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Meliorare93/r/askMRP27/01/17 07:40 AM
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I like the visualization suggestion, one problem. I'd rather hit you in the face then do something else when I'd visualize that. But I get the idea. Also about the less caring, yesterday I didn't feel like staying at home with my wife and kid so I left the house (did announce it though). When it was 1800 she rang to know where I was, I said I would be home in fifteen minutes (should've not picked up I guess). I got a total shitstorm when I got home but stayed calm and ignored it BUT I saw that m…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/17 07:57 AM
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Of course I was mad... I just always ignore trolling trolls, they hate that... about the concepts, I'm still internalizing everything... I've been 100% blue pill for my whole life. I was scared shitless of women when I was young, my wife seduced me more then I seduced her etc so yeah steep learning curve... I'll post the things I owned next week in stead of what went wrong. I don't post everything btw. I'm owning my side gig, I'm owning my music, I'm owning my lifting and yes I'm not owning my w…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/17 07:48 AM
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I want to create a standard that I will completely dedicate myself to. Go with the flow, don't make a rigid schedule you wont keep it up. My energy levels vary every season... I get more done during fall and spring then during the winter and during the summer I prefer to relax and enjoy life. But most of the time I sleep +- 0700 - 0730 hours. I work 8 hours daily, do house chores +- for 3 hours, exercise for an hour and sit on my butt do nothing for an hour (round 2100-2200, most of the time tha…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 05:32 AM
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That's some nuclear grade butt hurt. I know i really fucked up
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 07:33 PM
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hahaha fair enough... I was flabbergasted because of the discussion I'm well aware I could've reacted else... deprogramming 13+ year of BP... Tell me how should I've reacted? I was making jokes at first but that made things worse, just leave? The kid was still up didn't want to stress him for our problems
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 11:26 AM
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Personal/social: Having a life outside the life with my wife is going good but I'm getting a lot of shit/comfort tests about it. I try to comfort her when I (think I) know it's a comfort test but sometimes it's difficult to see what sort of test it is. She doesn't like it I have a life outside her that's for sure... Anyway got nothing planned this week because of her period will try to do some comforting stuff this week. Work/Career: Side gig still asking a lot of my time but enjoying it. Coping…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 09:51 AM
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Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. Source: https://www.forums.red/p/RedPillWomen/1775/red_pill_acronyms
/r/askMRP17/03/17 08:53 AM
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damn sounds hard, looks like you'll be better off now!
/r/askMRP14/03/17 06:37 PM
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glad it's not that bad... it's a bit like druganswer says... no lust just "love"... it feels like brother and sister love or something like that...
/r/askMRP14/03/17 05:47 PM
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She told me she loved me, but none of her actions showed me that. Care to elaborate, how do you judge that? Just curious cause I'm starting to feel I'm in the same situation
/r/askMRP14/03/17 01:47 PM
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He's almost 5, it wasn't really a situation he couldn't handle, he just doze off and we woke him, should've driven around a bit longer and then wake him up. We just didn't realize that at the heat of the moment. Afterwards we did... He's just like his mom and dad... He's got a terrible mood when he's woken too early :)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 01:43 PM
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Personal/social: finally some time to breathe again, side gig commission is complete ! Also had a good weekend with the family, except on Saturday noon... Kid fell a sleep in the car and had a very nasty mood when he woke up, and I do mean nasty, never saw him like that hopefully never again. Didn't keep frame and we all lost our shit. Me, the kid, the wife... it was awful. We all got back in the car and drove away, kid fell a sleep again and we drove a while so he could get some shut eye and th…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 08:39 AM
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do you feel like your wife respects you? if so, why not? Yes she respects me... are you fapping all the time? Not since I have a kid no, no privacy nor time are you getting good interest from other women (if not . . . might to want reconsider your self asses SMV) yeah sometimes get hit on when I'm at a music gig/rave but I've never engaged (white knight syndrome :p). Haven't really given it a lot of attention during daytime though. any possibility she is getting dick somewhere else? one never kn…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 07:47 PM
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thx for the reply.. I prefer constructive comment then sarcastic ones, so I appreciate this! I've been lifting again this week btw ;) a three week hiatus isn't the end of the world. I've been lifting for two years now... and it wasn't a true hiatus since I had a quick routine in the morning (50pushups/squats/crunches). I'm no couchpotato if that's what you guys think :) My side gig was just too important. It still is my priority. I want to work on my side gig so I can hopefully one day become se…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 03:15 PM
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Also own your shit. This whole post is little more than a humble brag about your musician lifestyle. There is no shit in it. Chances are there is shit in your life to own... Can you elaborate? btw I'm getting confused... there's always this talk about frame (bear with me english ain't my native language) but as far as I understand holding frame is "This is how I think, this is how I behave, these are the principles I live my life by" source: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2fdzo7/what_d…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 07:20 PM
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yeah had great fun, wheeeeeee :p
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 02:19 PM
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Idd, the side gig was the most important now
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 02:19 PM
