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I watch 90 day fiancée and the normal Americans are the ones who accidentally met a foreigner they like. The Americans who seek out foreigners to date are universally weird and off-putting and are clearly hoping language and cultural differences will cover for their strangeness if they date a foreigner. Just food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:55 PM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:51 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:31 PM
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I just linked to the survey bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:56 AM
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I am indeed using the strict definition
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:40 AM
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Oh ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 02:01 AM
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Here’s how the conversation started since you forgot https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rh7lie/gender_professor_claims_men_can_never_truly_like/hoozqmy/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:57 AM
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So? The benefit is he feels better, there doesn’t need to be a thought process for it to be useful. The point is it has nothing to do with anything a woman does sexually, it just means she pissed a dude off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:22 AM
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Tell that to all the women who got called sluts before they ever kissed a boy, or who get called sluts by strangers they rejected Being a slut has nothing to do with your sexual behavior and everything to do with whether a man is mad at you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:02 AM
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I’m not talking about ability to learn, I’m talking about socialization. Who is expected to be clean and know how to cook. That influences people. Of the men and women who can’t cook or clean, on average which group feels more useless about it and which one is just like whatever? Of the men and women who can cook and clean, which group on average gets treated like they’re hot shit for it and which group is treated like “yeah I mean you have to cook and clean, you’re an adult, it’s not a big deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:18 PM
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S O C I A L I Z E D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:13 PM
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It’s not relevant that men can’t cook and clean either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:09 PM
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Not relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:07 PM
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You’re getting off topic. Women are socialized to cook and clean and men are not; this does not mean women can cook and clean and men cannot. The fact that women are not socialized/men are socialized to be handy is not relevant to the fact that you need to cook and clean to be a functional adult, therefore those who are not socialized to cook and clean are not socialized to be functional adults. This does not mean that those who are socialized to cook and clean are socialized to be functional ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:04 PM
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America Nobody knows how to do anything from day 1 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:56 PM
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Some of you can, but not because you’re socialized to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:37 PM
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Tell me you’re male without telling me you’re male lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:36 PM
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That guy probably can’t fathom jerking off without hating the object of his fantasy so he doesn’t understand the distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:35 PM
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And any woman is a slut whenever it’s useful to the man making the judgment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:34 PM
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https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/pdf/10.1089/vio.2014.0022
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:33 PM
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Men aren’t really socialized to cook and clean and make doctors appointments and have healthy social lives so I don’t really see the “functional adult” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:28 PM
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Why are you talking about tacos?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:18 PM
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I doubt anyone has ever said that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:16 PM
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“I’m a bad person and I enjoy manipulating people who’ve done nothing wrong and then laughing at them for being manipulated”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:14 PM
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If you’re doing romantic stuff, you are not clear that you’re FWB, by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:08 PM
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That guy made it sound like he can do math to explain one person’s attraction to another person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:06 PM
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Explain those qualities with math
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 05:06 PM
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“He’s right, here’s some irrelevant stuff that in no way relates to whether or not he’s right” We are talking about attraction itself, not dating or how being attractive helps you in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:53 PM
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It’s not about sexual history I’ll date a guy who fucked 100 girls for free over a guy who has only fucked one but paid for it Partly because I don’t trust that he’d know she wasn’t trafficked, partly because I don’t like what it says about how he views sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:46 PM
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there's an implied assumption that you don't count the tunes you pay for sex. Really? News to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:43 PM
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Ok explain attraction with stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:36 PM
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I’m 33, probably about 10 years older (preferably less but if I meet a great 43 y/o I’ll go for it) and 5 years younger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:22 PM
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If you’re a FWB who also does romantic stuff, you’re not a FWB you’re a boyfriend/girlfriend. If you won’t acknowledge it, you’re also a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:19 PM
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Lmao personality hella gets guys laid hahahaha The trick to it that you’ve been missing is it has to be a good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:17 PM
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You do math to figure out if you’re attracted to someone? That’s weird dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:16 PM
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They just explained the lack of contradiction my dude, that reading comprehension suggestion was true and real
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:15 PM
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It depends on the man I’m attracted to. Sometimes it’s simple like nice arms, sometimes I’m like “why am I into this guy lol wtf” One thing that will instantly dry my pussy out tho? Expressing anything that sounds vaguely red-pilled. Sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 04:13 PM
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Rape = when someone forces you to have sex with them against your will Do you agree? If so, then shut up about how it’s not real rape, as if you know the first thing about any of this anyway. You know if you don’t dig yourself out of this hole, you’re gonna be one of those people that no one knows they died until the stench of your rotting corpse disturbs some strangers. You should work on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:33 PM
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No amount of propaganda and NPC talking points that I can hear from any braindead clone on factory settings will get me out. Aka “scientific data”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:30 PM
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Then prove it exists then. Captain America or whatever dumb male superhero shit people are into these days Wrong, I described masculinity. But thanks for proving my point that toxic masculinity is nothing but masculinity. It’s not toxic that you’re only allowed to feel anger? I was under the impression you were complaining about that. Obviously it’s objectively bad, maybe your toxic masculinity is making you unable to see how a full range of emotional expression being available to you would impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:30 PM
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Lol sure I can, go to the movies and you’ll see masculinity being portrayed positively
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:25 PM
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Any time you assert that it is a problem to someone that doesn't already agree with you, you are trying to persuade them. False
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 03:24 PM
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Incorrect, you look like you’ve fallen deep into the manosphere and no amount of information will get you out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:44 AM
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No, I’m counting rape as rape. I’ve been sexually assaulted in minor ways a lot. Men don’t take it seriously because if they did they’d have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:43 AM
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We’re gonna be too worried about things like food, water, shelter, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:42 AM
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I’ve never seen anyone have such an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:52 PM
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Look deny reality all you want but don’t expect anyone to be convinced lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:49 PM
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No just the bay area
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:48 PM
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You literally state the Duluth model is never used in practice That’s not what you said and also that’s not what I said in the quote either He was saying that male victims are arrested instead of female abusers in female abuser situations He was saying the same cops who refused to arrest male abusers would arrest the male victims of a female abuser. That's the only reading I can get out of "ok but they don't arrest anybody" What is? I literally don’t understand what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:50 PM
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Toxic masculinity isn’t an argument, it’s a term
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:48 PM
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Having your wife get knocked up by someone else doesn’t remove you from the gene pool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:47 PM
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Women have a lot more to worry about than getting killed tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:47 PM
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I’m the only woman I know who hasn’t been raped yet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:46 PM
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Existential threat = threat to ones existence, your wife getting knocked up by someone else will not kill you Darwin awards = when someone does something stupid that results in their death or the destruction of their reproductive organs, none of which happens when your wife cheats on you or gets knocked up by someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:22 PM
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And yet the cosmetic surgery industry is booming. So the fuck what, I said “you shouldn’t” not “people don’t”. Idk if you know this but women date men Put simply, the claim that the tiny risk of being murdered by your date Why are you so focused on murder?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:21 PM
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But well within the bounds of other risks that everyone handwaves as being basically zero, such as driving. Yeah probably about equal chances of getting in a crash or getting raped. Of course a fender-bender isn’t gonna be as traumatic as sexual assault so…. Hard to compare the two. How many of the women clutching their pearls as the notion of all these 'risks' have taken recreational drugs? How many have driven, or allowed themselves to be driven by someone else, under the effect of alcohol or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:19 PM
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I’ve never met any poly people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:47 PM
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True, that’s why you shouldn’t just get surgery for funsies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:46 PM
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since women get pregnant, infidelity on the woman's side is actually an existential threat to the husband. No it’s not If you are in a committed, monogamous relationship with a wife who is cheating, you are in danger of receiving a Darwin Award. That’s not what a Darwin Award is, read the article
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:45 PM
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Saudi Arabia probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:16 PM
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Satire doesn’t land when the person doing the satire doesn’t understand the thing they’re satirizing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:15 PM
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Or the FBI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:10 PM
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Or you could look at actual statistics? Like, that would be an option you could do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:03 PM
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Yeah I think it’d be fun to spend a week or so super hot but not my whole life Too much trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:01 PM
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The one where I don’t get discarded with nothing to show once I hit my mid-30s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:58 PM
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Seems pretty realistic based on the fact that women aren’t the ones whining about how they can’t find an attractive man to match with them on OLD platforms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:55 PM
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You deny the existence of the Duluth model Bzzt wrongo then sarcastically ask if male victims are arrested instead of male abusers I mean that’s what he was saying, I was just clarifying because it’s a crazy thing to say You say that doesn't matter because nobody was arrested, implying that the fact men don't report being abused is completely unrelated to the fact that feminist institutions have made it so that they will always be "Guilty until proven Innocent" during he said-she said scenarios.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:52 PM
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Murder isn’t the only bad thing that can happen to us on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 PM
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Yep women have it worse for sure Weird how you understated the dangers of dating as a heterosexual woman tho. The rate is a lot greater than zero
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:49 PM
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The existence of men who choose to be celibate makes this argument wildly unconvincing. The fact that you don’t die without sex obviously proves it’s not a physiological need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:46 PM
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Male over-sensitivity to perceived criticism of their masculinity, to the point that their critical thinking skills suffer, is another aspect of toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:42 PM
