, and any creasing you do see are fat rolls… no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:03 PM
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The trauma that women face from sexual experiences largely stems from or at the very least is worsened by the rhetoric that having multiple sexual partners makes a woman “loose her value.” You’re trying to justify an archaic view by using the negative impacts that very negative view has, do you not see the hypocrisy there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:04 AM
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Well you see, the great thing about being human is that we are able to overcome our primal instincts if we choose to do so. It’s fine if you have that preference and choose not to overcome it in and of itself for your own search for a partner, however if this is the case then you should not complain about the selectiveness of women that is caused by this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:19 AM
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Well then if a man isn’t going to drop this false narrative / preference, then they shouldn’t complain about women being so selective. One shouldn’t complain about things of which they are engaging in the root cause of.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:06 AM
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OP certainly is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 08:01 AM
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You know - if men would just 86 the archaic notion that women “loose value” by having more sexual partners in her lifetime. Once this idea is put out to pasture, many more women will be willing to engage in casual sex. Right now though, the risk/benefit is just not there. The experience of casual sex for women can be pretty bad, the guy could be selfish and not care much for whether or not the woman reaches orgasm, the guy could be somebody who cannot last long enough himself to get the woman to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 06:49 AM
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Tell me you didn’t read the article and don’t have a fundamental understanding of how the update functions without telling me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:00 PM
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Putting words in somebody’s mouth is what you’re doing when demanding a yes or no answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:50 PM
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This particular move is about making men happy, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:43 PM
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What do you not understand about what I’m saying? What are you seeking clarification on?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:04 PM
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They want to make their paid subscribers feel like they are getting a good value, a majority of whom are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:54 PM
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It’s mine, bent at a 90 degree angle so so the skin is creasing, but I guess the guys here are so ignorant of basic human anatomy they don’t understand seats d that difference either <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:51 AM
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And that’s fine - but it’s another thing entirely when they start degrading women on the basis of that thought, when it’s not even based on reality and an accurate understanding of human anatomy to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:44 AM
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It’s about consent - if an individual who is able to make medical decisions for themselves wants to alter their genitals surgically, they should be able to do so. If there’s no explicit and enthusiastic consent from the individual, then it’s not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:42 AM
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If he has everything going for him on paper, then something that you can’t find on the paper is what’s going wrong. If he frequently is interacting with these women when he is around the boys, this could be a part of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:37 PM
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It’s because they are wanting to make men happy, not make women happy. Men are largely the ones that will form out for a subscription, and they are less inclined to pay up if all their matches are going to be automatically unmatched at a point for something outside of their immediate control. However, in a lot of ways, since the man is only able to do so by answering a question the woman has asked of men matching with her in her profile - and let’s be honest, it’s common to ask the same starting…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:26 PM
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Ummm my wrist doesn’t have much body fat at all, and I do look like the woman in the 25% picture. My wrist is that thick because I have a large frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:47 PM
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Where the hell did I imply that????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:45 PM
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Holy Hell YIKES 🚩🚩🚩a BMI of 15 is severe anorexia for a woman. Like we are talking hella health complications - I mean if you think a woman who has her teeth falling out is attractive then who am I to judge, but that shit isn’t healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:19 PM
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Was this really necessary to say? Th commenter asked for an example of somebody with a large frame but low body fat percentage. Like, if you don’t understand that frame size and body fat percentage are two different things unrelated to eachother, you can just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:25 PM
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lol I’m under 5 foot so of course not - and also, you’re using BMI, not measured body fat percentage 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:13 PM
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Do you or don’t you understand the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:25 PM
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My assured body fat percentage is 24.8 - I’ve already stated that - are these men just dumb and don’t realize that skin makes creases when you bend it at weird angles? Like is their understanding of basic anatomy really that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:24 PM
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The entire U.S. women’s gymnastics team
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:04 PM
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I was bullied about the proportion of my wrist to my forearm, no clothes involved at all. That’s not the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:39 PM
