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| 5 | So are the sidebar rules just suggestions here? | Melodyheart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 05:53 AM |
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| 5 | We all know that marriage rates are plummeting, but while trp focuses on how marriage is a bad deal for men and men are checking out of marriage as a result, isn't it possible that women are losing interest in marriage to a similar extent?...so you still haven't read the definitions, nor actually argued with/against what I said. If something is a "strawman" it's a strawman fallacy. Making stuff up to fit your argument is what five year olds do, please stop. You also clearly don't know what Ad Hominem is either. Saying "You're stupid" is not Ad Hominem. That is a statement which can be determined valid or false. Saying "What you have to say shouldn't be listened to because you are part of a certain group or are a certain way" is A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 12:08 AM |
| 5 | We all know that marriage rates are plummeting, but while trp focuses on how marriage is a bad deal for men and men are checking out of marriage as a result, isn't it possible that women are losing interest in marriage to a similar extent?I'm pretty sure you didn't read my examples, or you might have realized that making any sort of use of a straw man is a fallacy. That means that saying a statement is a straw man still makes it a straw man fallacy. "Straw man" and "straw man fallacy" are the exact same things. I attempted to look up the difference, because I'm willing to admit to when I'm wrong, but I could not find a source explaining that a "straw man" is in any way used without the "fallacy" part. Please stop making stuff up,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/15 10:21 PM |
| 7 | We all know that marriage rates are plummeting, but while trp focuses on how marriage is a bad deal for men and men are checking out of marriage as a result, isn't it possible that women are losing interest in marriage to a similar extent?Do you know what a fallacy is? Because I'm not so sure. this is one definition of a straw man. This is another definition the first definition is what's being applied. Examples always help, so here . It's a nice simplified explaination. If you want to pick another fallacy to explain why you dislike that statement, go ahead. when you, as a blue piller, see a trper say something about women, you misinterpret it as complaining. Speeking of fallacies, nice fallacious use of Ad Hominem. I'll say this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/15 07:54 PM |
| 11 | We all know that marriage rates are plummeting, but while trp focuses on how marriage is a bad deal for men and men are checking out of marriage as a result, isn't it possible that women are losing interest in marriage to a similar extent?That was not a straw man. do not throw around words you don't actually understand. It will make your arguments look worse. If the statement only said "women say 'where have all fhe good men gone'" and nothing about men saying/not saying similar comments, it then could be considered a straw man. Arguing the validity of a sentence within the initial argument made is not fallacious. Anyway, saying "women go for douchebags" and "where have all the good men gone" can be viewed as extremely similar st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Virgin ShamingEither way, you're goal is not to ruin other people's biological prowess. What you're saying is that it's a consequent and you don't care, but that's not your goal (unless it actually is, but it seems that's not the case). We are not bonobos, it's an example of a different sexual strategy. I'm sorry that you missed the point of these examples, especially when I stated "These are animals, but so are we. It's good to compare and contrast" especially since humans show variation in sexual strategies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/15 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Virgin ShamingAlright, rule of thumb, making broad, sweeping statements about anything biological tend to be wrong. Let's step back first and look at the current system. You're saying that women are supposed to be choosy while males are supposed to be sluts. This means that women are SUPPOSED to withhold sex, creating the high cost pussy on a pedistal I've heard trp rag on so much, and taking that away would make any female they encounter and belittle the cost of their pussy, a biological failure. This is a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Virgin ShamingBiological failure? How so? I'm assuming that you're going by the stance of most female animals are supposed to be choosier, and biological males are supposed to get plenty of females. Please explain what you mean by saying that they are biological failures so I don't misinterprate what you were getting at and I can address it in a reasonable manor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/15 06:14 AM |
