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| -7 | How do I conquer approach anxiety and talk to these 2 girls?I think anyone who uses the word incel is more likely to be one themselves. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Which countries are worth moving to?I hate living in Ireland tho. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Which countries are worth moving to?Damn, I assume that you're Norweigan or lived in Norway at some point. Where would you like to move to if given the option then? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:32 PM |
| 134 | The Woman in RedMy daily dose of truth. I feel more enlightened now. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Texting a girl I've only met twicePerfect answer. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 5 | I have a bit of a dilemmaIf you want to LTR her sometime in the future, now is your chance. It reminds me of the saying ''You are the 5 people you spend the most time with''. Watch how she interacts with her father if he is even there. Watch how she engages with her friends. She only gets promoted to LTR status when you say she does. This event is of little significance. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Ask me stuff! College girlIs the friendzone a permanent place? Do you ever change your mind about dating a guy, especially when he tells you that he desires to be more than friends? | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Is that SHIT TEST Or?The problem is your first sentence. One girl? Orgasms through a phone? You want her in a bed naked, not faking sexual sounds across a device. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate during winter dates?Have some hot chocolate in Starbucks and bring her back to your place to watch a movie. You'll know if she is interested or not, depending on her answer. Find other girls if the answer is not an enthusiastic yes. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Should I be patient and wait for a girl with a boyfriendDon't wait to be with anyone. If she truly wanted to be with you, it would of happened in the first month of getting to know each other. You need pursue females more attractive than her. Never play a woman's waiting game. It doesn't end well for the guy. Seriously, take this from the dude that gets friendzoned a lot and tried being ''friends'' with girls who had boyfriends. You're literally better off being with someone who wants to be with you. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 12:51 PM |
| 4 | advice for someone who’s never been in a relationshipHmm, Just say ''I don't mind dating you but sex is off the table until I feel ready''. Do it at the end of the date after you kiss him or whatever. If he values you, he'd wait. If he was trying to use you for sex, he'd move on lightening fast. This is advice coming from a guy. If he's into chasing after hoes, don't try to ''tame'' him. High value males are extremely patient and non-needy. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 05:19 PM |
| 10 | advice for someone who’s never been in a relationshipYou sound like the girl I'm trying to date. She's Catholic, blesses her food and has a picture of Jesus in her wallet. (I'm serious). In my honest opinion, you should date him but explain your belief about sex as well. The Christian girl who ''Rejected'' me still enjoys hanging out with me and is obviously attracted to me. She believes hugs are ''too romantic'' and has never had a relationship before. I'm atheist and I've dated before unlike this girl I like. I guess opposites attract each o… | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 0 | How do you date a girl who has never dated before?What do you suggest, GingerBeerTown? She clearly doesn't want to date me. I'm starting to feel used at this stage. I'm even losing attraction for her as well. It's been a month and a half. She just views me as a friend even though I'm hotter than her, funnier and more confident. | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 17 | EXACTLY What To Do When She Turns COLD On You 😫🥶I agree with everything here. I just leave when the girl I like acts cold. Funny enough though, you can tell when a girl is faking it. She'll smile when you try to make her laugh which is a great sign that she does secretly like you but is just testing your confidence. Took me ages to realise that you should let girls do what they want. ( Don't tolerate disrespect from her by the way) | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I wish you were rightWelcome to the real world. Want to hear a story? Had a crush on a girl for weeks and I learned from a friend that she was rammed through by a guy. She was also about to have sex with another guy but left saying she was on her ''period''. Here's some good advice. Stay away from dating apps and stop analysing promiscuous women. -Source (The guy who watched his crush kiss 3 men in front of him and was given the ''Let's be friends speech''. | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected, but she doesn't seem sure about it. Wanna get her chase me.Don't act bitter about it. Same happened to me. Just keep flirting and do it with others girl as well. Don't ignore her too by the way. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 6 | LTR asking if I have female friendsYou should have female friends anyway. Why are you putting all your eggs into one basket? This girl is definitely planning on cheating on you. I can smell the insecurity off her. Dude, plan ahead with me right now. Find other girls. Get close to them. Keep back up options. This bitch is the Titanic right now | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:14 PM |
