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| 3 | Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her?Most of the times these girls are arrogant and selfish. I know how to deal with that. The problem is when they are not! | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.Thanks for the tips, i apreciate it! | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.A couple of weeks! | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 06:58 AM |
| 6 | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.The girl who was willing to give you your number was clearly interested. Even if you will text first there is a really low chance that they will text you back. So in a way its not very different. Sometimes girls will just take your number and leave without the intention of calling you because they dont want to stay around, they dont like you and they dont want to be rude. | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 08:51 PM |
| – | The worst advice ever. There is like a million reasons they might forget to call you/ be shy themselves or just simply think you’re “meh” at first. Grab life by the balls and you call them! Its all on you.Im still trying to get the balls to do my first aproach and i was thinking of giving my number. In my mind this seemed good too. Now i can understand why girls wont text me first. I guess i should get even more balls to ask for their number. | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | How can i go close to a girl during quarantine?Dont cough | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 08:41 AM |
| – | I’m a huge failure with girls. What do other guys have that I don’t?....She had sex with all your friends except you?? That must hurt so much bro. I felt that to tbh. My advice would be to find the problem first. What do you lack? Appearence? Money? Being funny? Being bad guy? Then work on it. This has worked for me | /r/seduction | 08/03/20 10:33 AM |
| – | This dilemma has been literally eating me alive for 3 months, need some adviceThe dark age is not a place XD . And i said dont flirt much. According to your logic if u ddint flirt much you are retarded. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 04:14 PM |
| 0 | This dilemma has been literally eating me alive for 3 months, need some adviceGirl number 2 is interested as she only speaks to me and with her best friend most of the time | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | This dilemma has been literally eating me alive for 3 months, need some adviceYes with the second one. She likes me too. | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Why I think game is stupid (and why you should solely focus on improving your LMS)Thats a really good point of view. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Always keep it wrapped up with one night stands guys! My friend has found out the hard wayOmg. Im sorry for your friend really, but he can take this as a gift and not as a curse. Anyway thanks for the tips bc it made me more cautious. | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain oneitis to a 13 year old?Yep. I look so young also. I dont have a bear yet lol | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 03:39 PM |
| – | How do you explain oneitis to a 13 year old?At least he is learning this at 13. I learned those things 5 months ago :( . Edit : im 18 | /r/seduction | 03/03/20 04:37 AM |
| 2 | How to tell if a girl is flirting or just being friendly?Just if u caught her looking at u randomly multiple times and when she smiles when she sees u she is interested. You have all these signs, jesus christ im amazed how ur not sure. Ask her out | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | She just left a relationship, we vibing hard but she says she wants to be friends first, should I move on? How do I analyse these signals?Well. You already have a good relationship together. Keep doing what you are doing. In order to be more than a friend, you have to be a good friend. You know what i mean. If you keep chatting with her, having fun she will soon forget about her ex and she will escalate when she is ready. | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 06:16 PM |
| – | She just left a relationship, we vibing hard but she says she wants to be friends first, should I move on? How do I analyse these signals?Be patient and respect her for now. She will appreciate that. This way u dont ruin ur chances | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 05:32 PM |
| 12 | Conclusion: I Approached One Girl Every Day For 7 Days - Day 7 7️⃣ - Final Day + Resumé - This Changed My LifeSweet taste of succes. Keep it up :) | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Virgin who's afraid of having sex because of his penis sizeThis. Even if u can only go for 5 mins. If you go down on her for 20 mins, go in her, then finish her with your fingers, she wont say we had 5 min sex. She will say we had 30 min sex. So get better orally and with your fingers | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Virgin who's afraid of having sex because of his penis sizeHonestly if u ask girls they would say that size doesnt matter. As far as i know most girls wants n average penis so even if u are a bit below which i assume 5 inches. Yo u are still good. If u are good with your fingers and tounge thats a bonus for u. Cheers | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Virgin who's afraid of having sex because of his penis sizeNo he doesnt meassure them bc it was meassured before. