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Being married and in the process of divorce has made me realise that ignoring the small red flags are just as bad as ignoring the big red flags. I am completely willing to get married again I'm just keeping my standards high and not going to lower them again.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/19 08:14 PM
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That's rough man, let your son know that the money isn't being tied up through you but is being tied up in the courts and until they decide everything is settled there is nothing you can do. Very obvious your wife is using him to get to you which speaks volumes over her character then yours. I hope she settles soon so everyone can start healing.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/19 07:21 PM
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Record everything is a good idea. Grab any documents that you'll need like marriage certificate, your own documents. Consult your lawyer on some of this too because depending where you are or who she's become it could get very difficult from this point forward. Recording yourself may seem like over kill and it may not be necessary it could be huge to prove that you didn't destroy the place and cherished items if she chose to cause damage after you left. I'd have your buddy record everything on h…
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/18 06:02 PM
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Well do they even spend time together? If they spend a limited amount of time together then he could be right. It's heartbreaking for him to say this but it's how he honestly feels. He's not cutting them out of his life he's just moving on and will be there as a father figure to his own children as needed. But until that happens he's going to take care of himself.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/18 07:10 AM
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I spent my time working on myself finding all my faults and correcting them. Then I worked on loving myself as much as I loved her because I'd have done anything for her so maybe if I love myself just as much I'll be that much better for it. It turned out to be true. I've fallen a few times but I get back up and keep trying because your never out until you don't get back up again. Learn to live for yourself, Learn who you are, live the life you want. I never thought I'd love again, or have a rea…
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/18 05:21 AM
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It took me many months before I felt normal again. Time will heal these wounds it just really hurts right now. Make small steps in the right direction small steps will lead into giant leaps when you look back on it all. Good luck man, try getting a hold of a support group it really helped me when I was lost and confused.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/18 02:25 AM
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Yea pretty much lawyer up and get an escape plan ready man. Keep documenting everything to help with your kids/pets/home. Can you link me the article you read?
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/18 07:53 PM
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Good on you for keeping busy with your woodwork. Keep working on yourself and consider therapy to give you the tools to get through this and figure out how to be there for your son besides your paycheck. Is this pay through the courts? If it isn't and your doing it out of the goodness of your heart it might bite you in the ass later. Get a lawyer and have things settled that way. Too many times have I read that the guy was paying the ex money before it was court ordered and the court demanded ba…
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/18 02:37 PM
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Tell her she can have one or the other. Don't break up the set it'll just be a painful reminder. If she buys you out that's cool if not cut your losses and just check Craig's list etc. It's not worth the fight.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/18 03:25 AM
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Ugh so relatable... It would be so easy to fix but even that much effort is too much.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/18 02:09 PM
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