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5

women aren’t superficial Hahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:03 PM
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The OLD dating experiment proved once and for all that OLD for women is basically Amazon- shopping for men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:24 PM
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You must not have been here for the OLD experiment thread. Apps make women miserable in that they can’t decide between the 5’11” doctor or the 6’2” lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:51 PM
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It’s always fun seeing women act shocked/butthurt when they have to pay for something. The entitlement is unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:44 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:25 AM
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The vast majority of a relationship is the man performing for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:33 PM
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And there are still people that think women aren’t playing on tutorial mode with cheats enabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:48 PM
4

Not at all. Statistically speaking about 89% of all women have reproduced while about 40% of men have. Humans share twice as many female ancestors as male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:57 PM
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ITT women complaining about men finding them attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:26 PM
4

Why? You never hear of 80/20? I know a literal anorexia girl who is dating a Chad who has it all- looks, money, height, status, etc. You would literally never see the opposite. Women hangout at the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:54 AM
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Something that sticks with me is a male poster on here commenting that he used to frequent a mental health forum quite regularly. According to its users, basically all the women were in relationships while essentially no men were. Women demand perfection of men while men will worship the first woman that looks at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:16 PM
0

Briffault’s Law
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:34 AM
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Based. This is the future women chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:45 PM
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Putting on make up is not “taking care of looks”, and at any rate if it was socially acceptable for men to do so they’d look a lot better at all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:44 PM
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Yeah, you’re interested in their income and social status. You don’t give a shit about the new TRIR reduction campaign your date got tasked with heading up. Thanks for playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:39 PM
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How many women do you think offer to work while their husband stays home with kids? The point is that women have the unique experience of having the ability to demand that their partner foot their bills in a way that men do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:14 PM
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Imagine we’re on a date and I tell you that I’m a professional Pokémon player. I make $3million/year through tournaments and selling cards. Are you really telling me you care about my deck composition and strategies? You’re really interested in how I could tell the Pikachu card was mint NIB? Of course not, you just see dollar signs. Women don’t give a shit about the CEO’s new initiative to simplify supply chains and acquire that French firm for greater vertical integration. They’re not intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:11 PM
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Thanks for proving my point. How much money do you think a garbage man makes vs a CEO?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:56 PM
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Women don’t care about a man’s job or dreams already. All they really care is if it generates enough money to financially subsidize them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:49 PM
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As a guy I really wonder what it’s like to have the opposite sex willingly financially support you while you post baby pics on IG for a year. Obviously men are just workhorses for women but it’s almost incomprehensible for me to envision someone springing at the chance to pay my bills while I watch TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:48 PM
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So you acknowledge 80/20 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:30 PM
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Despite what feminists and those with an agenda proclaim, society does not care, or want men to be more pro-social. They want men to shut up and fulfill their traditional role of worker bees and cannon fodder. As with most things, what this really boils down to is “women wish Chad was [fill in the blank]”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:25 AM
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This is such a garbage post I’m not even going to waste time replying to it. But just lol at “helping”. You gonna tell him “girls aren’t superficial , it’s personality that counts! Just hit the gym and dress nicer!”?🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:26 PM
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Word salad post. No meaningful contribution to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:59 PM
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Women don’t give a shit about emotional intelligence from a poor, short, ugly man and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:26 PM
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Nope, apparently you don’t know what “inherently valued” means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:14 PM
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Women aren’t “valued for their looks”. They’re inherently valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:29 PM
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Women value men based on their ability to provide. At least someone admits it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:03 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself. Nice job editing your post btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:05 PM
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we call the shots after 30 Not really. You get a few more dates and that’s about it. Also 36 year old single moms who are looking for a dad for Aidan are into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:12 PM
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I just looked up this Pearl Davis woman and she looks just fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:28 AM
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Never said anything about pride in my post and the data is out there for all to see. Anymore words you want to put in my mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:52 PM
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Thankfully we have data to show women’s relative low abysmal participation in dangerous, labor intensive, low status (and relatively low paying) jobs. Feminists only want to be boss babe CEO’s, not sanitation workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:26 PM
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What do you think widows did? Spinsters? Families where the men were gone? Multiple ancestors of mine were single parents, including in the 1800’s. Who should they have submitted their invoices to for taking care of their kids and cooking? Again, why do you think performing basic tasks every adult in history has done is some kind of oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:23 PM
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Nice deflection. Why do you think adulting is a paying job? Should your husband pay you for wiping your ass? That’s unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:56 AM
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So are single people working for themselves then? I made pasta and did laundry last night, who do I submit my invoice to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:18 PM
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Women were the ones who thought their husband bankrolling their entire life was oppression. Sorry ladies no refunds!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:43 PM
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You’re right, that’s why Christian Gray is a kindhearted kindergarten teacher who just loves kids and not a rich businessman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:42 PM
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There is a nursing shortage, yeah. But I’m talking about women’s perception of male nurses as being low status. You don’t see women doctors marrying male nurses like you do the opposite. Same as women in engineering jobs making good money marrying some guy who’s a first grade teacher. Women’s attraction is hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:41 PM
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I had no idea working yourself to death while your wife made muffins was a power play.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:29 PM
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Yep. Same as how feminists want more male elementary teachers, nurses etc despite finding those men beneath them. Acta non verba.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:28 PM
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Ah yes I missed all those women clamoring to work in steel mills and coal mines alongside the men that provided for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:19 PM
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I’m not raising another man’s child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:37 AM
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I know, they only have 12-17 years to try to secure Chad and then settle for someone who’s 5’10”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:43 AM
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Women care, but they are less vocal about it because deep down they know they can reproduce whenever they want. 17x more women than men have reproduced in history. Passing on your genes as a woman is basically guaranteed while no such thing exists for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:38 PM
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Height, money, looks and status= “an entire person”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:35 PM
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Women think that anything less than a 6’3” surgeon who does Ironmans and works as a male model on the side is “settling”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:27 PM
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This is like listening to that teenage girl complain that her dad gave her the wrong color of BMW
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:27 PM
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There are no expectations on women (because women are deemed inherently valuable) so they’re not seen as losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:01 PM
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Good thing he never said anything about rape. Men will never know the hell of having hundreds of people interested in you romantically :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:27 PM
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Right, and money, height, status, and looks are the more important ones (for women).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 09:37 PM
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You’re asking me to elaborate on women being attracted to rich and powerful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:48 PM
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Right, like money and social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:35 PM
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Waaaaaa men want to have sex with me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:14 PM
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Are you asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:13 PM
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Vastly overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:11 PM
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I’ve been to China before as a white man and it was crazy. It gives you an insight into what women’s dating lives are like in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:10 PM
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Women can get a LTR with a decent man quite easily. The problem is Chadchasing is so ingrained in female brains that they’d rather die alone than be with a man who’s 5’11”. It’s like saying you’d rather be poor forever than be a millionaire because you wanted to be a billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:09 PM
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Stop making shitty troll threads and complaining about “””””””””problems””””””””” men would love to have
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:21 PM
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Women have their own challenges in the same way that Bezos’ kids think they have challenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:32 PM
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This is like a rich person talking about how you can’t understand what it’s like when the Michelin 5 star doesn’t cook your steak right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:31 PM
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Imagine complaining about having 200 people interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:30 PM
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Personally I always thought it was really interesting how women consistently judge tall, rich good looking guys to have the best personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:55 PM
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When women say preference what they really mean is requirement. Like others have said they just don’t want to appear shallow. It’s why women say things like “I prefer tall men” when you know damn well they never even look at guys who are 5’8”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:51 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:47 PM
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You mean why do men say it on the Internet. You get absolutely eviscerated for saying anything like that irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:45 PM
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There is no comparing the kind of competition men go through for mates vs what women do (if they even compete at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:11 PM
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He’s not far off. It’s basically taboo to tell a woman to lose weight. Men will just have to accept her for who she is and recognize her inner beauty ;) Meanwhile guys get told to spend a year in the gym before they even deserve to have a woman give them the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:10 PM
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Men: be the embodiment of perfection in every way Women: don’t be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:34 PM
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That’s like saying that Little League kids and MLB players both compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:33 PM
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Men do not have 100 point checklists for women specifying things like height, income, eye color and a million other criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:31 PM
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Lol, really hope you’re not implying that average women aren’t chadchasing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:47 AM
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Dating is so easy that 17x more women than men have reproduced
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:46 AM
5