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Right - but take this example, for a woman with my frame size and height 120-134 pounds is the healthy weight range. When calculating BMI it that range goes from 24.2 bmi to 27.1bmi which shows how BMI is not a good measurement tool to use to assess body weight of somebody with a large frame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:26 PM
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I’m not concerned about me - what I’m genuinely concerned about is other women out there being told by men they are fat because the men don’t understand the difference between frame size and being overweight. Women with a large frame are very square shaped and don’t have a curve that goes in at the waist dramatically. If I’m being told that I am fat because of my body shape and not because I’m actually overweight, then it’s happening to others as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:17 PM
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Not muscles - body frame refers to underlying skeletal structure that sets you up for certain body shapes and proportions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:12 PM
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USA women’s gymnastics team
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:10 PM
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I’m literally not - but Other women are negatively impacted by this as well. I’m worried about the perfectly healthy young women who are made to feel they are fat because of their body shape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:10 PM
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Be careful about talking BMI, that’s just a ratio of height to weight, and not body fat percentage. My BMI puts me in the overweight category, as it doesn’t account for frame size nor muscle mass versus fat. This is why in my post I was careful to notate measured body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:08 PM
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I actually looked just like that in my early 20s, when the guy told me I needed to loose weight to get a skinny waist and not look so square 🤦‍♀️ Also, just the other day, a bunch of men were calling me fat because of my wrist proportion to my forearm, which is the same proportions as these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:03 PM
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The entire USA women’s gymnastic team
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:55 PM
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The word decidedly doesn’t mean that it was decided upon - it means certainly, unquestionably, without a doubt. Apologies if my vocabulary usage confused you, I am not talking about anybody deciding whether or not to be attracted to somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:17 PM
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Where did I say that people decide who they are attracted to? Are you referring to my use of the word “decidedly?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:09 PM
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Yeah - but it’s NOT just a linguistic thing - it’s a not understanding body anatomy thing. Like the example I gave when I was told by a man that I needed to loose weight, because he thought that loosing weight would change my body shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:34 PM
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Having muscle isn’t correlated directly to frame size, since frame size refers to the underlying skeletal structure, although it affects the appearance of muscle and the like, they aren’t one in the same
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:25 PM
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It refers largely to bone size! This gives a pretty good run down and way to measure! https://www.disabled-world.com/calculators-charts/body-frame.php#:~:text=Body%20frame%20size%20is%20a,of%20body%20composition%20and%20weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:24 PM
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I don’t know if I would qualify as an Amazon given that I’m the same height as Simone Biles
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:57 PM
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Awww - are you another one who doesn’t understand the difference between having a large frame and being overweight and how they are two different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:24 PM
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Nah - not worth it. Men who are pricks are almost always absolutely terrible in the bedroom. They tend to just go at it without much regard for whether or not their partner is actually enjoying it. No thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 05:35 PM
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Fuck no - I’ve heard from folks in the Comedy circuit that he’s a prick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:44 PM
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Awww and you don’t understand how curving one’s wrist affects the way it looks. Sooo cutttteeee! It’s actually a pretty loose bracelet when kept on its tightest setting so it doesn’t fall off 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:24 AM
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Aww look at you guys not understanding the difference between body frame size and body fat percentage. So frickin adorable 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:07 AM
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Women can bring all those things too in some form, duh. Money - check, solid social life - check, some form of muscles - check, favorably characterized genitals for maximizing pleasure - check, sense of humor - check, great personality - check. Need I go on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:05 AM
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If it does, I’ll ignore it. My partner makes me the happiest I’ve ever been, and I won’t settle for any less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:42 PM
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I’ll shed a little more honesty here then - I’m very successful career wise I make a very decent salary, I have a lot of impressive hobbies, and a wide variety of interests. I can and have garnered the attention of what TRP et al would consider “High Value Men” - six figures, conventionally attractive , etc… however so many of these men’s are complete pricks when it comes to relationships, so I won’t date them. Not even worth it for a hookup, because that a-holery seeps into the bedroom, and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 11:19 PM
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I’m slightly above average - if I really work it I can get myself up to being rated a 7.5 or so. Lol, if stand-up comics big enough to have gotten a TV credit or two several years back count as an entertainer, I’ve had a few try to hook up with me. If somebody being on the local minor league baseball team counts as an athlete, I’ve had a match on Tinder. Considering I out-earned all of these men, nobody was flying me out to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:55 PM
