| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 184 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!) | MALE DEPRAVITY | Meepnit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 112 | I really hope she will get away from him... He honestly sounds like a lunatic. | #KickHimOut2020 | Meepnit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:35 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 41 | I have no words...This was so painful to read..... 😓😓 The only grace in her life is that she enjoys her job ATM, instead of still being dependent on her male counterpart 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Safe spaces for women CANNOT have men! If men are included it ceases to be a safe space for women.Since I discovered FDS I instantly felt this sub is a true safe space. Everyone understood eachother, were emphatic to stories women shared and just wants everyone to be safe 💗 It made me think that I truly wish there were spaces for women only, like shopping malls, grocery stores and cinemas. Men always try to invade a woman's space, irl or online. A woman can't be engrossed in a conversation with her bff without a man just randomly stand in front of you and interrupt your conversation to try t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 35 | Women look out for other Women in a world that doesn't have our backsThe fact that the police force is enabling male k*llers is just plain scary tbh..... I hope the mother and the sister will sue the police force, in my country it's actually a crime (on the police behalf to not notify the family about a deceased family member). I hop they will continue being strong and fight the system, the women needs to get a conclusion and lock up the disgusting piece of sh*t that did that. 😠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 13 | How to deflect dating questions from friends/family/coworkersThese are good, but my go to answer is the solid truth; "No, I'm focusing on myself right now, I want to establish myself and achieve my goals before I even start looking for a partner". When they chirp the ol' "you're not getting any younger" kind of neg, I just answer back "true, that's why I'm focusing on myself, I'm not getting any younger, so I better live for myself!" This usually shuts the annoying people up 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 13 | Disgusting Vday GiftsI honestly just laughed my ass off about how embarrassing this "gifts" are! Like for real!!, blowjob candles???? That's sounds too ridiculous to be real, imagine being that much too deep into the pickme rabbit hole to buy this atrocious thing for a day dedicated to LOVE, not SEX! What happened to the cute homemade chocolate and the big fluffy teddy bears? 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:04 AM |
| 10 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.The only advice I can give you on this is just don't bother! As soon as you feel like you don't have a matching vibe, BREAK UP!!!!! He can have his bad vibe elsewhere 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 05:58 AM |
| 5 | Comments tell her to "commUNIcate", OF is Not BAdLol if I had a bf and I saw he uses OF, I would just instantly break up with him 🤦🏻🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Spotting red flags in old Convos and passing on the lessonsHonestly I never usually bother with men that will always try to talk about how successful they are, generally, without even having any interesting experience that happened to them at the workplace (not some bs beef they have against a fellow worker 😪) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 3 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"I respect you opinion and I have zero clue about how US health care works here so I can't say if doctor is right or wrong to say this, but in my country, it's totally normal for doctors to do. Every citizen have a Primary health doctor they can chose to be assigned to, and the doctors job is usually to give you a written reference for an appointment to a specialist (regarding your problem) or to give you prescription for meds that you already know you need (you usually discover what you need aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?When I sit down and talk to the pickme (or "overly optimistic friend" ), I usually try to remind her of his awful behaviours (and explain how he needs to change them) and help her analyze conflicts they had together and let her realize he's not worth it. I got to help my best friend that way. After two weeks of getting to know her I sat down with her and she spoke about an annoying thing her bf did that same day. I gave her an example how a normal person would have handled the situation and enli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.This is mental abuse. plain and simple. Her parents allow that abuse and even partake in it... I'm actually concerned for her well being, she has no one to lean on mentally, she's all alone in this toxic environment getting gaslighted into thinking she's not good enough. I hope she actually decides to go to a different therapist that will actually help her get out of that good for nothing family. 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 44 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteSomething just died inside me while reading this... Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?!!?!!???!!!!! I hope this disgusting creature will rot in jail 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 04:53 AM |
