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| – | Men need to work on being attractive as much as women doTo be fair, working on being attractive as woman means putting on some nice clothes, makeup, and brushing your hair. For a guy, it means, minimum 2-3 years in the gym, bulking, then going through the process of cutting to 10-12% bodyfat. Oh and growing a few inches in height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:08 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men should listen to women's desires and stop prioritizing decency in datingThe problem with this response and every other female response here is that it is impossible for you to speak from experience. You aren't a man. The onus has never been on you to find a mate (the mates comes to you and you pick). You haven't exprienced, first hand, the lifetime of rejection and then extrapolated the reasons for it, while comparing to those who are successful. It's a perspective you can never speak from just like how we cannot speak to your experience as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 02:26 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men should listen to women's desires and stop prioritizing decency in datingBecause OP's post is touching upon a broader topic, which is how to date successfully for men. We are brought up to be nice, kind, caring, respectful. We are told that these are desirable traits. Then when we go out into the real world, we find that these traits make us sexually undesirable, which causes pain, rejection, and loneliness. Meanwhile, the men that possess that traits that were taught to us to be immoral are the ones with success. This is strictly a problem faced by men in modern soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 02:17 PM |
| 34 | What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches)Online dating is whack. Always has been. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 03:22 PM |
| 0 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Cut that shit out. You're not their friend. You need to be friendly but also sexually aggressive. Look em right in the eyes with prolonged eye contact, head tilted, with a sly smile. You're letting them know you're interested. Watch their reaction. Girls like to be chosen. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:35 PM |
| 13 | If I am 2/10 currently, will getting in good shape atleast make me 6/10?Any guy can be a 6 or even a 7 (or even 8). Build a lean, muscular physique (2 years, no need to be big, just a brad pitt fight club body) Improve your social skills/learn to flirt and do it well Buy some nice, fitting clothes (mall clothes are good enough, 1 or 2 sets is all you need) Go to a stylist and get a fresh haircut that fits your face Don't drink or smoke or eat excessive junk (people that avoid this are noticeably healthier) Be talented at something and show it off a little Have a vis… | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?It all comes down to the cliche of, "women don't know what they want." Just from looking at the picture, women will say the one on the left is more attractive. They say this only because 1) it is less threatening, and 2) the pic on the right invokes feelings of insecurity. However, what women actually do tells a different story. Everyone knows how women react to lean, muscular athletes. How they ogle at olympic divers. How they go crazy over ripped movie stars like Brad Pitt fight club, Chris He… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right?To get the real answer, you have to ask the guys who have had both bodies. I can guarantee you, this guy got way more attention from women when he's looking like the right side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The fear of rejection and social embarrassment is killing all my opportunitiesTim Ferris suggests to regularly and voluntarily humiliate yourself. Go into a starbucks and lay down on the floor for 5 minutes. Wear something bright and colorful and embarassing when going out to a crowded place. Talk to people and say something really silly. Practice embarassment. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 33 | Going to the gym is a game-changerYup. Anytime you hear someone say girls don't like muscles, just dismiss him as an out of shape reddit neckbeard | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 07:37 PM |
| 47 | What else can i [24M] do to blow my gf’s [26F] mind away during sex?If you're strong enough, pick her up and carry her into the bedroom and throw her on the bed. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Don’t know what to do with this woman"Thanks for the food." | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Girl looked at me funny for saying i was aloneIt indicates to her, low social status and that you're a loser with no friends. | /r/seduction | 08/03/25 07:07 AM |
| 45 | good places where to find women that are dtf?I wouldn't know but I'm guessing a woman being dtf depends more on who the guy is than the location. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 02:38 PM |
| 13 | How To Get A Hook Up After Meeting A WomanI'll tell you the same thing I tell my son: if you want something, you gotta ask for it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 09:29 PM |
| -1 | Why Some Men Always Win with Women (And Others Stay StuckNatural selection. That's the way it goes. | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 07:55 PM |
| 22 | What to say to "Won't have sex till in a relationship"I dunno man, if they were really sexually attracted to you, there wouldn't be a negotiation. They would want to do it. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?Swim tutor! LOL! Well it's probably not the first time she's heard something like that. Next time, my guy. You got this. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How important is physical fitness to you?Maybe this is an american thing where guys have to think of ways to find people who are not obese or heading in that direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:56 PM |