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lol yeah exactly - we actually had one come into my neighborhood not to long ago, a young male. Truth be told, I live in the downtown of a city of over 80k people, so it’s much more common to get bears in the suburbs, but this one came downtown at the crack when people weren’t out and about. Animal control had a hell of a time trying to get the poor thing tranquilized so he could be relocated, because not only was he fast, but scared shitless of people and kept running away from anybody he saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 08:12 PM
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Nope - and it’s probably best to stay away from making judgements on what you think women are thinking rather than actually listening to what women are telling you they are thinking. When asked this question, I thought about the real-life circumstance of me going off trail in the very large protected forests where I live. The ones that are populated by very real North American black bears. And yeah, under those circumstances, if alone and far away from where anyone else can hear me, I chose bear…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:59 PM
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A few things actually. Finding a doctor who will give you Lidocaine for insertion to help with pain. Finding a doctor who will take it out early because you want it out, as most will push back and even straight out refuse once it’s in. Even when you do find one that will, it could be months before you can actually get in to get it removed. There’s actually a lot of women who develop problems from having an IUD that resort to YouTubing how to self-remove.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:01 PM
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Oh yeah - for sure! I actually advocate that condoms should be used in conjunction with other forms of pregnancy prevention, even if it’s not a super effective method. When you start layering even weaker forms of prevention such as timing, and withdrawal, it can create a means of pregnancy prevention that is more effective than something like hormonal birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:30 PM
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A combination of timing, withdrawal, and a male condom. I of course bring my own male condoms that don’t agitate my inner chemistry, as my internal pH gets knocked off balance very easily. When I was dating and not in a monogamous relationship, I would have several brands on hand which I had identified as not being problematic for my health, and allowed the man to choose between them. But yeah - hormonal birth control literally make me sick and are a no-go non-option. Spermicides and many condom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:31 PM
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Okay - but I asked what do YOU feel - not what are, or what does the internet say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:22 AM
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Where did I deny it happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:46 AM
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What exactly do you feel a woman has to gain by lying about such a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 12:38 AM
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What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:51 PM
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No - that wouldn’t work - you need to make space and time to actually allow for the woman to get an abortion after the man waves his rights. Otherwise, you’ve created an entirely new form of abuse against women, where a man will lie all the way up to the point that he will take responsibility of the child all the way up to the last minute, and then waives all financial responsibility leaving the woman pregnant with child and without the legal ability to abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:15 PM
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Somebody who will ask me to be on hormonal birth control or get an IUD after I have already explained to them why I refuse to do so. Hormonal birth control is off the table indefinitely and the IUD is off the table until access to suitable health care for insertion and immediate ability to get it removed change dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:02 PM
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Bear in mind that many of the men who claim to be falsely accused of rape, actually did it and are denying it, however, many false accusations of rape are actually false accusations. Make sure that the woman is consenting, that it’s enthusiastic consent, and a good rule of thumb with this is, if you have an inkling that she might not want to have sex with you, don’t have sex with her at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:33 AM
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I’ve certainly seen the opposite on this sub, where it’s the women acting fully rationally and the men responding with emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:43 PM
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Making me orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:15 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:09 AM
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If you expect for your future partner to be sexually monogamous, you should be ensuring that sexual monogamy is not an undue burden on your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:54 PM
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You can find out what you need to know about your sexual compatibility through oral and digital/manual sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:51 PM
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A career woman will potentially take a major lifetime salary hit by maintaining a marriage. If a woman takes off to live with a child, it’s not just her income during the time she’s not working she is loosing out on - her overall lifetime wage growth takes a massive hit from the employment gap. Somebody taking off five years to stay home with children can take a 20% or so hit on their lifetime earnings, we’re talking hundreds of thousands of dollars. Same thing goes if the couple ends up moving …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:59 PM
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That “passive income” is either one of two things - child support, or alimony. If it’s child support, that’s money for the kids, not her. If it’s alimony, that’s to compensate the partner who took a financial hit to maintain the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:11 PM