| 9 | What advice would you give to your daughter?Pro tip: telling your daughter not to get fat will probably end in her getting fat. Shaming her once she is fat will keep her that way. Long story short, the more pressure you put on her, the more ibsessive she will become. This will either lead to anorexia/bolimia through feeling as though she isn't good enough, or weight gain when she reaches the "what's the point in trying, I'm a fat loser anyway." Considering her looks should not be your priority in raising her, rather a well developed perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for Women to fall into the Friend-zone?Friend-zoning isn't a male only thing. I can say first hand that women get friend zoned as well. I've had friends that have been friend zoned, I (a woman) have been friend zoned, as well as I've friend zoned others. If someone was only presenting themselves as a romantic interest, creating no friendship bases before one of us rejects the other, I don't pursue a friendship with them. -note: I'm using the word "friend zone" as in someone pursuing a romantic relationship and being shut down and kep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/15 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Discussion/Debate - Why do we keep the institution of marriage around? Why isn't it possible to just stay with the partner you love without risking half of your worth and livelihood? Do you feel life long relationships would be easier if the risk of losing everything wasn't there?The issue is with marraige is a mix between religion traditions still being part of the government and people abusing the hell out of the system if everything wasn't written down in contracts. While there are people who abuse the system as it is now, and it's mostly abused in the divorce system. This is because the divorce system isn't very refined. Considering divorce has only gotten big the past few decades, and the government's speed at fixing problems with it's systems, this isn't too surpri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/15 08:52 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of "Creep" Shaming?With a lot of girls, being a "creep" is someone over stepping boundries when talking to a woman. These boundries are usually just normal social standards that everyone holds, such as don't spam message someone when they don't respond right away, or if another person doesn't understand when someone wants to be left alone. Basically, creepy=someone who does something out of the ordinary that causes great discomfort for another person. Anyone can be viewed as "creepy" it can be your new boyfriend's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | So are the sidebar rules just suggestions here?RPers do it too. You only notice the BPers because you are the one experiencing these attacks. Both sides do this. With BPers, it seems that most do it from time to time, while with RP there are less people doing it, but the amount of fallacies those people produce are incredible, ignorant, an usually I see it from RP side more often because the RPers who do that nonsense are the ones commenting the most. They are also argue the dumbest things. So while there are more BPers arguing the five-year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/14 06:58 PM |
| 2 | In two sentences (one for men and one for women), what is the best relationship advice you would give to someone?When dating anyone from my experience (which includes straight men and queer women) I have one major piece of advice: Be upfront about your major flaws, because no one wants to find an overwhelming treasure-trove of crazy they can't handle. On the flip side, look for someone with flaws you can handle, and if you don't find any right away, that means you'll find out years later since everyone has flaws, some just don't surface as quickly as others. I wasn't sure if you were asking for advice of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Do Vietnamese Virgins Make the Best Wives?I would take an ugly, but hard working factory worker over a night-club dumbass any day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 05:15 AM |
| 2 | What does "Dark Triad" have to do with self-improvement?Looking back on all thatt nonsense gives me relief that I'm no longer living at home with her haha! Thank you for reminding me how great it is to leave that house! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 05:14 AM |
| 1 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?If you were being nice before, does that mean what you consider to be nasty nice? Your logic is kinda backwards anyway, especially how seriously you take what a random person comments on the internet. I could go one about "it's so cute you you insult me etc etc etc" like most people do on this subreddit. Dude, if you get insecure about my calling you out on a couple things, I think you need some growing up to do before you come onto a subreddit based on arguing what is realistic and what isn't. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What does "Dark Triad" have to do with self-improvement?Yeah, except my mother gets validation from winning. She has to win every argument, and if she doesn't, she talks behind their backs. This included her kids as well. Since I wasn't very aggressive with my opinions, and generally had a gentle nature, she picked on me since I didn't fight back constantly like my sister. She would start arguments about my own feelings and argue whether or not they were right. Feelings don't have to be right, they are feelings. How you act on those feelings is what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do Vietnamese Virgins Make the Best Wives?But only the pretty ones. Only 300 out of the 2,000 some get chosen </3 legit though, how deppressing would it be if you weren't pretty and you worked hard every day for the 1/7 chance that you will get married, but you were born unfortunately :( either way, even though they are literally a virgin bride factory, it's a good alternative than being sold to a brothel and having no chance at actually having a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What does "Dark Triad" have to do with self-improvement?The way you discribing narcissism is extremely accurate. My mother was a narcissist, or at least showed an amazing amount of narcissist behavior, and this is the shit she would do. She majored in psychology, as though she was planning on becoming a psychologist, but for whatever reason he didn't persue that career (probably related to the fact that she has narcissist like traits). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 11:16 PM |
