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Dont get the wrong idea, I don’t have women flooding my Tinder account, but I do get some cute girls from it. But it took me going out & specifically getting pics taken for my profile. I understand not every guy can do it, but if they did I’m certain you’d see improvement to some degree. and games does matter, it’s just not the be all end all. You’re right, a girl knows if she would fuck you within 15 sec of seeing you. But game is what determines if it actually happens or not. A girl could see …
/r/seduction10/10/21 09:27 PM
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When it comes to dating it definitely can be sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:31 AM
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Because sex lol and a lot of times sex = validation for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:58 PM
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I always pay on the first date, but if she at least offers then that says a lot about her character to me that she at least considered it. On a second date I’d like us to at least split it because imo paying for your meals regularly is boyfriend behavior and if I’m not getting intimacy from you yet then you’re not getting taken care of by me, the first time is a curtesy but after that you gotta figure out if we’re smashing or not so I can move on bc I’m not any girls food guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:15 PM
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Hookup culture is a different beast than marrying your highschool sweetheart. If you’re a man and you want to sleep with a bunch of attractive women aged 18 - 25 a lot of times you do have to be at least a little bit of an unavailable asshole or they get bored because women in that scene are usually kind of an asshole too. Now if you’re looking for the love of your life & don’t care too much about looks then you’re right none of that red pill stuff is needed, just be yourself and be nice. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:09 PM
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For the most part, yes. Anyone who discovers TRP 9/10 is failing at dating and they found TRP because they were searching for answers, but what happens when these failed men apply TRP ideology and they succeeded? They still stay in the TRP space, so not everyone in TRP is a failure. Some youtubers, rappers, and other celebrities discovered TRP because it has been growing in popularity lately and they relate to it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:13 PM
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It is, but when women specifically try to convince you that looks don’t matter and it’s all personality why would you think they’re lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:24 PM
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The problem isn’t just that, it’s that women go out of their way to explicitly say looks don’t matter and they like dad bods and nice guys, yet these guys are usually single with dry dicks yet the fuck boys with muscles pull the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:23 PM
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Idek I’m not into it like that, I just go on amazon and but necklaces and bracelets that look aesthetic, but are affordable. I’m not looking to flex diamonds or brands, I don’t think that’s important unless you’re in miami hanging with rappers, IG models, and video hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:20 PM
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In terms of looks I’ve been both the bottom 50% of men and the top 20% of men and it’s a literal night and day difference. I always had an attractive face, I was just fat with a shitty haircut. I dropped 50lbs, hit the gym, got a nice fade, put on a little fuckboy jewelry and all I gotta say is anybody telling you looks don’t matter or women don’t really care about looks is clueless. I went from basically 0 matches on tinder to getting messaged first by 8’s and 9’s. I often remember the advice m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 01:27 AM
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Lmao I kinda hate how shitty dating/sex is for almost everyone these days smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:33 PM
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Have you tried dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:00 PM
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Yup, “you’re not entitled to sex” is just another parroted talking point that’s been regurgitated so much that people say it on knee jerk reaction in response to any man that ever insists he’s sexually frustrated regardless of if he actually feels entitled or not, it’s just what you’re supposed to say because men that want sex or feel sexual frustration have a negative stigma automatically assigned to them as if they’re all bad people. There’s a difference between being upset that you’re not get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:42 PM
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Think about what determines value, it’s supply vs demand. Most women get attention, catcalls, and DM’s from men regularly, this means the supply of male attention is high and infalted especially these days due to social media, dating apps, and simp behavior, so it’s not valuable to them. It isn’t special. For most men the supply of attention from women is low, but the demand is high, so it’s valuable. You’re looking at it from this perspective because you’re a guy as opposed to the female perspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:08 AM
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Exaggerating and using the “wrong” words isn’t mutually exclusive hy·per·bo·le /hīˈpərbəlē/ noun exaggerated statements or claims not meant to be taken literally. I made a statement that was exaggerated and not meant to be taken literally. It was hyperbole bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:43 PM
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1) It’s called hyperbole genius. Thank you for contributing nothing with this point. Dude is constantly bitching about how much harder it is for men than women and that’s obviously what I meant. 2) All I’m saying is that if women all operated in the way he wanted them to then his muslim virgin good girl wouldn’t exist and if he wanted women to behave chaste and not be promiscuous then he would literally be at square 1 complaining about how hard it is to get laid because women are too classy to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:58 PM
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I feel like we agree, but are debating semantics. I get it, he wants to bang a lot of girls, but date a good girl. That’s fine, I just think it’s contradictory to want women to be easy one second and then shame them for being easy when you want a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:10 PM