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I see gurus approaching Day gaming girls on you tube. They are tall, charm, exude confidence. They are full of energy. If I was like them I don’t need any game. I just have a beautiful girl for a short or long relationship.They are liars/actors | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Another failed date? Or another learning experience?I dont want to be rude but... what a fucking whore. Seriously, couldnt she say she needs to think, evaluate her feelings or just say she doesnt want to meet anymore. She just blocked you. I had a friend who was approached by a girl, exchanged numbers and them after 3 days she blocked him. WTF. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 08:30 PM |
| 16 | One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day One 1️⃣Her : i have a boyfriend Him : nah dont worry im sure he will be ok if i ask you out and flirt with you. Maybe we can have a threesome. Like cmon dude. She propably faked it and wasnt interested at all | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Suffering not from approach anxiety but approach 'motivation'Think about the reward. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Just a random question, If I get rejected 3 straight times in a club, should I continue approaching girls? I dont feel unconfident but I feel like girls will reject me because others are rejectjng me tooThats what lossing confidence is , lol | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:28 PM |
| 11 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsNo offense but those numbers are terrible. Out of 27 girls you got only 1 POTENTIAL girlfriend??? Did u approach every girl or the girls u are attracted to? | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:01 PM |
| 3 | When to kiss on a dateI also want to know this too. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 04:59 PM |
| – | 19m, trouble not doing dumb shit around girl I'm seeingYou are not the problem, she is. She doesmt find u that funny or the things u do. There is nothing u can do. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 04:56 PM |
| – | Is mutual attraction something you can just feel? How would you describe it?Yes. I am so attracted to this girl in my class, and she is not neither the hottest nor the most beautiful. I dont know but i feel she is my soul mate. I get so turned on when she speaks to me its crazy. I felt for this girl since the first day of school when i sat next to her. She is so skiny and i dont know why i think that is hot. I feel she likes me too. Im sooooo confused | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 12:44 PM |
| 25 | 20M, my first "date" ever.I know. When u see i girl u like so much, you think there is no one like her. Thats a complete lie. I have found even better girls dont worry about it | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl on instagram liked old posts, What does it mean?Smash | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 08:18 AM |
| 33 | 20M, my first "date" ever.Look, dont be upset. There are plenty of other girls | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 246 | 20M, my first "date" ever.How you turned a bad date into a conversation with other 2 cute girls. I mean sime people might have been discouraged and left, but u didnt. Well done! | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How could I start conversations to meet girls at college social events?Go like : hey, how is it going? Are u having fun? What do u think of ...? Wanna dance? Etc... | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 06:29 AM |
| 3 | FR : Thanks r/seductionI feep so happy for you , honestly. Guys dont approach bc they overthink. You have nothing to loose. There is no "risk" involved. U freaking nailed it bro. Keep going. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 05:48 AM |
| – | Help with asking a girl outI think you should just not care at this point. Dont make her think that she is your only choice. Make her jelous, maybe flirt with another girl when she is around. If she gets jelous then she likes you too. Be creative | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 10:48 PM |
| – | Help with asking a girl outU did your thing. Now wait and see how it goes. Just dont wait too long | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 10:15 PM |
| – | Does Not asking her for a BJ help you keep her around in the long term? There may be cases where she is bad at it and doesn't like giving a BJ - how would you judge then this is true? Say you asked for one and she said noOh sorry about that, the title is a bit messy for me. I would never ask my girl for a bj. If she is ok with it and wants then ok, never push it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:44 PM |
| – | Does Not asking her for a BJ help you keep her around in the long term? There may be cases where she is bad at it and doesn't like giving a BJ - how would you judge then this is true? Say you asked for one and she said noWhy does giving bj makes a relationship last longer? Whats the logic behind it. Which planet u from? | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:28 PM |
