MelchettESL Archive

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3	Unwanted men are criticized whenever they try to passively drop out of the dating market Whatever a "soul" may be in actuality, and that's if it exists, it seems to be defined as a psychological construct of individual preferences and their emotional content (including their overall attitude towards life); some insist that this "soul" transcends the body, but there is scant evidence or even indisputable logic/rationale to support that. I am have no desire for anything or anyone that doesn't fulfil my desires, and if I were (impossible) to go choose this undesirable called "a long-te…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 11:44 PM
–	Unwanted men are criticized whenever they try to passively drop out of the dating market The AI or virtual partner is perfectly valid and justified experience because the bulk of a "human relationship" is just a bunch of emotional and fuzzy bollocks + a lot of unnecessary labour (unless the partner's doing the material work like house cleaning, job, whatever). Why not ditch the added labour and stress of a "real" partner and get the equally fuzzy and emotional bollocks from a virtual partner instead. Okay, the shagging isn't quite the same virtually yet, but do you get every fucking…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 10:26 PM
0	Men: accept what you cannot control, and focus on what you can. "When you DO find a woman who is worth the effort, put in the damn effort. Yes, you'll have to be the one doing most of the work. That's just how it is. If you don't think it's worth it, then she's not the one. Cut her loose, and keep looking until you meet a woman that you DO want to do it for." -- There is no such thing as a woman that's "worth it", but there are conditioned perspectives that are outright inaccurate. Further, even many women would not be "worth it". Incel and misogyny are also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 09:23 PM
1	A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference. It's neither "preference" nor "morality" -- it's plain ol' STUPIDITY.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 08:47 PM
1	Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kids Motherhood is not actually disrespected unless it somehow thinks it deserves special attention; it's just allowed to go about its own business, otherwise. Nobody's really interested enough to respect or disrespect it. Tittums!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 08:33 PM
4	Dating, Sex, and Relationships have never been easier for the average Western woman than they are today. Well, I'm glad that it's getting easier for the women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 06:18 PM
1	Men need to have unconditional love. Perhaps one must contemplate the literal meaning of "unconditional" before they make such suggestions. It may even be wise to consider what "love" could mean to different people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 04:54 PM
6	Marriage is for the poor,children are for the rich Why bother with marriage and children at all? Why not explore the marvellous truth that is antinatalism instead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 04:53 PM
0	In a world where you could easily have casual sex with women, would you still prefer to marry/LTR/commit to a “low n” woman? Well not if I had robots and AI to do the housework or was wealthy enough to have somebody help me with it I'm emotionally self-sufficient so I don't need emotional companionship to be honest I stick to that even if casual sex weren't available	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/25 12:29 AM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Stronger perhaps, but seldom sympathetic from my POV.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:48 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Yes, I must be a bit more careful while commenting. It's not weird -- people make mistakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:42 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Useful indeed, but only when it suits us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:02 PM
1	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:57 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Women are the prize only to men who assign them that value -- not men who put themselves first. That much should be obvious. I know enough men, myself included, who are like that. However, we are probably not the majority and even less so among younger men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:55 PM
2	How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ? Not sure of the gatekeepers of sex bit, but I do agree with the "just don't care" part. Most people are just focussed on themselves and their interests.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:51 PM
1	Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides. Well, that's likely right beyond a point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 01:46 PM
2	Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides. Not exactly, but very close and very pragmatic. However, definitely not close with the "no one cares" bit: I assure you, in most cases, somebody "cares" and that includes the politicians who could use it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:57 AM
2	Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides. You're right, but people don't respond to the last 3 to easily. I'm guessing that's pretty obvious with all that you read in the news.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 08:55 AM
2	Guys, One Woman is Enough. Long lasting is an optional definition of success. We could make the hedonism and alternate lifestyles last and expand, find more and more new alternatives. Monogamy = failure. The meaning and fulfillment mean nothing--worthless. Women disdaining it is of no consequence: we go to other alternatives or lifestyles. I will agree that we should place our own emotional - Self-sufficiency first and not be desperate	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 09:19 PM
0	Guys, One Woman is Enough. Thanks. If you're satisfied, great! Some of us want more than mere fulfilment and meaning. We want massive quantity, quality and variety--we absolutely do not want that "one". However, you are probably at right about guys trying to market sexual and related stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 09:12 PM
2	Is it true that men who are more awkward introverted non-charismatic types are more likely to be creeps and only want sex? That's right. If I like a very specific type of thing very strongly, different things in that same general category will produce instinctively unpleasant reactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 08:23 PM
1	Is it true that men who are more awkward introverted non-charismatic types are more likely to be creeps and only want sex? It probably was a question asked by some chick with major sexual hangups or some religious-moralistic issues. It's mostly the reaction to something different to what you think you want very much. Most men won't go near them with a 10,000-ft pole. Few guys want much more than sex or some help around the house. There are some who want the emotional support, emotionally self-sufficient people don't need it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 08:21 PM
0	Women should stop having sex for free People in other people's life can determine their perception of the other's value, but not that individual's self-perception unless they accept it somehow. OP can tell people what she wants, but they'll have to decide for themselves if how valid her ideas are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:14 PM
1	Women should stop having sex for free Well, what's average to one is attractive to another. I've noticed that beauty is one thing and attractiveness is another. I'm in favour of just not paying them anything, i.e., neither attention nor money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 06:08 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Could we not just try to be indifferent? Why grow resentful -- helps nobody and, more likely than not, hurts the hater?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 04:58 PM
–	Men need to have higher standards. Oh, yeah, men shouldn't be chasing after them -- they're no fucking prize. They needn't be arseholes either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 04:33 PM
-2	Women should stop having sex for free Yes, yes -- if you're free the bastard will never value you (with one critical exception in terms of personality type). Yes, yes, that's a good approach. Ask him to pay for a good time. Being an escort does pay but it may have risks that not all are willing to bear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 02:27 PM