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| 1 | Stbxw already moved her boyfriend in with her. We have two kids together how to cope.Yep, always the pot calling the kettle analogy. Most of my family just tell me to move on, “people come and go” type comments. Ambiguous grief is in my opinion one of the worst types of grief; you’re grieving people who are still alive, but basically consider you dead and vice versa. During my 5 month separation recently, I realized how peaceful my life is without the emotional chaotic roller coaster of my STBXW. It’s funny, as soon as she noticed me pulling away/moving on, she became enraged th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Stbxw already moved her boyfriend in with her. We have two kids together how to cope.Hey man im going thru a divorce but without the kids part. I’ve received every piece of advice, mostly from people who have never even been divorced. All of what you said is basically out of your control. All you can control his how you treat yourself in the present moment. For me I have the temptation of going to alcohol or drugs, completely isolated from family out of state. But I’m remaining sober, despite my STBXW previously accusing me of drinking. STBXW has been very insulting emotionally … | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 05:59 AM |
| 1 | There's hope.How do you not let the grief physically destroy you? I am about to file, knowing that I’ll never speak to my wife or her family again who I truly adore and love. I truly miss them all so much. But our marriage is irretrievably broken. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like you’re rebuilding yourself from scratch?We agreed to do couples therapy for discernment on the possibility of repair to the end of the month, but last evening my wife decided to yell and blame me and cry divorce as soon as she sat down with our therapist. In other words, a few weeks ago I was still in the ‘bargaining’ part of grief. Now I’d say I’m in the depression phase. My friends and family who I’ve told have warned me to just cut the bandaid off, because they simply don’t see it working out, and they were right. I called a divorc… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever feel like you’re rebuilding yourself from scratch?Definitely starting to feel that way, because I have no other choice. Married for 3 1/2 years, separated last October, no sign of reconciliation from the wife (she’s avoiding it all together). We’ve started couples therapy but my friends/family say I should rip the bandaid off and file. I’m currently living in the house alone, paying 1/2 her equity and CC debts. No family in state, I originally moved out here to be closer to hers. Her whole family cut me off, essentially leaving me out here comp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/26 03:03 PM |
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