| – | Trying to get the hottest girl in my schoolOk u are similar to me. Take my advice, im u but 5 months in the future. How do u say u like her without actually telling her, blushing or... get rejected? Make a lot of eye contact. Thats it but dont exagerate it or u will look like a freak. Then stop doing it for a while. If she starts to look at you consistently, your golden. Go for it | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I save this situation in which I took too long to make the first move?Listen here pussy. I liked a girl but didnt have the balls to tell her. Then e guy approached her, she didnt seem interested but still had a convo with him. Then i started making eye contact with her and let her know i liked her. Then she seemed interested in me and the rest is history. Go approach her. You have nothing to loose but everything to gain. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:16 PM |
| – | One Approach Every Day ChallengeThis is a sign. Your balls are growing bigger | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | “... I had a great time too and you’re a very attractive guy but it didn’t really click for me”She didnt really liked your personality. Thats what is happening to you i think. The girl meets you, she finds u attractive, the she doesnt. I mean i would date a funny girl 7/10 who i like her personality than a 10/10 girl who i dont quite match with persnality. But there is nothing wrong, be urself if u want a good relationship. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:46 PM |
| – | One little trick (backed by science) to increase your online dating success by up to ten times (srsly).No one cares about your shitty website and your shitty backlink o this subreddit Get lost | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I need some adviceThats right, be yourself around her. However you are showing that you are needy and that might be a problem. In my country girls dont think this way. Even if you show that u are needy in the relationship they dont care uf they like u back. At least those who i have met. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Post hookup hang outJust ignore her. If she is uncomfortable talking to u in front of her friends she is a dumbass. Or she just did that to fuck around with you. Either way next time tell het to fuck off as she is playing with your feelings and she is manipulative af. Image what she can do if u date her. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 02:54 PM |
| 0 | A Week Of Rejection - COMPLETEDude what a big mistake. If she was hot and she was happy, you shouldnt have left. Next time this happens, ask her right away for some caffe, right there. There will be no pressure as u will approach other girls anyway and u dont give a duck. Good luck. Ask that girl btw, see hwo it goes. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | The issue of making this stuff natural.I thought i was worth shit tbh. I never had any girl, bc no one will love you if you dont love yourself. So love yourself and others will too. You dont just say it to yourself tou have to feel it, you have to believe it. Thanks for the tips bro! | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she saw me in her dream after our first date, what can it mean?Did those neuroscientists told you that most of the times dreams tell you what your subconious thinks. When you dream your concious is sleeping otherwise it would be called lucid dreaming. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 12:50 PM |
| – | I did it boys!Nice one dude keep going :) | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 11:50 AM |
| – | Girl says she saw me in her dream after our first date, what can it mean?She is definetly try to tell u she likes u. Even if she really saw the dream there is no reaso to tell you that unless he likes you. Go ask her out | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:47 AM |
| – | Girl says she saw me in her dream after our first date, what can it mean?Thats not true at all | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 4 | My female friend tried to “test my loyalty” by seeing if I would get a boner or notThats the fucking dumbest girl friend i have ever seen for fuck sake. Or she just likes u and want you to tell her the same. I know it sounds weird or stupid but i have heard all kinds of shit. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:16 AM |
| 2 | I’m so utterly depressedHonestly i feel you bro. I went in a hoghschool for boys and dint caee much bc i never was talking to girls. But when i went in college i saw girls i liked and could aproach them(several reasons) and when i went home i felt like shit and literally wanted to die and said : why me. Why the fuck me. Butt life be like that sometimes. Start going out more and find i girl u like, i mean u genuinly like then ask her out. There is nothing wrong with you. Its just your mindset. If you have some success y… | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how I should proceed with this girl...Maybe she think you like her just for sex. I mean think about it, she always start the convo. Maybe she thinks you are bothered or sth . Tell her how you feel, thats the only way | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | My social anxiety is getting annoying!Well, i have anxiety, lately not so much but what you are going through its normal. My first days at my new school was so bad. When im nervous my hands get very sweaty and i sweat so much i turned my blue cover notebook into white. You gotta build up some confidence and put yourself in uncomfortable situations more. Ask a girl friend to help you. Good luck | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 07:10 AM |
