MediumLanguageModel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	How to stop obsessing/thinking about a particular girl I heard an interesting technique. Give yourself an allowance of five crushes. The server at the restaurant you frequent, your coworker, the girl you smile at when walking the dog... whoever you see on a semi-regular basis. If a new crush comes along, someone gets knocked off the list. That way you don't get too caught up in any particular one.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 11:30 PM
2	AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier? This is encouraging. I'm in the process of separating, so entering the dating scene for the first time in ages. And I read everyone complaining about the state of dating and I can't help but wonder if it's a fair representation of the real world. I live in a middle sized city and feel really confident that as soon as I'm a free agent I should be able to get at least a date a month. Maybe that's naïve. But if you're charming and present yourself well, it should just be a matter of putting yoursel…	/r/seduction	13/07/26 02:48 AM
3	AITO Who Feels Like Dating Has Never Been Easier? I'll echo these guys. Early 30s is when everything started falling into place for me. Career was established and on the up and up, had my apartment set up just the way I liked it, and still had the drive to be going out all the time and doing all the things.	/r/seduction	13/07/26 02:34 AM
1	Why Do Guys Think That Beautiful Women Are Harder To Pull Than Average Looking Women? I hate that I/we think in these number terms but it's true. You literally never hear anyone being referred to as a 1-4. You're either attractive or you're not, so the nots don't even register on the scale.	/r/seduction	16/06/26 11:17 AM
18	Does joining pilates classes to make female friends or eventually dating/hookup ever work? Man, I was really hoping that'd be the case near me but so far every time I've joined it's been a 60+ crew. Lovely folks but a bummer for my ulterior motives.	/r/seduction	09/05/26 12:13 AM
3	How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid? I'm sorry for your loss	/r/seduction	05/05/26 01:32 AM
5	How to give out vibes that get me hookups or get me laid? Paragraph two is killing you dude. Walk out the door every day knowing you've got the looks. Because really when it comes down to it, it's not the looks but the confidence.	/r/seduction	03/05/26 06:31 PM
1	How do you move from the introduction to the seduction/flirting part of the conversation? You're looking for specific advice... If you see her again, give her a smile and say you were hoping you'd run into her again. See how she responds. If she's warm to it, lead the conversation towards specific plans. If you can keep the conversation going, walk your dogs to get ice cream or something together. If the timing's not right, give a specific "let's grab a drink Thursday" (bonus points if you can tie the suggestion back to something she's expressed interest in).	/r/seduction	25/04/26 02:38 AM
1	How to be more fun and charismatic? Reframe it away from imitation. You're not imitating anyone, you're initiating your perception of what you believe them to be. Focus more on your personal experience about when you've felt most charismatic. How you behaved then, what you talked about, your appearance and posture etc. If you're stuck, try journaling for 20 minutes to wrap your head around when your version of you is presenting best. Then look for natural ways to let that version of you show up. Talk to the cashier, take an extra …	/r/seduction	16/04/26 01:19 PM
1	I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof) Eh. Never said anything about these women who come over with no work up being angels. People are lazy and optimize for efficiency. So in this scenario we've got sex-crazed women who have already been successfully enticed (lured?) to come over to do the deed. None are eager to come back for seconds? Less than 1/4? Is the sex and/or personality that off-putting? Maybe there's a level to the hookup scene that just doesn't make sense to me. Just seems unrealistic that one could keep this going for a…	/r/seduction	25/03/26 07:30 PM
1	I Slept With 80 Women From Dating Apps, Here’s How I Got 3 Hook ups This Week (Breakdown With Proof) Putting aside accusations that this is BS or AI or a repost of someone else's post... a couple things stand out... First, the lying as part of the strategy. That's not good. You could dream up all sorts of reasons for her to want to come over that don't involve lying. These women are interested and ready for action, so surely this could be amended to remove the scummy lying from the outset. Plus Uber and Lyft exist so the premise doesn't hold up to basic scrutiny. The other is that the sheer vol…	/r/seduction	24/03/26 06:42 PM