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…wat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:31 PM
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Recap: Them: have you seen most men? You: yeah they don’t have girlfriends Me: only 31% of men are single You: so ugly guys have no trouble with women? Is that what you’re saying? —— Why would I be saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:11 PM
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I think we’re gonna stop worrying about this stuff soon
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:07 PM
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Are you making assumptions or did you read the source because that’s not what the source suggests
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:04 PM
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I find their simplicity difficult to understand. I am constantly baffled by how little they think about things, I simply cannot believe they go through life with that little thought about their relationships and whatnot. But if they are thinking, they hide it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:01 PM
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31% of men are single. Same for women btw https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:59 PM
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It’s actually because ONS tend to be unsatisfying for women so we aren’t motivated to do it unless the guy is super hot, because that can make up for mediocre dick sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:56 PM
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False thanks for playing byeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:36 PM
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If that was the case positive masculinity would exist, but it doesn't. Uhhh yes it does???? Lol what are you talking about? Also I never describe toxic masculinity. You describing toxic masculinity: “When the only emotion you are allowed to have is anger, everything becomes anger.” Like that’s practically the definition You people don't see anger as emotion but as behavior. ???? And the whole "men don't express emotions" is saying nothing less than men don't express female emotions. What fucking…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:35 PM
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Ok? So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:32 PM
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Yeah. A willful one. That will happen no matter what phrasing or word choice is used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:31 PM
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You used “butt hurt” incorrectly FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:56 AM
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So you just talked about data to sound smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:46 AM
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🙄 I wouldn’t raise a kid who thought this shit in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:35 AM
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No. It’s more specific than that. Toxic femininity would be something stereotypically feminine, not bossiness but perhaps passive-aggressiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:35 AM
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Ok but they don’t arrest anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:52 PM
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There’s data? Can you direct me to some?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:20 PM
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What should we call it? “Masculinity turned toxic?” As if you wouldn’t have problems with that. If you can’t comprehend the concept of modifiers, you don’t get to lecture people on language
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:34 PM
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Obviously they don’t based on their interactions with male abusers. Or are you saying they only arrest men when they’re victims of abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:31 PM
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I’ve seen a bunch of men do it, only one woman. And none of the guys ever called the cops on her or she might have been arrested, we don’t know, although unlike the men she never caused any serious injuries. The men have had the cops called on them many times and the only time the cops did anything was the one time when there was also significant property damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 06:07 PM
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Do some of you guys still not know that the “toxic” in toxic masculinity is a modifier? You just described toxic masculinity and then you acted like it’s not a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:33 PM
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IME horrific abuse, stalking, rape, etc Cops show up and they’re like 🤷‍♂️ “what do you want us to do about it?”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:30 PM
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Grown up men* you mean Since you take children exactly as seriously as grown up women, right? Because women are children right? Do you really think any woman is gonna be ok with being treated like a child? I doubt it. So how can you be surprised that we hate it and the people who think that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:28 PM
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Sure but I’m allowed to dislike them back, am I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:25 PM
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If they work for women then they work for men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:24 PM
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You can have empathy and also not get taken advantage of. Empathy isn’t a synonym for naïveté
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:23 PM
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Oh gosh sorry we aren’t being super fair to subscribers of an ideology that talks about us like we’re subhumans with no subjective experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:21 PM
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Second, it helped me understand why women do what they do. I assure you, it did not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:14 PM
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Or just the ones who weren’t raised Mormon or whatever and find the whole attitude freaky and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:06 AM
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I don’t think of people that way because it’s fucking gross Don’t you feel gross saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:42 AM
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Maybe not insane but definitely cowardly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:07 PM
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Everyone knows it’s mostly RP people, right? Like is this a surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:06 PM
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I didn’t say they don’t exist, why would I have an opinion on them if I’ve never even met any? Maybe you’re picking bad girlfriends idfk. Did they even say there was a maximum or did they just want to know the number? Nevermind I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 07:01 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 06:48 PM
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Maybe but I’ve never met a woman who expressed giving a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:24 PM
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I don’t see women who worry about men’s N-count at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:19 PM
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We don’t want to marry guys who want pure women. Because that’s gross. It’s a gross way to be looked at and we don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:17 PM
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Communism Also, get rid of the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:51 PM
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says the woman 🤣. Says the person who got an A in her stoicism class in college, babes. Have you even read any stoics? The value of sex is no different than the value of food, sleep Yes it is exercise I’ll give you that I guess, so you don’t feel too bad. Like it’s not exactly the same but you can at least survive without both exercise and sex, though you’ll live longer if you exercise. Not so with sex. The more deprived a person is of one, the more value he/she will place on it. Simple. That ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 04:01 PM
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I’m sure he had sex, but he’d definitely think the value y’all place on sex is ridiculous. There’s a difference between having sex and thinking sex is extremely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:45 PM
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And in sexual intercourse that it is no more than the friction of a membrane and a spurt of mucus ejected. -Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:42 PM
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Tell that to the stoics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:28 PM
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Pfftt like how?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:27 PM
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The vagina only has the power over you that you allow it to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:26 PM
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What if the guy at the brothel lives in his mom’s basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:26 PM
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You don’t need a woman in order to bust a nut bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:25 PM
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Then what’s the problem? lmao you haven’t even thought this through
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:24 PM
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You’re never gonna get pussy because businesses reserve the right to refuse service to anyone for any reason and they will absolutely refuse to serve you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:23 PM
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Maybe they should organize and collectively bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:03 PM
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but typically a woman's sexual attractiveness is not as related to her feelings of self worth, while a man's sexual attractiveness is virtually all about how worthy he feels he is. Hahaha what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:43 PM
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I thought beta males did all the work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:42 PM
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It’s not a rule anyway, just a custom
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:41 PM
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The former and then some
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:31 AM
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Keep your crises to actual crises then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:30 AM
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It’s the media and capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:27 PM
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No but it attracts me more than being too clingy. Ok yeah that’s fair, I said no to op but this is also a concern
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:26 PM
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Nah I got all kinds of issues on that front and I still don’t get more interested in guys who ignore me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:25 PM
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No Personally when some one is dismissive to me I just think they don't like me and decide not to bother them. but i'm a simple guy. Same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:25 PM
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Wish men would do the literal exact same (except replacing womanhood with manhood) instead of acting ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:18 PM
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Your masculinity cannot be threatened unless you allow it, and can be threatened by whatever you allow to threaten it. You might not allow women’s opinions to threaten your masculinity, but plenty of other men absolutely do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:17 PM
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That kind of talk is mostly reserved for positions of power, influence, or money, ie women being excluded means that women will have less of all of those things just because they’re women. It’s not about ego, it’s about material conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 09:13 PM
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Of course they’re excited, they’re heterosexual women. But they’re most likely telling their friends info about you so if they disappear after the date someone knows who they were with when they disappeared. Edit: temp ban for incivility so I can only respond to the below here: in no way did I backtrack anywhere You’ve yet to meet a woman who tells you about it because why tf would she
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:56 PM
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It’s a mental illness to be abused, assaulted, stalked? Women treat first dates like potential murders because that covers all the other horrific violence they may experience as well. No they probably won’t get murdered, which if you were a strong reader you’d have noticed I said already, but will they get raped? Will they begin to be stalked? Assaulted? These things are not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:48 PM
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I’d ban him from the internet and enroll him in various grass-touching activities if he’s underage. If he was an adult id try to talk to him about it, but when that goes nowhere because I’m just a dumb woman I’d just mock his many inevitable failures while pointing out they were his fault entirely and he’s a pussy for giving up on life like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:42 PM
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I am strong and independent, which is 100% not relevant to any of this Why do men love being so confidently wrong all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:41 PM
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Men are scarier than women bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:29 PM
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People get angry at me all the time for telling them the truth. And what do they do about it? Male anger is a legitimate threat to women. Even online, it can lead to stalking which can lead to in-person harassment. Does the anger you receive for telling the truth make you concerned for your safety? Nobody's attacking them. 🙄 try living in reality my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:25 PM
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In my life when I’ve had male friends, their maleness was never a factor. I think it’s ridiculous people think men and women can’t be friends, there is zero possibility my male friends wanted to fuck me, any more than men want to fuck anything with a vagina anyway. We bonded over a variety of shit, contributed equally to the friendship, respected each other, etc. It’s just regular friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:33 PM
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That’s pretty sad dude, sorry to hear that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:29 PM
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Yes, I was clarifying for you because you did not seem to understand that that was my original meaning and appeared to instead be under the impression that I was saying any male feminist can have sex with me based solely on his feminist status
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:30 PM
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No don’t try and turn this around on me. -You whining about how you can’t take it Is seething a synonym for mocking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:22 PM
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You’re the one accusing me of fucking tall misogynists lmao don’t dish it if you can’t take it. If you don’t want to be wrong about women stop being wrong about women 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:15 PM
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Yeah, I didn’t say he’d get a goal, he just has a shot. Misogynists are banned from playing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:55 PM
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I wouldn’t but you’re gonna believe whatever you want to believe about women no matter how much it hurts you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:54 PM
3