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No, the first is what he wants and the 2nd is also what he wants, but they both directly contradict each other. Myron practices night game and PUA tactics. He wants women to fuck him asap with minimal effort on his part. He often shows bitterness towards women for how difficult they make it to get sex from them and he literally teaches (poorly teaches, but still teaches) men how to get sex from women quickly so this would mean he ENJOYS this society and contributes to it maintaining the way it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:41 PM
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Beauty is factually subjective especially when only one persons opinion is taken into account, but in practice when you involve society's opinions as a collective it feels as though it is objective, even though technically its not. While it is true that beauty is subjective, there is a societal beauty standard. Everyone knows what is considered attractive and what is no in our society. I couldn't tell you if it's biological, societal, or both, but it's not important to the topic. The important p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:31 AM
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Ok, no disrespect to the victims, but bruh 15 is a literal freshman in highschool. I find it very hard to believe that the average 15 yr old boy could be convinced that you’re supposed to have sex with a man before a woman. Kids in my school were talking about sex and having sex as early as 7th grade. By age 15 I definitely would’ve laughed in a dude’s face for saying some goofy shit like that. Don’t get me wrong blackmailing? Not the victims fault. Wearing something scandalous? Not the victims …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:17 AM
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This
/r/seduction19/05/21 07:54 PM
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This seems really weird and uncalibrated lmao
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:44 PM
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I suppose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 11:04 PM
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I don’t walk around calling ppl betas, alphas, or simps bc thats super cringe, but to be fair TRP didn’t invent the terms beta and alpha. Also jocks and nerds imply characteristics that may or may not apply. You can be an intelligent nerd and have an alpha mentality say you run a bunch of companies or you can be an athlete who looks confident outwardly but acts beta on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:47 PM
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I suppose, but I feel like this is way more common in women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:37 PM
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Nah, I disagree. Men really don’t care if a woman is “bad” or “dangerous”. Men only care if she’s physically hot, she could really have any personality or vibe and men will still want her. Looks are also very important to women, but women are attracted to more than just looks. Women are attracted to masculinity. Women are attracted to the way you behave and your “vibe” or style. When women are horny they want a man to take control and be aggressive in bed. What type of men usually possess these …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:23 PM
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It’s stupid because a lot of the older women that complain men their age want younger girls are hypocrites because when they were younger they dated older men. They’re just mad that they can’t compete with younger girls anymore and they’re slowly losing their attention and good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 07:12 PM
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Lmao the peen comment made me laugh, I’m in my 20’s. If it makes you feel any better I always respect boundaries and I’m nicer IRL than I am on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:31 AM
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All I was saying was if you’re an attractive man you get away with more. Your approach is more likely to be accepted, you may even be pursued instead of having to pursue. I think even though what I said is completely true, it triggers the inkwell alarm. It makes women go “Oh he’s saying all women want Chad and are shallow” I’m not really saying that i’m just saying I do believe looks are number 1 in dating for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah, I never said it was specific to any one gender, but OP was talking about men approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:24 AM
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No disrespect, but I kinda doubt that. Women tend to overestimate the attractiveness of other women and underestimate the attractiveness of men. I remember a funny trend on tiktok where girls as a joke would show themselves vs the guys they dated or hooked up with and in the pictures of the girls they were always posed pics for IG in perfect lighting and makeup on point. They probably picked that 1 photo out of a thousand and in the guys photos it’d be like them in the background of a group phot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:22 AM
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You know plenty of average dudes that can do okay for themselves with average women. The root of men having a hard time is either not being good looking enough or being too afraid to talk to girls. It has nothing to do with attitude or entitlement. Most women have stories of asshole guys they dated or hooked up with so if you were right then it’d be rare for a woman to ever have exes or past flings she regrets. Women claim they can detect bad personalities or fuckboys, but they end up getting pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:08 AM
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Attractive men have a higher chance of getting a yes from all types of women than unattractive men tho, so like it’s still not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:00 AM
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Yeah, that’s exactly right. Why was that so easy for you to say, but when I say it it’s gotta be an in depth discussion. I think women just don’t want to admit they can be shallow too. I have no problem admitting looks are important. They aren’t EVERYTHING, but they are a huge part of attraction, developing crushes, deciding who to swipe on, or who to approach etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:49 PM
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But what I’m saying is accurate to my experiences also. I mean are you going to tell me that being good looking doesn’t increase how many partners you can have and how good looking they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:47 PM
