Melodican Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
127	Merry Christmas Lads... You Got This 💙	Melodican	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 04:35 PM
54	6 Month Field Report	Melodican	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 06:21 PM
16	I Just Can't Shake This Feeling	Melodican	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 08:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	6 Month Field Report I love this bro, sounds like our paths are REALLY similar! - Keep going dude, sounds like you're smashing it. And yes, jesus, got slammed constantly for how hard the house work is. I'm now doing it all by myself and frankly, it's a piece of piss. I have a "3 Hour Sunday" - In that 3 hours, I do everything, all the laundry, dishes, garbage etc etc.... Absolutely zero drama Saying that, I can hire a cleaner for £40 to do the whole house.... I'm so serious about doing it.... Ultimate leverage	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 07:30 PM
4	6 Month Field Report Spiritually I did....	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 07:26 PM
9	6 Month Field Report You are loved brother. Keep going. Do it for yourself. I promise you, with all of my heart, even though it doesn't feel like it right now, it DOES get better	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 07:25 PM
6	What hobbies or projects have you taken up as a single dad? I was same as you, doom scrolling, watching YT videos, I was showering A LOT (5-6 times per day, for some reason?)..... Anyway as many of the comments above, I hit the gym, hard, go everyday (barre Sunday) and it's a real release... It's not just 'lifting heavy shit', it's helped my diet, my sleep, my overall processing of the divorce and I'm gutted I didn't do it sooner.... I also look better Having lost 16kg which is a confidence boost when I eventually come to dating again..... Iron never lie…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/25 07:34 PM
1	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? "Embittered"..... I learned a new word today 💪🏼	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/24 09:27 PM
7	What are your 2025 goals post divorce? Yes mate! In EXACTLY the same situ as you (4 months out rather than 6) - I think the more time goes on, I know it's cliche AF but the more I realise I don't need a woman, at the time of my divorce, I was convinced I could no longer go on and I was absolutely fucking crushed, now everyday I'm meeting the man I should have been all along, who I gave up for a woman... Bleurgh Goal wise, 3 things - Mind, Body, Money 1 - Mind - Get my mind sorted. Goals, planning, therapy, acceptance and self love, m…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/24 09:53 AM
5	She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful? I'm currently going through this... I feel you dude, just focus on 1) You and 2) The kids	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/24 11:06 PM
2	First christmas without my kids Most people on the Internet are wankers.... But you are not one of them. Merry Christmas to you and OP 💙	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/24 04:30 PM
1	Crazy ex wife stories. I’ll go first My ex wife glassed me.... She was hammered, I was led there on the couch, she came up to me snarling and gritting her teeth, I kept my cool on 3 occasions said "you're scarring me, let's talk about this tomorrow", after a slew of BS, I said "Get out of my face!" (Still led down BTW and no threat to anyone), she chucked a glass at me which hit the wall, cut my cheek and has now scarred me for life...... And it's my fault 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 09:16 PM
1	As the holiday season approaches ... Same here man, first Xmas morning alone. Although I do get them at midday until midday boxing day so I'm going to go from broken to superhero for 24 hours, back to broken.... Gotta remember it's about them. Plenty of time to reflect when they're not with me	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 06:59 PM
2	Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know) I guess you knew my ex then....	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 08:08 PM