| 29 | Good sense prevailing in the commentsShe honestly sounds like such an amazing person that reading about her nvm bf made cringed so hard 😓 I hope she already dumped him so she can chill by herself or with her new work buddies 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”I literally didn't recognize him in these pictures until I read the comments 👁️👄👁️ He looks so unkempt next to his (poor) girlfriend, who looks too good to be seen next to him 😓 Oof I can only wish for her to break up with him as soon as possible and start a healthy relationship, scrote free 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 02:34 AM |
| 34 | Scrote’s own 16 yo daughter knows her dad is a creep. Call out the scrote no matter who it isI literally almost puked in my mouth WTH!!! I hope she can move out asap from home when she's 18 because that father feels like a predator. He dates young women who are vulnerable, easily impressed, naïve and that could easily could pass as he's OWN DAUGHTER!!!! I may jump on conclusions here, but if I were here, I would have feared for my own safety around this sad excuse of a scumbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 11:57 AM |
| 15 | And they wonder why we get irritable in publicHe sounds like a classic "women should do all in their power to make a men's life more comfortable" kind of mentality. I bet he sat by your side, NOT expecting a woman to actually stand up for herself and call his rude behavior up. after he realized you are not accepting this type of act he said sorry to save face, embarrassed he got called out in public. this type of people will do anything to make themselves to seem like their always "doing the right thing" in a public setup..... you did the r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:57 AM |
| 19 | Followup to yesterday's question: When do you first remember being told that a boy is mean to you when he likes you?At Kindergarten (5 years old). the head guardian told me so when I reported a boy that kicked my leg. I was a little badass then and I told her "I'm going to hit him too, but I don't like him" 😂😂 She made a face, but never commented something like that ever again. Luckily my mom told me that hitting randomly is not okay, but fighting back is a mandatory thing to do for our own safety. We can only truly count on our own strength to save us at the time of need 💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Would you give your phone number to a guy before meeting for the first time?I would never give my number to a stranger, the least he can do is spam me with calls and dm's. The worst? He could actually try and track me down with my number..... and stalk you. Once a man found my phone number and address only with my work Email. (I reported him to the police and never heard from him since) Imagine what he can do with the number itself??! NEVER GIVE YOUR NUMBER TO A STRANGER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:54 PM |
| 64 | And they wonder why we get irritable in publicAs I read this article I literally wanted to cry!!! I can't imagine being in this type of situation and not doing something to help this poor woman. I actually wish I were there, I would have attacked this animal and would try to at least hurt him enough to move him from her. I was hopeful to read she's a strong individual and I hope for her a fast recovery 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 7 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴I suspect ppl only see their aesthetics instead of actually learning about the horrible relationship they have between them 🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 8 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Omg yes, in my teens EVERYONE adored them as a couple and it only got worse with the new movies.... Like, Stockholm syndrome at its finest 😓😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 18 | Ofcourse he tried to mansplainLol the clown just blown his own cover 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 26 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.Aside of him being a delusional scrote, why the hell does he sits NAKED on a TOILET and think he's "The MaN oF tHe HoUsE" 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 2 | I just can’t. The duets with these couples is just disgustingNow that's actually peak comedy, abuser gets what's coming for him ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 8 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢6 ways that guys test you- "How some guys decide if they are going to respect you" says it all... The audacity of this "content creator" is off the charts, I think that's the worst out of them all 😒 Edit: just saw the (F-) in the thumbnail it actually makes it so much worse!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:41 AM |
| 34 | A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).Easy, this poor woman thinks she wants this abomination of a man, while he will never commit to her 💔 I hope she will look at the photos again and see how disrespectful he truly behaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 52 | A “Not Engaged!” Photoshoot. She’s the one who booked this session too. (The ring she’s wearing is a promise ring).And him cheekily doing the middle finger in the first photo is the icing on the cake 🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 7 | LVM really do b this worthless, jealous, and dangerous.Her face at the end, she was Terrified!!! I feel so scared for her if she lives in the same house as this nutjob 😔 In her place, I would at least show the footage to the parents, let them see what kind of a scrote they released to society... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 7 | That title...need I say more? Lol. (The first comment too)If you will address them as "these beauties", they have every right to get mad at you 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:51 AM |