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With the exception of Aristotle, these men based their arguments on what the science at the time was saying the difference was between men and women. The science of now has learned a lot more and determined that the prior science was bad. Aristotle said that women have fewer teeth than men do, something he would have known wasn’t true if he actually took the time to look, so hard to say that he was even a genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:24 PM
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I don’t feel that way, and I am one who stands with Israel on the matter of the current conflict. There is a difference between genuine critiques of specific actions of the Israeli defense force which are justified and a broad condemnation of Israel’s rights to defend itself against Hamas which would also qualify as antisemitism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:14 PM
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In my country at least (in the U.S.) there are not laws that that prohibit antisemetic speech, taking action on one’s antisemitism, yes, but even general hate speech is still protected in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:10 PM
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So this is actually a real life example that happened to me, and it was pre-pandemic, so years before the current situation. The guy I had started dating had several drinks and we were back at my place to watch some TV, eat some food, etc. Well, the show we ended up putting on was the Marvelous Ms. Maisel. He hadn’t seen the show before, but knew it was a period piece about a female comic in the late fifties trying to make it in comedy, and had heard from several people that it was very good and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:41 AM
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So long as he’s willing to listen, learn, and take corrections well, then no. It all depends on his attitude. He needs to be willing to collaboratively work with me on developing his experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:09 AM
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ROTC - lol that’s a joke, but a whole lot of the the kids really pursuing Eagle Scout and the like are the same kids trying to get into the various military service academies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:42 PM
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Whoops - my bad, misread that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:39 PM
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Neither the Boy Scouts nor the Girl Scouts receive federal, state, or municipal funding. I think you may be referring to the congressional charter, but that doesn’t come with funding unless separately appropriated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:36 PM
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No - the Boy Scouts are changing their name, as the article states, to align with their new expanded recruitment of membership. Numbers are historically low, so they are actively recruiting women and other gender identities to get their numbers up, so the organization doesn’t go belly-up. And fun fact, as also stated in the article, the Girl Scouts tried to keep them from changing their name via lawsuit! This is just an organization doing what it needs to do in order to survive. It’s not some co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:33 PM
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But those things are the social beliefs - it’s social beliefs that affect attitudes and everyday experiences. Political beliefs are all based on underlying social beliefs, and it’s ultimately the social beliefs that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah - I was going to say that a lot of it comes down to beliefs about free will. The social belief of most republicans that poverty is the result of moral failings definitely impacts the political beliefs they have. Again, it’s important to differentiate the two though - there are many people who believe that poverty is a moral failing but still champion political beliefs that the poor need to be helped. If I’m talking about a potential partner, I don’t give a damn if his political beliefs of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:38 PM
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Sure can do, and I’ll even elaborate on why this distinction is important to make. Let’s start with abortion! Ones beliefs as to whether or not it is moral for a woman to terminate an unwanted pregnancy is a social belief, while their beliefs on whether or not the government should make laws restricting women’s ability to get an abortion would be a political belief. There are a lot of men out there who would throw a fit if their own partner were to have an abortion, but that don’t feel it should…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:10 PM
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How does that negate my statement that there are many political beliefs that have absolutely no impact on your relationship? And yeah, I actually have discussed banana tariffs with my partner over the dinner table, turns out he has a different political belief than me on how agricultural products should be taxed. There are tons of policy wonks out in the world like me who regularly discuss tons of political positions that most people don’t give a damn about on a regular basis. Just because you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:42 PM
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Okay - then explain to me how a person’s position on how frequently the cost of postal stamps should increase impacts your relationship? Explain to me how a persons views on what the import tarriffs on bananas should be impacts your relationship? Please explain to me how a persons thoughts on how closely our treaty agreements with the nation of Austria should align with our relations with European countries who belong to NATO should be affects your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:09 PM
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Even the biggest policy wonk is going to have an opinion on every political issue, and no, a persons opinion on many political issues will have absolutely no bearing on their viability as a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 07:03 PM
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For social beliefs or ACTUAL political/policy beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:14 PM
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Ehhhh - as for actual politics, that can be handled later. Like a difference in tax policy or how immigration should be reformed and the like isn’t going to make or break a relationship. I’m a hard core Democrat, and I’ve been able to build really awesome relationships with folks across the aisle. If you cannot date somebody because their politics are different (actual politics, not social issues that people lump in as being politics that aren’t), then that’s a you problem. However, that social …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:06 PM
