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| 11 | Being shy and being introverted are not the same. You can be introverted and still be extremely good with people.I agree! I’m fairly introverted as I’m not loud or chatty, and much prefer to listen to others and be with smaller groups. Everyone then assumes that I’m shy, which I’m definitely not; I can chat easily with strangers, and tell people exactly what I think. I remember in school a bunch of kids asking me why I never spoke to anyone and saying I was shy, trying to make fun, but I told them that I wasn’t shy, I just didn’t speak to them because I didn’t like them (they were all AHs). I think they we… | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 07:35 AM |
| 41 | How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls?I agree, when I was younger I was very flirty towards everyone as it’s my nature; I liked to make people happy and feel good about themselves, so figured that lots of compliments was a good thing. I also crave physical contact with people, so was always very touchy. Now I’m older I’ve realised that to some guys, this behaviour can actually be a bad thing as it can be confusing, so I try to limit it towards other women. That being said, I’ve always been very sexual and am attracted to most people… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Do women bounce the second you show insecurity?The whole thing about faking confidence has always been confusing to me. If a guy is a confident person, and he wants to be with girls who like confident guys, then that is brilliant! But if a naturally shy/anxious guy is using these tricks to feign confidence to impress girls who hate “weak” men, then they are going to end up stressing throughout the duration of their relationship, and eventually losing the girl once his true nature shows through. If you’re confident then be confident and go fo… | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 06:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No worries :) | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If you’re being engaging and flirty, but still aren’t sure if they’ve taken the hints, just tell them; there is absolutely nothing wrong with just being honest. I used to have this problem a lot- as I’m naturally very friendly and flirty, and tend to prefer more shy/nerdy guys, they’d often have trouble being able to tell if I actually liked them romantically or just as a friend, so I’d just tell them. That way there was no confusion. Also, for touch, I find a brilliant thing to start off with i… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 02:08 PM |
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