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| 3 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveI have seen tons of average and below average women get ridiculous amounts of dick. Men are animals, if it’s just casual sex a lot of them will fuck whatever they can. A relationship is another thing. But sex? As they say, “dick is cheap.” | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Women are more superficial than men. Key learning: if a girl ghosts, it's probably because she didn't physically find you attractiveIf you think 2022 is like 2000 you need to go outside or maybe turn the TV on | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfIt can’t but you happiness it just means you are successful. There are other ways life can go wrong. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Truth bomb - sleeping with women won't better your life by itselfBro it’s a PUA subreddit of course they do. This is why the “work on yourself” advice isn’t very helpful. You have to be good with women at the end of the day. Doesn’t have anything to do with mental health and there are guys who are not very successful who still find ways. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | 80+ online dates in 1 Year+, is it time to give up80+ dates in a year+? Why are you even posting here do you actually think the average guy here does that well lol | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 01:39 AM |
| 84 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Hooking up with those girls made things worse because you didn’t actually like those girls and deep down inside you’re looking for a relationship because you miss your ex. But eventually you will get over it. My advice is stop trying to get over it and just let it happen naturally. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 0 | The guys I know who attract the most women are among the most deeply insecure, arrogant, narcissistic, egotistical people that I know ofThe people who post their give off bad energy tho | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How to not feel bad about having casual sex?You don’t have to have casual sex if you don’t want to. People trying to force that stuff is one of the problems in todays society I think. Definitely not meant for everyone. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Being rude to the chick doesn’t make you a “bad boy”. It makes you an asshole(in a bad way).Ehh some of them do | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a 37 year old virginUhhh 37 is not exactly late for wrapping up your life. I mean that’s a very young age to retire lol | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 13 | Advice for a 37 year old virginWell that is an absolute crapshoot, and there’s a reason why a lot of women are unhappy with their relationships. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 12:20 AM |
| 2 | I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult.Having a good career isn’t a privilege, that’s something you usually make for yourself | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 01:32 PM |
| 6 | I envy all you lads who say women aren't difficult.This is a myth. You can be a total piece of shit and slay. You can also work hard and still fail. That’s life. You are actually putting women on a pedestal when you say shit like that. Being frustrated at lack of success with women =\= entitlement to anything. It’s a completely normal human reaction. Are women entitled whenever they express frustration with men? No. It’s the same thing. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresSome women do play hard to get | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.You cut off half of his sentence…. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Nah that doesn’t matter. You do not need to have a healthy attitude towards sex to convince a woman to have sex with you. Society clearly has not been working like that lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Tell that to women and you’re a misogynist. Not disagreeing. I just find that funny lol. Although. This mentality helps with getting laid, but it’s also extremely unhealthy. Deep down inside everybody needs some sympathy. Having to swallow all of those negative emotions will take its toll. It’s why being successful with women does not necessarily mean you will be happy. And also part of what women mean when they complain about toxic masculinity. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:10 AM |
| 4 | I spent many years dating, having sex and chasing womenA smart woman can find a good man easily, many women just make bad choices. Many men also make bad choices. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | You don't need high self esteem in order to be an attractive personYou can be a total piece of shit and have success with women, the “work on yourself” advice is ehh. Everyone should work on themselves. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | why doesn't game translate well within america?50k is not remotely good | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:02 PM |
| 4 | My friends fat female roommate hooking up with good looking guysThere are a lot of things in life men and women experience differently and that will never change. Never listen to people who tell you otherwise, they are delusional. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 03:48 AM |
| 2 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?No one can fuck that many people and keep their sanity lol. Fucking 100 people is like playing Russian roulette 100 times. It’s obviously a skill but it comes with baggage | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?That is what I was referring to, yes. But these social media pockets on the Internet attract sickos, a lot of guys want a relationship. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?Nah most guys have a hard time even getting dates or matches. It’s a minority of men who juggle and use women like that, and women kind of let those guys get away with it. In fact, for some reason feminism encourages women to put themselves in that situation. The average woman gets insane amounts of attention on dating apps, that’s just a fact. Even an above average guy has to work hard and do a lot of swiping to get matches and dates. It’s just how it works. The apps are very different experien… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 0 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?Boy has the definition of that word changed a lot | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 28 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?For the record, if you have slept with 100 men or women, you are most likely nuts | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoWhat kinda BS were you putting up with if you don’t mind me asking? Flaking? