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The red pill was around before that. Since 2006-2007(20+ years ago). And those people were talking about 9/11 and Monsanto and the nwo. It was about keeping freedom and exposing government corruption. It was based on taking the red pill and seeing all of society for what it really is - not just the dating and romance aspect. Redpillschool probably co-opted the original red pill. But the whole dating strategy and women thing were part of mgtow and puas.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 01:28 PM
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The red pill used to be about truther and conspiracy stuff until it got hijacked by mgtow and puas
/r/ExRedPill08/07/25 11:08 AM
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Have you looked into Deborah Tannen's work? If you can't decenter women then at least understand the world they live in lol. After all, a man is a deformed woman.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/25 03:00 PM
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It's possible but why though? Women are so fun. When they're receptive of course.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/25 01:17 PM
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It's just guys putting themselves under enormous amounts of social pressure. And for what? A pat on the back? An atta boy? What the fudge? Emotionally, you'd be better off dating and hooking up at your own pace than competing with neurotic "Alpha males"
/r/ExRedPill16/05/25 05:23 PM
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Nothing wrong with people wanting to enjoy their lives without being worked into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:27 AM
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No. You have to match, align, and agree with each other to a high degree (you'll never match with anyone else 100 percent.) based on what you DO have control over(perception, mentality, morals, tastes, habits, hobbies, routines, desires, goals, ACTIONS)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:48 AM
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What's her motive for liking him?? Is it lust?? Or does she want a deeper level of involvement with him??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:15 AM
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It's a belief that's derived from the same worldview that leads to a dislike for women.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 06:58 PM
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If someone had the same attitude/mentality towards you that most men have towards women, you wouldn't wanna fck with them either. If someone claimed to like you and be your friend while at the same time trying to dominate and control your freedom, you would want to get the fck away from them or try to fight them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:13 AM
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We call them a "princess"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:21 PM
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I just don't cold approach strangers. If there's a familiarity between the woman and I then I will go for it if we match enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:02 AM
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The shittest is just a myth made up by puas that don't grasp actual consent. No she's not testing you she either doesn't like you or she's mad about something you said or did.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:43 PM
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"People get into relationships to fulfill things they don't have..." That's basically the gist of the entire problem with dating. Others don't mind being a helping hand every now and then. But expecting a person to fulfill an entire void can lead to disastrous results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:56 AM
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People tend to have a highly overinflated sense of self importance. This leads them to believe that others that relate to them are somehow beneath them(in their own mind)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:43 PM
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Heating ventilation air conditioning Basically people that work on air conditioners
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:34 AM
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Men are attracted to women that are usually perceived as higher status symbols to other men. The women have nothing to do with it. If they did, their approaches would be totally different than the clownshow that is social media. It's the worldview that having a certain type of woman by your side gives you a social status increase. Men tend to "respect" other men that are perceived as higher on the pecking order than themselves(aka someone that has what they desire to have). The whole body count …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:53 PM
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I was saying that figuratively. Not to dehumanize anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:38 PM
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No. The reality is some women have priced themselves out of the market with their "standards" lol. Just leave them be. This is natural selection at work. Nothing wrong with enjoying your life however you wish. But don't expect everyone else to acquiesce to bow down to you because of that. Just like men, some women gotta learn that the world doesn't revolve around them and how they choose to go about life lol. That they look foolish calling men "trash" for simply having his own mind because it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:07 AM
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I feel you on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:28 PM
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That presumes that everyone sees things the same way you do. Even if that is the actual case, it's still a matter of luck that your tastes coincide with the preferences of others. Some people's tastes don't match with the preferences of others- hence labels like "weirdo" or "eccentric". Would you advise people in the latter to adopt some persona("game" and "confidence" are personas. Especially in the red pill sense) for the sake of attracting someone they really don't match??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:12 PM
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It's just a matter of LUCK anyways. No amount of game, confidence, or being nice is any guarantee that any woman will give you any affection or intimacy. People just like who they like. That's all there is to it. Btw that's the weird thing about these spaces: WHY ARE PEOPLE MAD/SAD BECAUSE OTHERS THAT DON'T WANT TO BE AROUND THEM ARE NOT AROUND THEM??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 10:33 AM
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It's because most people don't really know themselves. Most people pursue desires that aren't even theirs. Otherwise, how can anyone cast judgement on anyone else? I'm in my early 30s and don't feel depressed by dating. But I don't have the desire to be a "somebody" either. I don't see the point. It seems like people just wanna mooch off others and judge them for not wanting to be mooched off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:41 AM
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I have a strong moral compass that I try to live by. What's the point of harming others that are simply living their lives how they wish?? You gotta be a sicko to have that desire Self defense is not harm because you're using force and aggression to protect yourself from being harmed. EDIT: I misread you. I thought you asked me if I was right in the head?? 🤣🤣🤣 I was like wtf... My bad. To answer your question more honestly.. I comment here to rile the manospherecels up sometimes. It's all in goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:58 PM