He definitely knows that the kid is not his. It was brutal. He moved her into his apartment, got her a car, helped pay for her school, and she still cheated/broke up with him. Couldn’t believe he took her back, let alone married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:11 AM
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This is what women say to write off the vast majority of men they aren’t attracted to. Funny how they always think Chad will be open to a LTR but Brad is just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:58 AM
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My cousin literally cucked her bf with some other guy and is using him as betabux to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:55 AM
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That was an interesting deflection. Unfortunately the sentiment I quoted is common amongst even women that have actual hobbies. I assure you I know a wide variety of women. Some things are pretty universal across demographics, like women wanting tall or wealthy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:54 AM
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I do not believe that drinking Miller Lite and watching the evenings football game on TV are genuine hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:29 AM
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I couldn’t begin to tell you how many women I know think that drinking wine and shopping are genuine hobbies like playing the piano or gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 02:28 AM
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Women think that drinking wine, scrolling social media, shopping, obsessing over Taylor Swift, painting their nails, and taking staged “candid” pictures with their friends are hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:31 AM
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This. Women complain about men being boring when their entire personality is social media, wine drinking, and whatever is topical at the moment like a Marvel movie. Actual women with actual hobbies like painting, music, etc are exceedingly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:51 PM
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Women will date an abusive man before they date a boring man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:39 PM
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“Someone findig you sexually attractive doesn’t actually mean they they think you’re desirable” This is what women actually believe. Even if your opinion is correct (it’s not), why is that even a bad thing? Like, I would love to have my inbox filled with women telling me they want to sleep with me, even if I knew it was self centered on their part. The things women complain about are like men’s wildest dreams lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:42 PM
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Only a woman could figure out a way to complain about the opposite sex finding her attractive. Even then you still admit that there are good men looking to settle down, you just may have to put a little effort gasp into swiping left on a few guys. The struggle is real sister :( Edit: also like how you went to gay men, instead of just saying women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:38 PM
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God forbid women put a fraction of effort into dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:12 PM
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There are a million good men who are earnestly looking for a relationship. You just pass them over because they aren’t doctors, or don’t have green eyes, or are 5’9”, or whatever other 100 point checklist you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:17 PM
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Not wasting my time with someone who claims it takes substantial effort for a woman to get a date in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:16 PM
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1/10 got me to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:12 PM
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Feel free to prove him wrong if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:23 PM
1

Even to find a date is usually substantial effort Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:21 PM
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Most can’t easily find a 6’5” finance Chad who does triathlons on the side. They could easily get some 5’9” engineer who runs three times a week but that’s not good enough for them. I don’t even know why people try to act like female hypergamy isn’t through the roof in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 09:10 PM
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Truth hurts doesn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:53 PM
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Parents know their daughters will be fine no matter what. They can always just marry some guy and live off of him. The same definitely cannot be said for men. It takes more work for a woman to stay single than get a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:47 PM
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That is a reflection on the men you agree to consort with, not men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:45 PM
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Newsflash: women are attracted to rich celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:14 PM
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I was always of the opinion that men were more mature by the time college came around, because men had realized there were more expectations on them. Women expected them to have good jobs while they goofed off and got elementary education degrees. Men were working, studying, trying to better themselves while women were posting IG pics all day and going to concerts their bf’s bought the tickets for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:54 PM
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No duh. Kind of like all the women that want guys who are 6’ tall making six figures while being neither of those things themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:54 AM
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I’d definitely be flattered that someone was into me that much. I completely understand how you as a woman would find this difficult to understand. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:30 PM
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Women consent when it’s Chad. There are Literally memes about how it’s ok when Mr. Gray does it vs the homeless guy in the parking lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:09 PM
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You just proved that other guy right though- you know that a true mirror image scenario wouldn’t work, so you invent this straw man with all these contingencies attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:07 PM
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Women don’t have that attraction Unless it’s Christian Gray
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:05 PM
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It’s literally always been this way. Same as how women said they loved nerds in 2010 when they really meant Chad wearing glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:00 PM
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Another man? No; I’m not gay. But even being stalked by some kind of Amazon woman is like a romantic fantasy to the average man. I know I’d appreciate a woman putting in effort for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:06 PM
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Women’s “creepy” stories are like men’s wildest fantasies lmao. I’d be flattered if I had a woman follow me around.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:31 PM
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Women don’t want to be providers, yet still expect men to be. Realest thing said ITT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:16 PM
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There is no minimum requirement for women, save having a pulse. Women’s requirements for men may be found in the Library of Congress, Archive rooms 1-47, with supplemental material (mainly appendices A-EE) in the Vatican archives. Don’t forget the additional reference material housed in the British Museum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:09 PM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:51 PM
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What you said only applies to 6’1” triathlete businesses executives. Danny, who is 5’8”, runs 3x a week and is high school science teacher gives you the “ick” when he does it. Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:40 PM
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So basically you’re ok with Chad crying once in awhile. Basically the same as the whole “I like nerds” trope from a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:07 PM
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If it weren’t for double standards women would have any standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:03 PM
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“We don’t care when Chad cries”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:02 PM
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Literally all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:00 PM
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There is a lot of truth in what he writes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:05 AM
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Which has nothing to do with the fact that wearing makeup is not socially acceptable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:23 AM
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…and get ridiculed to death by both men and women if they ever find out. Don’t even know why you’re trying to argue that men can wear makeup today. It is still very much not acceptable in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:07 PM
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There is literally no comparison between taking steroids and putting eyeliner on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:17 PM
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“Normal” makeup doesn’t conceal or hide things? Or add what isn’t naturally there?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:15 PM
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Men wearing makeup is not a mainstream thing in Western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:12 PM
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Makeup is not grooming. Imagine if there was some kind of spray on substance that gave men fake abs and muscles- would you consider that grooming like brushing your teeth or combing your hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:11 PM
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Makeup arguably is responsible in part for hoflation, because women who otherwise would be mid can up their attractiveness and therefore their standards for men, while men have similar recourse. It’d be like if there was some kind of spray on muscles for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:09 PM
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In general it is still not socially acceptable for men to wear makeup in their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:04 PM
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No one (at least men) say that women with no makeup or jewelry are “lazy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:02 PM
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You doubt what- the fact that women are extremely picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:01 PM
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I have literally seen women reject guys that they themselves said “were perfect” but was “only” 6’ tall or “only” made 200k/year. Women are like the kids in school who thought that anything less than an A+ was a D.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:10 AM
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Whatever you need to tell yourself sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:08 AM
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So close. What you were trying to get at was the fact that by only focusing on an extremely tiny sliver of men, women shoot themselves in the foot and deprive themselves of perfectly acceptable relationships with men who are otherwise good candidates, but aren’t the best of the best. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:16 PM
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You sure are triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:14 PM
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Don’t worry, you’ve got that field covered already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:13 PM
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Never said anything about what behavior is “right”, nice try. Interesting how you essentially agree with RP types that women are hypergamous, and really only attracted to a slim minority of men. Edit: just lol at saying women aren’t demanding. I’ve literally been on a date with a woman who had a list of 100 questions she wanted me to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:00 PM
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I accept your concession.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:43 PM
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No such thing; all women are “Stacy”. There is no such thing as 80/20 for men’s mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:38 PM
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Yeah it sure is hard choosing between the 6’2” lawyer or the 5’11” doctor. Maybe if you pared down the 100 point checklist you’d have an easier time, instead of demanding absolute perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:37 PM
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broader suite of characteristics Translation: tall, rich and good looking Somehow we are more superficial Men falling for someone based on their appearance is downright innocent compared to women needing to analyze ten years of a man’s tax returns before they can decide if they love him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:09 PM
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Briffault’s Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:59 AM
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There are millions of college girls who look the same/better than her. There are ~650 billionaires in the US, not all of them even men. Maybe if she was a legitimate super model or something you’d have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:58 AM
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Could say the exact same thing about “men” and “Chad/man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:55 AM
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Dating down for men is life, not just apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:37 AM
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You are arguing that their relationship market value is low. I am saying they could very easily get a relationship if they wanted, but they Chad chase instead. Because god forbid she settle for anyone less than a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:12 PM
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Thanks for confirming that feminism offers nothing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:48 PM
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Women believe their purpose in life is to live off of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:47 PM
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Women are the sexual selectors. Men see what women select and strive to emulate those traits. Women openly mock/despise men that don’t meet their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:45 PM
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Guess you never heard of dead bedrooms? My best friend works full time and does ALL the chores in his home. His wife sits around and posts on IG.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:44 PM
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Going to have to call BS on this. There’s no shortage of men genuinely looking for companionship/a relationship. They just get passed up because they’re 5’9”, or aren’t doctors, or aren’t hawt enough. Women are the selectors, and they consistently choose men who see them only as sex objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:23 PM
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they just can’t secure relationships. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:48 AM
1

