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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance? Edit: sorry this shit didn’t post as a list Double enter, not single Like This ~~~~~ Not Like This	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 07:10 PM
2	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Why are you trying so hard to twist and misunderstand what's being said to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 09:09 AM
3	So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection? Or buy a toy or sex doll? You can still easily deal with the physical urge to get off. Since this option is a) available and b) not already proposed as a solution by men themselves, it means that the problem as perceived by men is a lot more about feeling affection starved, rather than having a "physical urge to get off"	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 08:39 AM
1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong You're poisoning the well by assuming too many (false) things. If you don't fix your attitude I'm not interested in continuing this discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 05:10 PM
1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong Opportunity and occasional positive results are necessary conditions for empowerment in this context	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 05:05 PM
1	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong As someone who has been in both markers as the "chaser", with very different results, I have no idea what you're basing your position on	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 04:49 PM
1	Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship. Whaddayaknow, I've actually read the selfish gene. Disagreeing with the ridiculous notion that "half the planet is predatory" is not moral grandstanding, imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 03:32 PM
1	Women don’t seem to listen to men here nor care about what they are saying. This is perhaps most evident in their continually responding to every complaint men make about dating by implying they only want sex, when a good number of men here want companionship. Please just don't generalise half the planet as predatory, nobody gains anything from you having this opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 03:10 PM
2	Question for the women on here & I want you to genuinely think about it rather than impulsively answering. Unrelated, but you're very eloquent. Good job :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 08:07 AM
2	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong I'm honestly curious what your opinion on this is https://imgur.io/L9Vu4Zo	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 05:53 AM
8	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong It's such a small adult challenge compared to say, getting a job you like This is easier because you are judged with objective criteria and can negotiate your way in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 05:46 AM
2	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. Duh If you want a better answer, you can ask a better question	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 07:49 PM
6	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. It's only confirmation that "the wall" meme is pure, unadulterated, copium-fueled fantasy	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 06:50 PM
2	Have you ever changed your mind on a man you initially weren’t attracted to? Yikes	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 08:38 AM
0	Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference? I really don't have a dog in this fight so I don't care, plus I'd date a bi woman. But do you realise what a conversation killer this <identity>-phobic cliche is? Like, imagine if sexually starved or frustrated guys started using the term virginphobic to denigrate women who won't sleep with them due to their inexperience. Would you think they are making a reasonable argument and should be listened to? Attraction can't be negotiated	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 07:48 AM
2	question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men? how can we become less needy and require less validation if we don't get any validation. E xac tly And don't get me wrong, there's ways to semi-overcome it. Psychologists, fake it till you make it etc. But at the end of the day, there is no replacement for unconditional love or for missing out on validation during your formative years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:13 PM
2	question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men? I don't think it's a Catch 22 though. From Miriam-Webster: Definition of catch-22 1: a problematic situation for which the only solution is denied by a circumstance inherent in the problem or by a rule the show-business catch-22—no work unless you have an agent, no agent unless you've worked — Mary Murphy I am sure that there are ways we can adapt to be less affected by the lack of received validation. We need to engage good psychologists for that. Psychologists can help but there's some holes t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 05:00 PM
7	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. Yes, clearly my goal was to equate being single with being homeless, not to map your absurd logic on a familiar scenario that points out said absurdity. You got me. Also, the discussion was about "events where men aren't massively outnumbering women", not about "finding women". There's a difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 02:18 PM
3	question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men? It's also a catch 22 but fuck me, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 02:13 PM
18	Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men. homeless people should just buy a house tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/22 02:09 PM
1	Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps) Regarding your previous post, https://eddie-hernandez.com/online-dating-gender-ratios/ Regarding your latest post, https://imgur.com/gallery/zuiNchA Most men having more than one option at a time is a statistical improbability, as is more than half men being below average attractive Are you shitposting to just pass time? Genuine question	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 03:14 PM
4	Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps) He said "most men", not "most men u/beautifultomatillo matched with"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 10:35 AM
2	Hypothesis: If Tinder and the other OLD apps made a 5 match-at-a-time limitation that would greatly enhance OLD for the majority of users. (And greatly diminish the profit from the apps) Here's a change that would actually make a difference, every day at (eg) midnight, everyone who swiped right on you appear as the first candidates of the day for you to swipe on. I.e. the cocktease "pay to see who liked you" section is always empty, because the app serves them to you on a silver platter This is the only change that would turn the current casino apps into actual matchmaking apps. The rest of the changes are just seasoning	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/22 10:32 AM
3	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. Honestly I think they just play the "creep" card because they don't want to appear superficial. That was my thought but the words weren't coming to mind	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 07:22 PM
3	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. That's not what I said. You made a claim that you can tell the difference, and I answered that you usually behave as if you can't tell. So either you can tell the difference but behave the same, in which case whats the point of being able to tell the difference, or you legit can't tell the difference, in which case why brag you can tell if you can't	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:14 PM
3	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. You also thinking none of us cant see the difference from nervous and a creep. Not exactly, but most (not all) behave the same as if you were a creep, even if they can tell you're just nervous. I can count on one hand the amount of times the girl behaved differently and helped me overcome my nervousness. Also something about the halo effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 04:03 PM
4	Straight Women will judge the ways a guy asks them out, but only because they never have to do the asking out part. What's a good approach then? Where do you approach, what time of day, what do you say, do you do it when she's with her friends? Inb4 rules 1 and 2	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 03:59 PM
1	How are people supposed to find partners? I don’t know what to say to these posts. A hint would be in the title of the OP You’re either desirable or not. If you get no interest on OLD or real life then there’s not much more you can do. If you're desirable, you don't make a thread like that. If you're not desirable, you have exactly 2 options. Change (yourself, your approach, your standards, something) or don't change (pretty much your suggestion, "there's not much more you can do"). The OP is clearly interested in change, so your commen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 10:41 AM
0	How are people supposed to find partners? shattered faith Name of my new heavy metal band, thanks for the inspo	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/22 09:43 AM
1	What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"? Thought so	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:54 AM
1	What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"? Most men just want something to fuck and then get on with their day. 🙄 According to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:24 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Assuming only piv, excluding paid-for services, 4-29	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:17 AM
1	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men I'm not clueless and I am fairly sympathetic but what annoys me is how much men go from this to hating women and being.a sexist asshat. ...not that much, I think. Loud minority and all that. The phenomenon outlined by the OP mostly causes disillusionment (judging from how it has impacted me and my friends personally). Could be wrong, don't have any stats on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 04:26 PM
2	Displaying kindness can be attractive as true benevolence often comes from a position of abundance and confidence Unrelated, but gentle. Gentile is something completely different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/22 01:28 PM