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Respectfully, this sounds less like love and more like you’re putting her on a pedestal now that you aren’t with her.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 01:14 PM
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That’s the “fawn” response some people do when they’re scared.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 05:27 PM
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lol same
/r/ExRedPill09/02/25 06:49 PM
1

This is a 3 year old comment. What are you doing right now?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/25 04:24 AM
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What is “short term mating?” Because mating implies reproduction, which is not a short term kind of thing. If you mean just hooking up or dating, then I’m not sure what height has to do with violence. I’d be more scared of an angry shortcell type than of a big burly man that I could effectively outrun.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/25 07:52 PM
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Lol
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 09:24 PM
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I don’t know how to explain the psychology, but when I was young I was bullied by both girls and boys. I think at a certain point some people experienced the same thing but broke off into “therefore, men are the problem,”and “therefore, women are the problem.” A few broke off into “I am the problem” and turned inward, and others thought “I am the problem” and turned blackpill. Some didn’t blame others for their problems at all. And others were the ones doing the bullying and have no idea what an…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 10:47 PM
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So hypergamy has been pretty thoroughly debunked but redpill insists it's real. My theory is that it's all projection. I've seen a lot of comments on Reddit from guys playfully saying that if they woke up as a woman they'd spend all their time touching their boobs or masturbating. I think that the type of man who becomes redpilled is the type of person to think of other people, especially women, as an object, a means to an end because they don't have empathy. So if they woke up as a woman, they …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/24 05:41 PM
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I'd like to add hypergamy/branch swinging. It is so obviously a projection of what these guys would try to do if they were a woman and almost never applies in real life.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 06:43 PM
6

Wait what’s the obvious answer?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 04:20 PM
4

I don't know if it's still true but I remember getting bullied off of TwoX and everyone said that the mods there are men who are actually very anti-woman. But that was years ago. TrollX became the safe space that TwoX was billed as and has more memes.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 05:07 PM
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You're 22 You are a baby (I don't mean that to be demeaning, but to say that you have your whole life ahead of you! No matter how successful you are at this time in your life, you are going to look back in a few years and cringe because young people are naturally cringey and you are SO YOUNG.) There are no chads-think about it, you only hear of these sexual exploits from the "chads" themselves-who are just as insecure as you are and cope with it by lying about sexual exploits-and never from actu…
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 04:18 PM
5

Thank God someone said it.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 03:51 PM
58

This is conservativism in a nutshell; you believe in something because you are conservative, not because it is true. You're really telling on yourself here.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 04:10 PM
19

Has to be a troll post.
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 05:33 PM
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Dude this sub is EX RedPill, for people who are unlearning the bullshit. LITERALLY NONE of the RP bullshit is true. People can smell desperation and you reek of it. Sorry. Whether you're the desperate guy hanging around a woman who clearly doesn't want you or you're the desperate guy making life into a performance to make women jealous or want you or whatever, it is abundantly clear that you are living your life in order to get sex, instead of just living your life. You're in Uni and have been f…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 03:24 PM
15

People who say this are on dating apps or college campuses. Neither are an accurate representation of the “average” person.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 08:29 PM
1

If you are not attracted to your partner, your relationship will likely fail. If you’re only with your partner because you’re attracted to them, your relationship will likely fail.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 08:20 PM
39

Women aren’t raccoons. If you leave a plate of “tall dude with money” out on your porch they’re not going to come scavenging. I have to remember this.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 01:28 AM
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I read the title and mistakenly thought this was the feminism subreddit with the question written by a woman and it made me think "yeah, what do they want from us? Why do they pursue us so vehemently while at the same time absolutely loathing us?" Anyway it's interesting to see that this was actually a self-reflective question rather than a vent. Wishing you whatever you need, OP.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 01:54 PM
1

When I hear "can incels be helped," I think 'can they be helped out of their warped state of mind?' and the answer is obviously yes. Incels can grow and stop being incels. But when you say "regardless of their ...looks...etc." it seems like you are asking "can incels get laid regardless of their looks/age/situation?" So which question are you asking?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 10:31 PM
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This you? >Single moms are the best to run beta game on. They do all kinds of wild shit when they're trying to lock you down. But women are the opportunistic ones.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 09:31 PM
1