Just lol at this bro history
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:46 AM
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Do women not have those things? As it is that’s like saying I have the choice to try out for Olympic weightlifting, or the CEO at Apple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:28 PM
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Exactly what power do you think men have in dating? Be specific. I don’t know if you’re trolling or really this obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:14 PM
3

Rape is an outlier as a reproductive strategy in humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:18 PM
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Answer in your first sentence. They are of the older generation. Your aunt is not going to go back to work at 75 unless she absolutely has to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:17 PM
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They’re grieving because their meal ticket/mechanic/handyman/bodyguard etc is gone. Lesson 1: Men love women. Women love what men can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:58 PM
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17 times more women also reproduced than men. You really trying to argue that men have even a fraction of women’s power when it comes to dating today? How many men can make an OLD and get literally hundreds, if not thousands, of matches in a day? How many men just go through life with the expectation that some woman will approach them, ask them out, pay for everything, plan everything, and carry the relationship forward to the point of asking them to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:36 PM
1

Why wouldn’t it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:22 PM
1

Briffault’s Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:15 PM
2

As a guy I would love for a woman to cook for me, but that would require women to put effort into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:02 AM
1

Respectfully disagree. Attractiveness does play a genuine role to men like myself. I have been on dates with women and asked myself if I could really see myself kissing this girl. If it’s something by I want to do, rather than force myself to. I don’t think I explained it quite right but that’s the gist. I’m not saying a girl has to be a 11/10 in the face, but it’s not like we avoid fatties or ugly girl just because we want to impress other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:58 PM
2

Speak for yourself. I’ve turned down/not approached many women because they were fat or tatted up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:20 PM
2

Those are the same dudes that used to play their DS on full volume in line at the restaurant with zero self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:19 PM
2

How is a guy going to be a gatekeeper of relationships if he can’t even get a first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:18 PM
0

The average woman is extremely boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:37 PM
-1

It is true in the sense that the standards for women are quite literally non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:25 PM
10

I only wanted to date someone who liked me specifically enough to go through the potential awkwardness of approaching, and someone who values their goals more than they are worried about social anxiety. Men can say the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:49 AM
10

So what is the reason then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:17 PM
2

Women are essentially looking for perfection in a man and nothing less. It’s amazing how they can hold to their standards like robots: “this guy is everything I want but he’s only 6’2”? Dropped!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:16 PM
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Why tf would you want your first time to be with some women who’s been run through?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:49 PM
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Just humoring you here, if that really is the case then my point still stands. Women love Chad with glasses, not actual nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:06 PM
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Chad’s height, dick size and money are a great fit for her personality!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:00 PM
5

Female privilege is a hell of a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:10 PM
1

but most of them aren’t Chad FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:03 PM
-1

I know you think this is clever but you ain’t lying about being bluepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:46 PM
15

I know multiple women who have done it, including relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:11 PM
14

According to the women here they just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:10 PM
1

As a man I will say to some extent this is true, although many single women in their 30’s will remain single because continue to be incredibly picky. Women have to actively work to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:10 PM
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Loneliness=/= rejecting 20 men because they aren’t Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:08 PM
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The way things like height and money can influence women’s feelings for men is astonishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:58 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:55 PM
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Funny you say that because it’s women who are turning down guys for not meeting a certain income, height or size requirement. What was that you said about Excel spreadsheets again?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:53 PM
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Women don’t care about men’s problems, while simultaneously expecting men to listen to/solve their problems. Women care about men’s problems right up until the point they actually have to listen/ see their men be vulnerable. Edit to say that women’s idea of loneliness vs men’s is not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:42 PM
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<image> I got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:11 PM
1

No one says men just need looks. Looks are however, required to be considered by women. Same as how being tall doesn’t automatically get you a date but you have to be tall for a woman to even consider you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:08 PM
3

Everything I said is true and well documented. Don’t even know why you’re still trying to argue this in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:50 PM
8

You’re arguing in bad faith (or truly delusional). Women’s standards are a mile long.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:08 AM
6

You really trying to claim that being average looking and having a good job is enough for what most women are looking for in a man? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:41 AM
4

I sure hope she was being sarcastic when she said having a good job and being average looking was enough for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:36 AM
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that’s not good enough for most men, but for most women it is. Hahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:03 PM
3

Looks basically boils down to a few (more or less measurable) factors like facial symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:02 PM
9

Women en Masse can absolutely be said to be attracted to a specific demographic of man- tall, rich and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:30 PM
6

Average men get betabuxxed, or get settled for for a few years before the divorce, after the woman gets the kid(s) she wanted. Women only love Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 08:30 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Jvs5WFhAv3M
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:24 PM
4

This falls apart when you consider how many women don’t want kids today, and how many women get pregnant by such shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:08 AM
2

It’s women, bro. You already know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:07 AM
2

Women are the ones who turn relationships into transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:40 PM
1

I think his point is that game has its limits. Game can only take a short fat bald broke man so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:38 PM
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I never denied there was work involved, just that there’s a big difference between unskilled work to make a bed vs getting a masters in electrical engineering and making a living. Yes, typo. Should be “still have to earn your keep”. Not delusional at all. A lot of women still expect or at least strongly desire a man who can financially provide for them. And there are no shortage of men who are willing to work themselves to death or spend hours studying so that their woman can bake a pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:35 PM
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I personally hate how many women/society pretends that weddings are about love, commitment etc when if you barely scratch the surface it’s still basically all about the bride. I completely agree about the narcissism and waste of money. It annoys me that people act like men don’t care about weddings when there’s basically no reason to for a man. It’s like the Jerry Seinfeld bit- the day is all for the woman, the guys just shows up and stands there. Yeah, no wonder men care less than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:24 PM
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Dude, let’s be honest. It’s 2024. It takes a lot more brainpower and talent to figure out how to support 3+ people on a single income than do the tasks a stay at home parent does. It’s like janitorial work- is it necessary? Yeah. Does it take less skill than the doctor/business owner/programmer etc who keeps the lights on? Of course. The very fact that you have your own income kind of speaks to my point- you stop have to earn your keep. Women have men falling over themselves to bankroll them for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:22 PM
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Thanks for not reproducing!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:16 PM
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In no particular order 1. Actually, yeah, to a large degree. Briffault’s Law. Being able to financially support a woman is still highly desirable to many women or an outright requirement. The same doesn’t occur for men. 2. A lot of men still desire to have a woman stay at home. Obviously every case is unique but it’s been my experience that in these cases the man ends up bringing a lot more to the table (as is usual with human mating) 3. A lot of women still view staying home with children as de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:15 PM
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Women care about weddings because it is an entire day devoted to them and how pretty and special etc they are. If the roles were reversed men would care a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:04 PM
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Those women spent two decades rejecting men because they were 5’8 or weren’t doctors. They are single by their own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:02 PM
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It’s that male privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:00 PM
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This. That whole dynamic implies that men basically don’t care about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:59 PM
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“Family is only fulfilling when it’s with Chad” At least you’re honest
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:57 PM
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Just lmao at thinking working is an adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:56 PM
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Disgust, not phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:56 PM
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That is a byproduct of society believing in women being inherently valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:54 PM
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Do you think that matters to half those women? They know what they got into.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:51 PM
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I forgot this was Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:49 PM
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I’d much rather run the laundry and put kids on a school bus than not only have to be a top 10% man for a woman to even look at me, but then also figure out a way to financially support 3+ people for the rest of my life, usually by working myself to death. Let me put it another way- your partner had be smart enough to go to med school to support you. All you have to do is pour cereal and run a vacuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:48 PM
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Men don’t have women begging at their feet to stay at home with kids while the women financially support them for the rest of their life. Staying home is a tremendous privilege that women jealously guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:44 PM
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Men’s standards are a pulse. Women’s standards are 6-6-6 BASELINE, with appendices A-G for additional requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:34 PM
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Sorry you can’t murder your baby at 39 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:33 PM
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…and still having her phone blown up with an endless amount of guys who want to expend resources on her in an attempt to get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:32 PM
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He could easily get an obese single mom, sure. Anything better would at least struggle with the idea that she was settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:30 PM
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Women are the sexual selectors. All women are Stacy. All women are constrained only by their own self-imposed criteria for mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 09:29 PM
4