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Personal/social: Almost no free time this week, managed to squeeze in some party time on Saturday. Went to a rave, totally sober btw. Got back at home at 0430 and was back at work at 1300. Work hard play hard :) managed to finish the preparations for my radioshow too, which almost failed, perhaps I have to move to a biweekly show instead of a weekly show since I don't have a lot of free time because of my side gig. Making music time is also non existing lately, was hoping to finish an album befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/17 01:45 PM
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I stopped drinking over three months ago... Alcohol is worse for my frame then weed. When high I lose my frame, day after I'm ok. If I drink I can be sick for a day or two (my body just can process it anymore) and can lose my frame more. But I don't want to vape daily anymore so I quit this week again. So far so good! Oh and I read frame is also your world view? My world view is ingrained with mind altering substances and psychonaut thought... But still I rather use then abuse like I did last co…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/17 02:35 PM
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thx for the tips!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 05:54 PM
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True true... The question is... How? I've always had a short temper (not that I'm violent I'm just quickly offended) I've read about maintaining frame but next to some hints to keep it stoic and or vague stuff I haven't really found some decent tips.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 12:58 PM
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You are right about the frame part while being stoned... RuleZeroDAD just pushed some sensitive buttons here that's why I got butt-hurt :P it was the "All in all, you are every snowflake hippie hoping life just happens for him that I despise. " that made me pissed at the time. Now I think it's funny I got whole winded up about somebody I don't know making a remark about me. And FYI I'm not high all the time... I've been sober during weekdays for over a year I just had a relapse this winter but I…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 12:16 PM
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How much cash would you save per month if you quit cannabis? Not a lot got it for free :p Kid's surgery logistics left to Mom? I suggested I would take care of him she said she would take care of it... she didn't... two hour commute for a measly 200 euro extra per month 2 hours x 20 workdays = 40 hours a month for 200 euro... not worth it in my book... I rather spend those hours on my side gig wich earns me more money anyway. You're a stoned captain. True... All in all, you are every snowflake h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 10:25 AM
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Personal/social: Still drowning in my work for my job and my side gig. Which is good but also tiring. Managed to squeeze in some me time and went to a music gig on friday, great fun! Still glad I gave up drinking, I would've been wrecked normally now I was just a bit tired the day after. I am again struggling with cannabis though, managed to get that addiction under control last year, last couple of weeks I was vaping every day again . Made plans to not vape on weekdays since yesterday, went ok.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 09:20 AM
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I don't stare at a candle :) and I wont skip meditation... it really helps me but yes I can't skip the lifting
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 07:01 AM
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I'm lifting again ;) and idd I felt better right away... will have to make lifting time obligated time
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 07:00 AM
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now I can laugh, couldn't laugh at that moment though... it will probably just be growing pains too... after a while I'll probably will find ways to cope. Had the same when I had to perform with my music, after a couple of years it went better and better
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 09:50 AM
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Personal/social: Didn't have a lot of personal time even had to cancel some appointments with friends. Did manage to go to a music gig on Saturday night. Went straight back home after the gig to catch some shut eye Work/Carreer: Hectic, I even would say stressful week. The side gig I had was hard, really hard. Everything that could go wrong went wrong, thank you microsoft, for nothing lol :) managed to solve all the problems though, which is good. Will have to find a way to cope with stress and …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/17 08:36 AM
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I had a couple of gigs last year, it's a one man show. Didn't score afterwards though :D In the past I had another gig with more dance music, she was jealous as fuck when I some chicks came to me after the gig. Unfortunately the music I make know is mostly sausage-fest-music (noise and ambient) :D perhaps I have to reconsider dance orientated music again lol
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 05:17 PM
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thx for your reply Does your wife find anything attractive? Or have these meds completely sucked her dry? I have no idea to be honest... I know she likes men who are nicely styled/dressed up. I'm "migrating" to such clothes style but I've been running around style-less for more then a decade so I want to do it step by step. She complimented my new batch of clothes I bought this year so I'm on the right track. I doubt being ripped will give her the tingles since she is getting chubbier by the yea…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 06:20 PM
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Great post... Any tips for the last steps? How to start getting jiggy with it? If I think back about the beginning of our relationship it was all that easy, just had to look in her eyes and that was that :) Really lost it somewhere
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 01:54 PM
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Personal/social: Much better week then last week, still not my 100% productive self but we're getting there. Went to a music gig with friends on Sunday great fun. Work/Career: Nothing special except for that big gig I have to do this week :) Family: Had a great weekend, Saturday we went for a walk through the snowy forest. Even played a board game (which I don't do often) so it was happy family time. Thought I had a good balance with alpha beta traits that day so I engaged for sex that evening a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 01:05 PM
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Very interesting, what age did your son have when you started this? Mine is five year old, I notice he's more interested in educational tv then entertainment tv which makes me very happy. I try to stimulate him with educational tv (there's a great cartoon series about the human body (it's in dutch) which he devours). So I hope to stimulate him more and more when he gets older with educational tv in stead of entertainment tv
/r/RedPillParenting12/02/17 09:48 AM
