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OK then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:09 PM
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I feel like the difference in sources is huge, but like i said, we wl just have to agree to disagree. I could say i don't believe you that most people wherever you're from are meeting on dating apps almost exclusively, but if you say so then fair enough :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:59 PM
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I'm not sure if you're the same guy who posted the forbes link, but it's the same sort of vibe (data comes from polls) except ofcom is a communications regulator as opposed to an online magazine. I think we're just going ti have to agree to disagree, I just don't think stats re:online dating is a fair point to make in OP's original argument because generally it's superficial people voting on other superficial people and not indicative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:50 PM
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Well, yeah. Even I've used one. We've all checked them out, they just aren't for finding ltrs generally. My original point was that if OP is looking for someone for a genuine long term connection, looking at dating app statistics makes no sense. In my country they're mostly for hook-ups shrugs not many find or are even looking for love on there, which is why people are using them less
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:42 PM
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Even the number of adults in all age brackets who use dating apps in a given month is '1 in 10' which is nowhere near half, and we're all very much aware of the negative effect dating apps have on our mental health. I really think it's not as big a thing here as other places, but you're right, that's just my opinion from loving here for 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:10 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/nov/28/gen-z-breaking-up-with-dating-apps-ofcom As I said, perhaps it's just in my country. Dating apps are definitely a last port of call aswell here, you can usually tell why someone is on them within 5 minutes of meeting them. Its deffo not something people are proud of/open about using. Maybe amongst the lads, banter and all that. I wouldn't know though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:07 PM
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Fair enough, I live in the UK and people are widely turning away from dating apps. Perhaps I'm just old shrugs my mum met her 3rd husband online, but that's only 1 out of 3 haha. Some of my friends met online and some haven't. I also don't think 5,000 people is a reliable enough sample size, especially as respondents are already 'forbesonline' readers. Idk if that makes any sense lol. Like, 45% of forbesonline readers say that but I don't see how that shows the attitudes of most real-life people…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:09 AM
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I just don't think that's true. I know lots of people who have met on dating apps and lots that haven't. I can't see how one would go about quantifying how many long-term relationships have resulted from either meeting in person or through an app, statistically. Where do you live that everyone is meeting through dating apps? Perhaps it's geographical? I do know that pretty girls generally don't need to use them, though. Why would they, when they have plenty of offers irl? I'm plain as fuck and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:41 AM
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Have you considered that the 80% of women on dating apps are usually 1 of 3 very specific groups? 1- women who are unsuccessful dating irl 2-women who are only looking to hook up 3-the hottest 1% of women who can choose who they like Most 'normal' women looking for a serious, loving relationship stay away from tinder, either because they're not looking for a hook-up and that's all tinder is for, or because generally it's easy(ish) to find and start relationships irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:29 AM
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I agree with you. I love all of my man's positive traits but I love his 'negative' ones, too. He often says he's 'punching' above his weight with me, and so if OP was right surely I'd just leave for a hotter dude with more money? Ofc not, cos I love and desire my man. There's not much I wouldn't do for him, and he's just a 'normal guy'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:39 AM
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I don't know. I don't think so, from what I've heard from my girl friends most men are pretty bad and deffo don't make you cum 2 or 3 times each session, but I don't have all that much experience tbh. Had this convo with my friend who has about 50 bodies and she said its only 1 or 2 in every 10 that are any good. I wouldn't know!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:27 AM
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I haven't had many partners but out of them all, only 1 has had 'good dick' lol and it's nothing to do with size. He's just fantastic in bed, cares about whether it's good for me and makes sure it is. Before I met him I was starting to think maybe I'm just asexual and actually the other guys were OK and I just didn't like sex, however this dude has got me conditioned like Pavlov's dogs lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:20 AM
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This is what I think, too. To post on insta and tiktok is a validation thing, I've seen many feminist-centric psychologists and figures that men would appreciate more (Jordan Peterson for example) agreeing on one thing at least: well-rounded individuals who were raised well do NOT want to be famous. Their validation comes from inside, so that external stuff is nice but not necessary. The loud 'majority' of people we hear from, on both sides, are probably quite mentally ill. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 06:21 PM
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I think it should be decriminalised, for sure. I don't judge, I won't date a dude who has used sex workers ideally but I don't think there's anything wrong with them, we just aren't sexually compatible. I feel sorry for the workers, though. Unless they're one of the 1% if you know what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:24 AM
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I agree that people shouldn't be lying. As one of the women who actually fit the averages (my current partner is my fourth ever and hopefully my last) people assume I'm not being honest when I tell them my bodycount, which annoys tf out of me. I haven't spent my whole life being careful and conscientious for you to assume I've banged 50 guys and am lying about it lol. I can't blame people though, because so many lie about it! It's such a shame. And finding a man who hasn't slept with a hundred w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:38 AM