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 281 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayAgree to it and if she flakes again forget about her | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Getting girls is easyIt’s not lol modern society would just look different if it was | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 17 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?There is truth to it. A lot of women have a lot of bad experiences with men. It would be ridiculous to suggest that only good guys are successful with women, and that if a guy is not successful with women there must be something wrong with him and he’s a bad dude. Realistically, a lot of women do like toxic assholes. It’s just a sad fact of life. All you have to do to prove this is just go outside. It’s not hard to find. You can also just listen closely to women when they complain about men. Men… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:58 AM |
| 20 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeHonestly man, if you get catfished and the girl is a 6/10, that’s not so bad. Imagine getting catfished by a 3/10, that actually sucks. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 79 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Most guys don’t. None of the shit people preach here works that well when it’s a girl you actually give a shit about. The secret to sleeping with a lot of women has always been and always will be sleeping with girls you don’t actually like that much lol. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well I’ve seen it | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:40 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Expecting women to treat you like Brad Pitt when you are not Brad Pitt doesn’t work very well | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meThey liked a fake version of himself | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meFuck political correctness man, just stick to your own beliefs | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You’ve never seen an ugly guy slay bitches left and right before lol? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?Okay but why don’t they want to meet up for a second date and have sex if there wasn’t sex on the first date? It’s kind of stupid. Some people like to get to know you a bit before they get naked with you…. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Girl I was talking to for a bit ghosted me after a convo me and her had about “us”, I asked what’s going on she said she’s going through stuff and isn’t talking to anyone, just to find out she’s reconnecting with her ex.Society is fucked if people can’t show basic decency unless “tHeY oWe yOu sOmEtHiNg” | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Lower your standards, sleep with some fun women, and your abundance mindset will become real, and hotter girls more accessible.Ya that’s the secret to getting lots of women. Sleeping with girls you don’t like lol | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Why would someone come onto me so hard only to flake?Is it just me or does it seem like this has become a lot more common than it used to be? | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Things I can't tell my fwbI get you but there’s got to be a reason why they are FWB and not dating | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 17 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedI hate to say it, but you’d be surprised how immature and toxic people when they are in their 20s and 30s. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedYou know I had a girl do this to me. I said “What?” then she never responded, and I never asked again. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s 2022. Women use dating apps because they are trending and also because they are convenient. A decent looking girl can get literally 100s of likes in just a few hours. Get with the times. People use dating apps because everything is going digital. It’s convenient and easier. It also lets them have more control over who they interact with, they don’t have to talk to creep guys if they do not want to, unlike at bars. That is like saying people who use social media do not have friends in real l… | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You think the girls on dating apps don’t get approached constantly too? Of course they do. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Being too prideful hurting me?Girl 1 you should’ve texted again. Girl 2 was probably lying. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?Do you have any idea how dangerous slapping that label on angry mentally ill people is lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:03 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]Probably not dating material dude lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?Here’s one thing you should know and remember about women: a lot of them fuck and date the kind of guys they complain about, and that includes misogynistic guys. Of course, don’t be a misogynist. But when they are complaining about men? A lot of them are talking about the guys they date and have sex with. Watch out if a girl says “men are trash.” That girl likes trash. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | people on reddit always say things like "with that attitude no wonder you're a virgin/single" and "women are repulsed by you because you're a terrible person" but how much of it is true?Idk but tons of dudes with problems and mental health issues get laid. A lot of girls have bad experiences with men for a reason. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Forget her man. You’re not going to like being in that position. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They say that because they assume she’s done that with a lot of other dudes. Up to you to decide whether you think she does or not. But no BJ, no sex, ehhh. That leaves handjobs and making out. If it’s just making out honestly no reason to care. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:52 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]The most beautiful experience in your life was fucking another man’s wife. That’s kind of sad. Cool rhyme though. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yup | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!🧢 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!Even average and below average girls get tons of likes, people have done experiments with those kinds of profiles as well. Online dating for men simply sucks lol most women don’t realize it | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.Realistically the guys that get laid the most usually have major personality issues and low self worth. Not only do you not need good mental health to attract women, it’s not even going to help that much. Crazy people tend to be more adventurous and exciting. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Sometimes people actually are busy though | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 10 | Why does being brash and arrogant work so well with women?They don’t understand confidence and think that those arrogant men are secure. In reality everyone is insecure and some men are just good at hiding it. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Why do women love thugs so much?A bad boy is usually emotionally unstable deep down inside. He just hides it from women and finds the dumb ones who can’t figure it out. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:59 AM |
| 5 | Why do women love thugs so much?A lot of thugs end up sucking dick in prison, just so we’re clear | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | The real reason why most guys do not have a girlfriendOkay that makes sense | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | The real reason why most guys do not have a girlfriendTons of pathetic guys have girlfriends. Where does this myth that only stable guys who have their shit together get girlfriends come from? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:39 PM |
| 43 | Anyone else realize that most women don't really respect progressive men?Ya. A lot of women who complain about toxic men date toxic men. That’s why they complain. Being a sexist and racist is not a dealbreaker for these women if you check off some other boxes. It’s a painful realization. You will still get grouped in with those men of course when they are complaining too. Basically they see you as an invisible friend. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFYou should read the news more | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFBut they are dating and marrying losers lol. The losers are just Chads too. Well some of them. Think about it, you really think most women are happy with men these days? I’d say at best it’s 50/50. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 0 | I approached this girl, she sent me a lot of mixed signals but today I think I found out that I’m in the friendzoneHaving known her for 6 months doesn’t mean she can’t like him. If a girl really likes a guy and she encounters him on a semi-regular basis she will probably be open to the idea of dating him for awhile. I’ve known people who have gotten together after years of initially meeting and liking each other. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?You’re completely misunderstanding me lol. I’m not talking about myself. What I’m saying is that a lot of women have bad experiences with men. By bad experiences I mean relationships/FWB/ONS whatever you want to call it. In that case, there are at least a decent amount of shitty men who can get into relationships or have sex. If this wasn’t true then feminists wouldn’t be saying what they do when it comes to sex and dating. We don’t live in some utopia where women only date good men. You don’t n… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?“Men are trash” that’s what I hear a lot of women say. 🤷♂️ I doubt those particular women are talking about the guys they saw once and decided they never wanted to see again when they say that. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:25 PM |
| 6 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Both sexes need to look in the mirror. The world is way too complicated for it to be all on men. At the end of the day, a lot of women have a ton of guys that would date them. Some women are better at choosing from that pool of men than others. Women can be shitty to guys too, it’s not just men being shitty to women. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 14 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Problem is what you said isn’t true. Women complain about men so much. Despite what they say, many of them will date sexist men, racist men, violent men, all kinds of shitty men. That’s why many of them are complaining about men. Intentional or not, many of them reward bad behavior from men. They say they wouldn’t go out with bad kinds of men, but they have bad experiences with men because they do. It’s a pretty frustrating realization. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of the comedian Mike Davis breaking down Bill Maher's seduction attempt on his new show?Who the fuck is Mike Davis | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?No you haven’t lol | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 28 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?I have never met a man or woman with an actual high number of partners who is emotionally stable. I mean a REAL high number too, not the kind of number that a very conservative person would say is high. It’s a pretty genuine red flag. For example, my friend has a friend who brags she has slept with over 100 men. She’s fucking nuts. There’s no way you wouldn’t be fucking nuts after sleeping with that many men. And vice versa. To be fair, it’s possible she’s lying, but in that case she is still fu… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:13 PM |