Redpill is for teenagers. The fact that older men like Tate are pushing it is really sad both for them but more importantly for those that they are pushing it on. Literally none of this stuff is true. No matter how cool it sounds to you, once you are no longer 16 and dealing with 16 year old girls NONE of it is real and it is all there to exploit you.
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 09:30 PM
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It’s not an ego trip, it’s a security measure. I’ve given my number to the wrong guy who “only wanted to be friends” one too many times. There are only enough times you can be woken up by someone “who thought you were there friend” before you say fuck it and no one gets your real number.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 06:52 PM
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Like imagine if we women actually had access to the cock carousel lol
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:58 PM
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I had a friend who was drop-dead gorgeous and worked as a paralegal for a law firm and was "seeing" both of the partners there simultaneously. Both old enough to be her father or grandfather. She would talk, without a shred of irony but with superb self-confidence, about how she was going to pick the one who could prove he would take better care of her to marry. I was so uncomfortable with these conversations because she's clearly an unabashed gold digger, but she had so much confidence that she…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 08:35 PM
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Red Pill Catholic Qanon Conspiracy theorist ie the type all the ladies are swooning over lol i hope he doesn't blame women for his lack of a love life.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 08:21 PM
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I feel like this is a realization everyone has at a certain point lol because mine was recent
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 08:20 PM
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WHO HAS IT WORSE IN DATING?!? How fucking dare you.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:28 AM
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You look fine though? If someone called you deformed or hideous they're just being an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 11:00 PM
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I’m curious to hear your definition of feminism. There are just about as many definitions as there are feminists so I’m curious which “side” of feminism you have been exposed to that you could think it is extreme and somehow related to/equivalent to redpoll ideology. Whoever is out there twisting the fact that women are people into this boogie man to scare men is doing a bang-up job.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 09:02 PM
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I sometimes wish the world really did work the way incels think it does and I would get all those perks you guys assume we get for being women. Also either your reading comprehension is lacking and/or you are seriously unhinged because you think the poster deserves to be called "worse than a cunt" for saying that OP is probably more interesting than they think they are. How dare she say OP might be interesting-that's an insult to the people who can't help being uninteresting! Saying OP is capabl…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 07:05 PM
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You created a whole new account just to call someone a cunt and justify your victim complex. God this sub is sad sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 06:32 PM
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"Yes I would date them...tell me when you rejected them again?"
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 09:39 PM
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OOOOH actually this makes lots of sense. My ex who became redpilled and tried to market himself as a pickup artist was brought into this whole thing with Rich Dad Poor Dad. That was literally what made him start thinking of people in these different categories based on economics that he used later to market his "teachings" based on rich and poor. This is not surprising at all and opened my eyes to the fact that men are still touting this stuff and apparently people are still paying them to say i…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/22 09:29 PM
7

This HAS to be a joke. Right? Right?!?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/22 04:07 PM
7

She was getting dominated by another man This is not necessarily true. Perhaps she chose said other man because she didn't want to be dominated. I know that's not the point you were trying to make, but the whole "women want to be dominated" is another lie perpetuated by the manosphere and relevant to OP's example.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 07:39 PM
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Whether it fits your definition of a true redpill or not, these men are the face of the movement to most of the people who come in contact with it. Maybe there is some secret redpill that only you know about that isn't bullshit, but 99% of the time someone mention redpill they are talking about the things OP talks about.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/22 04:17 PM
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You've broken my mind lol and I hope it makes you happy that I have more than one person trying to figure out what scouting has to do with anything redpill, which is why I was looking for alternative definitions. I clearly got confused along the way and still have no idea what we are talking about.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 01:36 AM
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Honestly it was your phrasing. I'm starting to understand what was meant now. Though "scout" in your phraseology is more akin to a Judas goat or something like that. But also redpill ideology makes very little sense in general so it was hard to parse out that you are talking about something that would make sense to a redpilled mind.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 10:09 PM
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Kickass, dude. Your writing style is very engaging, keep it up.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 09:53 PM
1