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I mean, I’m not really complaining. I get that it looks like I am, but I’m not. I’m just explaining that that’s the way it is. The reason it comes off as complaining is because ppl often act like it isn’t the case. That’s really the only thing that bothers me is that a lot of people act as though pretty privelege doesn’t exist or that women don’t care about looks. I know some women don’t, sure. However, male or female it doesn’t matter. If you’re good looking you are going to get more yes’s than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:42 PM
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Maybe for you, but we’re talking the majority. Attractive men get more attractive women than not attractive men, I don’t understand the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:25 PM
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Eh I mean, I get what you’re saying, but that’s not misogynistic. Most ppl when they say they want to go out and meet boys/girls it’s implied that they’re attractive/cute. That’s not misogynistic or misandrist, I don’t think women are sex objects or inferior. You can’t just throw that at men in an attempt to shame them for admitting they want to have sex with attractive women, it’s normal and healthy. Yes, my main thesis is that attractive people get the most privilege and pick of who they want …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:20 PM
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Well then we probably agree because I’m talking about getting hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:08 PM
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Okay, so let’s say you’re an average guy. Let’s pretend you’re 5”8, not fat but a little chubby. Average face. 2 questions, 1) Do you think you’re going to get any attractive girls off of Tinder? 2) Say you’re out at a bar and you’re trying to get laid with a hot girl. What’s your approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:02 PM
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I think its a good idea to focus on them. It literally changes everything for a man to have a glow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:56 PM
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All I know is that if you’re a guy and you want to get girls, being hot will get them. A hot guy will run circles around any average guy for half the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:54 PM
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It’s like you’ll do literally anything but admit how important being a good looking guy is to sex and dating. Yeah, obviously if any guy asks you out during night time at a gas station you’re probably gonna be on red alert and get away from him. Literally nobody is denying that and nobody is saying women can be hacked. All I’m saying is that in situations where it’s appropriate to approach such as a bar/club, how physically attractive you are to her is the most important thing. Yes, your persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:39 PM
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Yep, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:04 PM
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Sure, I’m not saying you have to be a male model. I’m just saying that if you are a male model you can get away with way more. Most guys just need good hygiene, nice clothes, good haircut, be taller than her, and don’t be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:01 PM
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I mean yeah definitely, but wouldn’t you agree that if you don’t find him at least somewhat attractive then the personality won’t matter? Everyone wants to be physically attracted to people they date and sleep with. Personality can make someone more attractive, but I don’t think it can make someone you arent attracted to become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:40 PM
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I had a stroke reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:36 PM
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I think most men can build themselves up to at least a passable level of attractiveness so they can get girls they want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:34 PM
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No, black pill says that if you’re not born a Chad you’re doomed to a life of celibacy. I’m not going to that extreme, I’m just saying that TRP says that women give bad advice. I’m correcting that notion and adding that it’s good advice, but only if you’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:11 PM
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True, they matter a lot more for hookups than relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:31 PM
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It’s just a matter of perspective. All of these pieces of advice can work and they can also not work. No matter what you do it can always be spun as “sweet, or cute or quirky” or it can be “creepy, lame, and gross”. The biggest factor in which way the pendulum swings is how attractive she finds you. Shocking, I know. If you’re hot, she’ll make it easy for you and she’ll forgive your mistakes. The true red pill is realizing women’s dating advice actually works but only if you’re attractive. Ironi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:34 PM
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Probably because those are two different types of men that you’re acting is the same person. That’s like me saying: Women: “Having a lot of options is useless to us because we don’t care for hookups” Also Women: “It’s hot girl summer time to blast Meg thee Stallion and fuck half my city”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:53 PM
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I think women peak around 18 - 29 and men peak around 25 - 35. It’s. Hard to put an exact number on the peak because obviously everyone is different, but in my experience this is how the time frames of the different peak window for men and women appears to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:07 AM
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Preach, I consider myself red pill, but the traditional conservatives who cry when a woman shows cleavage on tiktok are cringe af
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:58 PM
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Thank you for telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 12:07 AM
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Well first off, Blue pill has always been and always will be the most popular pill. Why? Tbh I’m not 100% sure. Most blue pillers seem to genuinely believe its correct. I think its because most ppl are genuinely kind and want to do the right thing. The blue pill sounds correct, it sounds nice, it’s simple and easy to parrot at ppl and get a round of applause from spectators. However, the only ppl I’ve ever met who promote the blue pill are women snd men that I do not want to be. Every time I see…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:40 PM
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Oh you meant a literal vacuum, welp.