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I have no interest in causing harm to others. I don't match with people that have that desire either. I'm not losing my conscience for seggs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:32 PM
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Not as important as actual actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:52 AM
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Sounds effeminate. If you're not attracted to women, just say so. It's okay to like who you like, granted you're not violating their personal sovereignty. But this sounds like some bitter saltiness over being rejected by women. Nothing wrong with being a "loser" but being a sore loser is totally unacceptable IMO. Some people just won't like you no matter how "nice" you are or how much "effort" you put in. People just like who they like and that's their right. Just deal with the women that are re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 09:53 AM
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That goes with the attachment and entitlement. I understand that people just want to have a good and peaceful life for the most part. But what does that actually require?? Sometimes I wonder if people actually ponder what they're actually doing in life.. or do they just blindly follow the mainstream programming?? In a time where women have the opportunities to accumulate their own resources, it would seem pretty pointless for them to be with any man unless they truly enjoy his company as a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:43 PM
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Right. The issue is a lot of women tend to have concern for others' opinions without being certain that those others actually have their well-being and best interests at heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:28 PM
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Dating isn't even hard. People, both men and women, usually don't know or understand what they're doing so they make it unnecessarily harder on themselves. Dating is to figure out if you actually match with someone based on actions, mentality, and worldview. If there's a high level of similarity between 2 people then they'll be good candidates for partnership. But of course that isn't good for bragging rights over other people that they have no business trying to prove anything to. Lol Most prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:19 PM
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Nope. Younger women are into fun and getting their itch scratched. Older women are more into connecting and sharing a life with someone. It's not that he's an azzhole, it's that she finds him physically attractive. A lot of younger women also don't know what they're doing. They often mistake attraction and attachment to love when it's actually a combination of fear and unhealthy entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:05 PM
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My litmus test for any woman I encounter is literally the opposite of this 🤣🤣. If you can't enjoy a woman's company without sex then you shouldn't be with her long term. If you're into hooking up and casual seggs then that's a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:03 AM
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Vaginas aren't too different from penises. The right word would be "large" instead of "loose". Some women have bigger vaginas than others. Just like how some men have bigger penises than others. Both derive pleasure from stimulating the frenulum/frenula
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:01 AM
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Sounds like she's trying to get you to chase her so she can brag to her friends about how she's got someone sweating her. Some people play weird games like that for some odd reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:51 PM
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If a man is only given affection based on what he gives, that isn't love, that's taking advantage of someone and calling it love. Love, by definition, is unselfish. Meaning that when you love someone, whether or not you benefit from that person shouldn't come into mind at all. If it does then it isn't love. It's a transaction at best and exploitation at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:47 PM
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I do and require the bare minimum lol. Think about it, who out there is worth impressing so much that you'll sacrifice yourself?? People are cool and all but they're not worth the effort they think they are. how I see it: there's no reason to support anything that doesn't benefit you. People created society to benefit themselves. But nowadays people sacrifice themselves for "the greater good". How does that make any sense?
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 10:20 AM
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I just want to feel good about myself and enjoy my life . I'll date if a woman is receptive to my advances. But until then I'm just having my fun.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:37 PM
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Causing harm to any sentient life is immoral. Morality isn't aesthetic. It's that a lot of people don't understand morality.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/23 10:53 PM
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Women can have toxic and fk'd up worldviews and ideologies too
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 06:48 AM
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Niceness is usually a tactic used to try to manipulate others. Not the same thing as kindness. It all depends on the motives and intentions of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:40 AM
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Right. People create their own comfort or discomfort. But the pills have taken childish traits and labeled them "feminine" so now there's a generation of women that think being childish and a brat is what femininity is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:24 PM
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All this proves is that most people don't understand how relationships work. Or the importance of actually matching with the person based on actions and efforts. You'll only experience abuse from a mismatch. But in a time where people place physical attractiveness and circumstantial attractiveness above actual character and application of willpower - this tends to be the result. When you focus on matching based on actions you will have knowledge of whether it is beneficial to continue a partners…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:21 PM
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Choices have consequences Mind the business that pays you Don't start no shit won't be no shit.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 09:22 PM
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It would make sense if it were WOMEN saying this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:38 PM
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Men don't have periods or risk their lives bringing children into the world. Men risk their lives proving shit to other men(why men do this is weird AF to me but that's how a lot of us operate). The struggles aren't the same. Women's struggles are more natural based and life based. Aka can they have a peaceful moment without worrying about what others might do to them?.. Men's "struggles" are mostly rooted in arbitrary concepts and bragging to other men(why else would concepts like "superiority"…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:26 AM
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Women just like who they like. The real question is why do men base their sense of self worth on having access to sex??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:57 AM
