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| 1 | So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant.Actually, upon speaking to someone who is in that field according to research pre-cum does not contain any ACTIVE sperm that can make you pregnant and therefore if the pull out method is used correctly it is effective. IUD's sound horrible to me, I have endrometeosis and do not want to risk having worse pains when I get them. I also take the pill on time btw, my risks right not are not high. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/11 04:09 PM |
| 3 | So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant.In a long term relationship I think anything to do with sex and how you do it is a couples issue and you should trust each other, not just yourself. As for sex outside relationships/beginning of or a short term relationship it should just be an individual issue and you should only trust yourself. This is just because of a simple fact: when you've been together for a long time and love each other, you should trust each other enough to be able to do anything without blame falling on just one perso… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/11 03:21 PM |
| 2 | So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant.However, some couples prefer not using one and it does seem to be a norm for quite a lot of long-term realtionships. I'm not talking about just one of them saying 'let's not use a condom' I'm talking about both which is normally the case. And if that is indeeed the case in this situation why blame the OP for making the bad decision when it would have also been his partner? To say he should have enough trust in his partner to tell her he still wants to wear a condom can also be said the other way… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/11 03:02 PM |
| 7 | So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant.You just didn't make it because you trusted your girlfriend, or liked sex better without a condom, etc. Of course you're going to trust your partner though. Is that not a vital part of any relationship? And if they had a conversation about this before hand such as what they'd do if she got pregnant, I do not see the problem with either of these decisions. It was HER choice to come off the birth control without telling him which was a retarded one, therefore it is her fault that things are turnin… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/11 02:45 PM |
| 5 | So my gf stopped taking the pill 4-6 months ago, without telling me, and last week found out that she's 17 weeks pregnant.This is probably one of the worst things a woman can do and I'd probably just say leave her and it is up to you whether you want to be a part of that childs life or not. It seems like a harsh thing to do but in reality she's decided for you both that it's time to have a child, which is a massive responsibility, even though she knows you're not ready for one or that neither of you can provide everything for it and thus it will create a war between the two of you. Under those circumstances, you sh… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/11 02:27 PM |
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