Megachillx Archive

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1	Looking for opinions: what is showing value? Value is not something you show her, it's something she sees from you bringing her into her world. You don't want to try to impress her, but when you bring her into your world and its a lot of fun to her, you're being a high value guy. Also you have to have firm beliefs and boundaries. Nobody crosses them and you are willing to walk away from ppl that don't respect them. It shows you value yourself, making you a valuable person that she can respect.	/r/seduction	29/04/16 08:13 PM
1	Is there a taboo when it comes to approaching women in certain places? That guy is fucking retarded. He is making an assumption based on his own thoughts. SOME women don't want to be bothered, we all have those times where we just want to be left alone. It is written all over their face. You will tell when someone wants to be left alone in the first 10 seconds, whereas, you could brighten up their day. I've approached girls thinking it was going to go terrible, but they lit up and it was a lot different than I thought. I would never do an approach when you are in t…	/r/seduction	23/04/16 01:17 AM
1	At a crossroads here with college, life, and seduction. Could use some thoughts. Your college friends won't just turn into nothing once you leave college. You can still go to college parties and shit. We go and game at random colleges we've never been to all the time. There are a million other places to meet women besides college anyways.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 03:15 PM
1	Is it more difficult to pull the host of the party? Any experiences? Any time a girl goes to a party, she is looking for an experience. If it's her birthday party, she wants to have an amazing birthday party. She will want to have a bunch of different conversations, dance, drink, have fun. Talk to a bunch of different guys. Girls go out for an amazing experience, they want to be full of a lot of different emotions. The last thing they want to do is talk to only one guy the entire night. So your best bet is to chat her up for 2 minutes, leave, go talk to other gir…	/r/seduction	13/04/16 03:12 PM
2	My first cold approach! Your goal when approaching a girl should be nothing other than to have a genuine conversation. If you go in wanting a number or a date, you've already failed. Good job, but just keep that in mind. Don't be sold so easily.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 03:06 PM
2	100 Days of Seduction Day 1 Learning to Crawl Just from the outside looking in. First off good job, you're already doing better than 60% of the people on this forum, I can promise you that. Second, I've done hundreds and hundreds of approaches in the day time, not a massive vet yet but one thing I've learned:MY FIRST TEN APPROACHES RARELY GO GOOD. We are all naturally logical beings. Especially myself, if I was to be thrown in front of a attractive girl right now, I would hold a conversation with her, but not one that would lead anywhere. W…	/r/seduction	13/04/16 02:32 PM
1	Approaching girls walking past me? If it's the daytime, it's completely fine to to give a girl a LIGHT compliment. But how you say it is it's no big deal she is hot, you aren't sold yet because of that. Most guy's vocal tonality comes off that they're already in to her just cause she looks good. I would be very careful on approaching her head on. The only time I'd do this is if you make eye contact, smile and while she is looking at you you walk right in front of her. BUT 9/10 if you have strong eyes, they will hold that eye cont…	/r/seduction	13/04/16 02:12 PM
1	Could I get a list of better compliments than 'cutie' or 'beautiful'? You're focusing on the wrong things. You will never win a girl over by just complimenting her.	/r/seduction	11/04/16 01:58 PM
2	Is being short is a really big deal ? IT IS ONLY A BIG DEAL IF YOU MAKE IT A BIG DEAL. The guys that are unsuccessful with girls use excuses like being short as a reason why they aren't successful. Guys that are successful with girls OWN WHO THEY ARE. If you are short, own that shit. Don't try to be someone you're not and girls will love you for that.	/r/seduction	10/04/16 02:45 PM
1	[Day Game] Social Anxiety- Will this approach work? If I ever feel really nervous when I'm approaching a girl. I will admit to it, one of the biggest lessons I've learned is calling the elephant in the room. If she is nervous, or if I'm nervous. So I'll say "hey, this is random as hell.. but I was just on my way to the train station, and I seen you and just had to come meet you. I'm really nervous right now, but I thought you looked really nice.."	/r/seduction	10/04/16 02:43 PM