| 2 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?What definition of feminism are you going by? I am extremely independant, as well as I think that te sexes deserve equal opportunity, but other than that I don't tie into the feminist group very well. I dislike some of the attitudes around how they want to accomplish complete equality. The general attitude around feminism is that women are being wronged, and that men should change their attitudes to allow women to live on they same level in every way they can. I believe that there are inequaliti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 11:04 PM |
| 2 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?Too bad you didn't read any of my other comments in the thread, sorry you had to waste all that time arguing what works for TRP or not when I stated later that I'm actually discussing what exactly is discovering women. I'm not arguing against the red pill at all, I honestly don't give a shit if it works or not, because I'm not arguing against the red pill. Please get your head out of your as and read my flair <3 and I think I'm adorable too <3 But hey, if you want to resort to personal attacks i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 2 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?This was an extremely well-thought out statement with evidence. The fact that you brought an actual source and example was amazing, and you have actually shifted my opinion a bit. While I believe no one is exactly alike, the way you worded that made a lot of sense and has shown me the other side of extent of how unique something actually can be. It's clear that people are unique, but their individuality can only go to a certain extent before the differences are so miniscule that the over all peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 02:57 AM |
| 5 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?Honestly, I don't mind the red pill. Making assumptions whether I like the red pill or not, assuming I'm a feminist, it isn't very accurate for someone who acts like they know how all women will act and react. I actually dislike the way most feminists present things, and I don't really mind the fact that the whole point of the redpill is to game women. My opinion is, if you want to have sex, TRP is at least a way for someone to achieve that instead of sitting on their ass and bitching about thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/14 02:37 AM |
| 8 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?I mean, I personally cared about what men wanted, but if you insist... /s but seriously, I want the best for men and women. Would you like to provide an arguemt to why women don't want men to know anything about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/14 04:54 AM |
| 21 | BPers, why do you want men to be completely ignorant of the true natures of women?If you want to "discover women," that's fine. Just actually discover women, don't assume what TRP says about women is all true. Women probably don't care that you are discovering them. In fact, they would probably be happy that someone cared enough to know about them (just as long as the "discovering" isn't anything taht can be defined as stalking). What women, and people in general, don't want is a label put on them. "How many sexual partners have you had? Oh 7? You're a slut." While a high par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/14 04:48 AM |
| 1 | If the leaked photos that female celebrities took of themselves while they were underage constitute child pornography, why haven't they been charged by the authorities for manufacturing it?Except celebrities, yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/14 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Curious on what a therapist/psychologist would thinkYeah, I will admit that I don't know much on Cosmo. I've seen a couple of articles linked from there. I saw those and made an unfair assumption on the creators of it. Still think the articles deserve a "wtf" though :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 07:10 PM |
| 4 | If the leaked photos that female celebrities took of themselves while they were underage constitute child pornography, why haven't they been charged by the authorities for manufacturing it?There is no real pussy pass for this. Girls are usually the ones taking the pictures and boys recieving them. Both sides get in trouble for this. The girls are charged with production of child pornography, boys charged with possesing it. You could make the arguement "What if the boys didn't want the pictures?" If they really didn't want the pictures, they should hve deleted them or gone to an adult and explained the situation. Peer pressure sucks when the law is involved, with underage drinking,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Curious on what a therapist/psychologist would thinkWhether or not women try to train men, cosmo is just plain crazy. It's made by crazy middle aged women who haven't had bf's in a couple decades, and try to come up with bizzarre fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Or an apology from society for having them lose years of pleasure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone find it hard to relate to regular people?Something to bring yourself down to Earth is trying to go through the decision making process that the person in question went through. First, be able to forget your opinion in the matter, because your opinion can cloud the actual path of thinking the person went through. This allows you to figure out