What?
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 09:52 PM
14

The fuck is happening here
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 01:22 AM
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I still don't trust men. So many people, including people I know and loved, have been killed by men. And statistics bear it out, that my fears are justified. Men kill each other and women at alarming rates. Sometimes I wish I'd never learned these facts so that I could just coexist with men without knowing how prone to violence they are.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 02:21 AM
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Not unreasonable of you IMO
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 07:52 PM
1

You can always ask her out, she says yes, then mention “the concert costs $xyz, just FYI.” You can make it playful too so you don’t sound so stingy- “the concert is $xyz, but I’ll buy the tickets if you buy concessions.”
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 07:33 PM
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The idea that the one who does the asking is expected to pay is very common, but clearly not really fair. In my opinion it is perfectly reasonable to not pay for the woman on your first or any date. That said, how you said it makes all the difference. If you asked her out and immediately followed it with "oh and by the way I don't want to pay for you" it would have come off as very rude.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 04:21 PM
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Life is long and we all live many lives within our lives. Let this let step in your life be something different and new and don't dwell too much on the past.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 12:02 AM
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Wishing you many blessings in your life <3 ​ BUT I have to say that this post supports the point that Red Pill is for children: OP was literally 15 when she fell into the trap of hating women. And then she grew. The worst thing I see in this sub is men who fell for this stuff as adults, when they should have known better. Good for you Sauron for being true to yourself and seeing some of this mgtow shit for the worthless advice it is.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 09:10 PM
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Find me a source that’s not anecdotal & about all the mens issues that are hidden from us. A what about a what now? I don't know what this means. "Hanging off a noose like 4/5 of us men do" Have I missed a catastrophic event in which 20% of the population killed themselves/were lynched?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 02:40 AM
8

THIS sub is leftwing?
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 02:20 AM
9

You need to learn that "feminism" is not synonymous with "women." There are plenty of anti-feminist women out there. What you mean is that you hate women.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/21 02:19 AM
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This genuinely made me laugh. You seem funny. Being funny can go a long way in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:20 PM
7

