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It’s not a dealbreaker. Plenty of women would prefer a shy or mild mannered guy. On the contrary no woman with a modicum of self esteem is interested in manosphere “alpha” types. The funny thing is, while they may think that they’ve “transitioned” into an alpha, to borrow from the transphobes, we can always tell.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/26 03:46 PM
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This is kind of besides the point, but I think Megan Fox is in her prime now.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 05:08 AM
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I think you’re projecting the way men think onto women. Unless she’s exceptionally unattractive, she has options.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/26 05:07 AM
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Just pretend you never heard the term “hypergamy” and continue life as usual.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/26 08:27 AM
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Gee, well I’m sorry it didn’t work out with women wanting to have sex with you.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 09:59 AM
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Lol this is delulu AF.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/25 03:42 AM
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That pretty much checks out with the things she says.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/25 10:56 AM
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Because I wasn’t born with ovaries (transsexual). Most women would not need or benefit from Hrt that early because you already have ovaries producing estrogen. It’s in your mid to late 30s that you want to keep an eye on your estrogen levels as they will start to drop.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/25 02:33 AM
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At the same time, if a woman looks amazing in her 40s she probably will for life. I see the same in men too.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/25 06:53 AM
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With skincare, spf, HRT and advances in plastic surgery that argument is becoming irrelevant. I have glass skin in my 40s and regularly get hit on by guys half my age. No one cares about your age if you don’t look it. If a woman does all this and starts HRT before her hormones drop off she can avoid most signs of aging. In my case I jumped the queue because I started HRT in my early 20s.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/25 06:51 AM
6

More like Pick Me University.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/25 01:04 PM
1

Maybe you should go to sex clubs and engage in meaningless NSA sex just to get it out of your system.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 05:15 AM
9

Leave while you can.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 03:04 AM
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Omg please GTFO of there. He’s past the point of no return.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/23 02:26 PM
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I think you’re lost, little boy. This is the EX-redpill sub.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:06 AM
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Maybe you can start by thinking of her aspects you’re grateful for. In general and relating to sex. You might start to find that you’re very fortunate to have an experienced woman who after all of her experiences is choosing to be with you. Sure the RP guys would call you a “cuck”, but really they just can’t spell “lucky”. You are here because you know they’re wrong. I’m glad you asked the question and I wish you happiness together!
/r/ExRedPill27/10/22 09:35 AM
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Says the person who needs therapy the most.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 03:55 PM
12

You still think body count is a thing. You’re not there yet.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 03:53 PM
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Thank god you are out of there. You did your best because you’re a genuine person who is capable and deserving of love. He is a lost cause.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 11:45 AM
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More often than not, if you’re not a millionaire+ you don’t have to worry about women being with you if they’re not attracted to you. It’s just not a thing no matter how much RP claims it is. Being a “safe/stable” guy is a good thing and it’s what most women would want in a long term relationship. If that’s you then you’ve got the goods. And in my experience the more I can trust someone the better sex and intimacy becomes. And actually it’s not a bad thing if a woman fantasizes about past encoun…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 01:45 AM
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“‘Contraceptives’, whatever that means” Lol. Dude...
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:16 AM
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It sounds like a strip mall salad bar.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 06:05 PM
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What the actual fuck.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 03:49 AM
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You’ve got to stop bargaining with the red pill. “Not like the other PUA’s” is just a gimmick. If you want advice about how to interact with women talk to an older man or woman you look up to.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 09:37 PM
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Lol sorry but that’s just not true at all. You can’t speak in absolutes because you’ll always be wrong. Women aren’t NPCs, they’re individuals with their own desires and motives. For some an older guy especially one who looks young is a win/win. More mature, secure in himself, successful and attractive? I’d chose that over a young hot guy with nothing else going for him any day. And honestly he could look 50+ and it wouldn’t bother me at all.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 10:05 AM
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I appreciate that you turned to ex RP rather than the Red Pill in your darkest hour. That is a good sign that you are heading toward healing.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 08:01 AM
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Agreed 💯
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 05:10 PM
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As others said, there’s no shame in seeing escorts if you’re treating them respectfully and not cheating on anyone. It’s kind of cool that you took on extra work to afford it; that’s what people do when they want something! Think of it this way, you’re a hardworking guy who has been with hundreds of beautiful women. When I was an escort I actually enjoyed it for the most part and some guys I was really attracted to even if they wouldn’t have been my type in regular life. It’s kind of like teache…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 01:11 AM