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Yeah. It's a classic grifter move
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:28 PM
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"insecurity farming"? Never heard that one before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:05 PM
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Exactly. Don't forget the legbeards and the notlikeothergirls aka the quirkies
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 10:21 AM
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I pull women too, they're not the "hotties" guys want to brag about. But they're women and they're receptive to my advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:01 PM
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If only the incels guys understood this, they would be way less stressed and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:00 PM
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Slow and painful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:37 AM
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No. I don't see the point in bringing that up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:37 AM
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I'm a late bloomer and I've had zero problems or resentments with women. I might've made a few blunders but overall my experiences are positive to neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:13 PM
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It's going to take effort but you basically gotta program that poison out of your mind. Condition yourself into believing a healthier worldview
/r/ExRedPill25/08/23 09:30 PM
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The red pill is a very very strange worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:57 PM
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As far as worldview they have and the principles they subscribe to. Can they let others be themselves without feeling the unnecessary need to cast stones or talk shit?? Can they be themselves without caring too much about what others think??(sign of a strong spirit) Are they adult kids??(aka princess syndrome) Are they hypocrites?? (Meaning they have standards for others that they can't meet or uphold themselves) Do they understand relationships??(do they know that all breakups aren't bad or neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:53 AM
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Never mind. I forgot they're called princesses
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:31 PM
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Id figure there'd be a womanchild. Sounds like an AskReddit post lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:30 PM
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Especially before the age of 25. The years of 13 to 25 are super rough in the average young man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:50 AM
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Not sex but connection. I don't think a lot of boys are socialized to connect but to be "authoritative" and "powerful" and "strong". I(m30) don't feel desperate for sex. And when I do have those feelings, I just shift my focus to what could possibly be on a woman's mind and the thirst goes away. A lot of us(I believe) weren't raised to see sex as an expression of an established mental + emotional connection, but rather as a means of establishing a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:48 AM
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I value freedom way more than I value "society". So if women being free means male loneliness or "society" crashing then so be it. It's not morally right to take someone's right to associate with who they wish because you choose to feel some way about yourself. You are half right in the sense that men's loneliness is men's fault. But it's not because of women being free Most men are lonely because they're not as good of a person as they think they are. Who wants to be around people they constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:11 PM
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I used to be shocked by it. But now I find it much easier to let people like who they like and mind my business. My philosophy is quite simple: if you're happy, then I'm happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:24 PM
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Id be more interested in how they think and come to conclusion to do things the way the do. Granted if they'd be bother to invite me for a tour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:59 PM
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I wouldn't mind tbh. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:55 PM
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Mediocrity is a concept created by human minds. It's not something that exists in the natural world like water or dirt, but rather, it's a judgement based on how someone chooses to see someone or something. In actuality, there's no such thing as "mediocre" men or "mediocre" women. People are just are(if that makes sense). What does exist, instead, is people being compatible or matching with other people based on shared similarities. But that doesn't necessitate calling any person mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:25 PM
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True. But that doesn't change the fact that the origin of what's called "mediocre" has it's origins in some person's judgement. The person being called "mediocre" is real. That doesn't mean that the person is actually "mediocre" but that he/she is seen as mediocre by someone. Now you can have a consensus where you and other people may agree that someone is "mediocre" but that doesn't change the fact that the origin of that label is in how someone choose to see another person. See what I'm saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:52 PM
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Not quite. You have that very fickle thing called human opinion. It's not always the most stable thing. What has been considered attractive has varied throughout the ages. Plus, women have their own personal preferences so one woman's "Chad" might be another woman's "Trash" and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:45 PM
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You can't see mediocre in reality, otherwise it would be easily referred to (like grass, water, cloud, etc). Mediocre only exists in people's minds and how they see and judge things. A person is just is in reality. It's only after seeing them and creating judgements based on how we see them do we give people labels like "mediocre" or "high value" that are based on highly relative preferences and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:26 PM
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There's no such thing as a "mediocre woman " in actuality. "Mediocre" is however people choose to think about it. But, to answer your question, yes. Especially if we match on what we do in life, and how we do things in life. If that makes her "mediocre" then so be it. I'm gonna enjoy myself and the women that like me regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:45 PM
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Love is having unselfish concern for another's well being.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 02:52 PM
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Yes. It just takes maturity and self control and honesty. But it is possible though.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:06 PM
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Most people can be helped. They just gotta change their beliefs and judgements regarding people. Convincing incels to shake the toxic beliefs concerning women and their supposed "roles" in life is going to be way easier said than done
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:26 PM
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