Yeah, they think that money should be spent on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:38 PM
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Most women are rejecting men because he’s 5’8”, or doesn’t make enough money (in her opinion) or isn’t hawt enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:37 PM
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Y’all really thought we were lying when we talked about how picky women are. Jake is proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:32 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:39 AM
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Women believe that them gracing their bf/husband with their presence is effort enough. Its why men are expected to come up with meaningful, novel, (at least somewhat) costly plans/gifts for things like her birthday, anniversary, Mother’s Day etc but the man is lucky to get a gift card for his birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 09:18 PM
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Enjoy easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah, welcome to life as a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:54 PM
3

Refer back to Dark Knight’s comment. I’m talking about the idea of heroic deeds being as equally valid as emotional support being ludicrous, and a weak attempt to try and negate the obvious difference between men and women’s Samaritan behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:39 PM
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Goalpost shifting. Never said anything about women doing more or less heroic work, just that the idea that custom making a birthday card for someone is as equally valid as risking your life for them is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:02 PM
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As always, it depends on if a man or a woman is doing it. If it’s a woman, then society will say it is justified. If it’s a man the answer will be no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:04 PM
1

So 82% of stay at home parents are still women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:53 PM
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And househusbands exist, in ever increasing numbers From what- 2% to 3%? Women jealously guard the privilege of having your life bankrolled by the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:36 AM
1

bitching=/=dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:59 AM
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“Dominant” women have zero desire to date shy/reserved men. Therefore you get two dominant people butting heads constantly in a relationship. It’s the same old story- men don’t care about trait X in a woman, but women won’t tolerate trait X in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:41 AM
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Yeah, 5 dates a week vs 10. The horror! Boys just don’t understand :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:35 AM
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Thinking that you’re in love with a woman because she looks cute is downright sweet in comparison to women analyzing a man’s tax returns before they can decide if she’s attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:32 AM
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Women demand men be great before they even deign to acknowledge their existence. Men aren’t looking for a surrogate daddy that does everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:31 AM
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Yeah, rendering life saving first aid is just as valid as letting your bf vent to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:30 AM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:26 AM
3

“ 6”3’ broad guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:00 AM
2

The average man is 6’3” and jacked? Love to see some studies on that. Once again when asked to say something about men, women describe Chad 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:26 PM
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Your initial post was literally drooling over shirtless, ripped 6’3” dudes. Nothing at all about “men in the abstract are generally stronger”. I may as well have said I appreciate Gisele Bündchen. OTOH I’m aware women are very susceptible to the apex fallacy so I’m really not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:37 PM
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This is a Chad appreciation post, not men in the abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:42 PM
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It doesn’t apply because the vast majority of men are unironically invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:39 PM
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Survivor bias
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:38 PM
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I am truly impressed with how easy women’s lives are in comparison to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:38 PM
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Yawn. Deliberate misrepresentation of my posts, along with ad hominem attacks. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:57 PM
5

Way to completely miss MY point. I don’t know if you really believe being witty and charming is why Chad gets all the women, or if you’re just trying to save face. Life isn’t a Jane Austen novel- women do not gush to each other about how “witty and charming” some guy is. Bald, short guys can be as intelligent as they want- women aren’t lining up for him. You’re basically regurgitating the old trope about “we don’t care about a guys looks or money, it’s his personality that counts!” Put another w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:57 PM
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Yeah women love Chad’s wit 🤣 I’m sure being tall good looking and rich has nothing to do with it. It’s because [his dick] has charm!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:39 PM
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Dating/getting married is drastically easier for women than men, so in a lot of ways I’m not surprised by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:35 PM
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You forgot that this only applies if you’re Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:23 PM
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I don’t really get the whole tradwife meme, and I agree as a man I get very strong pseudo-sugar baby vibes. It’s like people want to pretend washing machines don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:31 AM
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Most women are incapable of empathy and kindness for most men, period. She’s compassionate towards Chad, not the 95% of men that literally don’t exist to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:52 PM
1

So how many Korean feminists are calling for women to be drafted?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:06 PM
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Basically any man would have an easier time dating as a woman (probably an easier life period) so this is kind of pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:32 PM
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No? How are you so consistently wrong? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:59 PM
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Men look for a woman that will commit to him. Women reject 200+ guys and then complain about men’s preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:25 PM
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This is also pretty ironic considering you see women actually encouraging men to use makeup. These days it's not really taboo for men to wear makeup. [citation desperately fucking needed]
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:17 PM
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You realize that statement is not explicitly referencing careers, right? I know women who work lower grade jobs but have well developed personalities. I wouldn’t consider them to be “coasting” at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:03 PM
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Doesn’t really need said but for those reading this, it’s apex fallacy. She’s literally incapable of conceptualizing this because to her Chad=men. The overwhelming majority of guys who can’t get a gf even if they paid a woman literally don’t exist to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:58 AM
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Regardless, odds are Betsy still has her sights set on Dr. Chad or Chad Esq. She may not be supermodel material but there’s no way in hell she’s “settling” for some 5’10” engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:04 AM
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Betsy the farm girl could still land a bf in a week just by virtue of being a woman; which is more than 95% of men can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:03 AM
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Not sure where you got that from. Really more like “have some hobbies that aren’t social media, makeup or Netflix and actually put effort into life once and awhile”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:01 AM
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I’m not assuming anything. Hypergamy is well documented, as is women’s relative advantage in dating compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:54 PM
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You should know the answer already. Stop chasing after Chad and be more realistic about your options. You may have to date someone who isn’t a 6’3” doctor with celebrity looks (I know, it’s tough). Blows my mind how women can complain about people finding them attractive. I’m sure you’d love spending your life as the 98% of men that are invisible, desperately striving to have someone notice you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:45 PM
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I agree with you that actual “empowered” (I would say motivated or self-starting) women are cool and fun to be around. It sucks that so many women are so passive and just coast through life. Really not looking for a relationship where I have to do everything all the time. Edit:typo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:22 PM
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I'm always going to wonder if she actually likes me or not, since she isn't going after me, and it's me that would be the one going after her. I want to feel assurance a woman wants me, because I've experienced too many times in my life a woman didn't actually want ME, she just wanted a free meal or to be entertained with me and then move on to the next. Women have taken advantage of the fact an "attractive" man was into her. I'm tired of experiencing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:11 PM
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The hardest thing women have in dating is deciding if they want the 6’2” lawyer or the 5’11” doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:09 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:19 PM
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She wishes Chad hit on her; couldn’t care less an about other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:58 PM
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Correct, it was about how men only care about how women but somehow even average women like yourself have no trouble getting male attention with no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:58 PM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:57 PM
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Your powers of observation need work then, along with your writing skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:19 PM
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No matter what, ugly women have better chances than ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:16 PM
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How many times do you think average men get approached by women during a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:52 PM
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If you could just rewrite the post so it’s comprehensible it would be enough. You come off like a first year ESL student.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:51 PM
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Sorry can you write that in English?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:46 PM
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They want to be chosen by the top 5% of men. They couldn’t care less if an average man “chose them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:46 PM
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So you’re a self described “average looking woman”, but you still have men interested in you regularly. (With the odds being said men are doing all the work to approach you and ask you out)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:44 PM
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Do me a favor and look up the Bodybuilding.com “pig woman” experiment. Ugly women are still playing on an infinitely easier playing field than ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:42 PM
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“Guys just don’t understand, all you have to do is be my personal court jester/entertainer and you’re in”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:39 PM
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2,3 4 and 6 I agree with completely OP, and have the same lived experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:36 PM
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Rejecting 25+ men because they aren’t Chad isn’t loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:58 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:49 PM
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Because women don’t have to cross the finish line at all. They just hang out at the finish and fuck whoever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:48 PM
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Oh wow, a non argument. Imagine my surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:47 PM
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No, it actually is. Briffault’s Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:48 PM
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Underneath it all, most self described traditional women are looking for a surrogate daddy/ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:22 PM
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Go ahead and disprove it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:44 AM
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I live in a small town and just lol at this. It’s easier if you’re looking for single moms, obese bar flys and waitresses. Anything else you’re SOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:17 PM
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That’s brutal dude
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:16 PM
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You mean as they remain that the top of every institution and pretty much every measurable metric? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:14 PM
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Turning down 80 guys because they aren’t Chad isn’t “involuntary celibacy”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 09:13 PM
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No true Scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:33 PM
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It’s doing a pretty shit job at benefitting white men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:32 PM
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As with anything related to women, this only applies to Chad. If you aren’t 6-6-6 she couldn’t give a dam how emotionally available you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:31 PM
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This, I’d like to be with a grown ass woman not a mental teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:41 AM
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There are no women incels. Incel stands for involuntary celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:01 PM
4