why a person did what they did, then compare the pros and cons of that person to create a better opinion of the situation. The best lawyer is the one who can create a good argument and counter argu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers and Sex-positivism and fantasy fulfillment: where do you draw the line at encouraging risky behavior?I read risky sex behaviors, and knew that I had to post here. Here's the deal; I love sex. I'll be blunt, I don't just enjoy the typical sex positions, I love kinky sex. I personally love being dominated by someone who is bigger than me (I usually like my men taller/bigger than me, sometimes a challenge at 5'11" though). I love being tied down, being told when I'm a good/bad girl, being blindfolded, getting the spreader bars and abuse me with toys. With girls, the idea of being in that position,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?This made me happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/14 12:33 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"I completely agree with you on this! Most women are partially attracted to the emotional factor with having sex! Although I think the situation with the women in question. They are casually wanting sex with men that they plan on having no attatchment to. The fact that they do not /cannot develop an emtional attatchment when having something as intimate as sex, shows that they are shallow. On the other hand, most women I've met aren't shallow, and fit exactly what you said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:14 AM |
| 1 | BPers, are these women "shallow?"Yeah, it's pretty shallow to base a whole relationship off of looks. I do completely understand that people wanna screw attractive people. Guys want to screw 10's and so do girls. It's not rocket science. It's shallow to only judge someone on their looks, but then again this is a free country, and it's their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Honestly there are ways to get past physical limitations such as not developing muscles as quickly as men. Something as lighter weapons, quicker fighting techniques, or something else to compensate for the slower muscle development. The vikings were very intelligent, I wouldn't expect any less of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Do Lady Vikings make everyone wrong?Nah, it was an article on how about half the bodies originally thought to be male warriors (buried with a weapon and armor) were actually women upin closer examination. The article was click-bait, the source they got it from was okay. If you want me to search for it, I can do that, but I'm not going to go search the depths of the internet for something you may not read haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:30 AM |
| 6 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?I'm scrolling through all these long, well thought out posts, then I just see your derpy post from someone explaining why the opposite gender does something lol. I'll bite though. The reason I disagree with your post is that, in my experience as a woman myself and growing up in a feminine culture, women are uncomfortable with their bodies until they have sex. Most women I know either started masterbating, or masterbated more after they became sexually active. This is true for me as well. I wasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women masturbate less than men, and if so, why?Yeah, I have extreme period pains and I've been given birth control to stop the periods altogether. that usually is not healthy, but I was given another type of pill that I just have to induce a period once or teice a year. I'm not sexually active (I'll admit, I'm picky as fuck. I have two genders to pick from but I just go on casual dates here and there). If they hurt your daughter too much, din't be afraid to take her to the doctors :3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 03:08 AM |
| 4 | Evolutionary Psychology, from /r/TheBluePillYeah, but he was also posting his prof's work, not his own. You were criticized for giving advice from personal experience, without any effort to give sources. There is a complete difference between the two posts,thinking otherwise is foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/14 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Let's talk generalities. Ladies, be you red blue or periwinkle, how often do you encounter rude unpleasant men? Men, vice versa.Honestly, after middleschool/first half of high school, I have rarely encountered rude men. I work in the food industry, and it's clear that men are more likely to be the asshats, along with older people, but in my day to day life, men have been kind and friendly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Ty, and that should be my new flair haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Does the blue pill acknowledge the fact that no matter how inconvenient, men and women are inherently different creatures?I think that the reason TBP takes extreme views is that it is an attempt to counter-balance TRP views that men and women might as well be different species (not saying that all RP or BP think like this, but this is what I've been getting from the majority). Honestly, we aren't the same. If we went strictly off of biology to see the share in power, women would always be on top. If we went strictly with society, men would be on top. We can see how these imbalances in power work together, such as w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this to me? (Indian guy's cousin kidnapped by Muslims, thread becomes a circlejerk on Muslim conspiracy and Western politician complacency and somehow...Feminism?) How the eff is this related to TRP? (200 upvotes and link in description)I'm personally not a feminist, but honestly I see this crap all the time. All I've seen is that Feminists are about changing the idea around rape, such as teaching men that other than a verbally, consented, "yes," men do not have permission to have sex with anyone they please. This can help out more than women, but their main focus IS women. It's in their name. They are upset that tey have to teach women anti-rape tactics such as "don't use your phone in a parking lot when you are on your own" a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:51 PM |