You know what's less attractive than being ugly? Talking about how ugly you are in every interaction you have.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:17 PM
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I chose tall and blond at random. I could've said short and funny or redheaded and educated. Just an example of people's potential preferences.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:26 PM
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Younger people of all genders are often not ready to settle down. But women get characterized as gold diggers for it, which makes no sense. I could see it making sense if, say, a woman is attracted to tall blond guys but the only men in the world with any money are short brunet men. So it would be reasonable to assume that if she's always been into tall blonds but "settles" for a different type who has money, she might very well be using him and still dreaming about tall blond guys. But the worl…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:14 PM
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I genuinely don't understand what is supposed to be happening, even after reading "above" and all of OPs edits. What was she supposed to do?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 07:55 PM
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when i have a mental breakdown (screaming, kicking, crying, throwing things, doing this thing where i send blood to my head??) she’s like “omg we need a therapist quick quick quick” and when i calm down after a few days, she just forgets. Oh man this actually resonates with me so much. It was after years of mental issues that my mom was finally like "wait, you were serious about that stuff?" It's infuriating to look back on but my mother has made great strides and was the first to help me get on…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 08:25 PM
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Come on, brother, please meet me at least halfway!!!! If there are people who can break the "bobs and vegene" stereotype, it's young men of your generation. Be the change you want to see. My point still stands. I didn't mean to imply that I'm super horny for East Asian men and I think you know that. And yes, mental health. I was never truly myself until I received the proper diagnosis and started taking medication. There's no shame in getting help for those things.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 03:15 AM
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Not OP but I want to say something about your second point. When I was little, there was a guy who went to my church who was good looking AF. My mom used to admit she was attracted to him and wink at me when he was nearby. He was Asian, and I remember my mom telling me that Asian guys were super handsome. So I always thought of them as such, even though I was too young to know exactly what we were really talking about. In middle school, once I'd hit puberty, by first "boyfriend" was a Chinese bo…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 02:31 AM
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Lmao yup I was very dumb but also he wasn't sleeping with other women. We spent too much time together for him to sneak away for more than an hour. He came home crying to me once about how he had a crush on someone on his volleyball team. We were in an established relationship before he found PUA and after that started pushing redpill. When he found success as a pickup artist and I told him my honest thoughts, his response was something to the effect of "these men who gravitate toward it are alr…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 08:53 PM
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I dated one of these guys. We had to pretend not to be in a loving, committed relationship so he could pretend that he was having sex with multiple women. When he taught this stuff at events (yup) I was "his assistant." All the other guys in his group were the same-either secret girlfriends or no women in their lives at all, just imaginary models they bang. I'm so ashamed I ever let myself get that far with this guy.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:31 PM
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Sounds like black women are better off without you. If you think women of other races are different, you'll be sadly mistaken. If you think women are vastly different than men, you'll be sadly mistaken. Basically, women don't need you, so I don't understand why you expect them to somehow be "offering" you anything. edit: just reread your post and am appalled that a human being feels this way. Do better, man. Lift your fellows up. Apparently someone promised you $200000? Get over it. Why believe …
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 12:15 AM
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Their disdain probably goes back to their moms being black women This sounds right because so many in the manosphere, despite being raised by single women, completely denounce single moms. There is something doing on with their hatred of their own mothers which gets trickled down into their hatred of all women. The irony, as we all can see but they apparently can't, is that they idolize the person who left and vilified the parent who stayed.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/21 12:09 AM
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She should probably document his redpill stuff while she can to bring it up at the custody hearing. A judge might not want to give the boys to someone radicalized from the internet without supervision at least.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/21 09:05 PM
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Or you know, based in reality
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 11:47 PM
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You're twisting what I said. XVSZero's wife doesn't like exposing herself to uncomfortable sexual situations. You then implied that they must have sexually harassed their wife in order to start a relationship with her. Your point seems?? to be that any indicator of romantic interest is sexual harassment. This is untrue. That is why you are being downvoted in this thread. There are plenty of ways to interact with people you're interested in romantically without making them feel uncomfortable.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 11:41 PM
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Probably not by sexual harassing her. With all due respect, you are all over this thread defending positions that everyone else finds either naive or reprehensible. If I were you I'd take a step back and take a deep look at myself, considering why I took up sexual harassment as the the hill I want to die upon.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 11:29 PM
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Seriously. This dude thinks he's an "alpha widower" and women go about their days thinking about his dick. It would be hilarious if it weren't so disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 03:26 PM
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Haha damn please consider yourself one of the few Redditors who comes with links when asked. Consider me told. That said, my opinion is that this slump is because of the pandemic and by next year things will be better for the horny among us. Being ugly doesn't matter more now than it ever did, which is to say that it still matters but is just one of many factors that also matter. I wish you luck in the future and think you will eventually lose the redpill thinking just by living life and seeing …
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 08:04 PM
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The above is terrible advice. Don't focus on finding a girl to fix your problems. But, serious question, are you actually interested in unredpilling yourself, or are you secretly thinking that your blackpill ideas are going to be validated? Because they won't be in this sub, but if you go to one of the incel ones, they will be. If you want to avoid redpill/blackpill lies (because, let's face it, 95% of what they say is untrue) then stay out of those spaces. If you want to feel validated, to thin…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 07:28 PM
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citation?
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 07:04 PM
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You're in high school. Maybe think about your grades or getting into college or something rather than focusing on "getting any." I know that's technically advice and you think advice is bullshit, but for fuck's sake. This is just more proof that this redpill stuff is by and for literal children. Edit: I just want to say though to /u/TheDoctorWinston that feelings of loneliness and depression are completely valid and it really sucks that you're experiencing them. I have complete faith that you ca…
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 08:37 PM
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I was with my ex for many years. He was part of the redpill community and you can read my post history if you care to learn more (you don't. Gist is, my ex was redpill) and when we broke up, it took me a few months to break away from him. I loved him, and wanted him to love me, but he didn't. Eventually I learned the lesson and moved on from him, and eventually met and got engaged to the real love of my life. And that's the only time I've heard from the ex, a few random messages of "how could yo…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/21 08:48 PM
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It's only the same if the homeless person is pretending to be rich and using their position to harm other homeless people.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/21 04:02 PM