Imagine complaining about people finding you attractive. Isn’t there a rule against trolling on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:30 PM
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This is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:29 PM
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Your entire thread is basically anger at the fact that you believe women aren’t being protected and coddled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:24 PM
3

So are women strong and independent, or do they need to be protected and coddled? Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:07 PM
1

Again, more disingenuousness along with baseless insults (I wouldn’t expect anything else). Nothing in your post is worth addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:40 PM
1

Of course, because you don’t have to actually live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:37 PM
0

Who said anything about men? Your post is the height of disingenuous. The average woman can’t even handle her bf/husband expressing emotion, let alone trying to boost his looks by using makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:56 PM
0

Maybe in 10-15 years but you and I both know men wearing makeup in everyday life is still not mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:35 PM
1

Projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:29 PM
1

All of those things being artificial beauty enhancements that society frowns on men using. Imagine if the situation was reversed and every man could paint themselves a 10/10 face while women just had to take what genetics gave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:27 PM
3

Women do hold all the power in dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:50 PM
1

There aren’t really, because lonely, romantically unsuccessful men are not rejecting hordes of women interested in them because of [nitpicky reason].
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:45 PM
-3

You dropped your fedora bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:31 PM
2

Crazy how often women fall in love with tall, wealthy, funny, good looking men with high social status and great bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 06:34 PM
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Many women are already complaining about men just not wanting to commit. Chad. Not men. Chad doesn’t want to commit. “Men” don’t even register to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:08 PM
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Now take that same logic and apply it to racial profiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:22 AM
3

No argument there. To be fair though, mate selection as a man is literally the prisoner’s dilemma. Unlike women we’re not basically guaranteed to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:16 AM
6

Woah, you mean women were willing to let the height thing slide for a great looking world famous multimillionaire? This is like saying that the ghetto isn’t so bad because you can just become an NBA player or big time rapper lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:41 AM
1

No opinion, just the fact that feminism does nothing for men is evidence that they don’t care about men or seek to make their lives better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:39 AM
1

Yep, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:16 AM
0

Let’s be honest, even a landwhale is not lacking for options in 2024. She might have to settle for an “average” guy who is decent looking and works out 4x week with a good STEM job, but even she is still single by choice. tl;dr women don’t care because even a landwhale has infinitely more leverage in mate selection than a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:00 AM
2

If they decide to shout it from the rooftops while denigrating those who don’t meet those criteria, they are going to get called out as the asshats that they are. Women HATE short men and society hardly bats an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:48 AM
45

Women try to shut down any hint of leverage or bargaining power men can get when it comes to mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:41 AM
-2

As evidenced by feminism doing jack shit for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:38 AM
5

Women are both valuable and loved by default in society, whereas men must earn both (and can always lose it; see Briffault’s Law).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:17 AM
1

Yeah men are always talking about how they want a tall, wealthy woman who can provide, is funny, well connected socially and does all the work in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:04 PM
3

Yep. They’re the same ones who make posts about “dAtINg iS hArD FOr wOMeN tOo!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:01 PM
5

There was a user who posted in another sub Reddit awhile back about having 8,000 (literally) likes on Bumble. She was also like 4’10”, lived with her parents and had some debilitating medical condition. She wasn’t interested in any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:01 PM
-3

Yeah, women perceive Chad as being more intelligent because he’s tall and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:59 PM
2

I’ve seen women saying they won’t even consider a man unless he’s 6’3”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:57 PM
1

“different type”= tall, rich, good looking, funny, high social status, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:55 PM
1

What’s your definition of “trad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:16 PM
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Just beyond your grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:16 PM
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It would be more like if all men decided women below a certain cup size weren’t worth it and openly ridiculed all women smaller than X.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:15 PM
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Stop being obtuse. There is a big difference between wanting someone who’s taller than you and fetishizing arbitrary numbers like 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:15 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:14 PM
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True that! The amount of women who are 5’3” etc but only want men 6’ is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:12 PM
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Woah a whole inch! Now date a man who’s 6” shorter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:00 PM
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The imbalance is crazy. Women just exist and have their pick of the litter amongst men (of course none of them meet her standards), while you can be a Gigachad and still only have a shot with obese single moms who are 100% settling for you in their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:53 PM
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Women are sexless by choice. Not so for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:24 PM
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Translation: it’s fine to approach women in public if you’re Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:22 PM
2

As a man I have literally no idea why guys want to sacrifice their entire life to pay some woman’s way through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:21 PM
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Briffault’s Law man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:14 PM
0

Great job completely missing the point! I’d say you were at least a couple miles off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:41 PM
1

Really? Because I see the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:18 PM
0

head of household That’s just a code women use to get out of doing things they don’t want to do: “You’re the man, mowing/fixing the car/doing the taxes/fixing the sink etc is your job, I’m going to bake these muffins and post them on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:12 PM
6

True
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:55 PM
2

If you want a clean house, that takes hard work. What kind of house are you living in bro? Anyways gg on missing my point entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:27 PM
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Degrees in what- elementary education? Business? Or things like law and medicine?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 07:26 PM
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I’ve noticed this too. A lot of the women who scream the loudest about wanting to be a SAHM/tradwife whatever are either lazy or not the brightest bulbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:50 PM
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I am a man and I have literally zero idea why so many men want to be a glorified ATM for a woman. Maybe if you have 7 kids and take care of your 85 year old MIL, but I’ll be damned if I’m going to break my back for 40 years so some girl can play house.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:48 PM
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What do they bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:46 PM
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Absolutely today. It’s not just about being a SAHM- it’s about being a SAHM with a Benz, McMansion, vacations to Mexico every year and 2-3x daily Starbucks trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:44 PM
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I think a decent part of the appeal of earlier modes of living (at least for men) was that you didn’t have to be in the 98th percentile of the male population in all statistical categories in order to even score a date, let alone marry some one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:58 PM
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What’s disparaging? The majority of welfare programs etc are aimed at, and used by women. I “do something” for the opposite sex by helping to foot the bill for the services they consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:45 PM
-2