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I have a history of bringing up several social issues early on - racism, xenophobia, antisemitism, etc. It sucks to put a lot of time and energy into a relationship, only to find out that they are antisemetic and have to end the relationship immediately. However, the one that is going to have the most impact on me and the relationship is definitely going to be how strongly he believes in adherence to strict gender roles and other gender based issues. Is he going to view me as an object? Is he go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:48 PM
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The problem is that the body armour is too big in places, and actually hinders occupational perfomance in ways that are not affected by beer bellies. A major issue is the armour coming down too low, and affecting mobility when used with a belt. There are studies on this as well which demonstrate the unique challenges https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8959632/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:50 AM
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The studies that “disprove that” are studies on prairie voles, not humans
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:21 AM
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They should get the appropriate fitting protective gear to fit women before conscripting women. Adapting male armor for a female frame poses major safety and mobility issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:17 AM
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Sweetie, the selective service system is built for wartime situations where an excessively larger number of combat roles need to be filled than what our voluntary force is able to fill. Not only are we not likely to be in such a situation again due to advances in military technology and the nature of modern warfare, but I was beyond the age for signing up for selective service by the time the ban was lifted on women even serving in combat roles was lifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:47 PM
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You do realize that oftentimes women do certain things to their appearance for the economic benefit, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:21 PM
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Men also rent nice apartments to enjoy them for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:04 PM
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As long as all the teachers are engaging in only fans willingly with affirmative consent, then I don’t care. I’d just let my kid pick based on things that matter to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:39 PM
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I agree - and addressing these things is how we address the mental health crisis. Poverty is bad because of the trauma and stress it inflicts, the presence of economic conditions which make it easy for somebody to fall into poverty causes stress. The society and economic conditions are the causes behind the mental health crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:33 PM
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The only difference between those two scenarios is that if this large number of teacher teachers are doing only fans than that is indicative of broader economic problems which could affect the teachers in such a way that their teaching during the day is negatively impacted, rather than doing only fans purely out of a favorable costs and benefits analysis by the teacher. There is too large of a population that is personally against doing only fans for one reason or another. As long as the teacher…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:54 PM
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Assuming that there were no other differences that would impact the quality of the education, I’d pick based on whichever school my child wants to go to, costs, and logistics of transportation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:48 PM
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Can you give an example of this that isn’t a fictional character?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:21 PM
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It’s going to end when we actually address the mental health crisis. Unfortunately, too many folks try to “solve” the problem by rolling back the gains that have been made in terms of uplifting women, which isn’t going to actually solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:19 PM
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I’d personally have no problem with it. Teachers are horrendously underpaid where I live, and if that’s the most time efficient way for them to make supplemental income so that they actually have some time for themselves, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:17 PM
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I know that I would be offended if I were asked to do a paternity test by my partner, and I am rather loud about the subject, but there is a reason for this: I am not an unplanned pregnancy person, if I am carrying a pregnancy to term, it is something I am intentionally doing with my partner. I am not opposed, and actually would prefer adoption or surrogacy for raising a child. I have been pregnant before, and although I terminated very early on, the part of the pregnancy that I did endure was i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:18 PM
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https://www.foxnews.com/us/maryland-sheriff-says-woman-found-dead-hiking-trail-murdered-foul-play.amp https://nypost.com/2023/10/06/vermont-woman-found-dead-on-hiking-trail/amp/ https://www.wxow.com/news/top-stories/la-crosse-police-identify-woman-found-dead-near-hiking-trail/article_0bff1730-3240-11ee-a4dd-cfb09d9867e5.html Here are three that occurred in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:22 AM
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There are No grizzly bears Nor polar bears at all for most of the United States where the woman you are talking to would end up alone in the woods. I live in Appalachia, there are No grizzly bears, and there are No polar bears, but there are documented cases of women being raped and women being murdered, there are also North American Black Bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:13 AM
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Here’s the thing though - in most situations, I have a lot of control over the outcome of the encounter. Where I live, we are taught from early on what to do if you encounter the bear and how to make it not bother you. In nearly all of black bear attacks, the bear is provoked in some manner through a situation that goes against best practices for avoiding a bear attack. On the other hand, while most men are not dangerous, what does the guidance say about what women should do to avoid violent att…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:06 AM