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I've mentioned this before but my ex got paid $1000 a night as a pickup artist coaching people. I hated it so much because his clients all seemed like genuinely nice guys who just need a nudge in the right direction. But my ex said no, they paid so they need to hear something other than common sense. I met some of these guys and they were perfectly normal but my ex convinced them that they were lacking something and they had to pay him to find out what that was, and when I brought up how upset I…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/20 12:41 AM
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Well I feel stupid as heck. I am really sorry. Do you want me to delete my comment or just keep the edit?
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 10:55 PM
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You should definitely put this in the original post. Reading it I was assuming you would have to go against the prevailing culture and had no cultural context with which to answer (saying "literally come up to me and ask me to flex my arms" made me think this is some country where that's out of bounds, instead of just girls joking around) . But you're a 20 year old in Tennessee? Yeah, they all feel like this and have to deal with it because you're still kids and figuring stuff out. EDIT: I'm a m…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/20 07:19 PM
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I’ve always found the hypergamy theory the least plausible of any of the stuff redpill shoots out. Not sure where they even came up with that in the face of how real people interact
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 09:25 PM
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Who cares about how hot you are!?! I think you have body dismorphia (so do I) and you could benefit from therapy. Your looks shouldnt have anything to do with any of this.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 03:44 AM
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So then why are you acting like this?
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 03:33 AM
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It's so weird that you have ignored all of the points of view that dispute your point of view. People are crying out that your POV has nothing to do with looks and you are the one saying NO, I'M UGLY. At a certain point we have to accept that incels don't want to hear the truth, they actually want to hear worse than the truth for whatever reasons. If you are looking for people to be mean to you, go back to the incel forums. If you're looking for the truth, don't be mad when people express things…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/20 03:29 AM
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People’s viewpoints shouldn’t have any relation to how confident you feel. You should be yourself and the people who vibe with you will come to you. If one of them isn’t attracted to you, that shouldn’t make you feel bad, in fact, you should be happy that there are other people out there who feel the same way you do. Who or what they’re attracted to has nothing to do with it. Hell, you might end up attracted to someone who is attracted to you who doesn’t have these same beliefs. It’s up to you t…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/20 12:48 AM
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She says “the first fifteen years of his life,” implying he’s over 15. You can’t take away the internet from an older teen, simply from a pragmatic point of view. He’ll find a way.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/20 11:41 PM
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That's my point. We all have daddy issues! It sucks! But until parents become perfect, we're all in the same boat.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:37 AM
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Is your relationship with your father perfect? Would you consider your problems with other men to be "daddy issues?" I suspect we all have issues with our fathers, but the term "daddy issues" seems to only be used about vulnerable women. That's why people are latching onto this phrasing of yours. It sounds like you knew someone was vulnerable and took advantage. If you seriously want to make amends you need to get past this redpill stuff and just work on being a better person, rather than just b…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:32 AM
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She's not a plate, she's a person, with her own complicated reasons for doing things just as you have your own reasons. Don't assume women are a hivemind and you can figure out women based on one woman. Especially since, as others have pointed out, according to your own timeline, she was burned by you and then started having commitment issues. Maybe you hurt her worse than you thought you did.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/20 05:27 AM
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Where are you meeting women? No personality??? I’ve literally never encountered that. In fact the people who are the most quiet and might seem to have to personality to extroverts (dare I say, to the Chads) end up having the most crazy fucked up things to say later when you get to know them, for better or for worse. The fact that you would say something like that makes me think you don’t get to know many people beyond a surface level.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 12:48 AM
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It’s a concession to the people who will use that as a crutch. Yes, some women are bad (for you), just as some men are bad (for you). So let’s move past that and try not to be the men or women who are bad (for others).
/r/ExRedPill15/07/20 12:43 AM
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Teenagers have way less sex than you redpill people think. Not having sex as a kid makes you normal, not entitled to sleep around.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 02:31 PM
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My ex started talking about other men as either alphas or betas. I pointed out to him more than once that based on his own definitions, I was actually more into betas. He told me I must be misinterpreting what alpha and beta mean, since all women naturally want an alpha. This was the first taste of this whole new worldview he was espousing and I am so, SO glad that he did since it enabled me to realize I didn't want anything to do with this relationship or this guy. Now I'm engaged to a wonderfu…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 11:43 PM
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My good friend is was an actual escort for a few years and even her total partner count was only 12 total when she got out of it. She had a terrible reputation in our town and people would talk about how she'd fucked fifty guys because she was always talking about sex. But really even at her sluttiest she'd only ever been with a dozen. You may be overestimating.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 07:11 PM
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That’s really cool congrats
/r/ExRedPill01/06/20 11:24 PM
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Can I ask why you are asking for how to get women who wouldn't normally trust you to trust you? What am I missing?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 01:54 AM
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"Dear Reddit, please convince me that I should sexually assault someone because that is college dating *as I perceive it.*" The cock carousel is not a real thing and it makes you look like an asshole to promote incel science when their science doesn't match with anything proven from the real world. "I suspect this girl isn't going to love me for eternity, therefore pump & dump, right guys?!?!" How do you guys not understand when a girl talks about being afraid of a man, she's talking about exact…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/20 02:15 AM
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TBH I think in your case you might be looking inward too much and not experiencing life around you. Beware of being too solipsistic and try to consider that all the people around you are fully fleshed out humans living their own full lives, and remember that they have some of the same desires and will that you do.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 03:43 AM
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I wouldn't say anything to these two women, not because apologizing will make you look low value, but because you don't want to artificially construct a situation that is going to be awkward for all of you. Just chalk it up to experience and move on. As far as the game you're talking about, I think I understand, but also suspect you are using some wishful thinking when you say you weren't the only one playing it. Everyone is doing something different in their own mind. But I get it, because some…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 02:06 AM
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Of course. Only psychos (I can't think of a better word) actively try to hurt innocent people, and you don't strike me as a psycho. But as a girl I tend to see these stories through the eyes of the girls and if it were my sister and me we'd've probably sat there for a second saying wtf was that guy being so mean to us?. We'd either give up, not caring, or conclude, correctly that he had his own thing going on that had nothing to do with us.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/20 01:18 AM
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"I don't know why I did what I did, but now this thing haunts me that I might have hurt her psychologically playing these shitty games." Up until that part I was just wondering why the heck you would be deliberately trying to hurt these girls. I guess I still don't understand why trp is so into hurting women but good for you for having second thoughts about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 07:07 PM
8