| 17 | Why “nice” isn’t attractive, and why it actually makes senseI actually don’t know a lot of nice people. Society isn’t in a great place right now, so that’s more of a rarity. Women complain about men A LOT too so I wouldn’t say there’s tons of nice guys either. They say it’s the “bare minimum” but plenty of guys do less than the bare minimum and have success. It’s more accurate to say don’t be boring and don’t take shit from people. If you are nice but don’t do those two things you will be invisible to women. If you do those two things but you’re a douche… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Girls don’t need to go out of their way to meet attractive men, they will be approached by attractive men often. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Why does Pete Davidson date so MANY more Hollywood A-listers than his peers?The whole “not caring” thing is 100% fake. He copes with his depression by using humor. He’s got A LOT of problems and has contemplated suicide. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Why confidence and neediness are signals of your sexual value as a man (explained)This is why a lot of women have so many problems with men I think though. There really aren’t many men at all, if any, who are not insecure. If you don’t want an insecure man, you’re going to get either a guy who doesn’t truly open up to you and trust you or a guy whose too emotionally stupid to understand his own insecurities. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Ended first date on first base and interest in sex, but was told "you gave off friend vibes". Had a hard time physically escalating across a table in a restaurant, could I have done better?Yikes man | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you have success with mental illness?You don’t need good mental health to succeed with women. In fact…a lot of the guys who have the most success are toxic and have mental issues of their own. Just think about how “stable” characters like James Bond, Don Draper, Hank Moody, etc. are. A lot of girls like “bad boys” and bad boys tend to have issues. Perhaps you should try to accept your insecurities and separate them from your personality. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do you have any idea how easy it is for a woman to meet a 6’4 average looking guy? | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text GameMy problem with the PUA community is PUAs are simps who have brainwashed themselves to behave a certain way and fake their personalities. You don’t follow all these rules if you don’t put women on a pedestal. If you’re truly confident you just do what you want lol | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalForget about height, that’s just one box on a long list of boxes that some girls need to be checked off. You could be tall and have basically the same experience. The types of girls who care about height that much care about like 23 other things too. Just talk to girls until you meet one who isn’t a crazy bitch. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalSurgery is a bit more complicated than pressing a button and becoming taller…. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | One of the hardest realisations I learned in life: Being Alpha isn't about money or what you do.Most bad boys have a lot of issues. They’re just like those crazy girls with daddy issues that seek a lot of attention. It’s not really something to be admired IMO. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you sleep with 59 women by age 20 you are probably a mess tbh | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What if despite your insecurities, your failures, your mistakes, your past, and everything you resent about yourself, people still found you attractive? This is true confidenceYou can be a complete mess of a human being and attract lots of women. I see it happen all the time. And a lot of women have bad experiences with men too. They aren’t complaining about the guys they aren’t dating. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 04:37 PM |
| 9 | What things do women go through with dating?It is though. What do you think it’s about? Please don’t tell me feminism doesn’t have its problems. What a movement says it’s about and what it actually preaches are not always the same thing. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 30 | What things do women go through with dating?Modern day feminism telling women all men are trash and rapists but also pressuring women to have casual sex with men. It seems like a good way to make someone lose their mind. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nobody here knows. You can find out by making moves. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 4 | why does it seem like I have more success with women when I have a hot woman as a "wing woman" ?When women see a man with another woman, he looks more attractive to them. They want to know what makes that woman want to hang out with you. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:30 AM |
| 16 | 10 Months of Successful Dating in New York City: A Summary and AnalysisThis is why I don’t like serial dating. People who are dating several people at once are most likely going to be colder about dating. It certainly makes it easier. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Never a good sign when a girl tells you about stuff she’s done with other guys. Either she’s trying to test you or make you jealous, which is toxic and manipulative, or she just sees you as a friend. That’s the majority of the time. | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 3 | She flaked a second time without any excuse or rescheduling should I ghost her?Flakiness is shitty behavior. It’s rude. People should apologize for flaking and wasting other people’s time. But I agree that getting mad isn’t going to help. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Do women just despise/dislike/hate men who’ve gone through traumatic events in their (younger) lives?Plenty of men here would date very damaged women | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]And work. Work was a big one, let’s not kid ourselves. Still is just not socially acceptable anymore. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Or you get married and have kids. It does happen. