| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 219 | Mum: “Still single?” | NAH, SIS | MelodicPlum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:38 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 18 | Mum: “Still single?”My second message from a guy this week was “So, how long has it been since you were last sexually active?” Wtf. What am I an animal?Blocked and reported straight away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:06 PM |
| 66 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Also P+V intercourse is not the only way to have sex. There’s so many other things you can do when you’re on your period if you feel uncomfortable with straight up intercourse. Playing with underwear on, toys etc. This text also shows how bad this dude is at sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:02 PM |
| 64 | Mum: “Still single?”And then you get “you’ve seen everyone in your area! Have you thought about removing some of your standards?” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:01 AM |
| 95 | Mum: “Still single?”The one I hate the most is any version of ‘no pen pals’ - it’s always made me feel uncomfortable and I’m not 100% sure why but I think it’s a mix of 1. You have a small character limit and decided to say something negative in it What if I don’t feel comfortable to meet yet for any reason? (Like being in a global pandemic) And 3. If you can’t hold a conversation over text or phone calls, how does that bode for your ability to communicate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:51 AM |
| 14 | Guess what most commenters said?Don’t talk to him about it, dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?Don’t even have to read it to know my answer is yes 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Thoughts on AbortionI was raped which led to me ‘just kinda ending up pregnant.’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:31 PM |
| 6 | How to make friends with women?Over about half a year, I've met 4 kick ass women on the Bumble app - in the lockdown we did 'skype and wine' rather than meeting up in person. I'd highly recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 14 | This reaction seeking negging attempt that's disguised as an apology“I guess I’ll keep messaging you.” Blockkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk Block. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:56 AM |
| 4 | They always come back! Dropped me the day before Christmas after hooking up with me= I blocked him. Reached out in Tinder Story in comments“I miss the free therapy.” Good job on blocking 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Am I pursuing him? How do I proceed?I suppose he could ask himself the same question? You didn't talk to him directly, you went through a friend? Thinking about why that was your route might help figure out next steps and whether you're ready to date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:50 AM |
| 6 | Question from a recovering PickMe dipping toe back into the dating world.I think my first question would be - why are you dating again? Where's the motivation for that coming from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:44 AM |
| 14 | FDS sisters, what social media platforms do you use? Which do you boycott?Use twitter and instagram - both I use highly curated, mainly for BLM content, and I search for only tweets from around my area, or check out stories from around where I live too. Facebook went a while ago and I've never regretted it! I use a phone app called Hip, to make a note of all my friends bdays, which FB was alright for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:40 AM |
| 11 | Read receipts = automatic LVM?I'm 31, when I turned my read receipts off, my mum asked me to turn them back on because she likes to check I'm alive when she gets anxious. (she's working on it folks, and is generally healthy/wonderful). Never really thought about it in terms of the guys in my life/dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:11 PM |
| 23 | HVM know the value of a woman they talk to. And they aren't insecure to admit that.“You’ve had such an impact on my life and I’ll remember it for as long as I live.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 101 | HVM know the value of a woman they talk to. And they aren't insecure to admit that.Reads like the texts my love-bombing ex would send. Hope it's not the case for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you emotionally less involved?Someone needs to create and sell this spreadsheet on etsy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:42 PM |
| 107 | This was empowering to watch. If you aren’t getting what you deserve, dump his ass!!Ah that was so relatable. Buying a dress in prep, putting on make up JUST in case there’s a surprise coming. Realising no surprise is coming. Men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | HELP! The Apps are becoming a full-time job... How do I get this under control?I only swipe for as long as I get 5 matches then I put the apps away. That time is definitely better spent on your own personal hobbies and interests. Maybe consider if you really need to date that much? And what else you could fill your time with that’s fulfilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:38 AM |
| 25 | What "lightly depraved" actions and/or "dating test" fuckeries will you NEVER tolerate again from a man since finding FDS (ex: items that do not warren red flags but yellow to green range symptoms/warning signs you missed before outside of standard FDS guidelines)?“I’m sorry you feel that way.” Is one of the worst for me. My last 2 NVM did this and it drove me insane. I won’t date or keep talking to someone after they do this anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:30 AM |
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