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I think OP is also ignoring the fact that if a bear were to escape from a zoo, there’s gonna be an awful lot of people looking for that bear, armed with tranquilizers, and that bear is going to be really fucking easy to spot via amateur drone cam - just look for the giant white thing. Logically and rationally speaking, I ain’t gonna be up in that tree for very long 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:14 AM
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Are you seriously trying to call me fat 🤣🤣🤣 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:08 AM
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I can play this game too!! On the Appalachian trail, since 2000 there have been only two fatal bear attacks, but there have been four murders! If I am out hiking in the woods alone, any bear I’m running into is going to be a North American Black bear, and my chances are pretty good. So sure, maybe in Alaska and some small portions of Washington, Idaho, Montana, and Wyoming, you’re bringing Grizzly bears into the equation, but the rest of the country, we are talking black bears, which generally s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:39 AM
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We are talking about encounters alone in the woods. Not encounters in a store
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:06 PM
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It’s a bear, it’s not going to wait at the bottom of the tree until I have to come down, it’s eventually going to go off looking elsewhere, or hear some other animal in the woods and go after that. And, let’s say it does wait at the bottom of the tree for me to have to come down - people are going to be looking for that damn bear. There are gonna be drones, and search crews, the whole shebang looking for this big white bear in a forest where it sticks out easily and clearly doesn’t belong. If an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:37 PM
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Definitely the bear in this one - polar bears can’t climb trees
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:13 PM
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Cool - just remember, if it’s brown lay down, if it’s black, fight back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:10 PM
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Look up what you’re supposed to do if attacked by a North American Black Bear…. It’s common knowledge among hikers and outdoors people in my area that if a bear is getting aggressive towards you to fight back and specifically go for the nose 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:00 PM
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lol - where I live, the bears that do end up in encounters with people are all small juvenile males, and they are lost trying to find their own territory because the bigger alpha males take up the territories where they specifically wouldn’t encounter humans. Little bears be like “oh look, here’s an area where none of those big older bears go, I’ll hang out here” then - human enters from stage right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:32 PM
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I remember seeing some guy be like “okay, but imagine it’s a hungry bear that hasn’t eaten in a while,” and I just think to myself how ridiculous it would be for a bear to go through the effort to chase me down, when there are berries and leaves like right there in front of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:25 PM
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Oh dear lord - do the men getting so upset about this not know very much about bears or something? Like, when I’m out hiking alone, if I see a bear, I stop, I stay quiet, keep my distance, and leave it alone while backing away. Guess what’s going to happen? The bear is going to leave me the fuck alone. If for some reason, I don’t notice the bear until I’m much closer, and it does decide to approach me and look like it’s going to try to attack, I punch/kick it in the fucking nose to scare it off.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:10 PM
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From my experience, many men won’t even tell their buddy next to them to knock it off when their buddy is making a woman feel threatened right in front of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:09 AM
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My makeup routine is a cc cream to even out some skin tone, a little light brown eyeshadow or just a bronzer towards the outside of the eyelid, blended in, with sometimes a touch of lighter nude eyeshadow towards the inner part of the eyelid, some mascara, some brow gel, and a lip balm on the lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:23 AM
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Most men I’ve encountered who say they prefer a woman who is naturally beautiful over someone who wears makeup will point at women wearing makeup as an example of how women ought to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:20 AM
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If grooming is about getting rid of unwanted things your body produces, then makeup is grooming, because you’re getting rid of the appearance of skin discoloration, fine lines, baggy under eyes, and acne.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:16 AM
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Mental health stigma is just the biggest contributor, because once we tackle that stigma, we can begin dismantling the stigma that poverty is a moral failing, which will allow us to actually start tackling things like housing, and working conditions, and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:51 AM
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Stigmatization of mental health challenges in men, whether those be temporary challenges brought about by recent stressors, or something more long term. Men are stigmatized against going to therapy or taking medications to assist with many issues, and those that do are stigmatized for being weak for doing so. Mental health care, even when given, is treated as something that they should get themselves away from needing. There are of course broader issues with overall access to proper and attentiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:51 AM
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That’s not the criteria that OP, who proposes that you take all the people and average them out - which doesn’t work, as my thought experiment above clearly shows. An average of all is always going to be superficially low under such a calculation. I suggest taking a step back from the vitriolic emotion, and examine the concept from a rational and logical perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:28 PM
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You seem to be really getting up in your emotions about this. I’m just using logic and reasoning to show how OPs proposition is inherently flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:52 AM