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]That’s like telling women they can’t go around worrying about getting raped | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | The “There is no secret” finally clicked! (Rant)You don’t even have to be honest or have decent hygiene (please do though). | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Hook up with girls you don’t like that much. That’s how you do it. Or you can hookup with women you do like and eventually the emotional damage from them not wanting a relationship with you will numb you inside and you start burying your emotions. Is any of this actually a good idea? Well. Not really. That’s why I avoid it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 10 | It's time I admit I suck with women and will probably never be one of those men who are successful with them4 girls, 1 FWB and 35 dates is better than you think. Honestly you shouldn’t be beating yourself up if that’s your track record at 24. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 06:54 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]I disagree with this to an extent. Women aren’t dumb. They know how thirsty many guys are. They don’t like being gamed or manipulated, and they don’t want to be around guys who are creeps. They aren’t that quick to trust a man’s intentions even if they are interested. They will do things like playing hard to get to screen bad guys out. Ironically it tends to attract the wrong guys. I mean there’s PUA kinds of articles and websites for women and they get told to play hard to get lol. Now maybe th… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 0 | Girl flakes but invites me to a house party next day. Need some advice.Bailing and rescheduling is still flaking, especially if that person bails again | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nah an ugly girl can get tons of likes on a dating app in 24 hours. It’s been proven. I’ve seen it happen in real life too. Guys today are really thirsty. Most guys want relationships, it’s the guys who are banging multiple girls at a time that don’t, and those guys are a minority. The average guy is a thirsty horny animal. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:13 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Still doesn’t happen often and at the end of the day the statistic doesn’t carry any weight when someone less likely to get assaulted gets assaulted. But that’s neither here nor there. The few times I’ve been groped by a woman and the one time a drunk girl tried to force herself on me and started kissing my neck and biting me, honestly felt like an ego boost lol. That’s probably because it’s much harder for men to get attention and sex. But that’s kind of the point. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:33 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Tbh that’s a sexist way to look at both men and women | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Okay getting a lot of attention is awesome and here’s a secret, women don’t have to put that much effort into looking good. They do anyway, but they really don’t. Lots of thirsty desperate guys out there. Also if all women just stopped putting on makeup, nothing about the dating scene would change for them for the most part. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]That is overblown. The overwhelming majority of guys aren’t going to assault a women on a date. Women can also avoid dating those guys by protecting themselves. I’ve been “assaulted” by a few women before actually, I put quotations there because I don’t consider it assault but if the genders were reversed it definitely would’ve been seen that way. Women are not these innocent infallible creatures that are helpless around men though. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Because you met them at a bar. Text them the next day. Expect nothing though because these girls meet tons of guys every weekend and probably go out just to meet guys. Finding one that actually wants to date a guy she met at a bar is a crapshoot. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Just ended a the most successful Bumble Fling I had. Would like feedbackOpen relationships/casual sexual relationships only work when you actually don’t really like the other person that much. This girl wanted something open with you because you aren’t her first choice. I think you like her too much to not be bothered by it. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl flakes on me that I’ve already hooked up withThat’s why some men stay late at work when they don’t need to lol | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Don't chase doesn't apply to leo women.I don’t believe in Zodiac signs but I do think the idea that women only want men who tease them and don’t simp for them, things like that, is 100% bullshit. Some women want to be the asshole in the relationship and basically want a manservant. These women want submissive men. I wouldn’t even call it uncommon. Also it’s not like women don’t know about the stuff some men read about “game” or that there aren’t similar things written for women. To be fair though, I think “pick-up artists” are trying… | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Using her for sex would be fucked up. The guys who get laid the most tend to do fucked up things like that. Of course you could make your intentions clear. But chances are she would still get attached and hope you would come around later. You need to decide what kind of man you want to be and what your values are. My two cents, most people don’t do casual sex ethically and it’s very hard to do it ethically to begin with. Maybe you’re more of a relationship kind of guy, like me. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:58 AM |
| 7 | Should I keep dating a girl I don’t like for practice?That would be a shitty thing to do but it’s also not uncommon. Surprised how many people here are telling you not to do it. It is a fucked up thing to do though. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:53 AM |
| 7 | What to do when a girl flakes on me that I’ve already hooked up withThere are a decent amount of girls who are nuts. They play mind games and do shit that doesn’t make sense, sometimes to test you and get a reaction. I usually assume these girls who pull that shit are emotionally damaged from bad experiences with men and/or they are bipolar. If you play along with this girls BS you might hook up with her again at some point, but she’s crazy and men should stop rewarding that behavior IMO. For the record, there’s a decent amount of bad guys too. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 09:10 PM |