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:13 PM
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And to think some people genuinely believe “looks don’t matter”. Looks actually matter the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:59 PM
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Lurking FDS to learn how you should behave as a man is a terrible idea. FDS just hates men and everything they post suggest thry want a bitchmade slave of a husband, but their pasts describes they fuck and date the literal opposite which is why the sub even exists. It’s like if a bunch of fat ppl made a subreddit about how ti diet properly, but all the users secretly eat fast food anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 04:47 PM
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You’re reaching, we’re not cavemen anymore. How often do you need to taste your food to ensure it isn’t lethal in 2021? You don’t, you can see or smell it if needed. Literally taste is for pleasure and is not needed for nutrition and health. This is perfectly analogous to you saying that looks don’t provide value. My point is clear, just because you can prove that something doesn’t have value on paper outside of superficial pleasure doesn’t give you the right to put other people down for enjoyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:55 PM
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Seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:26 PM
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You can find anomalies for literally anything. Exceptions don’t change the rule. I can find tons of ppl who became millionaires off of scratch tickets. So should we all just be buying them to become millionaires? Reality is that fat women are barely good enough to be fucked and rarely good enough to be cuffed. You hardly ever see a hot guy with a fat girl on his arm, but for the sake of trying to not lose an argument I can’t wait to hear about all your fat female friends who pull studs every wee…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:25 PM
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My point about taste was that if you couldn’t taste anything, you would still survive dipshit. My point of the analogy is comparing eating a food for the pleasure of taste over its nutritional value. You could apply your “if you care about looks then you’re shallow” line of logic to many things in life that I’m positive you don’t subscribe to. It’s okay as humans to indulge in surface level things and pointless pleasures. You can prove that looks “don’t mean anything” and that you’re so much hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:20 PM
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They can’t get dates with anything other than low quality men. No attractive, famous, or wealthy man is going to date a fat girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:11 PM
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How are you this bad at reading comprehension? I don’t see how I can explain this any easier than I have. Perhaps you should consider furthering your education? I’m going to explain this in a way someone like you can understand. I agreed from the VERY beginning that being nice or genuine is the bare minimum and that much more than that is needed to be successful in dating as a man. I don’t know why you managed to miss the SEVERAL times where I very clearly agreed with this, yet here you are regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:08 PM
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You can’t make the claim that “being nice is obviously the bare minimum pre-requisite” and then also defend women who say “just be a nice genuine guy” when giving dating advice. Keep the same energy you give to “nice guys” and give that condescending energy to the women who told them being “nice” was the key to getting girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:35 PM
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Agreed, but I think what inspired OP’s post are blue pillers constantly saying “just be a nice genuine guy” or “be yourself” which as you pointed out isn’t inherently wrong, but those pieces of advice on their own are not enough if you truly want good results in dating. It requires more effort, but blue pillers will say “looks don’t matter” which is obviously not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:22 PM
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Great, then you agree that womens dating advice of “just be nice” is trash advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:16 PM
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Lmaoo kinda true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:50 PM
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Are you saying 100% of the options women have are trash? Because I find that hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:49 PM
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Wow you would actually eat a cookie? They don’t have any nutritional value. You understand that taste doesn’t provide any biological function to survive, right? You must be pretty shallow man. Everything I eat has substance and nutritional value, I treat my body like a temple. What’s wrong with you? This is literally how insufferable and lame you sound dawg lmfaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:37 PM
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Do you want a cookie or something? Are you gonna make a post about how you don’t eat meat because we don’t need it to survive and you’re superior because you consume plants? Because this post has the exact same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:31 PM
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Be hot and as long as you’re not absurdly annoying then you can literally do or say whatever you want and men will worry about how to impress you
/r/seduction11/05/21 12:11 AM
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I thought so too, but nah lol. I was hooked after episode 1, I say give it a chance! There’s more to it than it looks, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:17 PM
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I mean most of us at least have some kind of standards lol. If we didn’t then Incels would fuck fat/ugly girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:12 PM
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I did and yes, it’s that good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:11 PM
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100% correct, except no woman ever says this. They say “be nice” or “be yourself” and “well, if you can’t get laid it’s because you aren’t actually nice” None of these things matter, genuinely nice, deceivingly nice, complete asshole, etc. They all can get laid if they are sexually attractive. Your comment proves that women lie or aren’t conscious on how to give men advice on how to get laid. This further validates the existence of the red pill vs blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 04:56 PM
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I disagree, I think online competition is easy to beat. Most men aren’t trying at all. Most of them are ugly and/or take bad pictures or are creepy or have no game. Being an attractive man on tinder with good photos who isn’t a weirdo and can lead her on a date is a godsend to women.
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:21 PM
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Yeah because women said it doesn’t matter. Hence the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:38 PM
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Yeah, it’s hard to argue that TRP isn’t true when generations of men keep coming to the same conclusions decade after decade after decade. Rappers write songs with TRP ideology unknowingly in them. Phrases like “nice guys finish last” exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:57 PM
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Pretty similar to yours actually which I was surprised about. Most men would say they would teach their son to not take rejection personally and to learn to keep going after what you want. Basically don’t be scared or too passive, always tell a girl you’re interested if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 05:30 PM
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Good answer, your son would be lucky to have you raising him then. A combination of kind, but confident & capable. I did it. I was just curious as to what a woman would tell her son bc I already know how most men would respond to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:56 PM
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What would you tell your son if he was in highschool or college and said he was struggling with getting girls to like him? What would you say to your son?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 04:01 PM
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It depends, if it’s day game then you can expect to get rejected most of the time. The best way to get girls in this day and age is online dating and the club/bars. Keep it simple. Day game is a waste of time imo. If you see a hot girl while you’re out and about by all means approach, but I would never leave my house to go day game at like a grocery store or something.