| 2 | When women complain that "there are no good men left" or ask "where have all the good men gone," what exactly do they mean by "good men?"Usually a woman will say that after she has had a poor experience with a man (such as cheating, stealing, lying, etc) or in her search for a man, has only found ones with the aforementioned habits. This isn't much of a serious comment as much as a women expressing her frustration with her failing search. If you look too deeply into this one, it will only end in an answer void of the original meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I have seen a range in TRP, not as much in RPW though. But I think that he was also refereing to the fact that there is an even larger range in ideologies, to the point that nailing one down as a general platform of what these people view relationships need would be impossible :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:25 PM |
| 3 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?Your username doesn't help you out much with an argument like that though lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?I think the fact that PPD makes it sound like where two different sides (BP and RP) and two different "tactics" can be misleading. TBP is basicallt made up of people who think that TRP is basically cray. Most posts are linked RP related subreddits, and uses what they believe to be a realistic stance to show how extreme TRP can be, making it satire. There are some feminist posts from time to time, but it's mostly people who are shocked that TRP ideology acually exists. This is not saying that eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:20 PM |
| 6 | What are the goals of the blue pill people?It's okay, I never made a submission to TRP and I was banned from it. Basically the mods only want their color pill to even be in the subreddit. I'll bitch about this often because why not; I've only upvoted things in TRP because things I disagree with, but are the general censensus at TRP I have no right to disagree with. I just like to upvote logical arguments, even if it's against my views :3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:13 PM |
| 5 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...I only started surfing the blue pill because I was banned at TRP for making a comment on TBP LOL! (Never commented in TRP, or even downvoted, just upvoted those who made a logical arguent) anyway, most weren't pissed because you told her to lose weight, it's that you continued to do so after she explained that she was breastfeeding, something that shouldn't be tampered with for any selfish reasons. Most people were shocked that you completely ignored this through your own uneducation, and downvo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 05:07 PM |
| 4 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...White knighting would be something along the lines of "don't say that to her! She is beautiful in every which way :3" what this guy posted was "Holy shit, you don't have actual life experiences yet, don't give advice to older people when you literally have no experience yourself!" Please learn the difference :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/14 04:20 PM |
| 15 | How does RP theory work in the context of female breadwinners?You instantly blame betas for being insecure, but honestly the only people that would become insecure with their wife earning more are people who think that major gender roles should exist. Someone that you describe as a beta (not taking charge in a relationship, etc) would be the type of person to accept the fact that he isn't in the typical gender role, and that the woman is his equal or even in charge. The type of person who would get insecure is someone who would have their role, that they e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...Then again, this is a cock carousal. Chances are, only one person is going to ride it, and I don't think anyone would really care if said person was changing seats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | BP women, with all this talk of the cock carousel on here lately, there's one thing I'd like to know...1, 19 (birthday this november!), 160, 5'11"... Any other personal information such as my SSN or my mother's maiden name? P.S. only cock I've ever ridden, so I guess it's unique! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | My GF fell in love with me as a 'bad boy'.. and obviously wants me to go 'good' now..Thank you for reading through my post with an open mind, I really appreciate that, you have my respect :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 03:27 PM |
