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1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Yeah, I definitely feel like the wall is something for people who really don't take care of themselves, have unrealistic and shallow expectations of their lovers, or want kids. If you don't want children, fertility becomes a lesser issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 01:29 AM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I think people are really lost in today's culture, and they're trying out everything across the board. Personally, I think we'll come to a place where people are willing to date all around the spectrum, and that's cool	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 01:23 AM
4	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I think it's probably mental for a lot of guys. If you live in a decent city and culture where people take care of themselves, women look pretty similar between 25-40. The biggest difference is usually whether they have time to groom themselves due to their responsibilities, or whether they gain weight. Like, look at some Korean women, they look absolutely the same from 20 to 40 in most cases. Where I am from, and the guys I talk to, seem to agree with you, it is usually only online that I hear …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 01:21 AM
6	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Yeah, it's such a weird double standard some women have. I think a lot of people have a sick idea the guy needs to be the dominant one, and age is related to dominance. Obviously, people are open to prefer whatever they want, but I feel like they're missing out on possible happiness. I never felt this way personally tbh. Young or older, I am fine with either as long as it's reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:57 AM
4	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Honestly, no idea. According to this sub, it seems, most men are looking for women in their 20s, regardless of their own age, but I think this is just the wrong reading of the data. People may find 20 year olds very attractive, but so much more goes into finding a romantic partner than looks. I find it bizarre to look for someone just because they're younger/older than me, but that's just my opinion. Admittedly, the dating culture is probably very polluted, and you want to be the exception, not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:53 AM
3	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I think the difference in emotional maturity is severe. Even when I compare myself at 20 vs 25, it's a gargantuan difference. I cannot imagine anyone mature being able to date me at such a young age, and I was the picture perfect example of a good kid. Obviously people are different, but this is a general rule I subscribe to	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:51 AM
7	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I suppose so? But, I am going to be honest - the guys who want to date a 25 year old at 40 are not exactly the type of dude most women want. As a woman in my mid 20s, a guy like that is incredibly unattractive and genuinely and objectively a red flag to me (and I hate that phrase) A great professor who was extremely charismatic and good with women once talked about this: "Yeah, women in their 20s are lovely, but start having a conversation with them, those are babies! At 40, if you are looking t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:55 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Absolutely, I agree with everything you said. I know women who look better than ever in their 30s, you figure your style out, have money to actually improve your looks - I think a lot of these dudes don't know how much of beauty is proper grooming, styling, makeup. That tends to tell me which circles they frequent. A person would need to be coping super hard to say I was better looking at 18 than at 26 - I am 100% sure no one would think this, ever, and I had the exact same body then and now. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:48 PM
14	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Yeah, I do think that options do tend to close up as you go on, simply because more people are taken. A few women I know sumcurvented this by going for younger men, and they seem to have no issues so far. I think the progressive age has sort of changed dynamics between men and women - where a lot of people are willing to experiment and break through typical expectations of heterosexual relationships. It's sort of funny, I never see people talk about this. There are not many women who are willing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:30 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I am not so sure about it. It depends in which circles you are running - I guess in more affluent progressive settings, I really don't see any 30+ women struggling at all. Like, not one bit. Maybe 40s, but 30s? Not from what I see. I know way too many women, and I can maybe only thing of like 2? I feel like different socioeconomic settings have different cultures - I often see "wide-spread" charts, but minute details aren't being taken into consideration. A single mom with multiple kids at 35 is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:23 PM
2	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Ah, sorry. I misunderstood you. Thanks for the clarification. I don't frequent this sub, I got lost lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:21 PM
7	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Ah I mean, it all depends? A lot of men have settled down already, and done the family stuff. They don't want to settle down and have more kids in their second marriage, so dating younger can be an issue, or it doesn't have the same benefits? Most men I know who are pretty wealthy date 30+. I actually can't think of many exceptions. Even the richest, most womanizing old guys go for 30+ women. I wonder if this is cultural? Most of these guys are old money I think it ultimately depends on what the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:20 PM
1	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Yeah, I totally get you - I run around progressive, cultured circles where people meet up a lot and socialize in pretty healthy settings. I think these online spaces have that "curse" where they attract people who have issues with dating, and they just create a culture of discussion where their vision of reality is skewed. Obviously, I am sure there is some level of truth to certain things they're saying, but come on? Go to NYC, and seriously tell some gorgeous 30+ woman she has that fewer optio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:13 PM
9	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Hmm, I think there is variability here? But I feel like this severely depends on the socioeconomic and cultural background in which you are trying to date. I guess there are a bunch of factors here. A woman at 38 who has no children, has a great job and status, took care of her appearance and has no severe issues tends to have no issues attracting a man she wants, from what I have seen. Cosmetic treatments in higher levels of society are so good now that people can look great, both men and women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:03 PM
2	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Same here, let's be real, there are some young women who do like older men, a tiny minority, but those type of older men don't frequent these subs lmao 💀 That's all you should know. And the women who would date some of these guys might do it only for benefits, but at this point it's not romance, it's just users together. Is that what some of these guys want? Bizarre. Just date around your age, don't be a weirdo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 09:44 PM
7	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" Yeah, I really think a lot of these people would do better investing all that energy into being happier and improving. No matter what, it's not healthy spending years waiting for some hypothetical scenario where women you once wanted get to hit "the wall", and then you get a laugh out of it. Imagine holding onto all that bitterness and organizing your world view around it? Or even thinking you are going to "win out" in 10 years or whatever. Don't people see how lame that sounds? Unrealistic too.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 09:35 PM
3	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I sometimes wonder if these people see 18 year olds often, or live in very rural communities where adults don't take care of themselves, it's so bizarre. I went to an all female school in a big town, and pretty much everyone looks better in their 20s, I have not heard anyone disagree. If a person is in the beauty or fashion industry, they even know the amount of treatments available to anyone who wants to "improve" in any way - shit usually only 20+ people will go for and can afford. I always fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 08:27 PM
77	Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall" I'm not really a part of this community, but the vast majority of women I know from 30-45 have no issues dating if they're interested in that. Plenty of options - younger or older. I think some people are just miserable and they have revenge fantasies, that is it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:17 PM