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GOAT?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:00 PM
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Persona/social: Still not a great week but better then last week... Still sick but at least got more shit done! Work/Carreer: Managed to score a gig for next week for my side business, will have to take a couple days off my regular job to do the gig which is good news! Family: Good week, all went well! Had good times with my son and wife. Still dead bedroom but didn't even engage, I kinda lost interest in her to be honest... She doesn't give me the tingles :p Spiritual: meditated again when I co…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 10:32 AM
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no not yet :) but I have been looking into it, my wife has already suggested to buy it and that I sit next to it all day long lol :D
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 02:33 PM
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winter I take 1200 IU vitamin D daily, doesn't help enough apparently. On really bad days I also take some Sint-Johns herb. Nothing beats true sunlight and the days are just too short now... It runs in the family the S.A.D.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 02:06 PM
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Personal/social: Not a great week, had a cold, was tired, winter getting to me, insertmorewhineyexcusesfornotdoingwhatIshoulddo the only thing I can brag about is that I invested a lot of time in one of my hobbies which made me a happy camper... that was probably the only productive thing I did this week (except for the daily tasks of course) Work/Career: see above Family: Everything went fine... Had a great weekend even! Wife was late on Sunday though, told her it wasn't appropriate , did it st…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 01:33 PM
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:D
/r/askMRP28/01/17 06:32 AM
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Is it this one? https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/588e5o/gain_control_of_the_treasury/
/r/askMRP27/01/17 06:29 PM
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I was planning to do MRP in stead of TRP :) thx for the encouraging words
/r/askMRP27/01/17 06:20 PM
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I think two... about three... to much that keeps me here... a house, a mortgage and my son which I would prefer to raise with his mother
/r/askMRP27/01/17 06:14 PM
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I understand what you're saying... I'll ponder how I can do that... but my biggest hobby (making music) is a bit hard to do out of the house since all my gear is in the house :) Perhaps I have to try to make some tracks on my ipad somewhere outside of the house
/r/askMRP27/01/17 06:13 PM
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mortgage Yes mortgage, five year old son... For a platonic relationship everything is super duper but unfortunately I have a dick I like to put in a wet vagina ... edit: I'm reading the bluepillprofessor his book... But I came at a chapter that told me to first read the book of pook which I'm reading now :)
/r/askMRP27/01/17 06:11 PM
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I go to a music festival abroad every year, last year I went to too festivals :) I don't ask for permission (anymore) I just say I go to that, if you want you can join if you don't fine by me!
/r/askMRP27/01/17 05:47 PM
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Almost always... quite frustrating
/r/askMRP27/01/17 05:41 PM
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"There's nowhere I'd rather be right now than with you. (long pause, tender hug, etc) Oh wait, I lied, I'd rather be upstairs fucking you." lol :D nice one
/r/askMRP27/01/17 09:11 AM
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brevity It's lifting weight yes :) I'll be doing hiit cardio again too starting next week (Finnish running track will be open then near where I live, my feet hurt too soon when I run on a hard underground) What do you mean with when you lose your cool lock it up? Just harden the fuck up or remove yourself from the situation or something else? Always open for advise to decrease the butthurt and the overreaction of my part... So far I haven't lost my cool with the family, it was the sleep deprivat…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 08:33 AM
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If it's any consolation, I had some bad days too... let's see it as a motivation to do better this week :)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 09:47 AM
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Personal/social: Had a great week last week. The gig I organized on Saturday went great, enough people to keep some money in the bank too (the music wasn't really commercial, not at all to be honest :) ). Had to solve some problems too, did stuff I wouldn't have dared a couple of years ago which satisfies me and motivates me to go bolder! I also planned the next phase of renovations of the house together with my wife's father on Sunday. So was a very busy weekend! Work/Career: Didn't do the cold…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 09:47 AM
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Personal/social: took some time for my own & went to a buddy on Saturday, had a good time, my wife did a lot in the household while I was gone which was a nice surprise! Will take more time for myself in the future. Work/Carreer: sat on my ass the whole week for my side gig, must get my shit together next week, too much on my plate this week (which was not the case last weak i'm afraid). Will cold call two potential clients and reread a course I did for business Family: Did my best this week and…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 08:38 AM
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thx! :)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 08:04 AM
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I raise my voice yes, but shit really has to hit the fan before I start yelling. Problem is my wife prefers laissez-faire, I prefer saying when something is not done and how stuff has to be... Fact is when I'm alone with my kid everything goes fine but when we're together as a whole family problems start to rise. But since I'm holding my frame more often I see my wife is more receptive for my "disciplining" so I'll work on my frame and try to discipline my son with a calm voice instead of a rais…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 07:27 AM
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Hey I'm new here and this is my first post... In my mid thirties & live in Europe, English is not my native language! Stumbled on the red pill a couple of weeks ago but was apparently already moving in the right direction seeing I had already read some of the recommended books. I'm not married but I've been living with my girlfriend for almost 10 years now and we have a 5 year old kid so I guess that is as good as married ;) Lifting: Been lifting for over two years now... 5to6 times a week, want…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 02:59 PM
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