Melanie34512 Archive

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1	[deleted by user] That's why I suggested counseling. You probably want to look at what's going on that you start overvaluing others and undervaluing yourself. When we do this, it also affects our self-esteem even more, because we know we're behaving in ways that we don't feel good about. If you think you really start obsessing about it all a lot, try to find a cognitive behavioral therapist. They specialize in helping people with obsessive thoughts. This can get a lot better if you get good help and stick with it…	/r/seduction	30/10/21 03:27 AM
1	[deleted by user] Because your life is unbalanced and you're basically saying this is the only thing you feel good about. I'm not sure why "emotionally investing" has been ruining your relationships. If you think it means you're obsessing about it and coming on too strong with people over time or this is just bringing you down, I'd think about trying therapy and see if you can gain some perspective on how to shift how you're thinking about this and handling it. Good luck.	/r/seduction	30/10/21 02:42 AM