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I wouldn't sleep with an guy that isn't my boyfriend at the time, as in committed and exclusive, and that would include the man in your scenario? Unless I'm mistaken haha its early where I am, sorry for the confusion. Obvs on a first date I wouldn't know said man very well so even if he wants a committed exclusive thing I wouldn't trust that and definitely wouldn't risk my body and heart on the off chance that the guy is genuine. Also there's the STD test thing, which again would take more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:25 AM
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I had a one night stand kind of thing once (although he did pursue me for weeks after) because I was heartbroken from a breakup and all my friends were egging me on. I was like 23, it was a gross experience and I wouldn't do it again, so no. I only sleep with people I love, or at least people who are committed and exclusive to me and I think we are falling in love lol. Means I don't have the most experience with individual people but I consider myself experienced in terms of pleasing my long ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:01 AM
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It's only deceitful if the man knew that the woman would be turned off by it. My partner and I haven't been together too long but he knows this kind of thing, as well as pegging etc would be a dealbreaker for me, because we talk about all kinds of interesting things and scenarios, lol If husband didn't know, then fair enough. Some women are even really into that stuff, it was a 50/50 chance it might turn her on or something. My thoughts are: break up, now (if this was a real scenario) It's a shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:30 AM
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To be fair, I know nothing about India, I have never been. My boss is Indian and says it would not be safe for me there so I assume your way of life is incredibly different and I cannot assume how you do things there. I'm about to turn 30, but my father used to say to me 'you want to be an exclusive nightclub where not just anyone can get in, not an open bar where every man is welcome' and I took that seriously lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:49 AM
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Well, I understand where you're coming from there but surely you've noticed a massive difference between real life and online? Unless you're in the USA in a major city perhaps, then I could see people acting irl like they do online but... I'm English and it's very much fine here to talk about this topic and reject someone based on it. If I wrote this as a status on for something I'd probs catch a little flack for it, but nothing major. And everyone would agree with me in person, so... except for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:33 AM
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But then couldn't you argue no one needs to know your bodycount or if you have herpes then? What they don't know won't hurt them kind of thing? I disagree, but if I was an unattractive woman maybe I'd settle for that so fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 08:30 AM
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No, just disappointed. And then I'd go get tested just in case haha. Although if I had symptoms of herpes or warts after then that would probably change my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:18 AM
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Yeah it would change, I'd still care for them but thy wouldn't be the same person in my mind because my person wouldn't lie to me. So for example, my partner and I have a low count for the same reason (we equate sex with love and consider it very special) and so it's like having a private joke or special connection that no-one else could possibly have. As in, yes there's 8 billion of us on the planet but us 2 are both unique and make up a combination of love and friendship and happiness that man…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:10 AM
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That's fair enough. Some people want to wait for marriage etc, I think there's nothing wrong with preferences!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:56 PM
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To be fair I do care, but it doesn't impact my life at all, I just won't sleep with a guy like that shrugs. No need to make him feel bad, just isn't a sexual option at all for me, and so what? Plenty of women out there who are cool with it. Good for him. I do question the intelligence of the women that go for these guys though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:25 AM
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Tbf though, paying for sex because you can't get it is so much worse than being a virgin? OK yeah most women don't want a virgin because we would have to teach him what we like etc, but man who had to pay for it? Pass. Some women might not care but...idk any myself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:00 AM
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I just don't date men like that. If a guy is very attractive, he probs has a lot of casual sex and I'm not into that so I tend to steer clear. I focus on self discipline and good character first, then after hanging out for a few months if I really, really like him then we can fuck and if he's great in bed then we're all systems go for a relationship. Luckily I seem to have found my unicorn. I'm on the upper side of mid (although he tells me I'm beautiful every day) and we're eachothers 1 person …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:12 PM
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I'm about to be 30 and as it stands I'll never own a house in my home county so there's that, but also kids destroy your body and mental health and I've worked too hard on both to throw it all away on the off chance I might enjoy starving and stressing with a child on top like a cherry on a sundae. Lol. If men gave birth and they lost anywhere up to half their penis size (forget the other host of health problems and even DEATH that may occur during pregnancy for women, let's just focus on that O…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:43 PM
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That is awesome, I wish I had the foresight to check out that kind of thing when I was unsupervised on the Internet as a teenager and not all the gore and extreme porn that I saw instead. That probably also has a huge part to play in my apprehension about sex as I grew up lol. I'm sure workshops and stuff are helpful to many women though, I've bought a few books as I got older, have you read come as you are? It's very famous so probs a bit cliche but I thought that was really good. Very helpful,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:43 AM