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lol - that doesn’t work in the slightest, thought expiriment time. Lets say there is a magic genie, who grants wishes, and a guy asks the genie to make him so universally attractive that every single heterosexual woman is so attracted to him that they want to settle down with him, we are talking he becomes the most attractive man to ever walk the planet earth… assuming we are working on an attractiveness 1-10 scale, after averaging everyone out, that would make this man, the most attractive man …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:29 AM
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Didn’t touch, but when he was clearly following me and not just walking the same way, I told him to stop following me, and he continued… so yeah, it’s called stalking and taken very seriously where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:49 PM
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Somebody following you down the street at night that won’t take no and stop for an answer is a fucking threat to my wellbeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:44 PM
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Good to know that when I’ve told a man to fuck off an leave me alone and he continues to follow me as I walk back to my apartment, continuously cat calling me, that he was just going about my day and I’m just catastrophizing and making up stories in my head - got it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:38 PM
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In a Forest setting - I’d take the bear. Especially if it’s a large space where I am able to keep my distance - in these conditions, if I leave the bear alone, the bear will leave me alone. Cannot say the same as a man. If it were somewhere that was void of all vegetation and the like, I’d take the risk with the man, but in a healthy forest with the ability to distance, I’d go with the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:31 PM
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Once again - what species of bear are we talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:35 PM
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It’s been the main reason for every woman I’ve met who’s used dating apps. Also, while these apps will eventually ban people after several individuals have reported them, it’s very easy for folks to just create a new profile, and instructions on how to do so are readily available online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:27 PM
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Based on my experience from several years ago, a lot of men decide to use these dating apps to treat women pretty horribly; sending lewd explicit and offensive messages, harassing women, saying terrible things you wouldn’t say to your own worst enemy…. Like I cannot emphasize enough how horrible some men are on these apps to women. The more men you match with, the more of these horrible men you grant access to your inbox to. So yeah, a woman is going to be very selective in order to minimize thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:07 PM
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Yeah no - one should hold their partner to expectations that one will not be upholding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:35 PM
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This!!! Like how hard is it to compliment something a girl is wearing, or how she styled her hair? It’s such a great starter, as it compliments a woman’s TASTE which is a part of her PERSONALITY, rather than complimenting her BODY. And then move forward talking about whatever the hell you want, as long as it is NOT about her body or appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:25 PM
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I fully acknowledge that the the mental and emotional struggles that men identifying as red pill speak of are very much real, genuine, and need to be addressed. However, I do disavow many of the approaches which red pill suggests to address the issues, many of which rely on rolling back the gains of feminism over the past several decades. Yes, the gains of feminism have been a contributing factor which have been making the stressors that these men have been facing for centuries more severe, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:16 AM
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Usually when women do this, it’s a refusal to communicate due to a fear of communicating. There are a lot of fragile egos out there. It’s a lack of trust in how the man is going to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:04 PM
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Get your math straight dude… as of 2022 there were 21.9 million aged 19-39 with no kids. Let’s say 30% of women are single at any given time. That puts the figure in the millions, not thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:43 AM
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How many of the women who loose attraction for minor issues are also the ones sticking with the dudes who have a lot of major issues? I am not disagreeing that there are women in both categories, but how many of them actually do both things?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:58 AM
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I generally get a lot of unsolicited attention from men. From what I’ve gathered, I’m at least a solid 6 and a 7 on a good day. The amount of attention that I garner can fluctuate HEAVILY based on the vibes that I’m putting out into the world on a given day. If I’m generally vibrant, in a good mood, positively engaging with the folks I interact with, etc. then the attention comes flowing in non-stop. We are talking stopping men in their tracks, not to cat call or be gross and say I’m sexy, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:10 AM
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In terms of getting your foot in the door for a romantic relationship, yes, absolutely. In the initial stages it is easier for women. But when it comes to the stages after that, and the foundations of a lasting healthy relationship, it’s harder on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:53 AM
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Seems to me in both threads that there is a mix of answers from both sides, with a majority of the highly ranked comments saying that they wouldn’t mind. What difference are you talking about that I’m not seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:36 AM
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You can entirely change the appearance of your facial bone structure through eyebrow shaping, haircut, and facial hair. Just look at the guy who plays Dwight in the office as an example, these are the exact things they change to give him the horrible appearance. It does wayyy more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:09 AM