| 30 | [deleted by user]You don’t owe her a friendship and idk if she’s making that much of a big deal over it that’s weird honestly. If she wants you in her life that badly then she should date you. Kinda feels like she’s keeping you on the back burner. I don’t think you’re being needy either, the needy thing to do would be to stay friends with her. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]First thing you do is lose that crush. Easier said than done and sometimes it just happens. But you do NOT want to have a crush on someone you haven’t even asked out yet. It is bad bad bad bad bad. It fucks with your head. It’s almost kind of like a episodic mental illness that most guys experience every now and then. Try to snap out of it. Idk how but just remember that she shits, probably smells at some point in the day like everybody else, might have a terrible personality or tons of baggage.… | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 8 | I am a low-value man. How do I transform into a better one?Start telling yourself your high value. Tons of women date “low value men” you just have to be assertive but not needy. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sadly a significant number of those girls don’t outgrow that in their 20s | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Why does girl only look at my story when I look at hers?Just ask her out for fucks sake | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Don't try to be friends with a girl you really wanted to date, it's usually a really bad idea. It'd be one thing if you were only a little interested in her. If you feel jealous it's already too late, she's in your head. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just ignore her. You don't owe her anything. You don't need to accommodate a girl who isn't interested in you. Put yourself first. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I hate that she stopped kissing a guy because she saw you. What good does that do anyone? If she started flirting with you after rejecting you, she probably likes stringing you along. That’s why she stopped making out with that guy, because she wants you to keep chasing her and giving her attention. Do what she doesn’t want you to do, which is ignore her, because it will help you move on and stop giving a shit about her. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 2 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedPlayers deep down inside really do put women on a pedestal. They just play a mental trick on themselves and tell themselves all sorts of bullshit. In reality, players are so needy that they invest all this time and energy into figuring out women and faking a personality instead of being themselves. Then they talk to as many women as possible to maximize their chances of getting laid. If they truly didn’t give a shit they wouldn’t get so deep into it. But it does work to an extent lol. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Don't be this guy (RANT)So now you’re saying only bad people date bad people. So anyone whose had a bad relationship must be a bad person then. Okay lol | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Getting matches, or even dates, is cope.60 matches isn’t bad, the number of dates is rough but…it’s brutal out there these days lol | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Don't be this guy (RANT)No no no no. Wrong. Not true. Lots of women have tons of bad experiences with men lol let’s not tell lies and say they don’t date bad dudes. You can be trash and get tons of women. You can have a shitty outlook too. Heck it’s not like society is in a great state right now, lots of negative people are dating and having sex. | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Absolutely blew my chance of getting laid in a nightclubPossible her friends got jealous, also possible that girl just wanted to make out with a guy at a club and never see him again | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolNah I never said that. Just said women who date a lot of assholes are usually bad prospects, this is because they have shit taste, develop insecurities and become cynical and bitter about men. Not fun to deal with, at least if you take a girl like that seriously. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 5 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolWell women who date guys who treat them like shit usually don’t come out stable or healthy by the end of it. If a woman genuinely does not want to date a guy who doesn’t treat her like crap then yeah, she’s a bad prospect. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:45 PM |
| 35 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolWell it’s not the bare minimum because plenty of women will date and sleep with guys who don’t respect them and don’t give a shit about them. Just how it is. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 4 | How often do women approach men?When a woman approaches you first there’s usually a catch lol | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride?Ehhh if you look beneath the surface their lives might not be as fulfilling as you think | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodUSA women have it so easy compared to the women of most other countries. Those women need feminism so much more and yet they aren’t man-hating raving lunatics about it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodI went there first but the advice there is so bad I ended up coming here. At least the advice here is genuine. I also got downvoted to oblivion there once because I said not all men freak out when you reject them. Apparently saying “not all men” is sexist. It’s like anything less than chopping off my balls and apologizing for being a man is sexist lol | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Got ghosted after being called a fuckboyNot everything is a shit test | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 09:24 PM |
| -2 | Even the women you swipe left on are getting 100s of likesThat’s why there is no double-standard. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:37 PM |