| 22 | Beyond frustrating. The sad part is that guys will read this shit and think it’s how women want to be treated. And the comments..🤮I really hope it's a larp from a scrote, because if not, this poor woman needs therapy or a friend that will be able to distance her from her abusive bf... Wanting to get physically hurt (not even in a "sexual way") is sick (a disturbing coping mechanism is my guess) that hides a bigger and traumatic event from her past. In case this is real, I hope she will get some help from the comments (as a form of awakening to her inner problems) 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:48 AM |
| 47 | More normalisation of porn."Run a knife down her body"?!? Wtf he's a total Psycho!!!!!! I hope he's lying and that no girl will ever even think about sleeping with that freak 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 6 | How to rid yourself from pick me friends?Oof, man she's in it deep 😓 And she NEVER had a "partner" who made her feel bad? Because it's too strange that she's defending lvm like that... (Even my friend knew there were some scrotes out there, but I showed her that a lot of men are just lvm in disguise) And yeah, so I will too try to cut contact with her by saying "I am really sorry to say this, but I think we both have different approach in life. I feel like your state of mind is unhealthy and it brings me down every time we talk. I hope… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 8 | How to rid yourself from pick me friends?Aseaofqoutes comment was very helpful! But I must ask you, have you showed her FDS? I actually helped my best friend to convert herself from being a pickme just by showing her some posts from here (most of them were about nasty comments from men and some really inspirational quotes ✨) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Males like boobs and I dont have anyWhy are you beating yourself down for how your body looks? Don't worry about what men thinks about you, their opinion about your body means nothing if they can't seem to like you beyond that. I'm not saying you magically need to except yourself, it will be a long journey till you get there, but you can start with trying to see if you truly hate your body because of the influence of men, or because you yourself are bothered by it. By the start of your post, you said you never thought about it bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:27 PM |
| 5 | LVM can’t stand the idea of his wife being more successful than him 🙄This man is mental!! Fr, he needs to get on meds because even for a scrote, it's not a normal way to react... The usual scrote will just think "nice, more money for the family with 0% effort from me", when this guy goes full bananas and just tell her to "fuck off and stop putting yourself on a pedestal" when she literally did no such thing (she was happy for THEM, not for herself). Hope she will realize she's with a dangerous toxic man and will leave his broke ass to deal with he's anger issues … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:05 PM |
| 11 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesOmg this is something my mind has regressed, but it's unavoidable, I'm scared you're actually right 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 180 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesMike is so disgusting!! He's the kind of guy (not surprising) that doesn't consider "NO" as a legitimate answer... I honestly feel sick and scared for her and I hope she will tell her aunt so she will move to her place as fast as possible 💔💔💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes really love being up on women's businessThe fact that he thinks he has the right to judge her by the number of men she dated says a lot about him too. A scrote calling himself out 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 21 | Start your marriage off right by settling 🙂I bet his "love language" includes being inconsiderate about her feelings and dismissing anything that isn't about his well being..... I'm just sad she thinks she needs to defend him for treating her that way instead of realising how disrespectful he acted towards her by proposing her like he just ordered a take-out at Macdonald's 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.It was Cryaotic, but Ty for telling me about this man, I will know for sure not to seek this YouTuber out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:34 PM |
| 13 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.Yeah 😔 I always (foolishly) thought that he was a better person and that he's the last person who would do something like that (he always portrayed himself as a kind and delicate soul), and I too used to watch his gameplays for hours just to cheer up (after that I just got hooked to his type of gameplays and stayed for the long run). And yeah, after I heard what he had done, it felt to me like he had just died.... And he did, in a way. He was an actor, he played us all by introducing us to his p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:45 PM |