| 3 | My GF fell in love with me as a 'bad boy'.. and obviously wants me to go 'good' now..Most people tell us what we want to hear. I've had a lot of different people tell me what I want to hear for different reasons. I've had people tell me stuff I wanted to hear to butter me up so they could get something out of me. I've had friends (both male and female) tell me what I wanted to hear to support my desicion, become closer, and avoid hurt feelings. I've only had the men who were trying to start a relationship with me avoid confrontation/hurt feelings by telling ne what I want to hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 02:36 PM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Well don't totally give up on that idea! I can understand that through hurt feelings and loat loves, this idea pnly seems like a dream. I will remain optimistic, even through heartbreak, but I've gotten a taste of that feeling with someone who was my opposite, I have hope that there are people out there that I can get this feeling with! If you don't want to be hurt in the chance that this kind of love doesn't actually exist, living safe is sometimes the better idea, even the more reasonable. Alt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 02:15 PM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?The reason why I started coming to this sub in specific is because I wanted to hear the other side to all of this. I wanted to know wht is on other people's minds, and how they aproached it. I want to discuss subjects, ad hear what other people have to say. I don't appreciate the idiots who think this sub is about winning (on both red and blue sides). I don't believe that everyone in any group, not just TRP, think the same way. I base it off of what I feel from the majority, or examples od what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Alright, so an honest look at this is that the girl in the situation seemed pretty emotionally unstable. The fact that he was screwing her and didn't expect something to happen is silly. She obviously hasn't really thought of LTR's, but is starting to panic. These kind of people I view as young, beautiful, party girls who thought that jumping around in life was completely fine. Once reality hit her, she wanted the situation to change. In short: she needed a lot of help. Now the guy in this. Ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 04:38 AM |
| 7 | Non-Redpillers: how would you analyze/interpret this example of "holding frame?"Guys, he's showing an example of frame! But legit dude, we aren't in court. This is a debate, detailed answers are a given. If you need to have a person use a one word answer instead of giving a well thought out one instead, then you probably need to re-adjust the argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 04:07 AM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?I actually have no problem with that ideal of TRP where men are being taught like you said. I'm actually even okay with men gaming stupid women by being in charge (why I remain purple pill woman). The posts I see come from there horrify me. u/demonspawn is a seasoned TRP who believes women are to be dominated, there was a post on there about a man thinking that his seven year old daughter was shit-testing him. which is sad to think, and there even was a comment about how women aren't capable of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/14 03:54 AM |
| 1 | What can you remember about your experiences with the opposite sex when you were in school?Lol I'll agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The "disposability" of menAnother reason that in sexual organisms the female is almost always valued over the male is that the female typically puts more energy/resources into the offspring. This means that she is very limited on how many times she can succesfully reproduce, and if she is going to put so much energy into offspring, it should be with the best choice out there. in the cases where the male put forward nore energy, he became the choosier one and the females worked to impres him instead this also means that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 10:09 PM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?With most of what you say, you would be absolutely correct if all women were manipulative and got bored with nice guys as you were describing.. I'm sorry that your experience with women has been them basically being power hungry bitches, but with most people I know that hasn't been the case. I know women out there exist, I've seen quite a few myself, and those also are the women who want a "wild side" to their men. These girls also make flakey friends and I usually stay away from them, because h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentYeah, I think the current situation with rape is actually very detrimental to men. I feel like not enough girls communicate what they really want, which screws the guy over. What needs to be taught is that women need to explain what they really want/don't want up to the point where they are actually having sex. If a girl says no, it should be respected even if it's right before sex. In turn though, a girl needs to accurately explain her feelings in the situation and accept any desicions she has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 06:57 PM |
| 1 | The Influence of ArousalI've just been seeing a lot of "if a woman saw a hot guy, they would be willing to do anythingfor him" lately, and I was just saying that if someone sees a woman swoon at the sight of a guy, there probably was an existing friendship/aquaintanceship for her to be totally head over heals. There are girls who do focus only on looks, but I don't think that all women should be put into the category of "fucking a hot guy on-sight." I also realise that I'm wording this in a very bizzarre manor but I th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Being nice is a sexual strategy that has failed over and over again. We can see that through what the "friendzoned whiteknights" have been saying. People who view being nice and "saving" girls in situations equates in sex, when most men know that to not be true. There are classier ways to pursue a woman than just "being nice," but in a way that's not disrespectful. TRP pick up strategies are great, and can probably pick up most women, and most mainstreamers could use a couple hints from there. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | What can you remember about your experiences with the opposite sex when you were in school?iphone 4, The alien blue app doesn't work on it so I just use Safari. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 01:18 PM |