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So a significant amount of what matters about looks are things you 100% can control; good posture being at the top, wearing clothes that fit well on the body you have, proper grooming including eyebrow shaping and skincare, and making sure that you are getting a haircut/beard cut that is well suited to you facial shape and balding pattern when applicable. I have yet to meet a man who complains about his looks getting in the way who was addressing every point of the parts of his appearance he can…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:40 AM
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So combining medical reasons, financial reasons, no partner, and age, this will only address things for 26-27% of childless adults, and that’s assuming that ALL of these people would opt in which is simply not the case. Many with medical reasons will have medical reasons that prevent them from raising a child, not just having one. Many with financial reasons probably still won’t be able to get that straightened out even with the additional time. Many of the people without a partner don’t feel th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:31 PM
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So Pew research actually did a study of childless adults, asking them if it was likely they would have a child in the future, and if not, why. A whopping 56% of childless adults that consider themselves unlikely to have children, just don’t want to have kids, and only 43% gave some other reason. Of the 43% that gave some other reason, only 17% of them cited financial reasons. So we are only talking between 7-8% of all childless adults not having kids because of financial reasons. https://www.pew…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:09 PM
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In most jurisdictions, child support amounts are based off a percentage of income. Even in cases outside of that, the partner paying child support still maintains a choice of who they choose to work for and what job they choose before. If a person has a job that causes undue stress on their health, that is an issue that gets resolved by taking issue up with the employer, not by taking away the basic human right of bodily autonomy from birthing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 05:00 AM
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You get that decision after the birth of a child via putting it up for adoption. Even if a birthing person decides to get an abortion because they don’t want to be another, they have other ways of going about not being a parent despite carrying to term. An abortion is all about not going through the pregnancy, on top of not wanting to be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:58 PM
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You forgot aborting the father of all contact and knowledge of the development of the child. No social media contact, no asking how the child is doing, no contact ever and forever even after the child is an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:55 PM
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Men have multiple layers - whether to have sex - whether to have a vascectomy - whether to use a condom that they have properly taken care of - whether to pull out/use the withdrawal method effectively
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:52 PM
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You’re looking at this all wrong… the decision to abort isn’t about choosing whether or not to become a mother - adoption exists, the motherhood part is merely secondary to the actual decision of whether or not to go through a pregnancy. When a woman becomes pregnant, it’s not all rainbows and sunshine until a baby pops out, it wreaks havoc on the body, it permanently changes your body, enough to leave you in a hospital bed, or even kill you, all to support the continued existence of a separate …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:50 PM
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Ummm depends on the country really - in most of the developed world when the caretaking lacks a provider and is unable to provide for their family, the government steps in and provided those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 04:45 AM
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It actually doesn’t - as a woman who is moving to another country, I’m actually speaking from first hand experience - there are a lot of additional responsibilities which fall on the partner who is staying in their home country, if they don’t uphold those responsibilities, it turns very exploitive, very quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:37 PM
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Ehhh - something can be voluntary yet still exploitative. There is a lot of extremely stressful and mentally burdensome challenges for somebody who moves to another country where they don’t speak the primary language. There is also an immersive amount of responsibility that the other partner has that doesn’t come with regular domestic partnerships. If the individual is fully taking in these responsibilities, then yes, nothing wrong. But if not, there is something wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 04:21 AM
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Liberal partners 100% - they need to be pro-choice. why would I want to be with somebody who doesn’t think that I should have the basic human right of bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:06 PM
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Oh man, cutting the hair on top of the head is not false advertising but cutting the hair on the legs/armpits is? That doesn’t make any logical sense. In order to consider shaving the body false advertising, a person would need to genuinely believe that there are women out there beyond those with elopetia and other medical conditions resulting in full hair loss who don’t have hair down there. Meanwhile, tons of men are constantly concealing the fact that they naturally have curly or coarse hair …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 12:02 PM
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Seriously, do y’all not see the rhetoric that goes down in the weekly N-count thread? As long as we are in a society that treats women as “lesser value” or “damaged goods” or any other attribute for having multiple sexual partners, you better beleive you are going to have loads of women actively trying to protect themselves from the engineered consequences of having multiple partners. Of course they are going to label men as predators if they approach them for any purpose other than to become a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:36 PM
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Hell, women face pushback for not shaving when they shaved in the morning and it’s now later in the day and they are showing the equivalent of a 5 o’clock shadow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:49 AM
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