| 24 | How to Build a Social Life That Attracts the Women You Want?What you're looking for (an active social life with groups of people) is not too common once you hit your thirties. That is for young people who are in school or who have fuck all to do after work, while everyone is still single. Your transitioning to your 30s/40s. At this stage of life, all that partying and going out starts to die down. People settle down, get married, have kids. They still socialize but it would be within small friend groups. And this starts to die down eventually too because… | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 04:34 PM |
| 6 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?Don't listen to the people that tell you it's not worth it and that you shouldn't do it. There's nothing worse than growing old and living with the regret of not doing something when you had the chance. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the best practices or tips to give a girl great orgasms?Just a tip: rough usually doesn't mean rough. What women really want is dominance. It's a primal, biological desire that they have. | /r/seduction | 03/02/25 02:29 AM |
| -1 | How do I get over my fear of talking to girls?You can follow typical advice like: -reframe your thoughts to see women as just regular people -practice and get better through exposure therapy -work on your general interpersonal skills But I think the heart of the matter is your own sense of self worth. You probably see yourself as inferior. If you can work on yourself and possess natural confidence and feel comfortable with who you are, then your social skills will automatically improve by default and people will naturally get a good impress… | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 08:25 PM |
| 27 | How to know if you’re attractive as a man / women what makes a man attractiveYou know you are an attractive man if you have lots of sex with lots of women. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Empathy gap is real: Mother attempts to murder-suicide her son, people go, "Awww, poor women." If the perpetrator was a father, people would go, "Men are evil"I think only demented redditors would defend that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Meaningless sex as an option is better than no options at allIt means men face their problems alone. They cannot talk to their partners if they even have one. Closest family do not offer support and in a lot of cases, only give hurtful advice. Their best option is to lean on their bros but a lot of men don't have close friendships. Male suicide rates would attest to all this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:50 AM |
| -1 | Meaningless sex as an option is better than no options at allI'm going to go out on a limb and say that these types of sexual experiences are correlated to the type of guy you chose, aka the inconsiderate bad boy. It's pretty much a meme at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Meaningless sex as an option is better than no options at allNo, the male loneliness epidemic has less to do with romance and more to do with emotional support or lack thereof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 03:36 AM |
| 103 | A small tip from a girl"C'mon guys, just approach. Don't be afraid of getting reject and don't let it hurt your confidence and self esteem. It's so easy. C'mon guys." -Girl | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 08:20 PM |
| 4 | What training MMA taught me about success in datingYou're right, It's a skillset. However, it should be noted that it is not an apples to apples comparison. Anyone can build a physique. You lift weight then stimulate muscle hypertrophy. Your social skills can be improved as well but it is also tied to one's personality and upbringing. There are those who are born extroverted and have a positive, people-oriented mindset. Then there are people who are extremely introverted, shy, autistic, or have had childhoods that negatively affected their confi… | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Very basic question: How you flirt?I think flirting is basically telling you are attracted to them without actually saying it. Eye contact is the most powerful technique. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 07:17 PM |
| 11 | A waitress in a shisha cafe/bar: Can she be an innocent girl?Buddy, girls live in a different world than you. While most guys are sitting at home, sad and pining for companionship, girls are constantly pursued and offered love, sex, and everything in between. And they are taking it. Why wouldn't they? It's like being offered free, delicious food every day. You're going to say yes to some of the food. They be fuckin and if you're not aware of it, it is because you are left out. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What’s the protocol when she want to “get to know you better” before a first date?If she's attracted to you and wants you, she would say yes. If she's not that attracted but is considering you as option, she would say, "I'd like to get to know you better." Move on. | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?I would imagine its like having your choice of anything in a junkyard | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 05:49 AM |
| 48 | Do women actually have as many options from online dating as men think they do?Women initiate 70% of divorces. Men are not the keepers of anything. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.Do some research on what qualifies as masculine traits. Then delete all your traits and work on building these up. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl at Gym Etiquette?Talk to her and give her a compliment to test the waters. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 08:29 PM |
| 19 | Experiences with very attractive women. Is it even worth approaching them?I tried talking to a hot blonde girl last month and she looked at me, paused, and gave me an "UGH GROSS" kind of face | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 08:27 PM |
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