| – | How do you seduce as a guy ?When They play with their hair its a good sign. What do u want them to do, stick their tongue in your mouth, u are supposed to start a convo with her make eye contact ffs | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 04:36 AM |
| – | Cannot approach - should I give up?Look. You are doing this to yourself. You are not approaching bc you are scared and thats making you depressed. This is totally on your control. If you want not to care about rejection you should think whyu wouldnt want her to be your gf, think about her negative sides and think about better girls. Now go approach, you are 28 ffs | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 03:09 AM |
| – | First kissHow did it feel like? | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 11:49 AM |
| -3 | How to Build Sexual Tension With Any GirlNice backlink | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I make others laugh?Big boots, red nose, and ofc some makeup. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 08:11 PM |
| 3 | I've gone from being a loner to getting a lot of girls in just a few months; some of my tipsYeah, i was also that shy boy until i went to uni this year. Dressing nice and hygiene is very important. Nice tips! | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Advice for a below average looking guy?I am below average too so here are some tips for u. U need to boost your confidence, if you think u dont have a chance with any girl, u need to improve. I know u have a hard time but i have been there and u need to have confidence. Go to the barber and ask him for a cool hairstyle that would suit u best. Hygiene ia very very very importany, wash uour hair and face every morning. Get a nice parfume, good smell always attracts ladies. Buy some clothes, i dont mean expensive ones, i mean good ones … | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Local bar. Learned a Lesson, never say "you're beautiful" to a womanComplement sth she puts effort on like her make up, hairstyle, maybe piercing or tatoo. Beautiful girls are called beautiful all the time and they hate that. Kenic gave a good example with the turbo car. Also... smart girls wanna be called beautiful and vice versa. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 08:33 PM |
| – | Seducing BoysShe is not fat. Wtf | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 08:28 PM |
| – | I have found out my friend is banging a girl I liked and wanted to bang, what should I do?Threesome? | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 08:26 PM |
| – | I M17 am not sure if she is trying to play hard to get or if shes even worth going forWell. She said she never done things before and didnt want to rush it. You went for another girl and then regret and came back. Then... she was hurt and pretended to friendzone you. But this was hurting her way more than it was hurting u simply bc she really likes u and cares for u. U see? She noticed u were not in school. Maybe she tested u about that crying or sth, not sure . I think she was waiting for u to apologize again and show ur feelings to her. U didnt do it so she is doing it bc SHE R… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | I seriously just don’t understand women.She must have expected you to say dont leave. Thats why she "left" earlier. The next day propably she was upset or/and with another guy. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 03:14 AM |
| 3 | How to stop being seen as a friend and become more attractive?Exactly. People overthink things. What if she doesn like me, what if she tells her friend, what if she laughs at me. Just say , fuck it, then go talk to her, tease her and say her how u feel. Jeez. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | When did you start to bloom?Literally a month ago, im 18. | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 06:50 AM |
| 0 | The reason why you should always approach, even if she doesn't "look receptive"Try to smile and dont look angry with you eyes | /r/seduction | 14/02/20 06:24 AM |
| – | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.Thats suprisingly accurate. Im not the cutest guy, but im not the ugliest either. I was so unsociable, dressed like shit, no hair style and no parfume. I had 2 months in my nee school. One night as i was thinking and said, fuck it. Then started dressing well, cool hairstyle, nice parfume. What happened? Thats fucking easy. Since most of my classmates dress like shit i stood out. Then i saw one girl who was looking at me. She likes me. Then i saw another one and i am gonna ask her out. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I attract people that I'm not attracted to and how do I attract the people that I am attracted to?Why this shit feels so f-ing reletable. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 10:54 AM |
| 3 | I feel like I just did something really need, or something really vulnerable, or...?Wtf you should be concerned for. I think u nailed it and since she already knows you and is interested. Happy releationship. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say when a girl asks how many people you've slept with?Thats a great response imho. Girls love jokes like that and makes then even more attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 06:14 PM |
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