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You don’t own her and who she wants to talk to is her own private business. She has a much longer history with him than she does with you and for whatever reasons they have maintained a strong friendship. He’s married now, but so what? Maybe they weren’t cut out to be married to each other, that doesn’t negate the connection they had. Some might feel that she should keep it to herself and just not tell you about it, I almost suggested that. But actually I think this way is for the best, she does…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 01:09 PM
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I’d try something not typically masculine or gendered. Maybe even something you’d previously avoided because you didn’t want to be teased for it.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 07:34 AM
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I wish it were that simple. Unfortunately not all of my travel experiences were pleasant, though some were great. People can be messed up in a myriad of ways, the men who pay for companionship are no exception. The one and done guys were kind of the best; so long as they pay and are respectful it’s really just a bonus if they come back again. I preferred honest simple transactions with no games. The vacation guys have the potential to be the worst because some are doing it for the arm candy ego …
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 02:27 PM
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No doubt there are men finding themselves in that position. But my original point was just that identifying with that group may only serve to perpetuate the unwanted situation.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 04:08 AM
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Yea no one is saying that those two words didn’t exist before. But putting them together and coining the term and the concept of “incel” is another thing. It’s creating an identity for people of various mainly psychological problems to congregate under. And quite plainly it was created by the same people offering the cure.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 03:51 AM
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Former sex worker and SB here. I’ve been taken on vacations, flown out to different countries but it’s never an all you can eat buffet. I’m sure there are girls who get into situations like that, especially if they are trafficked or working for a pimp. But for an independent SW it’s up to you to set your boundaries and terms of an arrangement. Only really messed up guys would expect sex on demand in a vacation situation. You do your best to filter them out. Most will want a more natural experien…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 03:41 AM
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It’s literally a made up term by the Red Pill PUA gurus. You’re continuing to believe it’s a thing. Can you not see that you’re still being duped by their philosophical attempt to redefine reality?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 03:15 AM
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You’re gonna have to spit out that red pill at some point. Otherwise what are you even doing here?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 03:09 AM
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Everyone is involuntarily celibate. To propose this voluntary vs involuntary dichotomy completely obliterates the notion of consent by the other party. It’s rapey AF and only serves to justify rape which is bad news all around. A “Chad” doesn’t just decide to have sex, he has to find a willing partner. Even sex workers can say no if they want to unless they’re chained to a bed and coerced in which case it’s rape. And it might surprise you that even the Chads get turned down, especially if they a…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 03:04 AM
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Is this sub just full of trolls recently or what?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 03:50 PM
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It seems like this is a kink of yours based on your username and how frequently you post about it. I’ve encountered men who enjoy being humiliated for whatever whether it’s height, penis size, race you name it. It’s actually quite common in the fetish world and as someone who got paid to do it it I’ve seen it all. But it’s annoying AF and a waste of time for people trying earnestly to help you.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 05:40 PM
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A suggestion is to stop identifying as an incel. The only people deserving of bashing are those who are exploiting the vulnerable ie. who have you believe you are an incel.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:03 AM
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Seems designed to shuttle people into the red pill because they’d be so pent up.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 03:36 AM
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Because western women know they’re losers.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 03:22 AM
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I think this is more common among certain cultures. I don’t know why but I’ve experienced this the most from Indian men. Not all of course, but there’s a certain type. It seems to involve complete disregard for what the woman wants or feels, and perhaps their logic is if they are persistent then they’ll wear down your or the next girl’s boundaries enough to get a taste of gratification. I’ve also heard that men get a boost of testosterone by interacting or flirting with attractive (to them) wome…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 10:00 AM
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Yep they both hate trans people.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:35 AM
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He’s not unattractive, just overweight.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 05:37 AM
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The sooner you purge that ideology the better. You have to stop bargaining with it and expecting it to make sense. No, not all girls will cheat on you. You have no reason to ever anticipate that. Focus on having a strong and fulfilling relationship and it will be unlikely.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 01:07 PM
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Yes it is a myth unless you are exceptionally attractive and charming. The reason those girl gave their number and then all flaked out was likely because they didn’t want to give it in the first place but you put them in an awkward position. There are women especially younger who might have trouble enforcing their personal boundaries. They don’t want to be rude and they also might be afraid or even just think you could be a platonic friend. You gave an example of a bar or night club and that’s a…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 12:12 PM
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Sigh. Low value man is red pill terminology. In the old days we just called that “loser” at worst. If you’re young it just sounds like you have pretty normal self esteem issues and you need to work on yourself. If your job doesn’t pay enough think about how to earn more. Forget this specter of high vs low value.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:23 AM