| 1 | The Influence of ArousalMisinterpretation* wow I'm sorry, It's been a while since I really messed up on words, I was probably talking at the time or I just stopped thinging normally for a little bit therd. Thank you for pointing out my stupid mistake! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The Influence of ArousalWhich I think is a huge misconception of women. They don't see a hot guy and go sploosh, there has to be more going with him to even consider the idea of sex to be arousing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 12:26 AM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?If no one is irreplacable, how are you supposed to be? If you mean irreplacable in the sense of creating a unique relationship that cannot be replicated with someone else (whether that relationship is better or worse doesn't matter, just as long as me and my partner grow together in a unique way) then I basically agree with you, except it needs to be a two way thing. I know a lot of people who wouldn't have a problem giving that up, but I think that there needs to be a balance of power. I look a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillers: What sexual course of action can a woman take that you wouldn't criticize?I think this may just be me, but as you said earlier in the thread men process sex differently. Girls are less focused on image, and focused on physical action/attention to get them off. Screwing someone on their looks (albiet extremely good looking) is extremely shallow. I think the reason DosileBanalBovine got upset was that you were suggesting that any woman would be that shallow. I know that you weren't really suggesting that (unless I read what you said comepletely wrong) but that's why you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillers: What sexual course of action can a woman take that you wouldn't criticize?I hate people who call themselves feminists then condone slutty behavior. There are places where tere is a gender gap in equality, which should be fixed. My MO is finding the source of problems and fixing them. But seriously, feminism is such a poisoned word. It's about equality, not female superiority. A good way to fix this is to distinguish between the two, and hopefully help equality while distroying that any sex/race/religion is superior to anything else. Sorry, I'm upset at people who pret… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Question for Red Pillers: What sexual course of action can a woman take that you wouldn't criticize?I completely respect you for that answer. If that's how you get laid the fire away :) I can deal with the want to get laid, but this was TRP without the women hate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:31 PM |
| 3 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?I do feel like that there is a difference between the RP who come here and those who soley surf TRP. The ones who come here clearly stand for TRP but also seem to be more leniant and less... Anti-women. If you become a RP, okay, I wouldn't make the same decision but you aren't me. But please PLEASE don't become anti women, or view any female as less of a human. The one thing I can't STAND is the hate for women on that subreddit. If you wanna get laid, fine and the best of luck to you. If you thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:23 PM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Why did you specifically say the blue pill then? Please reread your posts for consistancy. Once again, that's great about your opinion on the blue pill, just don't bring it up if you are uninformed about it. Your arguments are amazingly horrid. I'm trying to discuss something with you, by attempting a logical argument about whether or not the blue pill is about strategy or not, which is the point of the subreddit. This is called Purple Pill (clearly a reference to both blue and red pill subreddi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 11:13 PM |
| 1 | The RP has helped men to become more successful with women. Why is that a bad thing?The main issue I've seen with the red pill isn't exactly men being happy, it's just switching whoever is abusing "the game." As a random side note, I'm not completely blue pill, but the more I've been reading everything everyone has to say, the more biased I'm becoming for te Blue Pill (I'll probably even change my flair soon). I've read a lot of the posts on the red pill, and most of what is said takes humanity away from women. I feel as though the RP indiciduals who come here are more reasonab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 09:41 PM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Hon, even if that was how TBP used to be, long ago, it's now based off of satire of TRP. If you want to used retired aspects of what something used to be, then go right ahead. I'd prefer arguments that are up to date abou what is going on. If TBP doesn't matter to you, don't bring it up as part of your argument. If you are going to bring it up, please take the time to update yourself. I will consider serious, well informed arguments. I will not, however, acknowlege your ever-changing arguments a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 09:26 PM |