| 10 | Feeling unfulfilled after a long string of hookups. Should I try for LTR to keep it fresh?I don't like promiscuity at all. I'm personally not into that sort of world despite what is being promoted here. However, I understand what you're saying. In my opinion, I think you need to be polygamous with a few girls you like. Meaning, you should date 2-3 girls and not just sleep with them and eliminating them from your life. Keep your options open at all times. Be friends with girls and sleep with them. Gives a more fulfilling sexual pleasure when you have a deep bond with your lovers. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Feeling unfulfilled and lostStart smoking and drinking until she is gone out of your head (Only joking ofc). You need to concentrate on something productive. You don't need a hobby or anything. Just try to control your thoughts and actions. Ask yourself : Is she worth the space in my head? Is she really a good person? Who else likes me? Move on, man. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | My friends LTR is socially isolating himIs he you? I hope you're not talking about yourself. In fact, why do you even care? He probably wouldn't think of saving you the same way you want to save him. Brother, you come first. Don't be a hero. He will learn the hard way. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Girl’s into me but somehow things are complicated. What to do?No sex= You're her girlfriend Sex= She's your plate Her friendzoning tactics= Indecisive whore Your objective= Bang her friends, bang her and focus on increasing your knowledge, skills and number of plates | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:33 PM |
| 12 | Keep becoming disconnected from people / socially retardedYou don't need people in your life. Everyone in your world is a self-interested and greedy piece of shit who only thinks of themselves and their goals. You're most likely going to die alone on a bed with no one around except for a care-assistant holding your hand while you suffer from Alzheimers. Listen to me, good people died a long time ago. Nobody can feel your pain | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Newbie here - How many cold approaches should i be doing a day and for how many days in order to become confident/skilled with cold approaching?Make male friends first and try to connect to other females through them. Cold approach rarely works. Good for approach anxiety though. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:20 PM |
| 7 | Do you typically do direct or indirect daygame?I always go indirect at the beginning. After a certain period of time, I transition to direct behaviour in order to separate the girls who are ready to put out after a week from the girls who want to waste my time. Each girl only gets one month and after that.............. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Considering marriage with LTR but I can’t seem to get over having to dumb myself down I’m tolerating it is this enough to call off any potential marriage plans?It's your decision. I think you know the consequences of getting married in the year 2019 | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Listen to this if you're in college trying to get women, from a recent grad.Which do you think was more important in college? Making social connections or studying for good grades or even both? | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Advice / Tips for approaching a female in public (M/21)I've done this cold approach technique before and here's my opinion. It's excellent for boosting your confidence but do not expect to discover a relationship from talking to a mere stranger. I will discuss the easy methods as you've requested. Ask for directions or make statements about certain things you see or hear. For example ''Do you know where x place is?''. Asking for directions is a poor way of communicating with a female by the way. You can also go up to her and say ''Hey, do you mind… | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 50 | Is it bad to be friends with people who aren't moving forward in life?You should keep them as friendly acquaintances and nothing more. Ask yourself. Is he ambitious and goal-driven? Does he intend on improving his current situation and quality of life? Does he motivate you and help you grow as a person? If you say a harsh no to any of these answers, then that is the answer to your question. Lesson: Be careful when associating with non-ambitious individuals. Their ''energy'' has the potential to wipe off you as well. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | anxiety and depressionYou need new experiences in life. Go and plan a holiday. Think about a country you want to visit or even move to. Check the girls out around your college and talk to one. Work in a bar or restaurant to get your mind off things. Muscles are not necessary in this world. It's all about mental strength | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Would you trust an LTR living with 6 guys?Depends on her n-count more than yours. If these guys are good at manipulating a female's emotions, then you're doomed. Here's some advice. Start searching for backup options because I can almost GUARANTEE you that she already is. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 04:48 PM |