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If he’s over 30, yes.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 02:29 PM
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I agree that offering your number is a better way, but it’s good if it comes naturally after a mutually enjoyable conversation. It can be nice to unexpectedly meet someone, but sometimes it’s very obvious that they are following a PUA script which becomes an instant turn off. Because if I suss that out, it indicates he is on the prowl and that any girl will do. This would take away any sense of magic or authenticity about the encounter.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 05:47 AM
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What do you like? If you have preferences so do women. Don’t worry about what women in general like. You are you and the woman you will find will be the kind that you like and likes you in return. Don’t despair, just keep your smelly areas clean and floss.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 11:52 AM
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I never appreciate being approached by a stranger who I made no prior connection with. It’s another thing if we locked eyes, or bumped into each other or otherwise showed a mutual interest. But when someone jumps out of the figurative bushes and announces that they’ve been watching me and think I’m pretty etc, it makes me want to get away from them even if they’re good looking.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 09:12 AM
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I’m not familiar with this hit the wall terminology but some of the happiest women I know are single. Some were unhappily married and had kids and now are living their best lives as single retirees. Others never married because it didn’t suit them and prefer to have strong friendships and care for animals, plants etc. There’s no right or wrong way to go, people will live how their inclined to live. The problem with RP is that it has you thinking of women only in terms of what they can provide fo…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/22 01:29 PM
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Is this not ex-redpill? Marriage is about love; for some that extends to building a family. Love is not just to give you carnal pleasure. It’s about everything else, and taking care of one another. Some people are more providers while others are nurturers. This usually is men and women respectively but not always.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/22 04:06 AM
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Wow that was very messed up, like “grab em by the p*y” level.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/22 12:03 PM
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I just would not listen to what anyone called Coach Red Pill says about anything.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 02:15 PM
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You’re young and you’re going through depression and growing pains. This is 100% normal and predates all the RP stuff. Talk to any (non-RP) older man and listen to what they say about when they were your age and how they managed to find their way. RP people will make it seem as if the world was different back then and that the game has changed because feminism etc. That’s a load of BS and only serves to cut you off from the wisdom of your elders. Very obvious cult tactics.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 10:27 AM
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I’m so sorry, that is just awful. Is he the father of your child? If not I would recommend a clean break. I hope he can deprogram and come back to reality but unfortunately he has so much reinforcement in his echo chamber that it could be a while if ever. First things first is to stop playing along. I hope to god it’s not his child because these guys can be nightmares in custody battles. Wishing you the best.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 10:20 AM
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Um like, ask girls out?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 05:55 PM
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If he ever accuses you of solipism, run.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 09:01 AM
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That’s not trans ideology, that non-binary genderqueer ideology. Most actual trans people very much believe in the biological basis of gender.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 11:17 AM
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I’m really tired so I can’t put too much effort into replying, but I wanted to anyway. 1) I’m 15 years post op (transsexual woman) and I want to say there’s a lot of confusion about what transgender ideology is. In short, there is no such thing. The loudest trans activists these days, the 1000 genders people, are usually not transsexuals in the clinical sense. They have perpetuated the notion that anyone can be trans (without actual dysphoria or even transitioning). This leads to awkward situati…
/r/ExRedPill21/07/21 11:14 AM
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Even if your nuanced theory turns out to be true for a lot of women, is it really bad? I think that’s just life! Of course many young women will fuck a lot of hot guys before they’re ready to settle down. Good for them! And then once they get tired of that and want a stable longterm partner in their 30s, they find one! 30-something is not old, and it’s not like they are suddenly desperate. Most normal guys in their 30s will also be looking for women their age. Then they will probably get married…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 03:40 PM
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I know a lot of single senior women who love their lives. Most had suffered for years with awful husbands who cheated, gambled or abused them. They are at peace because they are no longer looking for a man to complete them. They enjoy fun with family and friends and pursuing hobbies that fulfill them.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 02:07 PM
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It is heartening to see how you’ve grown and realized your errors. I’d you are still in friendly contact, I would suggest treating the prospect with her as if it’s already dead. If you still have a glimmer of hope it will taint your friendship with her and she will always feel that you’re after something. If she still has an ear to listen, you might tell her about the RP and how it influences you to behave that way. She might have some insight into it from her own experience. For me, I’ve had to…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/21 04:19 AM
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To me a guy who spends more time on his looks than I do is a turn off. I don’t care how conventionally attractive he is or isn’t. What I’ve noticed is the redpill guys into looksmaxxing have a very distorted or just false view of how women think, and how attraction works. They think if they get XYZ features it will get them laid. While it is true that some people have really bad facial development bordering on deformity, most people are average and still have no problem finding mates. Personally…
/r/ExRedPill27/06/21 03:20 PM
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