As a man I’m a net contributor to society in terms of my tax dollars (women are net takers).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:39 PM
0

Good thing the divorce court gave you a fat child support payment and there’s loads of welfare programs for single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:38 PM
0

Weird way to admit you have no argument but w/e.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:22 PM
0

Yep, the equally distinct and important roles of “making all the money” and “putting socks away”. Sounds like you already found a chump to bankroll you anyway so good on ya. Edit- better yet, why doesn’t your husband stay home with the kids and you can go make a living? Or do only women get to have their entire lives paid for by the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:09 PM
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No disagreement here. I have no idea why so many men want to bankroll a woman for her entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:07 PM
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Compared to having to have the skills or education needed to financially support an entire family (in addition to every other hypergamous requirement that men have to meet for women to even acknowledge their existence)? Absolutely. What do you think is harder to do- complete medical school or vacuum the carpet?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:54 PM
0

Literally everything in that list (with the exception of the kids stuff) is a basic part of being an adult. You think single people, or dual income families don’t do their laundry or wash the dishes? The level of entitlement is unreal. Imagine men telling women they deserve to be taken care of their entire lives because they can…make mashed potato’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:51 PM
-5

You’re right, it’s just as hard earning an income to support a family of 3+ as it is reheating leftovers and driving to brunch dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:29 PM
-5

No duh, what woman doesn’t want a free ride?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:15 PM
4

can not refuse sex Maybe in 1750
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:13 PM
3

To be fair, in both of those scenarios the woman is offering her body in exchange for resources. But that’s basically female mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:13 PM
0

Yeah, it’s super dangerous to reheat casserole and post baby pics on IG while your husband works himself to death to subsidize your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:12 PM
3

Lmao in what fucking world do you live in where house wives have power lorded over them? The vast majority of men are completely whipped by their wives, especially the ones that stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:09 PM
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Yes I totally agree that women actively reject equality in favor of having their cake and eating it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:05 PM
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Don’t get her wrong she still wants to ho around and enjoy all the freedoms of modern society, she just also wants to get courted like a 1940’s Disney princess 🙃 It’s really not too hard to understand ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:03 PM
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Seconding the guy who said he’s surprised to hear a woman admit this, but at least you can recognize the imbalance. Kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:01 PM
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Only with men who make more money, are taller, stronger, and fulfill all the “traditional” roles they simultaneously don’t need men for anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:50 PM
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The divide comes from women seeing all men who aren’t 6’3” doctors with movie star looks and the bodies of Olympic athletes as being literally subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:49 PM
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Someday you’re gonna make some 304 very happy man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:40 PM
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Women like benevolent sexism, like getting everything paid for or having doors opened for them. Basically they want to have their cake and eat it too; but that shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:30 AM
3

That is some serious goalpost shifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:28 AM
2

Women get fuck zoned because their hypergamy only lets them be attracted to ~3% of the male population. At any rate I’m not sure at all what that has to do with there being essentially no bar for a woman to be physically attractive to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:02 AM
1

I don’t think you understand what I mean. It doesn’t matter if they’re an IG model or a BBW, there’s men interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:42 AM
1

Essentially all women are attractive to men, in contrast to women who are basically only attracted to one type of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:11 AM
2

Women “suffer” in the sense that there aren’t enough tall rich good looking men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:37 AM
3

Yeah, they only want 6’3” multimillionaires with movie star looks. Not your buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:33 AM
3

Yep, exact same thing happens when you ask women to describe their standards for a man IRL vs behind the anonymity of being online.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:17 PM
1

I feel this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:14 PM
1

Male women are common these days Reddit moment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:21 PM
9

They advertise those things because like it or not women are looking for those things. Women who honestly don’t care about a man’s income or height are unicorns.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:18 PM
6

This, completely acting like Briffault’s Law doesn’t exist and women don’t just view men as favor machines and ATM’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:18 AM
24

The real question is why does confidence matter so much to women but not to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:42 AM
3

Women are single because they think no man is worthy of them. That’s what I mean. They believe no one is worthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:39 PM
6

Men are single because no woman is interested in them. Women are single because no man is worthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:26 PM
4

I’m surprised that you even acknowledge the existence of sub-Chad men at all to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:35 PM
-1

Yes, without a doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:27 PM
3

You really, honestly, believe women give a shit whether the guy is self made or not? They don’t, I assure you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 05:29 PM
3

Women will disdain men with inherited wealth until he takes her to Europe or on his private plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:46 PM
-1

Even for me that’s depressing. I aint sayin she’s a golddigger…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:44 PM
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Yep. Men love women, women love what men can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:57 PM
6

men are generally wayyyy lazier and way more negative with the content they put on dating apps It’s cute that you believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:31 PM
3

This; great way to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:47 AM
12

How many men do you think get 200 dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:55 AM
20

I’m sorry people are so interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:55 AM
5

Men aren’t the sexual selectors. Women really think that rejecting men for not meeting whatever arbitrary criteria they set is actually the same thing as getting rejected, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:53 AM
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general compatibility Ah yes, the phrase that allows you to disqualify people based on whatever arbitrary criteria you list. Including apparently political affiliation. So would you be ok with someone who’s actively religious? Smokes? Owns guns?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:10 AM
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That or honestly just being lazy. You hear women talk about getting overwhelmed on dating apps etc. So you want to find the love of your life, but you can’t be arsed to sort through some DM’s for 30 mins? 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:54 PM
11

Men are “causing a ton of it” by not all being 6’2” doctors with the face and body of an IG model.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:52 PM
10

Holy shifting goalpost Batman! First it went from the relationship standard to the standard for a conversation, then they couldn’t like Trump all of a sudden. Next thing we’ll be discovering a height requirement too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:51 PM
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I wonder if people reading this thread will take a step back to contemplate these numbers for just a second. 200 dates. Hundreds, likely, thousands of offers from men over the years. If you’re a man, this is something that you will literally never experience. Women really are playing on tutorial mode with cheats enabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:47 PM
1

Nothing in that quote is incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:43 PM
2

Birth rates are at the lowest they’ve ever been. Sounds like the women should be holding up their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:40 PM
2

So much for being strong and independent huh? How about the dad stays home and bonds with the kid while you go back to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 10:37 PM
6

I didn’t say anything about them being mentally ill, you did. Shows what you think of men interested in you. I know I’d simply be flattered if the shoe was on the other foot. I actually know a couple women who have done some freelance work through IG, and either got money or things like free clothes from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:29 PM
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Meme excuse, this isn’t 1952. No one cares if women ask out a guy. (This is the part where you respond with an anecdote about some guy getting mad a woman asked him out). It’s just a convenient excuse for women to never have to put in the work and potentially face rejection, all while sorting through the men that come into them. Regarding OLD, you’re honestly claiming you have never received an unsolicited message on any OLD platform?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:27 PM
5

In today’s era? It’s a lot more common than you would think. I don’t know why it’s so difficult for you to comprehend that most women, unless they’re something like severely deformed, basically drown in attention. Go make a public Insta with a bikini, short shorts or nice dress picture and see how quickly you get modeling offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:15 PM
3

Yeah, that’s kind of what happens when someone asks you out- you either accept or reject them. Women can always ask a guy out if they want, but of course that would require work and they might get rejected…You ever done OLD before? How many messages you get each week?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:11 PM
3

Good thing women aren’t just restricted to vetoing then! But really, let’s not pretend like between digital and in person environments women aren’t swarmed with attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:07 PM
3

Nope, she was extremely short and had some rather serious health condition that prevented her from relocating. I tried finding the thread but it apparently got deleted. I don’t know why it’s so hard for you to comprehend that women in essentially any virtual space get absolutely swarmed with male attention. There’s enough examples of this on Reddit already, but you could always go make an account to see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:05 PM
1

lol what are you talking about? I went to college with a woman who literally got a marriage proposal in her DM’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:58 PM
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*girls don’t get that much attention unless they have one public social media account Fixed that for you. I was in another subreddit a month or so ago with a girl who literally said she had 8,000+ likes on Bumble…and of course not a single one was good enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:48 PM
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I can’t say your profile pic played any role in me posing the question. For me it was the fact that your ability to stay logically consistent seemed…suspect, to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:52 PM
1