| 25 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?Thanks for the response but try to relax on the condescending behaviour, my friend. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 06:03 PM |
| -8 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?No. Explain what kino is. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to tell a girl that you're a virgin even if she is a virgin according to the Red Pill?My page died when I was making a response lol. I guess I'll have to make another one and simplify it. I'm 19 and she is 18. She is a Polish girl and she is extremely compliant. This includes: Being able to wear her glasses, lead her to places together, touching her hair or shoulder or using her phone. She barely uses social media and even less around me. She doesn't wear make-up and loves science. She's like your stereotypical nerd. Attraction is there without question as indicated by her smil… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 06:14 PM |
| -10 | How do you handle rejection from a low-quality female who is promiscuous and does not desire you?Which specific sidebar? Plus, you're clearly blue-pilled. Too lazy to even discuss this type of girls and puts it down as ''Oneitis'' in his head. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is a girl's lack of eye contact and indifference a sign of attraction?Dude, no need for hatred. This is why I'm sceptical of the people who claim to be ''Red Pill''. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 3 | First time texting a girl I don't know and getting shit tested already! How do I deal with this shit?She's not worth the time or energy. Don't analyse such petty situations. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you have sex with girls who have low-interest in you despite using the ignore, be unavailable tactic?Can you reverse the damage caused by the failure of shit tests? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Mid-20s virgin seeking genuine helpI've held hands with a girl before and kissed one but never actually had sex (Only 19). I've also hugged sluts and flirted with some. Your problem is that you are seriously overthinking. Want to hear the raw truth about attraction and dating? Women aren't attracted to emotional, weak, shy, hesitant men. They can smell the desperation off you in real life. The fact that you wrote an essay that long is actual proof that you are desperate and too needy. They don't give a fuck about what you do in… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 08:19 PM |
| 10 | Are girls likely to cheat on an alpha boyfriend?The short answer is : Yes Chad is for cock whereas beta bucks is for money. They know deep down that chad is a risky, low-life scumbag who will most likely leave them. Then they force the beta bitch to look after his cum. It's all just temporary emotions. She might appear hypnotised and in a state of tranquillity. However, girls are greedy bitches. They always crave for more chads and beta orbiters to text. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Any way to break out of cycle of unfulfilling plate spinning?Have two girlfriends at the same time and be loyal to them only. Don't listen to the ''Red Pill'' promiscuity crap being spewed out here. Sleeping with lots of different women does not make you more masculine nor does it increase you levels of happiness. I'm not a massive fan of Hedonism. Ejaculating into all kinds of women has serious ramifications including pregnancy and STD's. Pick the two plates you enjoy the most. End of story, | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | I don't truly understand the point of an LTR or Marriage. Pointers?Marriage was originally designed to form a nuclear family. This ensured order and stability in society. It's the reason why Polygamy is still illegal as it is viewed as being a threat to that stability. Should the building block of marriage crumble, then the whole of civilisation collapses with it. Of course, we get to bare witness to that statement above. Thanks to Feminism, marriage is obsolete. The family is basically dead and the government has supreme power. Take a good look around you. L… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 3 | How to I stop relying my happiness on external confirmations and my girlfriend?I use to be obsessed with text messages like you. It was the minor hits of validation that raised my dopamine levels and made me fee like a man whenever a female would ding my phone or touch me. You seriously need to look for a second girlfriend (Don't ever trust a girl. Even a Christian, virgin girl can cheat on you). Start meditating before going to bed. And for the love of God, give yourself permission to fuck up in life. You clearly are a perfectionist and that's not a good thing. You're c… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:47 PM |