Explains why so many of the incels are into literal children.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/20 11:19 PM
8

Lol whatever you say.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/20 06:45 AM
7

Aaaaaaand I got permanently banned from that subreddit. For asking if that was a real suicide note and expressing horror if it really was.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/20 06:40 AM
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I genuinely might cry. Someone actually killed herself, and and these people are using her suicide note to confirm their weird beliefs, asserting that she was in the wrong because "all women are like that," and acting like because of her actions, which only killed herself, all women deserve to be painted with a very judgmental brush? Because one of them drove her to suicide. And then, instead of repentance and trying to prevent this kind of thing, they've turned this on her, where "all women are…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/20 06:28 AM
22

How the hell do you see yourself as the good guy when every time a woman dies you can blame her for her own death?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/20 05:52 AM
8

Thank you for this. It's always heartening when someone sees the redpill for what it is and chooses to avoid it or get out of it.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/20 02:58 AM
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It's just a huge red flag for me. If someone is talking about alpha and beta males it's a good sign that they are redpill or mgtow.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/20 07:45 PM
1

It actually just sounds like the growing pains of a very healthy relationship. Don't sweat it too much.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/19 12:24 AM
1

A lot of people are talking about empathy here, and while empathy is obviously important, I don't think that's what your gf was asking for. On the surface, it seems to me like she thought she looked good at prom and wanted you to confirm it. She wanted you to call her hot, even, possibly, to objectify her. To give her validation and make you two feel closer. But you can't think of her past without thinking about her possible past relationships, if I'm inferring correctly. So it really isn't abou…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 10:53 PM
1

Can someone explain what oneities are? Google doesn't seem to know either, though I can kinda figure it out from the response.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/19 07:10 PM
17