Ok timecube guy. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:54 PM
4

Necessary, not sufficient
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:52 PM
4

Oh hey you accidentally replied before you read my response Pro tip: equal in this context does not mean “the exact same”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:38 PM
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Do you want a man who lifts the same amount of weights that you do? The fuck does that have to do with being equal?? Baffling Would you date a man the same height as you? Same response Do you want a man who scores the same standardized tests scores as a woman his age? Same response a dumb man That’s not what dumb means Let’s say you both are true equals… both of you work for the post office, same job, same pension, same retirements, same benefits… equal dating can happen but it’s very rare and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:27 PM
5

Ah I guess this explains how you know all about who women fuck You completely make it up As I suspected
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:21 PM
5

Oh yes mb, they are all angels who are definitely not hooking up on one night stands, mb... Who is they? I am asking you how you are in a position to know any of this, because there’s very few ways you could actually know even a fraction of the things you claim to know about women sleeping with “alphas”, and as far as I can tell, zero ways for you to know everything you claim to know. The odds are extremely extremely low that you have nothing to worry about. I know you don’t mean it that way but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:20 PM
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Nah a women that goes home with the same dude drunk at 4am will definitely talk about their feelings, nothing else. Which woman? Do you actually know any women? How are you seeing this happen? Talks about being ''your equal'' then immediately states this. Hypocrite and just proves my point feminism isn't fighting for equality, but for privileges under the guise of equality.. Read better my dude Why do women like you think I automatically want to fuck you, I was not talking about you, I do not kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:06 PM
8

Richard Cooper, Andrew/Tristan Tate Who
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:45 PM
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Any man who is a genuine feminist actually has a shot with me. If you don’t think I’m your equal (and can’t even pretend you do for long enough to fuck me) then it’s because you’re beneath me. And not in a sexy way. Beta or not, who cares, that alpha/beta shit is based on a wolf study that was terminally flawed btw. No basis in reality. Just astrology for dudes who can’t get laid. And I see this all the time, feminists getting banged out on a Friday night at the club by the guys the guys in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:44 PM
3

How many romance novels are written on the premise of "he took what he wanted from me"? Idk how many?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:54 AM
1

Are you saying that is bad that she is the boss of whether or not she does anal? Are you arguing you should coerce her into anal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:46 AM
1

In our society the elite have no power lol. We are ruled by psychopathic morons who can’t think farther ahead than next quarter. And the CIA I guess, idk, idk who runs the CIA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:58 PM
1

Yeah that’s not what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:53 PM
2

And I question how much we could ever mitigate this tendency. The question isn’t how much we can, it’s if we should. Even if it can only be mitigated 5%, that’s 5% more than if we didn’t try at all. Which maybe means 5% of people who would have been treated as group members instead of individuals instead being treated as real people with subjective experience and unique combinations of traits. Is there a downside to trying to mitigate this tendency? both the oversimplified versions you know the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:44 PM
0

If men are so good at introspecting re: dating, why are they so much less likely to consider if they are causing problems in their relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:38 PM
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Or we could try to mitigate it to the extent possible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:32 PM
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Probably the most accurate thing that has been said in this sub And seems to me the blue pill way is superior if you have to choose one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:25 PM
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99.999% of the stuff y’all say about women would be exactly as accurate if not more accurate if instead of “women” you said “people”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:23 PM
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It’s astonishing to me that red pillers still try to date women with the absolute lack of respect you have for us. Why are you wasting all this energy on pussy when you can buy a pocket pussy and do something useful with your lives? You do not even like women, stop subjecting us to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:10 PM
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That’s what I always say about red pillers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:07 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:06 PM
3

So get a vibrator? Idk like why date men when you think this way about them. I’m not even saying you’re 100% wrong but you’re definitely wasting a lot of energy, same as TRP men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:02 PM
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Why can’t anyone just be normal anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:54 PM
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“Women’s standards are too high” Women’s standards (in no particular order): Not broke Treats their SO with respect Can take care of themselves Doesn’t have a suicidal lifestyle (eg addiction) Can have a conversation with them Attractive enough (and taste in this varies enough that pretty much all y’all will be this for someone somewhere) Able to cope with adult responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:53 PM
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If a man is dedicating his life to getting laid by a different woman every couple days, I wouldn’t call him “above average” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:47 PM
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Fine with me. Only issue is I might think he’s not interested if he doesn’t explain why/how long he wants to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:08 PM
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People can change, there’s no problem with a guy who was slutty in his youth and grew up to realize sex is better kept to committed relationships. As long as he’s clean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 03:07 PM
1

So wait why are there employers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:47 AM
1

But what does pat have to do with Marxism tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:03 AM
2

Statistically speaking, one night stands are not enjoyable for women. Being able to get laid easily as a woman is like being able to stub your toe easily. Not something to be envied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:02 AM
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“Getting laid” sucks for women so who care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:42 PM
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Dreaming of being Karl Marx is pretty Chad tho ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:34 PM
2

You said something along the lines of that women don't get instantly attracted. Bzzt wrongo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:33 PM
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Why can’t the men in this sub follow a conversation? You are talking about something completely different, I have no idea what other than it has nothing to do with anything I was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:49 PM
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I said empty shell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:43 PM
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The same reason you work out when you want to get stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:19 PM
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You will never be happy with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:18 PM
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Wouldn’t a stoic be better at not placing value on those feelings of inferiority
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:16 PM
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You guys have no long term thinking abilities, it’s ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:12 PM
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Nobody cares
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:11 PM
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Lol oh no a guy is acting stupid af at me, guess I have to reevaluate all my opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:11 PM
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woman disagrees with you “yOu ArE aCtInG lIkE a SpOiLeD cHiLd, FiX tHe WoRlD”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:57 PM
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Pay attention to the conversation, we are specifically talking about long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:55 PM
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Women will only put up with an attractive empty shell for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:31 PM
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Yes I'll make sure that they don't have any available family members to help them before I knock them up. i’M nOt A bAd PeRsOn It is, but a lot of them still choose to be part of their children's lives. You have to pick one. Coparenting is not what you’re talking about, so unless you want to change the subject entirely, pick the non-coparenting option. And because the mother's are immature, incapable and irresponsible. Most single mothers are in the 16 - 25 age range. Yep women don’t always beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:23 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:01 PM
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Most single mothers have their mothers or other family members…. splitting the childcare. Big assumptions, hope you verify that with every woman you may knock up before you knock her up the father We are discussing your suggestion that it’s good and fine for the father to fuck off entirely so no If most single mothers actually did "100% of the childcare," they wouldn't be able to work. When you’re a parent, you find a way if possible. But it’s true there are a shitload of impoverished children. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:00 PM
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Men can’t be friends with women without wanting to fuck the women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:55 PM
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I thought we were talking about relationships, not one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:53 PM
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Yes, you don't understand sarcasm in writing very well. There was no reason to assume you were being sarcastic, it was in line with everything else you said, logically and in its level of understanding of women and sex Giving up a child for adoption is not abandoning them. 🙄 using semantics to avoid the point smh men hate logic so much The mothers have to support their children too. It's not the guy's responsibility to cover all of the costs. She’s doing 100% of the childcare, why should she hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:52 PM
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Loser desperate shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:47 PM
0