/r/seduction02/05/21 07:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/l3ybws/you_deserve_to_have_high_standards_even_if_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This you? This post sums up FDS in a nutshell. One second you post an overweight man with a skinny girl with vomit emojis calling him an LVM questioning if he even deserves her while simultaneously fat and old women like Lizzo are queens. You don’t care about self development, you just hate men and you’re entitled. You don’t worry about…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:17 PM
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I know you thought this was some sort of gotcha or slam dunk, but you literally made the exact same mistake I listed the first time twice in a row. The how to high value tag is 90% examples of men demonstrating high value not women and the level up tag is 90% about leaving your toxic ex and tolerating less from LVM which is exactly what I said the subreddit was about. It’s embarrassing that if you go to those flares and scroll all you see is posts applauding men for being high value or posts app…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:04 PM
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I already knew about it, I don’t care what’s on your sidebar. I care about what gets posted on the subreddit daily. FDS’s entire front page is literally just memes about how much men suck and are disgusting. I don’t see any posts about how they as women can become better. Just because its listed in a sidebar covered in cobwebs doesn’t mean anything to me. This is like saying “incels without hate” don’t have hate because its in the name. Look at people’s actions not who they claim to be
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:54 PM
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This is a difference in entitlement. Women feel entitled to everything. They want all the benefits of being a man without any of the downsides. Women don’t want to be shamed for anything, but shame men for everything. It’s because women think being 600lbs can still be beautiful, which like by technical definition they can, sure, but practically in the scope of our societal standards we’re all smart enough to know they are not. Body positivity doesn’t exist for men, men can’t be broke stay at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:12 PM
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When incels and other types talk about women they mean young physically attractive women. Ugly, fat, and old women are not high value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:09 PM
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I know and I was waiting for someone to say this to me, but thanks for pointing out that it’s literally never discussed in the main posts or ever encouraged by individual users
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 09:03 PM
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True, but as OP pointed out. TRP and the manosphere put emphasis on the idea that men must become greater men in order to attract hotter girls. FDS does not focus on becoming more appealing women, they focus on saying men are trash unless they’re literal human slave to their womans desires. FDS would tell a fat woman she is a queen and is allowed to have high standards. TRP would tell a fat man to get in the gym and start tracking calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:47 PM
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FDS only encourages how to not let fuckboys or bad boyfriends use you. Nothing on that sub teaches them how to be a woman that a high value man would want because they believe being a woman makes them high value regardless of anything. It’s delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:11 PM
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Men not telling enough women they’re interested in them if they’re even telling any women at all. They develop a 6 month secret crush on one girl who thinks of them as just a friend, acquaintance, classmate, coworker, or whatever and end up getting rejected and wasting time. Or they get rejected 3 times a year and consider giving up. You gotta knock on more doors to get sales
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 05:27 PM
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I never said it was proof? Did I say he should go to jail? Did I ever say he 100% did anything? No, I didn’t. I said if you’re not able to access all of the available information from what he’s been recorded saying and doing and cross reference it with his allegations and arrive at the conclusion that Trump has likely committed some form(s) of sexual assault then you’re extremely biased towards Trump, delusional, or just plain stupid. Are you incapable of understanding that criminals get away wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:25 AM
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It’s okay to be scared lol it’s a normal human emotion, don’t put so much pressure on yourself. The first girl you approach just go up and be straight up, say hi and that you wanted to meet her. Dont have any expectations to sweep her off her feet and get laid. Just ask her questions and vibe with her, be yourself. You’ll get better and more comfortable, but don’t think you need some pickup line or masterplan. You can focus on actually being good with girls or smooth later. Trying to become good…
/r/seduction29/04/21 11:38 PM
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Idk how to answer this without repeating myself. Nobody is arguing that women NEVER dress for attention. The argument is “Dressing slutty doesn’t ALWAYS mean you’re doing it for attention” Women sometimes dress hot or post thirst traps because they just want to leave the house feeling sexy. It’s not always about getting men to look. It depends on the woman and sometimes it depends on the day. Like idk why anyone thinks this is a controversial subject
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:46 PM
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Yeah, it definitely has nothing to do with Trumps history of admitting he likes peeping on beauty pageant changing rooms, grabbing women by the pussy, and cheating with pornstars. You’re right, there’s no way a guy who said “you gotta treat women like shit” and was friends with Epstein has ever legitimately caused any of the 20+ sexual assault allegations even tho there are other billionaires who don’t have them. Please never become a police officer or detective. He’s old, fat, and ugly lmao He …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:29 PM
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You realize that Trump had allegations before he ran for President right? Also other Presidents don’t have anywhere near as many allegations as he does like even the ones that do have them dont come close to him. Again this was before he ran for office. Again, you’re allowing Trumps words of “they allowed me” to convince you that every woman he did this to had 0 issues with it. I think we’re both smart enough to know you don’t just grab women by the pussy regardless of your social status. Do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:52 AM