At least you’re logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:23 PM
3

So it’s morally neutral to reject people based on their race?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:35 PM
7

Rejecting someone for an immutable characteristic is morally neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:24 PM
13

Men can ask all they want. It’s up to the women to accept their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:51 PM
12

Interesting comment about fertility. If you listen to women on Reddit they act like getting pregnant at 40 is easy as pie because their cousin’s niece’s daughter had a kid at 40. Obviously the reality is a lot different, but both on here and via my own experiences irl it’s interesting how much women like to pretend fertility decline doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:48 PM
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My point is rather than settle for a less than perfect guy, the vast majority of women just never pair up. Because they would literally rather die alone than settle for the less than perfect man in your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:43 PM
3

Many women wouldn’t even get with a less than perfect man if they believed there was a .01% chance Chad would wife them. That’s the dating market right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:48 PM
1

Finding a man you love and desire is not hard at all. At least someone finally admitted it! 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:39 PM
2

Why wouldn’t we? Women are inherently valuable, while men are only valued based on how useful we are to women. It’s literally the difference between people valuing you for who you are versus only valuing you for what you can do for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:54 PM
2

I don’t know why it bothers men that they aren’t fetishized for just existing. Don’t worry, we don’t expect you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:17 AM
1

Rejecting guys for not being 6’3” is not not having success with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:20 PM
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Very good post. I will disagree slightly though and say that most women are keenly aware of their power (how can you not be when you have literally hundreds or thousands of men approaching you?) but basically all of them refuse to even consider settling for anything less than their 14/10 dream man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:58 PM
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Essentially all of it, with the exception of the top ~2% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:55 PM
1

How much time in my life to you think I have sort through 1000 profiles? Thank you for proving my point. Unless you thought I was supposed to keep reviewing those profiles after meeting him just in case one of those dudes were better options? You’ve never heard of monkeybranching?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:56 PM
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Bold of you to assume that 25 million men were pursuing me. Well, in 2023 OLD nothing is out of the realm of possibility for women. Women posters on reddit routinely report hundreds of messages from men; something the vast majority of men obviously never experience. Let’s pretend there were “only” 1,000 men in your are within all your criteria. That’s still an immense quantity. Women who complain about the lack of quality in matches on dating sites are generally either lazy or extremely picky. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:47 PM
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A quick google search reveals that OKC has around 50million users worldwide. Let’s be generous and assume that those users are evenly split between male and female. For the record: you’re saying that 25 million men were unworthy of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:32 PM
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Yes, I have. Those are getting you nowhere if you don’t first have what I listed. Be tall, rich, good looking and high social status and then most women will start to worry about your personality. Ever notice how rich, good looking men always seem to have the best personalities according to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:56 AM
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If you reject the entire male population of an OLD site as being unworthy of you then that says more about you than the men. Women say shit like this and have zero self awareness 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:29 AM
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Character=height, money, looks and social status
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:24 AM
5

I noticed that you didn’t disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:37 PM
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Look, without going on some rant suffice to it to say that getting a partner as a woman is massively easier than as a man. Like, you have to really fuck up as a woman to be involuntarily single. Kind of like a trust fund kid somehow blowing the family fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:11 PM
13

Is this a good faith question? It’s pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:54 PM
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Nah, I genuinely wonder the same thing. If I was a woman I would have gotten married ages ago. Women play on such a different field that it’s like a poor kid trying to describe his life to Bezos’s kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:41 PM
3

“Creepy” in the context of a man is oftentimes shorthand for “unattractive”. If [male celebrity] did half the shit women say is creepy they’d be flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:42 AM
1