All men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:45 PM
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Seems to be helping the guys getting laid just fine. Guys don’t think about ovulation, you are one of the rare ones and you didn’t even know that it’s not a coincidence that women are more fertile when they’re ovulating 🙄 Doesn't apply to women with no sex drive or lesbians. Not an issue most single mothers are irresponsible and would abandon their children if they could They literally can incentives Child support doesn’t cover childcare costs, it would be a much better decision financially to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:45 PM
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The object is finding a woman. An ovulating woman will be the easiest. I suggest you stop thinking about ovulation then, it won’t help you and it might handicap you Ovulating single women are though. Lol not once in my life I've seen enough to know from experience. You’ve seen enough to know that it’s good when fathers abandon their children? You haven’t even seen enough to know about adoption lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:36 PM
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If women are at their horniest when ovulating, then it isn't going to be difficult to find women who want to have sex. But the object is finding an ovulating woman, isn’t it? Not all women who are horny are ovulating They don't because they can't, and they get child support and other handouts for having children too. Their saving grace. Did you know you’re a bad person? Also that you are not as smart or well-informed as you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:31 PM
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By going out in public where those women will be. Obviously meeting women is the first step, I’m asking how he’s gonna know which ones are ovulating In my experience, the majority have been. At least they don’t abandon their children
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:23 PM
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Lots of people with shitty personalities learn how to hide it until the other person is emotionally invested. This is why they’re always so dissatisfied with relationships, because the person their partner loves is a fake person, no one actually loves them for who they are other than maybe their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:21 PM
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and women seem to be their most fertile when they're ovulating (coincidentally, right?). ???? No not coincidentally His best chance, if he is looking for regular sex, is to go out and catch women during their ovulation period. How would he go about that? Children are the only reason why a relationship would need to last for a long time, and considering that the average relationship lasts anywhere between 1 and 6 years, that's plenty of time to make sure the kids can at least walk and survive bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:19 PM
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Being enough for a woman simply because she finds you that attractive That’s not a thing. At best it’s incredibly rare and found only in dumb or crazy women. Get rid of your unrealistic expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:16 PM
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Which one, the neckbeard or the guy asking me out as a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:13 PM
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Ok where are they If the options aren’t good enough for me then they aren’t options, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:48 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:43 PM
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is the fact you had far more choices as to who to date than men. ???? We’re each about half of the population You don’t think the guys you rejected in lieu of these bad-acting men didn’t see this growing up? Oh I think this explains the first part. You think we all rejected a bunch of dudes who were legitimate options. I got hit on like twice in high school and one of them was a joke (I knew it was a joke but it was still very annoying). The other was a neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:42 PM
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I have been waiting for you to show enough intellectual curiosity and humility to actually ask, so when you do that I will
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:33 PM
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Except it is related logically
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:32 AM
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Good thing the second sentence is related to the first sentence and therefore by definition it is not a non-sequitur then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:49 AM
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You not following something != it’s a non-sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:30 PM
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Yes. Men want their potential wives to have no past that would upset them. Because they don’t want humans. I don’t know what you aren’t getting here, we agree that men are allowed to have whatever ridiculous criteria for a wife that they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:46 PM
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Expecting a woman to live her entire life before she met you in such a way that nothing she’s ever done will make you irrationally upset is tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:58 PM
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Do you mean in opposite world? I mean just look at the comment I replied to. Y’all don’t want us to be people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:49 PM
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Men have no empathy for women smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 03:10 PM
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Off putting implies distaste which isn’t what they described
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:31 PM
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You contested my point by saying a bunch of insane shit, I know better than to try to logically argue with insanity Eg the reply I made with a bunch of actual points that you just ignored lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:43 PM
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You absolutely don’t, I’m sorry to inform you but reality plays no role in forming your opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:33 PM
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gestures to outside world Aka no one who thinks the things you do is gonna take any facts or logic seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:19 PM
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Constant threat of rape? Getting murdered by boyfriend/husband? Lack of respect solely due to genitalia? What privileges do women have besides men wanting to fuck them, which actually sucks most of the time? We sure don’t get away with disrespect the way men do. Marriage and children are life insurance? Lol wtf does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:18 PM
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As long as they are the same age of course
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:07 AM
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It’s astonishing how much of an expert on women’s experiences you think you are for someone who clearly has never listened to a word any woman has ever said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:07 AM
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women are far more emotionally immature per default because of biologically, Omg stop I’m dying and on top of that they are shielded from any hardship Hahaha omg omg
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 07:52 PM
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Now that’s comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:51 PM
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Also men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:46 PM
2

Oh no, if the women start believing statistics they might get wandering womb!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:33 PM
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It’s supposed to be funny but I guess men don’t have very good senses of humor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:20 PM
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Married women die earlier than single women. Single men die earlier than married men. Husbands steal their wives’ life force. Also all the cooking and cleaning and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 04:03 PM
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5 times that you noticed From what I’ve seen on askreddit threads, guys are oblivious to being hit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:58 PM
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Idk if I’m unattractive but I’ll assume I am. I’m average at best I get hit on by absolute freaks, weirdos, and neckbeards, and only rarely. I don’t get out much so that may be a factor for the rarity. I don’t use dating apps Definitely can’t date any man I want, even hot people can’t do that More attractive than what? What do you mean “expecting”? I don’t expect any partner but if I had one he’d have to be more attractive than my bar for attractiveness, meaning I’d have to be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 03:56 PM
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So what you’re saying is that they’ll introduce you to a good match? Don’t expect a “high tier” woman if you’re a “low tier” man. If your female friends aren’t inviting you places with their other friends, that is sus. Maybe you’re not really friends. Because lots of women love playing matchmaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:55 PM
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What planet is this guy on where these are even questions to be asked tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 04:52 PM
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Guess what female friends do Introduce you to their other female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:34 AM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:45 PM
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I’m sorry it’s so hard for you to follow arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:35 PM
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Men like to pretend they’re islands and no one has influenced them without their rational consideration. We say the same things about men and y’all get mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:05 AM
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We were talking about hookup culture vs pre-hookup culture. There’s a lot of pre-
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:46 AM
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We’re talking since the 1970s, not the 1470s. Only for one specific tangent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 07:39 PM
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Only if you view all het sex as "rape". Which you might if you were Andrea Dworkin. I literally have no idea what you’re saying. You do know that there have been many times in history when rape makes a woman unmarriagable, and in those times marriage and prostitution were women’s two options for any level of economic stability, right? Male self-reported happiness has, evidently, been fairly stable. Males are notorious for not being in touch with their feelings tho This is s a non-sequitur respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:26 PM
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That seems like a low bar. And yet it’s one we had to clear Nope, and certainly not compared to the decline of female happiness in the West Their suicide rates have increased 🤷‍♀️ That's (a) a declarative statement, … oh no? That’s… bad I guess? and (b) also not true. Haha what The wealthy are wealthier, but that happens for a reasons and it's not some Bernie Sanders/William Jennings Bryan "Cross of Gold" nonsense. Idk what cross of gold is but it wasn’t happening when union rates were high all …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:52 PM
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Well you live near a bunch of morons then, I haven’t met anyone like that since high school Wait are you in high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:44 PM
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Since I never said anything like that I don’t understand that response
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:43 PM
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In this context it means that women won the battle to have extra-marital sex without being shamed or "punished" for it, Not yet we haven’t but lost the war in that it has not led to greater happiness. At least getting raped doesn’t mean we are gonna be homeless for the rest of our lives or have to turn to prostitution In fact there has been a decline in women's happiness from 1970s onward. But not men’s? The economy has been getting worse for everyone since the 70s (except the top dogs that all …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:35 PM
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🙄 bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:15 PM
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Women have won the war of hook ups. ???? What have we won???? They can have as many as they want. But they’re not a priority for women, they are for men, men won the battle and the war. At best women have a new acceptable pastime that isn’t actually that fun and is pretty dangerous. We didn’t even push for hookup culture, the sexual revolution was for men’s benefit and they were the ones that pushed it. Women just went along because they had reliable birth control for the first time in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:14 PM
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It’s not rape if they literally asked for it. Using the word “literally” in the traditional sense. She literally asked for it and when confronted with the fact that she asked to be raped, she proceeds to insult your manhood for not doing it and having a problem with it. You’re not doing anything wrong by her metrics. But maybe she’ll learn her metrics are dumb as hell and she needs to grow the fuck up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:10 PM
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I didn’t say to actually do it Never be in the same room as a woman like that if you can help it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:08 PM
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No, they’re just fucking idiots. And if they’re “most” women in your experience, I hate to tell you but you’ve got a thing for morons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:07 PM
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Excuse me, I don’t know who the fuck “you” is in that sentence but you can fuck off w treating me like I’m one of these rare dumbfucks when I’m literally over here calling them dumbfucks and telling you to find one of the other 99% of women. If THEY are insulting your manhood after that, simply say “where are you? I’m gonna come fuck you right now whether you like it or not”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:06 PM
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What about a relevant example re: hookup culture so I can understand what you were specifically talking about, rather than an explanation for the general meaning of the cliche?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:59 PM
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Like I literally don’t even know how you found those idiots because they’re rare these days. But next time one complains you didn’t rape her, tell her that that’s what she’s doing and see what she says. “You’re mad I didn’t push you into a sexual act you expressed a lack of interest in? You realize you’re saying I should have raped you last night right? You like being raped, is that what you’re telling me? Or do you maybe want to work on your shitty communication?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:56 PM
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Women complain about men not “taking the inutiative” after saying no or pulling away. Dumb idiot women who you should avoid at all costs*
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:53 PM
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It’s more that women just talk to each other about what’s been going on with them, unless the dude did something egregious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:52 PM
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What does “women won the battle but lost the war” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:50 PM
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I mean… yes? This has been scientifically proven, women are more at risk of STDs, pregnancy, and not having an orgasm during hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:48 PM
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Square heads are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:34 PM
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Fuckmommies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:31 PM
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Girls have changed their entire ethnicity with makeup don’t try me. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:20 PM
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Yes. Just enough to draw blood
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:20 PM
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What about if you’re not around to complain about it because obviously that’s not part of the question because why would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:17 AM
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As someone who has worked retail and office jobs, retail jobs suck but office jobs suck your soul out through your ears. At least when I’m off work from my retail jobs I can still enjoy things, not so with my office jobs. Then again my retail jobs have been union mostly, could be why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:37 PM
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No but that’s because there’s not a lot of rungs below me, he’d have to be essentially unemployed and I can’t afford to pay both our bills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:33 PM
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There's no evidence that humans are different in kind from any other animal. Exactly. What is the difference between a female dog and a male one? The male is maybe a little more territorial? If you have a different starting assumption when analyzing the behavior of humans than you have for every other animal, that's special pleading. Are you arguing that there’s no such thing as social constructs and culture, or are you arguing that animals also have social constructs and culture? If the latter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:25 PM
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So, the underlying precept of our culture is that men and women are basically the same, and that any observed differences between men and women are due to culture. I’ve always understood it to be more that we are grappling with the (relatively) sudden awareness that many things about people that we had assumed were dictated by our genders are in fact social constructs, so when considering a difference we try to control for our socially-ingrained biases by operating under the assumption that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:44 PM
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Gender is complicated. Aspects of it, esp gender roles, are social constructs. Other aspects appear to be inborn, and not always in accordance with genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:26 PM
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I have met them, they exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:25 PM
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If you’re murdered but your murderer gets away with it, were you not actually murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:00 PM
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There are a lot of men that don’t both hate me and want to own and control me like a dog, I only hate the ones that do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:59 PM
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Steroids, calf implants, hair plugs If makeup is trickery to you your eyes are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:36 PM
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This is literally a debate sub between various gender ideologies, if they’re even on that stupid sub at all they also belong here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:35 PM
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Nobody asked my opinion when my gender was decided
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:31 PM
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Disgusted that we are technically the same species I have a coworker who has a pathological (literally pathological, she has a lot of mental problems, not her fault but it is what it is) need for attention/approval from men. And you know what she does to get it? Her hair and makeup, and also insults the men while possibly arguably flirting. What does every male customer, coworker, and manager do? Drool, fall at her feet and volunteer to be her willing slave. It’s so pathetic. It’s very hard to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:28 PM
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At least this man put in the work naturally. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:17 PM
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What is the difference between TRP with all the bad stuff stripped away and generic self-help? "women deserve equality under the law" This is a misunderstanding of the core of feminism. We also want de facto equality, which is where many people disagree. There are also plenty who don’t want us to be equal de jure, either, for the record
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:13 PM
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Nah they’re born babies. Babies aren’t hot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:10 PM
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*social competence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:09 PM
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They aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:10 PM
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Baffling take. You realize men are individuals right? I can respect Tom’s opinion, take Dick’s with a grain of salt, and completely dismiss Harry’s altogether because Harry is a dumb jackass I don’t respect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:03 PM
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Tell me why you think Nietzche and stoicism are mutually exclusive? They are both concerned with power and have opposing conceptions of what it is. Tell me why stoics would be disappointed in me? Sexbots are anti-social You have to make an actual point and preferably a steelman that I can go after You’ve confused me criticizing your philosophical influences with a formal debate. Anyway reread your Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:57 PM
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Says the guy who thinks men would prefer sexbots to human relationships. Guess that’s your nietzche side huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:35 PM
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The stoics would be so disappointed in you. Nietzche too. You sound very weak minded Also how do you reconcile stoicism and nietzche anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:21 PM
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Most of those guys aren’t that smart, they’re lucky and they’re assholes, that combo can get you very rich. Bill gates is smart, the rest, meh. Ok maybe Jobs, then again he did die from treating pancreatic cancer with fruit, so… Counter examples prove nothing since the claim was never “all smart men marry dumb women”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:15 PM
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So… you are a Martian? I suggest you consume more earth media and learn some more from observation before attempting to interact with us earthlings tbh, you are far from getting the hang of human conversation and logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:12 PM
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Both are. She’s called a trophy wife. Trophy wives aren’t always dumb but they are often dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:08 PM
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No one cares what anyone thinks unless that person and the thing they’re thinking is important to the person deciding whether to care. Are you a Martian?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:07 PM
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I’ve never seen a smart man marry a dumb woman. Really? It’s like a trope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:05 PM
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Wow this man has never so much as stepped into a school
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:04 PM
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*insults from people matter to people when the insult is based on something the person being insulted cares about Idk why this needs explaining but 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:59 PM
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Raising children and taking care of all our SOs chores
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:57 PM
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I edited mine to correct the error I made
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:33 PM
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How did you edit your comment without the edit star? It wasn’t fast enough for that Edit: nevermind I didn’t go back far enough Not all nefarious goals are illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:30 PM
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That’s what merriam-Webster says, it doesn’t say what you said it does. Are you just making stuff up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:20 PM
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a member of a gang of criminals ???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:15 PM
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Says who
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:07 PM
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A gangster could be a gang member, or it could be a tax evader. Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:53 PM
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Fiddlehead No way that’s a real company name lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:22 PM
1