| 52 | The Power Of Positive AssumptionsI fully agree. Those are some powerful ideas right there. I like to do the same as well. If a girl stands close to me, looks at me or even smiles, I always assume attraction. It boosts your self-esteem and confidence. Therefore, drawing you closer to the reality of actually attracting her. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with regret, failure and such?This has nothing to do with losing your virginity. This has everything to do with your belief system. You need to prevent yourself from holding back on certain situations and just go for the shot. You're literally going to cease existing one day. Is this the type of shit you'll be thinking about when you're breathing heavily on the bed and about to pass away? Grow a pair of balls and start touching, flirting and kissing girls. Learn to have fun and be outcome independent while doing it. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | On eye contact during conversationStare at the person's eyes and analyse them. Check what colour they are and focus on one eye at a time. Look up youtube videos and practice maintaining eye contact. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Ex BPD chick I work withWomen, in general, adore attention from any male in close proximity. It does not matter whether she has a boyfriend or not. When she touches a guy on the shoulder or compliments him, it does not necessarily mean that she is attracted to the person. Be careful of this particular female. She most likely senses that you are growing jealous of her connection with her beta orbiter and is using him to stir up drama in your life since you dumped her. Start speaking to other girls when she is there an… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on blackpill?The ideology is incorrect from its inception. If you actually explored the real world and interacted with females, you'd come to realise that unattractive men can obtain good looking females. This contradicts the philosophy itself. Sadly, it is used to justify their lack of effort which is needed to improve their lives and it is a sneaky method of removing responsibility from their lives. Only a really bitter male would believe in such a perspective. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:13 PM |
| 4 | What about you ?Those questions are too demanding and require essay-like answers. A large portion of men in real life are imperfect and destroyed by life. They don't view their lives through these questions. They try to survive day by day under the given circumstances dictated by the system. Asking such questions is as ridiculous as asking women ''What's the best part of having a vagina?'' | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Anyone have experience limiting fapping to once a week? Is it worth it ?Just fap once a day. Focus on interacting with women and going on dates with them. Channel that sexual energy into something more productive such as sports or reading books. Avoid contemplating on whether you should limit your fapping or ceasing it completely. It's an absolute waste of time and not masturbating has no impact on speaking to women at all. The biggest players I knew who were excellent with females also masturbated in their free time. I'd work on that social anxiety you seem to ha… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Small TalkEngage with the person by asking open-ended questions such as ''Why do you think the world is mad?'' The question itself sounds peculiar but it forces the person to think and construct an unique answer of their own. Just sit there and listen while giving brief comments on the subject. Of course, you can also discuss shallow topics depending on the individual's level of intelligence and knowledge. These are the least satisfying though, in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 09:43 PM |
| 140 | Why can't your average person admit or see that we're a severely sick society?I'm going to break this down in the nicest way possible. Complaining and moaning about the world is not going to change it. Only you can change yourself. Stop caring about what is going on in the world or what people do in their private lives. The more you resist against the current modern environment, the more you will suffer long-term. You'll eventually be censored and told to ''Mind your own business''. Take it from me. Degenerates are extremely hostile to those that point out their flaws o… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 08:50 PM |
| -1 | How do you deal with girls who have a boyfriend?It's hard to do that when my friend is constantly around me when we go somewhere during lunch on our course. She won't meet up with any guy outside her relationship either. Any thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Are these signs of a suicidal person? (Strange behaviour from girl)Can a girl like this change? She wasn't always like this according to one of my friends who knew her for years. All this reckless behaviour seems peculiar, in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Should have I reacted differently?You're overthinking the whole situation. It is clear as daylight. This girl is disrespecting your masculinity. How dare she even think about putting any effort into any ex and not into you. She has also manipulated you into believing that she must be the hero in order to ''save'' him from himself via therapy. Are you really that gullible? Women are master manipulators from birth ( Red Pill- Females babies literally flirt from day one in order to extract attention from caregivers). If her attra… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | I guess I'm not allowed to speak to women anywhere unless they give a clear signal?Hello, I think you need to learn how to just approach a girl and talk to her like you would to any other person. If you want to date a girl, then just ask the girl out. Go up and say ''I find you really attractive. Would you like to go out on a date with me sometime and I'll buy you a coffee?'' If she rejects you then you're very lucky. Try to think of it as an opportunity to find better girls who feel like going out with you too. Don't be expecting a girl to talk or even ask you out. Remember, … | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 10:48 PM |
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