| 63 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.I'm not even surprised at this point, literally every single male that works in the entertainment businesses will have a scandal based on his depravity...... Just this year one of my favourite YouTubers which I followed for 10 years turned out to be a pedo and a groomer (using his popularity and influence from YouTube to engage with minors). When I heard this it broke my heart (at least, a part of my nostalgic memories) but since then I just tell myself that I should not trust any men to not "ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:47 AM |
| 6 | I really hope she will get away from him... He honestly sounds like a lunatic.So true!! I totally agree with you, nd even more so (if the relationship with the co-worker was the only problematic thing about him), I think he should have just respectfully distance himself from the co-worker (not intense hugs and tell her I love you??!!) Out of respect for his fiance. If you want to comment on her post, it's one of the firsts right now in the sub! She could use more support from us 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:38 AM |
| 43 | I really hope she will get away from him... He honestly sounds like a lunatic.In the comments, the more she talks about him , the more I wish she would just run away asap! He sounds like a grade SSS manipulator and a professional gaslighter, aside from physical abuser.... I'm with you on this, I hope he would go to the place he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:13 AM |
| 10 | Ok, I thought my last post was bad but this one takes the cake. The whole system facilitates male depravity.I'm so scared for the daughters!! Fr I hope the mother will tell them about the father so that they both reject coming to stay with the father on their own, so he won't have anything to say about that. Even more so, if the court will still make them go and stay with him, I hope the mother will tell them to sleep together and try and block the door every night. I hope the father will go to jail and I'm honestly hope for a good ending 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Love yourself because you will always have you for the rest of your life. 💚💚 Love yourself because life is short. Love yourself so you set examples for others too so they love themselves more.I will definitely add this quote to my "Stay strong" dictionary 🙌🏻💗💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!)Someone in the upper comments already commented on this and I removed the link , but Ty for being polite about it! 🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 14 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!)Ohh! So I will delete the link in the comment ☺️ Ty for the heads up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:40 AM |
| 28 | Saw this and felt ill, hope she listens to the comments and break up with Him ASAP! (Tried to crosspost, but didn't work, link is in the comments to show her support!)🌺 Got told it would hurt this sub if I released the link so I edited it out 🌺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 15 | The existence of the term “Choreplay” is sadThat's the first time I heard about "Choreplay" and I wished I had unheard it.... The concept itself is so stupid, getting horny about such a mundane act that you're just required to do if you live with someone else...... I hope even the pick mes will realize that cleaning isn't supposed to equal sexy time 🤦🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:25 AM |
| 20 | 😂The dead look in his eyes while he said it! I legit spurted my tea 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 38 | So sad :( the future is not brightThe way he's describing the "hate" from FDS sounds like a self reflection on how he treats women in general. Examples: 1) "...they view men as objects..." = He has no problems with objectifying women. 2) "...If they don't deem him as HVM he will be discarded..." = If he doesn't feel like his girl is HVW he has the right to just discard her like it's nothing. As soon as I finished reading he's "thesis" I knew everyone in the comments will be so salty af. Glad to see these clowns exposing themselv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 7 | I’m at a loss of words. This woman’s husband doesn’t give a shit about her or women in general and she’s asking what to do? How can people like this exist?She doesn't need an advice, she needs to run away from him.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 5 | When told she should devote herself to prayer and not debating or writing, Sor Juana Inés de la Cruz responded: "God would not have given women intellect if He did not want them to use it" 👑👸💅Tysm for sharing this, her story warmed my heart 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 13 | Tell me why you don't chase anyone anymore.Honestly? I'm and a virgin, never had a boyfriend and I never felt lonely or like I'm missing out on something in this life. Every time I had the opportunity to try and get together with someone, I always asked myself "do I truly feel like he's worth it? Will he ever contribute to my life as a SO more then he does as a friend's?" Literally every single time my answer was no, even to this day. Never felt any better 💗💗💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 11 | WoMeN DoN't CaRe AbOuT DiCk SiZe: a statistical visual representation.I'm actually concerned about the statistics of men searching for incest porn (mom, step mom, step sister etc...) 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:04 PM |
| 16 | I bet it's a man pretending to be a woman.Just some LVM larping as a woman, it's sad really... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:59 PM |
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