??? I’m sorry, do you expect us to quit our jobs and abandon our families and friends and stop sleeping so we can spend 100% of our time going on dates just so these guys can each get an equal shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:22 PM
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You’d think the gender that does have to do that would put more thought into it than the gender that doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:21 PM
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Guess that’s why left is best!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:20 PM
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Would that this were true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:07 PM
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What is it with guys’ obsession with approaching women on the street? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:06 PM
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How is he in the same place when now he has hobbies and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:05 PM
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The fact that you think your height and race is related to your heroism is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 03:02 PM
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Idk what to tell you man, “eat pray love-ing” is a punchline
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:37 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:05 PM
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From being alive during the time between when the movie came out and now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 08:04 PM
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The fact that you remember it at all is kinda weird, we have mostly erased it from cultural memory out of shame, but you’re sure holding onto it for dear life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:35 PM
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You are very obsessed with a movie people barely remember and are mostly embarrassed and confused about how popular it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:33 PM
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And people who do so are mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:31 PM
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Touch grass dude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:10 AM
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Imagine thinking only penises can provide vaginal stimulation lmao Yeah that’s not the reason bi women are shunned by lesbians, to the extent that they even are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:39 AM
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Feminism is the political expression of Borderline Lmao you people istg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:40 PM
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??? Completely irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 05:36 PM
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How is it princessy to not want a bunch of gross dudes trying to get in your pants lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:31 PM
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I don’t care about your sexual proclivities, I care that you think wanting to smash means you don’t have to believe the person you’re fucking is a person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:23 PM
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It doesn’t really matter that the interest is temporary, it’s all happening at once and no one has time to give each dude a real shot. We have jobs and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:18 PM
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Men IRL act normal usually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:14 PM
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Listen I never said you aren’t allowed to be an asshole, you just need to understand that it’s a person that you’re treating that way, not a thing. I don’t know why you think I think she’s entitled to your thoughts and feelings either, do you think anyone who is a person is entitled to your thoughts and feelings? FYI that is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:11 PM
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There is no amount of money that removes her humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:03 PM
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Some women like it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:01 PM
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Having sex doesn’t destroy women FYI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:59 PM
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Found the women expert. Ladies, if you want to know how you feel about sex, don’t rely on your womanly opinions, just ask this guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:58 PM
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We do have hands, and for women who find that insufficient we also have many sex toy options. Men really aren’t required for, or even statistically very good at, getting us off. I do not really care if men have a harder time dating because women don’t need them. Sorry but you have to bring something besides your dick to the table. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:54 PM
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You rent services not people. People are not toys or any other kind of object.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:52 PM
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Oops somebody forgot to read the post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:42 PM
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They aren’t saying the women drug dealers fuck don’t count as women, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:40 PM
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Definitely true for FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:35 PM
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lmao they're literally rentable sex toys … yeah that’s not how it works. You don’t “rent” sex workers any more than you rent plumbers or any other service provider. Are plumbers things or people? Same with sex workers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:34 PM
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You live in 100 years ago reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:32 PM
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Are you a Martian
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:31 PM
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is it going to attract people who hate women? Sure, but that's the same with anything where it's going to attract people who hate a certain group. ??? I mean there are plenty of groups that don’t attract hate-filled people tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:30 PM
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Well that’s surprising. But as it doesn’t have anything to do with dick size, I don’t care that much and it doesn’t mean much in terms of this argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:28 PM
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Because that’s how the dudes who made it up think about dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:26 PM
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It’s true that women sometimes do this. They usually aren’t shaming them for their penis size so much as using their penis size to shame them for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:29 PM
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Women didn’t coin big dick energy, and it doesn’t actually have anything to do with penis size I have never in my life heard of that song nor any other song about men’s dick size I don’t know what female-centric media you’re consuming but it’s sure not representative Porn isn’t sex Men do compensate for their dick size because men care about their dick size
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:37 PM
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Yes Our socioeconomic system is destroying all our communities as well as our hope for the future. Most young people expect society to collapse in their lifetimes and we have no one to commiserate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:30 PM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:29 PM
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Not relevant at all but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:27 PM
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What kind of fucking freaks are you fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:17 PM
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Men are the ones who care about penis size
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 04:14 PM
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Tbh I think a lot of people on that sub are rping
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:35 PM
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Those are not misogynistic, the fact that women have different opinions on how to liberate us isn’t signs of misogyny. Some feminists have internalized misogyny that comes out, sure, but at their core those things aren’t anti-feminist or misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:32 PM
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Some forms of Feminism are really misogynistic. Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:23 AM
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Only cuz he couldn’t get into the sorority house
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:17 AM
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Yeah that’s a load of horseshit. He went on a Stacy-murdering spree because he couldn’t get laid. That’s pretty much the opposite of feminism, I don’t care which forums he trolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:19 AM
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What kind of mental gymnastics do you have to do to call him a feminist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:06 AM
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That’s not how dead languages work, and English is not a dead language. I don’t even know how you could convince yourself of that tbh Branded with what by whom, when and where? Tf you talking about? You off some meds or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:28 PM
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Yeah, but its definition has spread beyond its coining. It doesn’t refer to radical feminists anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:39 PM
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However, many people seem to be in disagreement about trans issues, and the problems of intersectional theory. Once the strategies employed by feminists began to lead to outcomes that weren't beneficial for ALL women, a crisis of identity for feminism as a unified movement was created. A) say trans rights instead of feminism then B) false
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:59 PM
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Oh gosh the women can read and have rights now omg so terrible Men who are anti-feminist are the most fragile little babies istg. How is women being free a threat to you, honestly? Because you can’t own your own fuckmaid? Like what’s the problem exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I’m the one not making sense lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:48 PM
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The term was from "involuntary celibate" No fucking shit, nobody doesn’t know that already and used almost exclusively as an attack by others. That’s why there are communities for self-described incels right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:15 PM
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“Male/female dynamics” is not what I’m talking about, I’m talking about saying “females” instead of “women”. Of course context matters, that’s fuckin why I didn’t make a sweeping generalization and made sure to explicitly say that this isn’t in 100% of cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:12 PM
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Definitions of people mean nothing when the community welcomes people outside the definition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:10 PM
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People used to say that educating women led to wandering uterus, ie hysteria
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:09 PM
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Pay attention to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:08 PM
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And her actions that prove she loved him were… fighting back against assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:03 PM
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Referring to women as “females” is often a red flag for this stuff. Not always, but often
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:00 PM
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Yeah, can’t expect a silly woman to know whether or not she was in love with a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:59 PM
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It is, just not a class-based one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:55 PM
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Incels often fuck, they just realized it doesn’t make them happy so instead of looking for other solutions they find reasons that the sex they do have doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:51 PM
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Oh hell no lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:50 PM
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Everyone knows reading leads to wandering testicle syndrome!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:49 PM
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There’s a million examples just like him. People into TRP should just look into regular self-help and/or therapy instead. All of the good stuff, none of the misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 03:23 AM
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Toxic simple-minded losers who are too invested in their own false sense of superiority to allow any conflicting information to enter their brains, even when following TRP principles leads them into a hell of their own making Edit: exhibit A https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qoyog2/how_can_loyalty_exist_if_hypergamy_is_real/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 08:57 PM
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The majority of Americans would not be able to afford a surprise $500 expense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:41 AM
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https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/tendency
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 12:40 AM
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So a man who does not want a relationship is dehumanizing a woman. Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:36 PM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:36 PM
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In America most women earn a good living salary entirely on their own Fuckin hardly anyone in America earns a good living salary, shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:22 PM
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They don’t start out that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 07:19 PM
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Guys who only want sex have a strong tendency to both dehumanize women and expect sympathy from them. Guys looking for relationships are much more sympathetic. So the former is funnier. Fuck those guys (but not literally)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:43 PM
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As if Jeff Bezos would ever slum it in a million dollar mansion lol he wouldn’t be caught dead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:41 PM
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She don’t care about dudes who want casual sex but don’t want to have a lifestyle conducive to casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:39 PM
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Can I have both? ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:24 AM
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But I want it 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:08 AM
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Do you think there are infinity men now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:28 PM
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Every relationship between any two people is different from every other relationship between any other pair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:08 PM
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I was confused by these traits because they seem to contradict every aspect that a woman would find attractive in a man(according to redpill that is). I have identified the root of the confusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:12 AM
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They want to define the traditional masculine virtues - things like courage and independence and assertiveness - as a danger to society, Complete and obvious strawman. Toxic masculinity != masculinity is toxic. This has been gone over countless times. The problem is social atomization and our economic situation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:43 PM
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I don’t go to the beach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 07:00 PM
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It makes me less attracted and way less likely to approach him I’m not into competition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:56 PM
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And again you completely prove my point Do you guys think women are not aware that we don’t have to look good to get dudes? Women’s concerns about our looks has almost nothing to do with men’s opinions qua men, either when it comes to getting beach body ready or when it comes to fat acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 06:09 PM
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Certain mental illness symptoms I cannot stand, my mother has a number of mental illnesses and never got them under control and any behavior that reminds me of hers disgusts me. It’s not fair and I’m not proud of it but it does come from trauma and I’m working on it. But I don’t think I’ll ever find these behaviors not unattractive. That said, I don’t have any real stigma against mental illness in general, and if he doesn’t display these specific behaviors and I am aware of how to deal with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:40 PM
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The ad had precisely 0 to do with mating or male attraction whatsoever. The fact that you are looking at it and seeing it as being about fuckability kinda proves my entire point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 05:14 PM
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How does banning body shaming in advertising affect male attraction anyway? What does “The idea being pushed is that being fat doesn't make a woman low value, because men don't get to determine that.” mean in a context that makes it clear the person saying this thinks it’s a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:47 PM
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You mean the sentence where you overexplained the concept of buying cars like I had never considered the possibility that one day I might want to buy a car, or possibly didn’t even know what a car was? The part where you acted like I was a total moron who couldn’t figure out why making a greater commitment requires more time spent making sure it’s the right commitment to make? That sentence? Are you saying I should treat you like an idiot? You clearly understand the concept, I don’t know why you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 03:20 PM
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That doesn't explain the why though. “Its a much bigger commitment than a rental so I take my time.” = literally you explaining why for both the car issue and the relationship issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:44 PM
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Because relationships carry more risks and costs than fucking randos, assuming you’re careful about how you go about fucking randos (which I am)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:43 PM
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I didn’t say anything about emotions? What’s required for man B is a lot more security and trust
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:37 PM
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Fucking some random isn’t jumping into anything, it’s just an activity; a relationship is serious so I take it seriously, part of that means taking time. How the fuck is this confusing, I honestly do not understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:26 PM
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The reason you don’t understand is because you’re looking at it from the perspective of someone who does not experience sexual attraction outside of already having some kind of relationship. Surely you realize that people who are not demisexual do not have this quality. And therefore it is not a factor in our decision making. I can experience sexual attraction without an emotional connection. This is the explanation you were looking for. I don’t know what else you want from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:22 PM
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Because it’s unwise to jump into things without knowing what you’re jumping into. I didn’t think that needed explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:19 PM
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I’m not demisexual so that should explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:18 PM
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I think I did and I literally do not understand what y’all are missing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:07 PM
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If you're aware that you are attracted to him and want to be in some kind of relationship Big if. You guys really just jump right into relationships because a girl is hot and you sorta feel like your gut tells you she might not be psycho or otherwise a bad person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:04 PM
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In what way did I not explain why? Is not jumping into important relationships blindly an idea men are not familiar with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:02 PM
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Appeal what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:01 PM
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… you mean why don’t I jump into important things without getting some idea of what I’m getting into and whether I’d even want to? I don’t understand the question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 02:00 PM
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Why’s what? I feel like I just explained why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:56 PM
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I fuck guys I don’t give a shit about immediately because I just want the D If it’s someone I actually like I’ll take my time and get to know him before jumping into anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:53 PM
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This seems to me predicated on the assumption that the only reason women are alive is to attract men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:41 PM
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You do realize that your man has probably slept with someone with bigger boobs, tighter, younger, more energy, etc... Aren't you worried his love isn't genuine since he has likely been with someone who, for all intents and purposes, out performs you? I have a much higher opinion of men than that. Not that my opinion of men is super high, but it’s definitely not that low. Also do you not worry that his past conquests are now damaged much like yourself because of these flings? And they'll screw ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:47 PM
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I have a much worse opinion of men who use jargon like “n-count” than I do of men who have had a lot of sex with a lot of different people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:44 PM
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Here's the truth, approach women wherever, whenever it's appropriate, because shooters shoot and no HR department on earth handicaps their recruiters. Ironic that you say nothing I say makes sense and also respond with this complete gibberish. It’s not my fault no one invites you to parties or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:19 PM
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That’s not who anyone is, not even the people with those characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:54 PM
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Nothing is less attractive to women than basing your personality and tastes solely around what’s attractive to women. If you want a beard, you also want a woman who likes beards. This doesn’t mean you should never concern yourself with attracting women, just never at the cost of who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:31 PM
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Well you sure act like you don’t like people. And say things that people who don’t like people would say. You don’t need to ask anyone to introduce you to anyone, just be around people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:26 PM
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Friend groups are usually extended like families are, idk if you guys are just hella insular or if you’re overstating it due to the self defeatist attitude you display when you ask what the chances of you meeting someone hiking or whatever are. I’ll tell you what the chances are: much much better than just hanging out with the same few dudes all the time. Don’t their girlfriends have friends? Don’t you all hang out together sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:58 AM
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Enjoy your sausage fest life? You gotta really be trying to avoid women in your social circle so completely, so if you’re in that position you must want to be in that position If you don’t know how you got there, find some other friends? Join a group about something you’re vaguely interested in and isn’t also a total sausage fest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:48 AM
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No one here cares if they assimilate, yet they do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 11:43 PM
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If you don’t like being around people, why do you want a gf? Women also count as people, after all. For real tho, “dot[ing] on my friends and family to pawn me off on other people...” is a weird way of describing “having social connections and being part of a community”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 10:32 PM
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You didn’t even read it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:33 PM
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Lastly, may I introduce you to the statistics of how unsuccessful dating is over the internet? How many of those relationships last? I’m super not arguing in favor of online dating, as you can see by the words I used and the way they combined together into sentences that impart meaning How come there are so many single women now compared to before if the “cold” approach of yesteryears were soooo unsuccessful? There was no cold approach of yesteryear. The reason for more singles is that social re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:32 PM
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Meeting through social connections is the opposite of a cold approach. If you’re both at the same party, you both know that the other person knows the host and the host will vouch for them to some extent, or be able to warn you off, with details, if they don’t think the other person is a good person to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:11 PM
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I live in a place where the majority of people I know and have known throughout my life are children or grandchildren of immigrants. This is incredibly not accurate. To the point where I straight up do not believe you know any children of immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:09 PM
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There are many relationships that have survived from “cold” approaches, ask anyone who had a bf before 1999 Before online dating, people mostly met through social connections. That’s still a common way to meet outside of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:07 PM
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I’m not the one talking myself out of the relationships that I want, not sure why you’re laughing at me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:03 PM
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Are you sure it was her number? Anyway I was speaking generally, not every woman has the same level of risk-assessment. Your odds of starting a relationship with a random woman are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:01 PM
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So basically the only two way to meet women What an insane thing to say. Are you serious? Have you never had friends or even extended family? Like do you know anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:55 PM
0