But those are literally things you can fix. Gain some weight. Get the laser surgery you mentioned. If you’re just looking for someone to tell you to kill yourself, go to an incel forum. But normal people will tell you that your life has worth, and you have some mistaken ideas, and it’s never too late to have a better life.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 08:07 PM
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You need therapy. I don’t mean that as an insult, but I suspect there is some body dismorphia at play here, not to mention that hating half the population based on nothing is not normal.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:53 PM
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You’d be wrong about that. Very very wrong. The term incel was coined by a woman
/r/ExRedPill09/07/19 07:51 PM
2

If you want to believe it, go for it. There are people out there who believe weirder. It still isn't true though.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 03:10 AM
3

Listen, guy, I'm a woman and have known plenty of women in my life. I've known some awful, shitty, waste-of-life women. But not a single one of them fits the repill AWALT paradigm, with the hypergamy and branch swinging and all that bullshit. The redpill system is internally consistent, which makes a lot of people who can't think critically think it's true. But its foundational tenets, such as the nature of women, are so monstrously false it's laughable to anyone on the outside.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/19 02:12 AM
3

I love to wear red lipstick. I look great in it, or any darker lip colors, despite the fact that wearing dark lip colors highlights the natural asymmetry of my mouth. Evolutionary psychology would tell you that my smile is ugly, but I would point to someone like Natalie Dormer, whose natural smirk is part of her allure. Evolutionary psychology would tell you that I wear red lipstick to mimic the flush of my lower labia during arousal. And that may be true, somewhere along the evolutionary road. …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/19 06:36 AM
4

Are you a millenial? We've all had to live with our parents longer than we expected to. I agree with the poster who said it's a yellow flag-it could definitely be a sign that you have an unhealthy relationship with your parents or lack stability. But you've listed your reasons and they're legit, so if any potential dates do judge you for that, I'd say they weren't worth it anyway.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/19 06:08 PM
3

The point is that even if there were a magic code to get you to accrue more women, I wouldn't trust those guys to give it to you. My ex was a "pickup artist" (fucking gag me) and would put on these workshops that guys would shell out thousands of dollars for and he would just lie and tell them bullshit. I had to pretend to be a random conquest of his at these workshops so no one would find out he had a live-in girlfriend and wasn't out "spinning plates." I would tell him when we went home that t…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/19 12:00 AM
3

A Feminist sub about masculinity seems to be somewhat paradox to me. How so?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/19 11:55 PM
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There are much healthier ways to "be a man" than to fall into this abyss. The thing about redpill is that they couch everything in scientific terms so it sounds logical to you, but most of it is utter bullshit, cobbled together from the behaviors of different animals in nature and the insecurities of whoever is writing about it. Hypergamy, for example, is not a thing. Not at all. Same with microchimerism. Not remotely real or scientifically supported, but when they use big words and reassure you…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/19 06:14 PM
3

This! Why did it take 15 hours for someone to suggest therapy? OP has it in him to change and even to be happy, but we can't do it alone. It's one thing to read self help books but having someone you're accountable to can really make the difference in implementing change.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/19 06:36 PM
0

So just to be clear, this is actually a pro-redpill/PUA sub?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/19 02:11 AM
9

Yeah, I've been there, emotionally. I just (less than an hour ago) had an argument with my roommate about how the fact that they used the kitchen while I was trying to cook mean that I was fat and undeserving of food. A few conversations with my boyfriend and roommates later and I now realize that just because I had weird expectations of others, doesn't mean they had those same expectations of me. I was the one in the wrong, and the things I thought they meant had nothing at all to do with what …
/r/ExRedPill03/03/19 10:34 PM
3

stop seeing a psychiatrist, do not get on medication or anything like that and then Even if you 100% believe all this stuff, it is dangerous to tell someone to stop seeing their doctor and to reject prescribed medication. Sometimes we need help, and it's ok to take medication if that's part of the help that a medical professional thinks you need. Don't listen to random people on the internet
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 07:37 AM
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He's hating women because he's not being successful. Women are human beings just like you, not some level to beat in a game. The idea comes down to the fact that he'd respect them if only he had "success" with them, or in other words if they put out more. I think it's entirely possible to like the opposite sex even if you aren't having success in beating or conquering them.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 07:07 AM
1