| 3 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceGoing out of your way to tell people lies about yourself is not normal. Big red flag. And I would say I tell the truth most of the time and so do a lot of people. But also, when people lie, it’s usually in response to a question they’re being asked. Straight up telling people lies without being asked anything to create a false image so they like you? Gtfo here that’s bad news lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 6 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceEhhhh I sorta tried that once, if they’re the type to lie about this stuff they might still hide it from you. And if she trusts you that much she’s probably not attracted to you at all lol. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 04:52 AM |
| 13 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceUhhh people who don’t like being lied to, which is probably a large amount of people? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceShe wanted you to think of her as relationship material so she told you lies about herself (because she isn’t). | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?Ask her out one more time. If she gives another weird answer tell her you can’t tell if she wants to meet up or not. Do it in a non-needy way that communicates that you don’t really care if she doesn’t want to meet up, you just can’t tell where she’s at. If that doesn’t change anything then forget this girl. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ever heard of a foodie call | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you never call them out on flaking they will keep doing it to you though. I think guys have to find a balance or else we look like pushovers. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You probably have your shit together then | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Few will admit it here but that’s how it is for most guys. Even Chad. They’ll tell you “don’t be needy.” Then they’ll tell you to pretend to be less interested and put on a fake personality to get one particular woman, which is incredibly needy lol. This shit doesn’t work as well when you actually give a shit about the girl. This is why some people are scared of catching feelings to begin with. All you can really do is get your shit together and hopefully that will get the girls you really want … | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 04:23 PM |
| 2 | It seems our society, especially after the Me Too movement, has become increasingly emasculated and cucked. Has this impacted the seduction community in any way?If you think it’s bullshit then please explain to me why society is slowly collapsing. Orange man got elected once for a reason. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 4 | women having all the power to selectLol you just described a lot more work than women have to do. It’s just how it goes, men have to do most of the work to make things happen. Even average looking women get approached a lot. Men have to actually make things happen. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Sir this is a Wendy’s | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | Should I swype right on a girl that lives in the same house in my dorm?Get off the app and talk to her in real life. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?Jesus man what you are saying is not something that comes from a happy place | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Most realistic way to get abundance is to lower your standards and not be picky lol | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is saying that you don’t particularly enjoy how modern dating looks a turn off?Yeah but how many people actually have fun dating lol? A lot of women are very cynical and jaded about men. And even PUAs are cynical about women. They can package their advice and dress it up anyway they like, but at it’s core it’s dark and cynical. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So you’re a professional killer for MI6 who was orphaned as a child | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Did she have a bad relationship with her father and/or bad experiences with men in her past? | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]This reminds me of an experience I had with a girl. She would shit test me in nasty ways. I would play it cool…then she would just come up with an even nastier way to shit test me. It was like she was trying to get a reaction out of me, trying to find where the line was. The thing is that a lot of shit tests feel disrespectful too, so it can get to the point where you have to call them out, but how do you go about that? I guess at that point your probably supposed to cut the girl off lol. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Straight from the horse's mouth: "a High Value Man does not force monogamy on a woman...these men LOVE competition and understand that a woman can entertain multiple suitors until commitment is established."Arguably if he was a good guy he wouldn’t just use her and cast her aside either | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Got laid in a LibraryNo way this happened lol. Calling a girl a cunt to her face is never the move. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Rose McGowan is not a hypocriteShe defended Asia Argento and just tried to pass off a lewd remark from over 20 years ago as comparable to rape, the kind of thing she’s said MeToo isn’t for. She is definitely a hypocrite. In fact I don’t think Rose McGowan is a very good person. | /r/MensRights | 10/05/20 07:08 AM |
| 5 | Amber Heard admits to hitting ex-husband Johnny Depp and pelting him with pots, pans and vases in audio confession.There was never any credible evidence, including that tape of him. There was no probative supporting evidence. She dropped the charges too. People just read headlines and never understood the situation. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 18 | Amber Heard admits to hitting ex-husband Johnny Depp and pelting him with pots, pans and vases in audio confession.He’s got a 30 page complaint accusing her of lying and in it he has a metric fuck ton of evidence, including 87 surveillance tapes, 17 eye witnesses, audiotapes, police reports, etc....you really need to take this more seriously. She has no credible evidence. He has a mountain. And she’s also been lying this whole time and speaking at rallies, using this to elevate her career. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/02/20 05:47 PM |
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