If you actually knew any humans you’d know how crazy you sound, every woman I’ve ever known or seen regularly if not consistently dates below her class looks-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:53 PM
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For women, attractiveness is probably number one on the list. If you don’t believe that, tell an average guy to approach 10 women and record the interaction, listen to how many women basically won’t give him the time of day. The hell is that supposed to prove? You need to be god-like levels of attractive to succeed with the cold approach, even then you also need to be lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:52 PM
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According to the data in this thread, even if 100% of relationships started online, it still wouldn’t mean all women are on OLD sites/apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:50 PM
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It’s not like we’re willing to date anything with a dick. Better to be single than with a trash dude, and lots of men simply refuse to try to be a net positive in a woman’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:44 PM
1

Yeah but do you know their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:08 AM
1

You don’t talk to a lot of children of immigrants, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 04:36 AM
2

It never was and never will be Have a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:57 PM
1

Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:54 PM
1

So what’s so great about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:52 PM
1

That’s definitely not bloodline-related nor under threat by immigration
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:51 PM
-1

Which country are we talking about? No one answered me about what western civilization is, is it associated with a specific country?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:19 PM
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What is western civilization and why is it passed down by blood? Normally civilizations don’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:37 PM
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I simply will not invest myself in a long term relationship with a woman who got pavlov’d by some dickhead who gives two shits about her. So, any woman with human psychology and a stroke of bad luck. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 03:26 AM
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The only reason men care about dick size is because women care about it. *they insist on thinking women care about it regardless of how many women tell them it literally doesn’t matter Are you seriously gonna try and gaslight me into thinking that women love 3 inch dicks? Have you ever seen a dick? They’re ugly as hell. If you know how to make a girl cum, which has very little to do with dick size (compared with how important men insist on thinking it is), she won’t care about your dick size, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:52 AM
3