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It definitely exists, but a lot of feminists will just say “that only exists because the patriarchy” which doesn’t actually refute the privilege at all, but attempts to explain why it exists while simultaneously pretending they’re still victims. There are advantages and disadvantages to both sexes. Most women are completely unaware of men’s struggles to get laid and become something, but most men are also oblivious to what it’s like being a woman who is not afforded privileges because she is ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:34 PM
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Literally plays the least important role in attraction by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:29 PM
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Well, there’s definitely no sure fire way to spark attraction in someone. Anyone that says they’ve cracked the code to female psychology or have some secret sauce is lying and trying to sell a product. Everyone has different tastes, but at the same time there’s definitely some universal things that most of the ppl you are trying to attract find attractive. Like it’s a safe bet that most heterosexual women want a man taller than them, funny, respectful/kind, but also confident and can lead or be …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 11:27 PM
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So because he said they allowed him to do it, you’re just gonna believe his perspective is the correct one? You realize Trump has 20+ sexual assault allegations against him, right? Snd before you say “yeah because he’s a politician” yeah, sure that happens, but THAT MANY? Do all politicians and famous ppl have sexual assault allegations, let alone that many? No To just believe because he said “they let him” is a very naive way of looking at the world, but okay. Not only that, he wasn’t just tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:45 PM
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Wow haha Dawg, he wasn’t talking about being attracted to women. He literally said he grabs women by the pussy lmfaooo By NBC reporter, do you mean Matt Lauer? Yeah, dude was a fucking creep. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/11/matt-lauer-sexual-misconduct-allegations/amp You will never find a man getting in trouble for simply being attracted to women. I’m not familiar the other case you mentioned, but I’m willing to bet the “locker room talk” in question is a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 09:12 PM
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That’s great man, nothing wrong with that. I would love to be approached, but I still look good when I go to a gym where there are no girls because when I see myself looking aesthetic in the mirror it makes me feel really good about myself. That made me realize “Oh shit, this is what women mean wheb they say they dress for themselves”. My point is that not all women are looking for attention and even if they are, some ppl don’t want attention ALL the time. I’m explaining that some women dress fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:04 PM
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I’m talking about girls who wear tight leggings to the gym. A lot of guys would argue she wants male attention. i’m saying not always. Why don’t you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:42 PM
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Why do you think a woman can’t do the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:25 PM
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Did you not read the part where I literally explained my going to the gym? What about women who dress up and go to gay bars or women only gyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:08 PM
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“It’s in our nature” It’s in your nature to “be attracted” to women dressing sexy. You can’t control what you are attracted to, but you CAN control how you behave. You don’t have to catcall, you don’t have to comment creepy predatory things on her instagram or tiktok. This is not something you are required to do or have no control over. Sexualizing in this conversation is obviously implying you are directly bothering her in a tangible way. You are smart enough to understand thar nobody cares wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:06 PM
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This is a debate sub so it’s about ppl from different ideologies debating their beliefs. Personally I think that the red pill is the most accurate, but every pill is right about something. I believe if you can take the good from each and discard the bad from each you can become a high value man. This is solely my opinion on the good and bad takes from the different pills, I’m not speaking for anyone else but my own views. Blue Pill Good - Teaches to put yourself out there, be a good genuine dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:15 PM
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Yeah, I know that women crave attention, but I’m challenging the notion of “Why don’t women just stop dressing sexy if they don’t want attention”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:53 PM
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So you’re saying that every single time a woman dresses attractive it’s for attention? 100% of the time? How do you explain women who put on makeup and lipstick while wearing a mask? Hiw do you explain women who dress up to go to all women events?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:29 PM
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No, it’s definitely different. A person eating unhealthy food is a direct correlation to gaining weight. Wearing sexy clothes is not a direct correlation to being sexualized. It indirectly requires a man to choose to sexualize her. The clothes themselves don’t magically cause this to happen. It doesn’t have to happen. It is physically impossible to scarf down 3000 calories of pizza/hotdogs in while sitting on your ass all day and bot gain weight unless you have some extremely rare medical condit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:26 PM
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Hot women don’t need hot men to physically approach them in 2021 while they’re out getting groceries lol They could go to a bar/club, check their DM’s or use Tinder. They have a lot of ripped guys, blue checks, and sugar daddies hitting them up and you think they dress up so a guy at the gas station will pull up? Bruh lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 05:19 PM
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Women say this, but then you look at what’s popular right now. Hot girl summer, Cardi B, Meg thee Stallion, and the Call Her Daddy podcast. Only fans girls and girls half naked on tiktok. The idea that women as a collective are all good girls looking for one guy and that their array of options is useless applies to a specific type of woman. Typically an older woman who already had her hoe phase and can’t find a man because every man she runs into is trying to get a hoe phase going, but is strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:39 PM