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Well, my parents were definitely idiots lol I love them but they had me at 21 because... that's what everyone did I guess? And then proceeded to be pretty miserable with that choice until my sister and I were independent. My fam isn't religious, but I understand now what you mean with the indoctrination talk, my country is predominantly Christian although most of my peers aren't religious yet still hold pretty gross beliefs about 'slutty' women lol. Not sure what that's all about, the Internet p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:34 AM
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Hey, out of interest, I saw your comments to that other guy about indoctrination and thinking sex is 'bad'. Assuming your stance is that sex is 'good' I was just wondering what you think about the fact(?) that generally women are socialised to think sex=bad. Isn't that a massive disconnect on both sides? I still remember my dad telling me "you don't want to be like an open buffet, you want to be an exclusive nightclub that not everyone can get into". Obvs comparing women to objects isn't great b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:50 AM
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Fair enough, I appreciate your answer. I deffo see sex as a lot more than just a bit of fun, but as a woman I've found most men aren't very good at it, or perhaps I've just been unlucky. imo its only ever been fun with the one dude who cares enough about me to make it good for me. Granted I don't have a lot of notches on my belt so my sample size may be too small lol! If sex was anywhere near as good with anyone else as it has been with the man I'm in love with, I probably would have done it mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:29 AM
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Do you not think sex with the person you're in love with is 100x better than going to the movies? Like just from... how it makes you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:23 AM
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I'm looking for someone I can build something with. I'm not really fixed on what. Ideally, a nice place to live and marriage. Everything is about compromise and we could step in front of a bus tomorrow so my desired outcome is just finding someone kind to share the now with and dream of more :) maybe even get there eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:38 PM
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Idk, there's so much narcissism going on nowadays it wouldn't surprise me if each and every one of those women thought 'I'm special, he will change for me and we will live happily ever after LMAO. I'm mid asf and poor asf but i wouldn't lower myself to carry a baby for the likes of nick cannon or Elon. Gross. Most women who value themselves and their intelligence wouldn't do this I think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:17 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:42 PM
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Exactly. Some of my very promiscuous female friends are happy to be with guys like that. My dad was an actual manwhore, as in he got paid for sex and my stepmum who is a self-proclaimed ho loved him very much. They also shared HPV but that's neither here nor there lmao. I haven't gone my whole life cultivating standards for who I introduce to my most private and intimate parts to forgo all that because... I met a guy who slept around and doesn't think i should mind? Hard pass. How special can se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:24 AM
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But in your analogy, not 1 of those women has wanted to so far. If anyone can have it, and they try it and turn it down, no I don't want it either? I'm better than that. If he's that great, it wouldn't take a hundred goes for 1 woman out of alllll of them to be like... yeah actually, this one. Also my body is a temple, if I'd rather not put anything except organic fruit and veg and the odd bit of lean meat in there, you think I'm gonna go for a mystery cock? Absolutely not. There's like 4 billio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:51 AM
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I mean... I was trying to be nice for OP who is down on themselves but tbh it's just gross. a guy could be really nice but if he hasn't exhibited the self discipline necessary for me to be interested, which is one of the main traits I look for in a guy after kindness, then no thanks. It's up there with hygiene. Also, you probably have herpes or HPV, if not both as they cannot be tested for accurately and condoms do not prevent them. No, I would rather not risk it. Why would I take some loose guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:45 AM
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I disagree. My stepdad and my stepmum are both awesome. I'm a woman who doesn't want to go through pregnancy, but I'd have kids through a surrogate if it wasn't so selfish a thing to do. My partner has kids. I haven't met them yet because we're taking things slow but he's a good dad which makes him even more attractive to me. I'm about to be 30 and still full of energy, I babysit for my friends kids and they all love me :) My stepparents worked it out as they went along and apart from a few fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:16 AM
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I think this subject offends people a lot. I don't tend to comment regarding my views on monogamy, casual sex and LTRs because it doesn't tend to be received well. I don't judge; if someone finds deep love in a polycule or whatever tf they call it, or sleeps with 500 people and feels fulfilled(hah) then that's great for them! I support it. But none of that matters, apparently I'm shaming people because the idea of ME having casual sex makes me feel gross. shrugs Can't please everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 08:01 PM
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Idk about the whole 'pair bonding' thing tbh but as a woman with a relatively low bodycount, I'm not interested in men with a high one. My main reasoning is that I'm bothered by the higher likelihood of diseases, and I consider sex to be really special/ only reserved for a long term, committed relationship so I don't feel I'd be compatible with someone who sees it as blasé. The other reason sort of goes with what you're saying though, I think? I have no interest in being another notch on some gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:46 PM
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