That being said, are you escalating? For most men, that's the problem. This is advice designed to help him seduce more women, not help him stop hating women like the OP asked. CLEARLY if you have something going with someone you should eventually escalate things; no one needs to be told that. It's like you're trying to bolster someone wavering in their faith, and using RP jargon no less. That is 100% the behavior of someone still in a cult trying to stop a renegade member from leaving.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 06:54 AM
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This is EX redpill, not a forum for you to re-radicalize people. let him deal with this without backsliding into pseudoscientific bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 06:41 AM
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There is no way you are "ex" redpill. These posts are just their points all over again.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/18 01:08 AM
3

Anything could be fake. The leaders of the world could be lizards in human skinsuits. We have to trust that that isn't the most likely scenario. Why should the conspiracy theory of female hypergamy be any more legit than the conspiracy of reptilian humanoids? Don't worry about those kinds of things if you can help it at all.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/18 01:05 AM
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For what it's worth, I read your title wrong, projecting my own experiences onto you and assumed that this post was about a girl fearing her rp boyfriend would cheat. I had a healthy relationship at a certain point in my life but a few years in he got into rp and began to suspect me of cheating. He had never been jealous before but began to think it was inevitable that since we had been together for a while I must already be cheating. I wasn't. I never did. After we broke up, I found out that he…
/r/ExRedPill11/05/18 11:25 PM
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"wisdom." What a world we live in lol
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:49 AM
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so that they can hear from an actual woman and maybe change some of their ideas Yeah but I don't think they'll change anything if it's one of us leading the way. Best if the advice comes from a "man," even if it's just literally a woman writing under a pseudonym. So much progress in the world unfortunately has to come that way, because some men are under the delusion that they have to be the ones to explain things, to make things how they are, and make it a man's world.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:23 AM
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I still view women as lesser than men, still view them as sex objects, and honestly I don't want to change any of that That's the thing-whether you want it to be true or now, women are not lesser than men. I mean, have you seen some men?? Your opinions about something don't change the facts no matter what you want them to be. So yeah, is the average woman less physically strong in the biceps than the average man? Sure. But then she is more strong when it comes to immunity and memory retention. S…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/17 06:00 AM
4

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/MGTOW18/05/17 08:12 PM
1

This is just...utterly untrue. Do you guys really believe this, or is it satire?
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 06:28 AM
1

Yeah but I'm sure no one really believes they're being manipulative!
/r/seduction12/01/12 02:20 AM
4

In this case I couldn't say that since I'm a cocktail waitress and had to be tactful since he was a customer. It's a weird balancing act.
/r/seduction02/10/11 09:23 PM
11

On a related note, how can a girl get rid of pickup artists? The other day I got the line "well he can drive us to dinner" when I told some guy I have a boyfriend. It's like there's an answer for every excuse.
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:26 PM
2

You plan to fuck her but you don't want it to seem like it was her idea, even though it was? Just do what you want and enjoy yourself and don't worry about the psych stuff.
/r/seduction06/07/11 04:42 AM
2

Just my 2 cents, but someone I know is in the pick-up industry, and I've gone to some of their seminars. I am usually the only female in the room, and I leave in a horrible mood, because the guys who are taking the seminars try out their "negging" skills on me and completely fail at it! I agree with Bobustan that negging is really just flirting-playful teasing is the best way to flirt. For most people it comes naturally, but when it's been dissected and discussed like a strategy that needs to be…
/r/seduction10/02/11 12:12 AM
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Ah, so just pretending you want romance is the way to go. Good to know this subreddit IS all about tricking women into bed. Asshole.
/r/seduction02/01/11 05:15 PM
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I don't have any real advice but do want to say good for you for recognizing the problem. There's hope yet, so don't get too hung up on this.
/r/seduction24/11/10 11:26 AM
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You stop hanging out in this subreddit and go out in the real world where women aren't the monsters you seem to think they all are.
/r/MensRights25/08/10 01:57 PM
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