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Yeah like there are definitely cases where a woman gets dressed up to go to the club in hopes of attracting a man, but it’s important to recognize that not everyone is the same. Some women literally don’t care about men, they just want to look sexy for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:33 PM
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Why do people eat unhealthy food if it makes them fat? Because they want to and they feel the benefit outweighs the cost. Women don’t want to be catcalled and drooled over, but they still want to dress sexy. The reason this confuses some men is because these men think women dress sexy soley for the purpose of getting a guy to approach them. The idea that a woman would dress sexy because she wants to look that way and it boosts her confidence escapes them. When I go to the gym, I prefer to wear m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:27 PM
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Nah, not really. I mean it definitely helps, but money is a last resort. You don’t want to attract women with money because obviously you’ll lose money but also they’re just using you and the moment you stop paying for their shit they will ditch you. Status is huge, but unrealistic. Unless you’re about to become a movie star, rapper, or athlete you won’t have enough status to pull hot girls. The best thing you can do is be better than most of the guys in your city. Most men are fat and ugly. Ver…
/r/seduction28/04/21 06:16 AM
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Okay, you need to raise your SMV in every way you can control. Try to get a lean body, you don’t want or need to be jacked or huge, but you can’t be fat. Having some muscle definitely helps. Dress in form fitting clothes that a male IG model would wear, style/cut your hair. Then put yourself out there, that’s basically it.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:54 PM
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What do you actually want though? Do you just want to become more social and make friends? Are you looking for a monogamous relationship/wife? Are you looking for hookups with hot girls? Your goals heavily dictate the action I would take
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:17 AM
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The only way a straight man and a straight woman can be “just friends” is if the man is either not attracted to the woman or he is getting his fair share from other girls and not in scarcity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:20 PM
2

You don’t build an emotional connection, that’s what spinning plates is. You’re not looking for a serious partner or connection. You’re just meeting ppl and hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:43 PM
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That’s what I said too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:22 PM
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If they weren’t missing out they wouldn’t have discovered the red pill, so I’d say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 07:03 PM
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Idk the percentage on that, but I see what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:22 PM
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That’s what I was saying. As a man, having an attractive body is only going to get you girls if you pair it with an attractive face. If you’re in shape, but ugly or short you’re still struggling. A tall skinny guy with a 10/10 face would run circles around a short guy or ugly guy with a perfect body. Like it’s not even close. Face & Height are the key for men. the body is just a bonus (assuming you aren’t fat).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:20 PM
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https://youtu.be/0avuIqeergQ https://youtu.be/E42ruq_xLEM These videos and countless chadfishing tinder experiments show that women definitely do care about a mans body. They care less, but they definitely do care and it does matter. Especially the younger a woman is the more likely she cares, older women are typically fat themselves and have matured so they tend to care less than they did in their 20’s. Now having a hot body is pretty useless if the man has an ugly face. However, a woman can ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 04:46 PM
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I don’t understand how the bar is “low” for men. In terms of dating/relationships specifically the bar is way higher for men. We approach you, we have to charm you, we have to lead and decide where to take you on the date, we make the moves on you, we pay. If there’s a fire or any danger or war, men put themselves in danger for women and children. You guys get in to clubs and get free drinks just for existing. Todays society makes it so that women can do no wrong. Woman says she was assaulted? A…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 06:05 AM
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Imma keep it real, I didn’t even read the original comment lmfao you right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 01:13 AM
1

Well, that explains it right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:50 AM
3

Okay, but have you ever been involved in hookup culture or mostly in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:32 AM
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Did you ever have a phase where you did date guys with those qualities before your bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:24 AM
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Being tricked by media does make sense though when women themselves are literally telling you it’s true. Sex in western society isn’t discussed, you don’t know who is getting laid and who isn’t. So if Media portrays less than stellar men “getting the girl” and on top of that women themselves say “looks don’t matter, it’s all personality” i don’t think it’s on the fault of the man. In regards to the “just be nice thing” I can see how someone would be an idiot to an extent if you are just unable t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:39 PM
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Normally whenever girls say this they’re joking about the amount of shit they’ll put up with and still keep a guy around or sleep with him. It’s never directly about the bar for being a guy in her field of vision in the first place. It’s the personality or emotional intelligence bar for guys who meet their looks threshold. Example “This guy I’ve been fucking said I looked cute in my dress and I fawned over it, the bar is so low” or “My bf forgot my birthday and I still had sex with him that nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:19 PM