Abusive people are famously charming. You’re not gonna get someone emotionally invested enough to put up with abuse if you act like a shitbag all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:49 AM
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It’s because no one can afford to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:50 PM
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Bachelors don't get sex at all. Baffling take Guys who are serious about bods are gonna make sure that the woman gets back in shape. So I don't think that's the reason. Wow I think that it's more likely that the women turn into "moms" and guys don't want them anymore. “MILF”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:48 PM
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I am one??? Dick size is something men care about. You’ll hear some young inexperienced women talking about dick size, all that needs to happen is for them to fuck a dick that’s too big and/or be satisfied by a man with an average sized or smaller one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:38 PM
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Abusive personalities aren’t repellent tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:36 PM
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That’s absolutely not what most women mean lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:09 AM
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Yeah they don’t do it in front of people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:04 AM
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Usually it’s not because he’s picky but rather because his personality repels people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:00 AM
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I’ll tell ya one thing I’ve heard of capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:09 PM
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Lol there’s this guy who’s trying to get with me now that does not know what capitalism is. Like had never heard of it. 🤦‍♀️ It ain’t gonna work out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:53 PM
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Look. I’m not trolling. You’re just mad. There’s a difference. But I won’t antagonize you with my criticisms anymore. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:32 PM
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Uh, no? The fact that you refused to pick up on the change does not mean the change did not happen You have been asking me questions about my ideals. Not your sick-spouse-ideals And the only thing I have spoken about in this thread is what I think about open relationships, and how I feel there is nothing wrong with pursuing sexual urges because it's totally natural. And I have pointed out circumstances where it is indeed wrong to pursue sexual urges, and you got real mad about it for some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:36 PM
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In what way is that an important consideration when talking about marriages falling apart because wives get sick? The conversation has very long since moved past that extremely specific scenario. Keep up. That specific circumstance is what the entire discussion about. False, it is what started the discussion. If you want to stick to a specific topic, why not the op? The sick spouse thing was a tangent itself. Just because you want to have some wacky abstract conversation about rape doesn't mean …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:23 PM
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Nowhere have I mentioned a single thing about rape or consent Yes. That is the problem. Because those are important considerations within this conversation. The context of this entire conversation is about men in relationships with sick wives, where the obvious context of controlling urges is about having sex with others people. If your ideals about relationships can only apply in extremely specific circumstances, then what the hell are you even doing? This is my last response. Kick rocks. Are y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:12 PM
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Call me a troll all you want, it won’t save you from your poorly thought out ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:09 PM
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I’m not dishonest, you just haven’t thought through the implications of your opinions and you’re mad at me for bringing them up and making your brain hurty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:08 PM
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Obviously you weren't talking about these issues within the context of a relationship, nor does that make any sense within the scope of this conversation. I wasn’t, but that in no way means it doesn’t apply to relationships. Since you want to stick to your extremely rigid topic and not allow tangents like in a normal conversation, we can stick to relationships. Men do that shit in relationships too and it is also bad. I said that a lot of marriages ended because men weren't able to get their roc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:06 PM
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Was that a sentence? I’m not trolling, if you’re accusing me of trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:00 PM
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Yeah it was a really good one, you had no response to it so it’s the one that won me the debate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:59 PM
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I said there's no reason to control their urges because having sex as often as someone wishes is a good thing and totally natural. So… you’re pro-rape? Consent is completely unnecessary for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:58 PM
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My point is if you're someone that doesn't want to have relations with the other sex or care about relations with the other sex why are you going out of your way to interact with the other sex? I’m not, I don’t know why you think I am Buy a dog, a dildo, and STFU if it's really that serious and if it's not that serious your comments make no sense. I have no idea what this means. This isn’t a serious sub, nothing anyone says here is serious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:57 PM
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It’s impossible to die from cancer as well, you die from your organs not working right. The fact that they aren’t working right because of cancer obviously doesn’t mean that cancer is the cause of death tho amirite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:55 PM
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This mfer thinks you can’t rape or objectify someone you’re in a relationship with lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:54 PM
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Ok Explain how tf that’s an argument against that or related to it in any way besides both being about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:51 PM
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Right, because that would be stupid. In the same way it's natural and healthy to have many friends as forming relationships is a part of life, it should be natural to have multiple sexual partners which also natural. It's not about being weak or any other nonsense. Then explain what you’re arguing here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:45 PM
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sexual harassment sexual assault objectification of women, which leads to things like not ever considering the possibility that your quest for sex might be harmful to others in ways that are not simply betrayals of societally-enforced relationship rules. Because if women are objects, they don’t have a perspective worth considering. losing friends because they tried to fuck your gf Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:44 PM
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MGTOW is dumb as hell for precisely the reason that they claim to be avoiding women when that is not possible. Dealing with the other gender, as I said, is not avoidable. I do not understand your point other than that you seem to be either misunderstanding me or creating a false dichotomy between not needing anything from men qua men vs acting as though men exist and have an effect on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:40 PM
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It only hurts people because of these artificial idealogical contracts of sexual exclusivity in a relationships people buy into, wherein breaking it arbitrarily means you are a bad person. Bullllllshiiiit. I’m not talking about cheating dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:36 PM
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Why are you arguing against celibacy in response to me saying that I never suggested it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:34 PM
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You can take care of yourself and still have other interests and personality traits. When all you talk about is your workouts and your macros and shit, that’s boring as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:26 PM
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Food and water are much stronger and more fundamental I didn’t say go celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:24 PM
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Because men’s single minded quest for pussy hurts a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:23 PM
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Name one person in the history of humanity that died from not sleeping. Jiang Xiaoshan You insinuated it Nope you erroneously inferred it, not my fault
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:02 PM
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I do not understand the question. You realize it is not possible to live a life without dealing with the other gender, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:58 PM
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Maybe you need to figure out why you can't seem to grab the attention of men without having sex with them. Sex is pretty much the only thing I want from men but honestly it’s not worth it. Good try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:44 PM
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You're a damn idiot and there's zero reason to continue this conversation. YOU don't need sex, ever think maybe other people have different needs from you? Name one person in the history of humanity that died from not having sex You think the rational decision here is to stay with someone that places their own ego above the needs of the relationship? Did I say that? I don’t remember saying anything like that. You’re being irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:32 PM
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Well I never said men cheat a lot, I said it’s the number one reason women divorce men. Those are different statements. However, I got that info from an article about divorce that, as it turns out, didn’t source the stat and I can’t find it anywhere else, so disregard it. The things I found when I tried to find the source for that number suggest that women initiate divorce because marriage actually sucks for women who don’t want to be tradwives, and men have a tendency to become shittier after m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:14 PM
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Maybe men should work on getting fulfillment from somewhere other than their dicks. Jerk off and do something useful
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:03 PM
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No one needs sex, men are just too weak to fight their sexual impulses and use rational decision making
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:02 PM
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Yeah, not because their husbands get sick tho, the number one reason is because the husband is a cheater. Initiating divorce isn’t inherently wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:01 PM
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Yes, it has millions of viewers (its still broadcast now on repeat so people are still watching it) How old are you? I’m 33. NCIS has a lot of viewers but no one watches it 🤷‍♀️ there is more than insta. Not for normies A man/women gets blinded to another mans/womens shitty personality because of their attractiveness, what is there not to get. That is not implied by A and doesn’t accurately describe anything I’ve ever done or seen happen If your asking for scientific articles on TRP topics I dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:14 PM
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Except all the people who have seen "How I met your mother" !!! Do people really watch that? I thought people were making it up on the internet, because it’s such a bad show that the idea of people actually watching it is funny lol and all the memes that get posted around the idea. The memes you’re talking about don’t make it to normal people’s instas Action- treat a good looking person better - can lead to - falling for someone who is not a good match due to shitty personality. How does A lead …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:00 PM