So then you need to clarify your opinion that “high SMV men have control of the LTR/proposal market”, because there are men who struggle to get dates period and are definitely not gatekeeping proposals or LTR. But who are we kidding, your a woman so high SMV are the only men you can conceptualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:17 PM
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“Late stage capitalism” lol, did you wander over here from r/socialism? Feminism helped destroy the breadwinner economy by normalizing, to an extent never seen before, women in the workforce as a normal thing. Women’s permanent entry en masse into the labor force effectively doubled the labor supply and let businesses owners essentially halve their wages, which is a big reason why worker pay has been stagnant for decades- no reason to keep up when John’s wife works full time too. But hey, it’s w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:44 PM
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You can thank feminism for that. Women decided making powerpoints for 60k/yr was more fulfilling than being a mom/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:48 PM
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A 1/10 woman has infinitely more options than a 1/10 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:36 AM
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How is a guy going to propose or ask you to be his gf if he can’t get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:35 AM
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Interesting to note how your opinion of an unrealistic definition of the average woman is basically “don’t be fat or be tatted up”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 12:28 AM
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I’m saying if they adjusted their mindsets they would have zero trouble getting a man. The problem is they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:20 PM
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Exactly, don’t forget the wealthier a guy is the better his personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:18 PM
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No, I didn’t. You might want to double check the profile names above each comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:17 PM
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There are loads of women who want to be married but they lack the qualifications to attract a man who will actually commit to them. Women’s inflated standards discredits men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:24 PM
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I accept your concession.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:23 PM
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I didn’t know that being tall, rich, intelligent, and good lucking was a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:02 PM
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Those women could get married tomorrow if they would get real about their standards and what they offer. The problem is they still pine after the same 20 guys in their city that every other woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:01 PM
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Belief has nothing to do with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:59 PM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:58 PM
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So no counter argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:57 PM
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How many unsolicited messages do you think a pig man would have got?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:55 PM
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This only happens in extremely hypergamous situations. I.e, the nurse falling in love with the doctor, or a plain Jane with a movie star.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:54 PM
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That’s just common sense dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:52 PM
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we should campaign to prevent any death at the workplace by decent workingconditions... Over 90% of workplace deaths in the US are men. You’re okay with the stat staying this way; you just want men to die a little less. Again, feminists only want equality when it benefits them. we should campaign for terminating selective service... The only time feminists care about the draft is when the prospect of women serving comes up. we should campaign for social security for everybody... Not sure what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:33 PM
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Uh what? Women complain about random guys on TikTok all the time. Much more than a guy pulling out an Uzi after getting rejected on a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:21 PM
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but are always told that barely ever happens It rarely happens in the context of cold approach, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:14 AM
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You're not really worth conversing with tbh Back at you. I’ve shown the hypocrisy of feminism to you time and time again and you have nothing. Again, let me know when feminists campaign for 50% of work place deaths to be women and not just 50% of CEO’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:12 AM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:05 AM
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I’m just saying that contrary to your implication, not every woman hated the 1950’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:04 AM
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equality in workplace deaths by reducing mens. Lol no, it’s dedicated to reducing injuries/fatalities on the job. Not one EHS program says it’s explicitly dedicated to reducing mens’ deaths. You’re fine with more men dying then women, you just want the number to come down a little. Are women being prevented from being steel workers? Are women being prevented from being…anything? Why do need massive societal interference in favor of women at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:03 AM
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I don’t care about percentages in industries either way. Merely pointing out how gender equality is a one way street meant to serve as a cover to funnel resources to women at the expense of men. Again, women never want gender equality when it comes to shitty jobs men work. Only cushy high paying white collar type jobs. Mafia. Dude, I can't stop laughing at your hyperbole. Please join the rest of us in the real world. It functions exactly the same way. It’s literally an operation channel resource…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:59 PM
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Because women don’t give a shit about male teachers. It doesn’t matter if 10% of teachers are men or 50%, women are still going to fuck doctors or lawyers like they are now. Men know this. Feminism isn’t really about equality at all, its basically a giant female mafia designed to benefit women at men’s expense. Again, where’s the campaigns for gender equality in workplace deaths? Or gender equality in the suicide rate? Feminists couldn’t care less about getting 50% women in the construction indu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:34 PM
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If we’re going to trot out anecdotes then neither of my grandmothers took drugs like that and were happy to be stay at home wives/mothers. Same for their sisters. The lengths that feminists go to to portray the 1950’s as some kind of hellhole is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:22 PM
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Teaching below the college level is absolutely not an “intellectual career”. Education majors are some of the worst students.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:29 PM
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When’s the campaign for gender equality in workplace deaths? Or 50% female steel workers? I never hear about any gender equality initiatives to get 50% male nurses or kindergarten teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:23 PM
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I have met plenty of the women you describe. This doesn’t change the fact though that women are quite clear about the kinds of men they want- those with resources or skills that can benefit them. Studies demonstrate that women’s attraction to a man literally correlates with his income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:10 PM
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If you’re defining a “decent career” as being statistically above average in income for your area then by definition you are seeking an above average man, of which there are fewer number and fiercer competition for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:33 PM
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I’m sorry too, but that’s just how women work. This is pretty well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:14 PM
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That doesn’t invalidate what I said. Are you only interested in dating men who live in California?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:12 PM
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It’s a moot point to me. I’m not being valued for anything beyond what benefit I can provide to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:25 PM
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3/4 of these men make over 100k/yr. Only 21% of American men earn that- and that includes all men, from teenagers to 80 year olds. This simple facet alone proves my point- you are looking at men way above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:01 PM
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They saw it on Mad Men and assumed it must be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:54 PM
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Why don’t you give us some examples of men who meet said basic standards? Like a dating profile, or a description with quantifiers like income or height? A big problem with women and unrealistic standards is that they unironically believe Chad is an average guy. This correlates back to those studies showing that average looking men literally don’t even register with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:30 PM
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Just lol at this delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:28 PM
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KIND, LOYAL, COMPATIBLE, NOT SELFISH I know multiple single guys who are these. Are you willing to date a man who has these qualities, but may not be 6’ or have the best body? Or are introverted? Or have niche hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:25 PM
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Lol well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:21 PM
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Whether you’re needed or wanted, women are still interested in you for the same things- money, height, body, social status, intelligence etc. No matter what it’s just Briffault’s Law.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:18 PM
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I’m sorry but to act like White men aren’t elevated above their Asian counterparts in Asia is ridiculous. Rather than recount my personal experiences on this subject I would advise you to go ask some of the Asian male communities on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:50 PM
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If he was a local Asian man you wouldn’t give him the time of day. Asian women’s fetishizing of White men is legendary and blatantly transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:10 PM
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Idk bro, maybe the double posts with the defensive tone gave it away 😂😂 For a self proclaimed straight man you sure are striking out on this one. Education is not important to men the same way that it is to women. And socioeconomic status is influenced by, but not pegged to education. Women can make alot of money without being very well educated. There are alot more male doctors who married elementary school teachers than women doctors who married male teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:07 PM
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No need to get all defensive. The simple fact is that men do not care about their partner’s education to the extent that women do. There are loads of doctors, lawyers etc who settle for women less educated than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:46 PM
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they also want their life partner to be highly educated. Not necessarily. Are you a woman by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:00 PM
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For real, literally your entire existence scrutinized continuously by women, actively looking for an excuse to cross you off at any time. Then they complain about being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:46 AM
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Idk man, I’ve been on dates with a lot of good looking lawyers, MD’s, pharmacists, etc. There are definitely homely/obese ones, but there are good looking ones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:03 PM
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There are alot of single doctors, lawyers, PhD’s etc out there in their late 20’s to early 30’s. Women are absolutely hypergamous and picky to the max, but there is some truth to the fact that men don’t like women who are more educated than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:05 PM
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It’s the prisoner’s dilemma- men can’t afford to be too picky because unlike women we don’t get swarmed with attention everyday just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:55 PM
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the concept of hypergamy is becoming less and less relevant. I do think the concept will become more or less extinct within the next 50-80 years Just lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:54 PM
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Most men can’t get away with being hypergamous. To be quite frank the vast majority of men take what they can get, because if they pass on a woman there’s always some guy ready to simp for her. It’s why most men cling to the first woman that acknowledges their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:48 PM
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Not a good match is just a roundabout way of saying they aren't good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:37 AM
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Nothing he said was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:02 AM
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That’s really sweet of you. I would love to have a woman put up post it notes like that for me. I really hate how men get stereotyped as not appreciating things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:01 AM
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IKTF. Christian women are basically just as picky as non-Christian women. If anything they’re pickier because now not only do you have to be a 6’2” triathlete doctor, you also have to teach Sunday School/do missions part time/be a youth pastor etc. Edit: forgot to say, you read all these reports about women outnumbering men in church; and think that it’d be easier to find someone. Nah lol, their standards are still sky high.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:56 AM
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Rejection is personal though. You’re telling a person they’re not good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:36 AM
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Lmao this is a good point. Men are expected to go all out; women put on some underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:22 AM
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Thankfully, we don’t have to rely on your anecdotes: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-5753877/Many-women-using-dating-apps-merely-seeking-confirmation-attractiveness.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:23 PM
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Exactly. You don’t want a construction worker’s autograph because you view him as a low status man. But when a movie star or an professional athlete does it you’re flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:48 PM
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Well they are movie stars so I think most women would stop to get a picture with them or an autograph maybe? You just proved my point lmao. They are high status men (movie stars) so instead of calling the cops or running away (like they would if some random construction worker catcalled them) they would want to get their fucking autograph lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:10 PM
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Lol, women openly admit to using datings apps and chatting with guys for the ego boost. Or how many women admit to texting guys on IG because they want the validation? Stop pretending this isn’t occurring amongst adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:35 PM
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These are all things that average women either have or could have on demand. To pretend otherwise is just ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:20 PM
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“Unwanted attention” being code for “low status male attention”. If it was Tom Hardy or Chris Pratt etc the women would love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:18 PM
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Yes, she knows they want to fuck her, complete strangers started making it clear to her already when she was 11. And since then, dozens of men show it to her all the time, in various ways, and it's tiresome and annoying at best and terrifying at worst. The nerve of those men, being attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:13 PM
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“and nobody past the age of 18 keeps texting randoms just for attention”. Lol at believing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:10 PM
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There is alot more truth in the OP than women care to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:07 PM
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Part of the problem is the double standards that men suffer from in things like this. I would have no problem marrying a career woman and being a SAHD, but a lot of women wouldn’t respect their men for doing that. It’s like how men don’t care about women in majority male occupations, but men in traditionally female occupations are still judged by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:34 PM
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I don’t deny that these scenarios happen too. But I still think female hypergamy is the norm and at least easier for women. I live in the Midwest and have both up and down. Tbh some of the best women I have met and had feelings for were pharmacists and MD’s who knew that very few men had their jobs, and odds are they would have to meet someone less “accomplished” than they were. But I still meet a lot of women with middle-low tier jobs who are blatantly sizing you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:13 PM
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Is it really physical attractiveness? Or is it good makeup and the right filter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:10 PM
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I never said natural selection necessarily works to improve the species. But we can still recognize when traits are being selected for that hurt the overall fitness of the species. If only humans who were schizophrenic reproduced that would still be bad for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:09 PM
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Easy for you to say because women can essentially marry/reproduce whenever they want due to the virtually endless stream of men interested in them. They can afford to be picky. Men OTOH have much fewer options, even for high achieving men. I mean 20 year old women have more options than most men will ever have. This is why I said female hypergamy acts to select against men having standards- you run the risk of your genes dying out or being usurped by another guy with lower standards if you’re to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:06 PM
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Posting from mobile so this will be kind of brief but I disagree heavily with several points in your post. I guess in no particular order: Of course it’s possible the doctor could love the kindergarten teacher, but I personally always found it strange to be so mismatched in a relationship as a guy. And I also suspect there’s a degree of settling there on his part. I was once with a woman who was very sweet and a genuinely good person. But to be blunt she was also a ditz and kind of a perpetual f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:02 PM
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