1	Does race matter when you are picking up girls? I say yes race does matter. As an American, if I go to countries south of here, I get a lot of extra attention from spanish girls. It's because I'm different than what they're used to. A lot of girls also like me because of my green card as well though haha. But this is how I look at it, girls who are in their home country will generally be more interested in the foreign guys over the others because it's a different experience. Interest is a small part of the game though. There is so much more t…	/r/seduction	10/04/16 02:33 PM
1	Is it much harder to get girls if you don't really have any friends? I believe the in group and out group bias are real. Lets say you're in college and you approach and chat up a girl in your study group, you will have a lot more common ground and she will be a lot more receptive to you than some random girl on the street. Not saying that you won't be successful in both, but it's a lot easier to connect with girls in your social group than cold approaching. I call it the 'in-group bias'. But if you don't have any friends, then go out and get friends. This will re…	/r/seduction	10/04/16 02:12 PM
2	I'm too obsessive about getting laid and it's getting to me. Just needed to vent, need some motivation. Psychocist post is on point. You can't be outcome dependent. Look at it this way, women want to get laid more than you. I promise you that, but you don't see it because they hide it very well. Your emotions are based on other people's responses to you (women wanting you or you approaching a woman). You're living life on a damn roller coaster that way and on the inside it makes you a mess. BUT, if you stop doing pick-up and go out and spend those weekends doing things you've always wanted to do a…	/r/seduction	10/04/16 01:52 PM
1	Extreme approach anxiety and it's cure There is no easy way to overcome approach anxiety. I promise you that. I like books, but the more books you read, the more confused and disconnected you will be. Read one solid book that covers the basics and go out and face your fears. Be that friendly guy that talks to everyone. You will have some assholes (male and female) that ignore you or whatever, but don't let it phase you. Just in your everyday life, make that small talk and it will pay-off in dividends on you conversationally as a pers…	/r/seduction	10/04/16 01:38 PM
1	Direct VS Indirect Openers: Which Is Better? (+Infield Examples) My personal experience Daygame-Direct Nightgame-Indirect	/r/seduction	01/04/16 07:31 PM
4	Can't go beyond "good morning, how are you?" Instead of "morning, how are you" be direct, have purpose to why you're approaching her. Say "hey, this is going to sound really random.. but I was just over there and was walking by and I seen you and just had to come meet you.. I think you look really nice. no pause insert something you noticed about her that was the reason you came over" it doesn't have to be a scripted line, but just have purpose on why you're coming over and tell her that. Everyone asks her how she is doing, nobody directly…	/r/seduction	01/04/16 05:41 PM
3	Total beginner Also to comment on your small community. I can promise you there are a lot of ppl that approach women cold in your community. There is nothing wrong with it. You will never find success if you don't believe in what you're doing. Just don't go out only to approach girls. As you're doing you are in your everyday life, when you see a girl go talk to her. No excuses, go do it. Fuck what other ppl think about you.	/r/seduction	29/03/16 07:29 PM
5	Total beginner There are three phases to gaming without including text game. Attraction, rapport, and seduction. I'm sure you've seen those somewhere. They have to occur in that order. If you meet a girl and try to connect and have a friendly conversation with her off rip, you will be friend zoned and be that non threatening guy she doesn't fuck. Most guys do this and it's why they fail. You have to be light and playful in the first few minutes. Joking and teasing with her.. which is easier said than done. Rag…	/r/seduction	29/03/16 07:22 PM
3	I have a question about eye contact I think eye contact is important and you can go in different directions with this scenario. You can look off in the distance with her, but keep her eyes in your peripherals. That way when she turns to look at you, you'll see it and can shift and look back at her. Or you can tease her about her being nervous/shy because she doesn't hold good eye contact. Or you can tell her you like it when she looks at you when you talk... lead lead lead. Each one does different things. But it's more of what YOU…	/r/seduction	29/03/16 06:42 PM
6	fear of women stopping me from approaching and seducing I feel like you have that anxiety with women because you haven't approached a lot of women. When I first started I was nervous as hell and the first 50 girls I approached I was nervous as hell, but as you do it and gain that experience and train that social muscle, you'll start to have amazing experiences and not care about the bad ones. LOOKS DONT MATTER. Now you should dress well, but your core looks don't matter. As long as you live a healthy lifestyle, work out and dress well this is just an…	/r/seduction	26/03/16 07:20 PM