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“Media is fiction for the sake of entertainment” True and I understand what you’re trying to say, but we can’t deny that what we see on TV as children does have an impact on our lives. For example, we treat fat people as a joke because they are often comic relief characters in media or we view euro centric features as beautiful because its shoved in our face constantly in western society. This is why when you have TV shows like The Simpsons, Family Guy, or George Lopez that star a fat stupid lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 10:43 PM
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I mean considering it’s only attractive when an attractive girl does it, I’d say goth girls have the same implication that “bad boys” have to women. Goth implies a certain “fuck you” to society and its rules (such as slut shaming). There’s a lot of overlap between sexually open/kinky and goth/alt culture. So basically big titty goth girl in addition to being hot implies she’s probably sexually open and would be a freak in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:42 PM
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I agree with you 1000%, idk why it doesn’t work that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:01 AM
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Not necessarily, it’s not enough just to go out. You have to actually ask girls out and tbh the best places to do that is bars/clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:12 AM
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“I don’t keep in touch with my exes” lmaoo yeah sure dude. You definitely said that going to bars to pick up women doesn’t work, but you never provided any evidence of that, so you’re a hypocrite. Just scroll up, I’m on my phone at work and if it wasn’t obvious enough, I don’t care enough to actually scroll through this hot mess and quote you. It was like the 2nd or. 3rd reply to me like do you not remember or are you just willfully ignorant? Anyway, this has been really fun. But I’m not interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:31 AM
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I mean you can’t factually prove a lot of things that we consider to be right on. Like you can’t prove that going to bars doesn’t work even though you made that claim, so it’s a wash. You have provided none of the things you say that I need to provide. Despite the fact that you made claims of your own. Or how you just said your past girlfriends would disagree, so why won’t you prove that they would disagree with what I said about you? I mean the burden of proof is on you, right? You wouldn’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 12:17 AM
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“Then prove it” I’m convinced that you actually can’t read wtf I’ve been telling you. Holy shit, you’re a moron. I never said they did help anything, did I? Lmaoo “my girlfriends would disagree” okay then prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:58 PM
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No, I’m definitely right on the concept. That is the truth, the percentages are just estimates, but the overall point of what I said is the truth. I know you’re angry because it leaves little excuses for the fact that women are repulsed by you, but if you actually left your house for once and maybe picked up a dumbbell for once in your pathetic existence you might actually join the rest of society instead of being a bitter sexless loser. You keep asking for something that you can google on your …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:45 PM
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Bruh what part of there are no stats proving either side was your smooth brain unable to read? Like maybe this is why you don’t get any pussy not just because you’re unattractive, but because you’re incapable of comprehending the English language lmfao You look like a dumbass. Me: “There aren’t any reliable stats on this, this is just my opinion because I don’t think any data on this is able to be accurately measured” You: “Nah give me your stats pussy” Are you seriously this fucking dumb? Lmaoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:25 PM
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Oh don’t kid yourself. You didn’t accomplish anything. You’ve posted no claims of your own or evidence to support your claims. There are no reliable stats on the subject of how to fuck women in a bar. Are you that autistic that you think anyone is stalking couples in bars and interviewing them while they’re in missionary? We can analyze polls and interviews all we want, but as the red pill literally built it’s brand on. People lie and stats only sample small sizes of people. What I’m telling you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 11:01 PM
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It’s just my opinion, I don’t claim that it’s not anecdotal. I really don’t care to sit here and argue biased unverifiable stats with varying sample sizes and other caveats to sway the data in mine or your favor. If that makes you not want to talk to me because of that then I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:49 PM
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1) Nah because the vast majority of men that don’t get laid just don’t leave their house. Typically men that can’t get laid are because they’re anti social and/or stay inside playing video games. Not that that’s a bad thing, but that’s the truth in I’d say 80% of cases. The other 20% I’d say are genuinely ugly or abnormally short. 2) I mean maybe, but even if they are. I still think they’re ignoring the bones of the blueprint to getting laid on an app/website that has a tendency to over complica…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 10:05 PM
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1) Yes, it does work 2) Those were literally the only replies to this post I saw when I commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:55 PM
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1) Yes I am because that’s definitely the case 2) New or not, free game is free game and that’s what she gave. I don’t understand the men in here who somehow managed to twist her post into women “avoiding blame” for their actions and that was my main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 09:41 PM
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K lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:59 PM
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Idk why lol if I was a woman I would consider most ppl here a lost cause. Appreciate your service tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:41 PM
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It does, a lot of men won’t commit to a woman that gives it up too early. Women won’t sleep with a man they actually like right away because she doesn’t want him to think she’s a slut and not want to date her seriously because of it. Women do this because of the way men view women not because women want to inherently reward fuckboys with sex and punish good men with waiting. If most men didn’t have that slut shaming mindset then women wouldn’t have to adapt to that line of thinking by sleeping w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:28 PM
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Yikes
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