MeleeMistress Archive

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2	Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys? Interesting observation. Lots of women find blue collar workers hot. I don’t have a reason for you but can give you my anecdotal experience. I dated a STEM guy in college and married a blue collar worker. STEM ex couldn’t work a power tool, my blue collar husband has built ceilings and porches and floors. This is really attractive and comforting in the same way men sometimes say women who can cook are attractive. Yeah, we can outsource all the traditionally male/female home jobs with $$$$$ but l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 06:32 PM
2	Do men do better than women in isolation? Yes. Unless there are more men who are introverted. But still, I think it would be because they're introverted, not because they're men.I'm pretty introverted and apart from the lack of structure for a lot of the pandemic have been doing well. My hobbies are all solo activities so it's been nice to have more time to enjoy them. My boyfriend is super extroverted and the first few months were rough on him. He missed meeting up with friends regularly. I need a lot less social interaction than him o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 03:10 AM
3	Do men do better than women in isolation? I think it depends on whether people are introverted or extroverted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 01:30 AM
3	To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why? You are 100% correct! One of my closest friends exemplifies this, sometimes it’s really fucked up to see! We’re childhood friends; she was bullied in childhood, had a nerdy awkward teenage stage, and then peaked beautifully in her 20s. As an adult, she has modeled and is naturally the most conventionally attractive person in a room 9 times out of 10. We have some of the same social circle and have worked together. The vitriol I’ve seen directed at her is insane. People who don’t even know her wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 01:20 PM
1	To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why? I guess it’s nice to feel especially small. It’s bizarre to me that there’s a height thing on dating apps though, that’s taking a preference to a gross extreme. I am 5’3” and have dated both very tall and short men. My current and last LTR are / were 6’1” and 6’5” respectively. However, when I was single I did go on dates with 2 different men who were just about my height, maybe 5’5” max. And I found them both extremely attractive. Ironically, they both were cheaters! One had a wife and the othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 01:04 PM
1	What do we do with this knowledge? Well, if you end up with a virgin or the like it will be impossible to determine sexual compatibility until it’s too late. A couple of my close friends are in miserable no-sex marriages because that was the hill they chose to die on. No fun for anyone!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/19 04:27 PM
1	Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish? 10/10 this. You said it perfectly. Committing to one person means that person is supposed to be the one you have sex with. What is even the point of a monogamous relationship if you’re not committed to satisfying each other sexually? Sometimes I’m not in the mood when my boyfriend is but fake it till you make it indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 10:46 PM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? You are correct that property distribution and alimony do not work like that. If they did, divorces would go a lot more smoothly. ETA- I also wonder how it would be possible to bill every job done by the stay-at-home person in some cases. Logistically it could become quite complex. The reason I say this is anecdotal but not uncommon. My father is very successful and “self-made”; he owns two large companies in his industry and several rental properties. He has gone on public record saying that my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 12:05 AM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? You didn’t specifically reference anything! Cheers	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 10:32 PM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? Wives of successful men do contribute to their husbands’ success. Perhaps you don’t see housework, raising children, and emotional support as contributions. If you are to outsource those jobs they do cost $$$. Being married to a woman who doesn’t “work” means she will do those jobs for free, enabling you to earn your success. Talk to people in healthy marriages where one individual outearns the other and works away from home. Either you pay someone to do all of those things that need to get done…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 10:13 PM