| 3 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Okay, I was really dumbfounded about how someone could ask "how do you like girls" but I lol'd at what you said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?I regularly surf TRP and TBP, and TBP definitaly is not strategy at all. If you have ever actually gone to the subreddit, it's mostly satire of the red pill (makes fun of the posts on it). I don't mind hearing your argument, but it doesn't talk about strategy AT ALL. Please learn the basics of something before making angry assumptions :) idiots don't win arguments, they only think they do as everyone else shakes their head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?Lol I like you, you seem pretty chill. Although whoever you replied to couldn't even keep their own comment up there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 08:50 PM |
| 2 | To RPW or men looking for an RPW: How much are women free to pursue their own interests in a relationship? Do you agree with the red pill women sub?That's great that you found someone that is replacable but doesn't view you as replaceble, as well as considering yourself in charge and such. Lord knows that if a guy didn't view me as his equal (over-all, Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses therefore cannot be equal in every aspect) or viewed me as replacable, I'd kick his ass to the curb and show him that it's a two way street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentSadly people do get fucked over because of the "benifit of the doubt" attitude. This is a lose-lose situation for the law though. There are a tremendous amount of cases where the woman would cry abuse, people would call BS, and in the end the woman ends up dead/perminantly damaged. The balance needed to figure this one out is A) too few arrests, there are dead women (and in many cases children as well) or B) make too many arrests and innocent men are having their lives ruined. The reason that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentThe fact that he listed "pulling out" as a contreceptive shows that the woman isn't the only one to blame in this. Birthcontrol pills aren't 100% effective. They are only about 95% (most studies say about 95%, but I do accept that some say 97%-98%) if taken correctly. Being taken correctly also means that the pill has to be taken every day, at the same time of day (like on the hour) to be completely effective. Pulling out is only about 73% effective, and pre-cum CAN impregnate a girl (this isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 08:17 PM |
| 3 | My GF fell in love with me as a 'bad boy'.. and obviously wants me to go 'good' now..I hate that "shit-test" thing that people say. Honestly, not everything is a "shit-test." She might be changing and she is hoping for you to change with her. If we switched genders, the whole RP strategy is a shit-test. She is either being a controling bitch or she wants to grow up with you. Directly ask her why sh wants you to change. Try to figure out whether she is worried about you (I'm worried about you getting hurt in X situation, or I want to do X with you without worry) then that means s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What can you remember about your experiences with the opposite sex when you were in school?Lawl if only my phone would let me... Getting PhD in Bio, can't get paragraphs when using my phone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What can you remember about your experiences with the opposite sex when you were in school?I'm in college right now, going for PhD in biology and hopefully getting a job in research. In middle school, I went to school with people in not such a great area. there were a lot of pornstar's kids I went to school with, they were nice but really fucked up. I knew a girl on 6th grade who was having sex before her period, and became pregnant at the age of twelve when her period finallt came. I knew a boy in 8th grade who got drunk and came to school, just to take drugs in the school bathroom. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Patriarchy vs MatriarchyPatriarchy. There are a lot of situations where women might take advantage, but then again they are limited on how much they can accomplish in this world. I don't think that there is an invisable wall holding women back, but it does feel like swimming up stream. It seems as though a lot of women have viewed that struggle not being worth it when they can default onto someone else, but those are the weaker women in my opinion. There are women in the world who don't have a choice at all, and I'm gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/14 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Revisiting financial abortion -- Survey finds 24% of women would have a baby without their partner's consentI understand your points, and I actually very much would like to see these ideas in reality. I'd say that I am with the blue pill with this side, but I don't view an improved system as an issue. I actually agree with this whole post up until "Women would be marching to Washington DC..." Any honest person would agree to a plan to prevent abuse to the system. While I can see why you might say all women might be upset by this, but bunching up the good and the bad is not the way to go. If we want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/14 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Too reductionist; PP is the way to goOP definately was saying that both sides are a bit extreme for him/her, so (s)he was happy that there was a middle ground (purple) that people could use to find reason. Toxic_acid_fuzz was just saying that not all of TBP people are actually extreme, and some just defaulted there when they were shocked with the extreme ideals of TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/14 06:11 AM |
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