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I'm not active on TRP sites so nope. Then you mostly talk to yourself. The only time I’ve heard of the crazy/hot matrix is when people are making fun of that obscure red pill video, and the only reason I have seen that is because I used to frequent anti-red-pill pages. Nobody I know would irl have any idea wtf it means. That the action can lead to the results I gave. What action, what results? About which topic? Any. Go. Do not take men venting on an online space as a sign of how they act IRL I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:40 PM
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Err yes it is, I've not met many who didn't understand the crazy hot matrix issue. That’s because you mostly talk to red pillers And I never said it did!!! Then what was your point? While some of it is stretched it isn't fake and has been shown to be real. Let’s see some non-anecdotal evidence Most of TRP men are older men who have been in relationships and been fucked over by a women so they know how to talk to women and are not a bunch of weirdo's like you're trying to paint, the young un's mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:30 PM
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You've never seen how women act around a high status man in a low inhibition environment? It's absolutely crazy. I have never thought about anyone or anything in these (let’s be honest, loser-ass) terms so I have no idea. I’ve never seen a group of women fawn over a hot guy before, tho, that’s something that happens in movies marketed towards teenage boys exclusively. And axe commercials. Mating behavior being instinctual should not be surprising from a biology perspective. And it’s women’s inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:22 PM
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Because they are terms in our lexicon that are well known and so people understand what is meant by them. Wait, which terms? The matrix one absolutely was not Except it does, as it leads to them situations I have told you about. Being somewhat nicer to a hot person doesn’t translate to immediately fucking them What stuff? this chain has been about how our lizard brains make stupid decisions, and why the attack on men here? plenty of men act normal (whatever that actually means) and still struggl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:20 PM
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Would they still spend all their time complaining about women? That’s the only problem anyone seems to have with them, that they don’t really GTOW. Women would be fine with them if they actually did that. Those things you’re talking about happened during time periods when marriage was women’s entire hope of survival. Nowadays we can be single forever with no consequences and would much prefer it over being with a MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:09 PM
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You may not have named them but you chose to validate the names when there is absolutely zero utility in doing that other than to psychologically separate you from women and make it more difficult to relate to them Maybe not, but you will have treated good looking people different to those who are not, just seems to be a floor in our brains. Who cares, it obviously doesn’t matter that much All this stuff is just men whining that they’re too ugly for women to date when their looks have nothing to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:03 PM
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Why do men and women need different words for the same thing? Why gender something that isn’t gendered? And why try to make this stuff sound scientific? “Matrix”? Come on. No matter how hot a guy was, no way I’d talk to him if he said stuff that sounded this stupid And I cannot fathom why guys think hotness is a primary motivator for women, that is so incredibly rare. I’m the most looks-oriented woman I know, and there is no level of hotness that would be sufficient to make up for certain charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:51 PM
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The women who falls for that hunk of a guy who appears to be charming and sexy but in actuality is a POS is the lizard brain convincing their rational brain that this is a good idea. I have never ever seen that happen. What I’ve seen happen a million times is that guy pretending to be someone he’s not at the beginning of the relationship to get her emotionally invested, to give her something to hope for when he starts acting like himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:39 PM
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Idk what all y’all’s crazy acronyms is but I have seen the way men’s lizard brains control their sexual behavior and I assure you, women continue to be capable of rational thought when that’s completely out the window for men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:38 PM
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Then why do those guys get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 02:37 PM
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Most mating decisions (for both sexes) are made by our lizard brains and rationalized by our forebrains. Women cannot afford to behave this way. Though it sure explains the way men behave when they’re trying to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:47 AM
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Then why are women attracted to bald men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:40 AM
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So this sub operates under the assumption that the “sexual marketplace” is a real thing? Sorry I’m kinda new, just trying to get my bearings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 02:53 PM
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Yes I'm sure women would have invented the laser gun if they hunted. Baffling that you think women need laser guns to hunt I mean it's not like men don't also have brains in their heads and it took humanity thousands of years to discover powder. I literally don’t even understand the strawman you are building No, I'm sure you would've done a much better job, it's just us evil menz not letting you reach your true potential. What are you even talking about? No, nevermind, it’s very clear you still …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:33 AM
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If those fat hogs in the south can do it anyone can do it Women aren’t always pregnant, especially btw without men around as in this hypothetical, and you don’t need to be that strong if you have brains in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 03:18 AM
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What is the sole reason men and women had specialized roles? Hunting is just not as hard as you think it is, I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:58 AM
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If they weren’t good at it they wouldn’t have wasted time and energy doing it. You know we have female bow hunters now, right? And they do fine. Somehow. 🤷‍♀️ maybe you are the one seething that the only thing that you think makes you worthwhile as a man is actually not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 02:34 AM
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I disproved that by virtue of women hunted therefore they did not need men to do the hunting. Without men, women would continue to hunt. You have had no response to this whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:12 PM
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I disproved everything you said until I got tired of you moving goalposts and tried to hold you accountable for the things you said earlier. You’re still avoiding it. I’m comfortable with this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:47 PM
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You’re a coward who cannot admit when he has been absolutely annihilated. The point of this sub is debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:27 PM
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Explain why you asked for sources if you did not disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:58 AM
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Women would still hunt Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:24 AM
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Your original take was that in the absence of men, women would not hunt. It has been proven that women hunted even without the absence of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:48 AM
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I said that men did most of the hunting, which this didn't disprove. You said that women were “piss-poor” hunters. Prehistoric societies did not have the luxury of allowing a bunch of people to spend a lot of time doing things they were piss-poor at. Women were capable hunters. They did not need men to hunt for them. Your excerpt supports this view entirely. Your original take was that in the absence of men, women would not hunt. It has been proven that women hunted even without the absence of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 04:06 AM
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No, this is an article about a study that adds to a body of evidence that women hunted regularly in prehistoric cultures, and it also talks about some of the previous evidence. Please read more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:26 AM
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It doesn’t matter what you think, the people who study this stuff for a living have evaluated the available data and have come to the conclusion that men being the hunters in prehistoric cultures was not the rule. You opinion is based on your feelings about what women are like, theirs is based on facts and research.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:15 AM
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Nobody in poor struggling countries knows or cares what red pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:12 AM
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It’s exacerbating all kinds of fringe ideologies. We aren’t able to talk to people irl as much and we end up online, getting filtered by the algorithm into increasingly extreme ideologies, which we have less opportunity to talk about irl so we don’t get challenged on these ideas. Eg I started the pandemic as a democratic socialist but now I’m a Marxist Leninist. But there are many incorrect versions of this slip into extremities as well 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:11 AM
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We don’t have time machines so theories about prehistoric cultures are not the kind of thing one can debunk. The article describes a study which adds to a body of evidence that women hunted regularly in many prehistoric cultures, which shows that your assertion that women were bad hunters is most likely false, to the extent that that is something we can know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:58 AM
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Wait, there’s an opposing pedophiles with your vote option???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:27 AM
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Cultural mores about sex work are changing. I doubt the number is that high anymore, and is decreasing as time goes on. There’s nothing inherently wrong with sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:24 AM
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Women like sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:23 AM
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You… don’t have to do any of that, if you don’t want to. If your partner has a problem with you looking regular, maybe he’s just not the guy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:44 AM
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I thought those two subs agreed on most of everything, the only disagreement is on which gender is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:40 AM
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https://theconversation.com/did-prehistoric-women-hunt-new-research-suggests-so-149477
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 12:32 AM
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Why? How does our strength differential matter that much? There are far more things that we can both lift + that we both can’t lift vs things that men can lift that women can’t. Do you think god created the world such that that tiny sliver of difference in the grand scheme means men can protect themselves against nature but women cannot? A man cannot best a bear nor a tiger nor any other beast women need defending from bare-handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:38 PM
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Scroll up farther, that’s what this entire conversation is about. Also change implies the passage of time, which is the cause of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 11:35 PM
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They were wrong about women in general too. It’s not older women going after younger men. Maybe what men want doesn’t change, but clearly what women want does, as evidenced by behavior trends. At least compared to the degree that men’s wants change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:33 PM
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So if there were no men, women would do the same thing, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 04:28 PM
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It literally is tho? Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:41 PM
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Who protected the men from life and nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 03:37 PM
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