Meleu Archive

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1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? My pleasure :) you can message me if you have any other questions, i will try my best to answer them	/r/seduction	24/03/16 09:56 AM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? I would personally recommend to not do this with someone you’ve just met. It can come over as really intimate/personal and/or some girls might not like it (if you know each other she will probably be cool about it). The thing is, my experience with the hand in back is mostly 1.while being guided into a room. To clarify: etiquette states that the first time a couple enters an establishment the man should enter first, all the times after that he should let the lady go first. A very gentleman thing…	/r/seduction	22/03/16 09:55 PM
5	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? If it’s cold and there is the hand-in-pockets-situation you can create intimacy by using eye contact and smiles. This works best if you have already been getting to know each other for a while. When you are in the context you described you can start by thinking about all the nice things you like about her - and then continue while looking her in the eyes. If you’re past the stage where this can look creepy, this can create an intimate moment without any physical contact. You’re probably going to…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 09:46 PM
2	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? This is a good thing to do when holding a door open for someone and walking in after them. You hold the door, she walks in, you walk behind her and while you are letting go of the door you can gently place your hand on her back so that you walk in together (next to each other). I doesn't seem weird since you're just guiding both of you inside and preventing the door slamming into you. And if you pull it off it's gentleman-like. Maybe practice it once?	/r/seduction	20/03/16 02:41 PM
12	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Yes! The micro escalations help you test if the macro escalation you want to accomplish will work at that time. Same with the kissing, but make sure you make a few "checks" using eye contact too. A few micro escalations can be to sit closer to her, make your legs touch each other, place your hand on her arm for a few seconds while saying something, look into her eyes and pause for a few seconds, lean in for kiss - if everything "checked".	/r/seduction	20/03/16 02:38 PM
48	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? For holding hands you can first start by brushing the back of your palm against hers while walking. Do this a few times and then slowly move to hold her hand. Once you got her hand, keep walking like nothing happened. Just be cool about it. You can smile to her though and talk obviously. Same with the hand around shoulders while you're sitting on a bench. You can start by putting your arm on the bench-thingy where your back is against (can't find the name of the thing atm). You can place your ar…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 10:16 AM
2	Avoid the unhappy and unlucky That's harsh	/r/seduction	29/12/15 11:34 AM
1	Avoid the unhappy and unlucky What if the person is unlucky but happy ?	/r/seduction	28/12/15 11:06 PM