Melvin-Melon Archive

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3	Why is there always so much pushback to young men who claim that the reason they can’t get a date is 100% the way they look? The reason that’s a stereotype is because every time a meme about women not going for men who “match their looks” from incel spaces get circulated on the wider internet it’s biased. They’ll put women who look like models just without makeup next to guys that don’t even trim their beards or put minimal effort in.	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/24 12:25 AM
15	Why is it that the most outwardly sexist guys I know that do the best with women? Op and the coworkers he’s talking about are in their early 20s. Picking up on bad behaviors is an acquired skill you pick up after dealing with bad people. The women who say they can tell are typically older and have experienced with people manipulating them into relationships. The women op are working with have just starting their adult life and adult dating experiences so they don’t have a lot of past experience to judge from. Not to mention it seems like they’re just hooking up. They might ju…	/r/ExRedPill	25/04/24 10:22 PM
2	Views on invisible labour or household labour How much extra house work is caused by having a partner can vary greatly by the partner. Some people make bigger messes than others by a lot. Some people clean as they cook and some people mess up more dishes than necessary and splatters food while cooking. If both partners leave the mess for you to clean up after you’ll be working a lot longer because of the second	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/24 03:00 AM
34	I think the cure for inceldom for most incels is a purely sexual casual encounter. Looksmatch is such a dumb concept. Looks are so subjective.	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/24 03:31 AM
5	Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up? The thing is just like some men there are some women who will do anything for internet clout. The random women in the videos are a lot of the time are just getting paid like the other person said and then the people with a social media following are a lot of the time trying to attach themselves to controversial figures so they can gain from their following.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/24 03:31 AM
4	Can someone explain why red pill guys are successful with dating and hooking up? Are you talking about Red pill men who have platforms like YouTube channels where they post content? Because a lot of those people pay women to be there so they can get you to engage with the content or buy a program. Other than that, the way the red pill views women makes it easier for the men involved to approach getting women in ways that if were laid out for the average person would seem gross at best and morally wrong at worst. I’ve seen content encouraging men to lie or manipulate to get w…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/24 03:23 AM
32	I wish I was a woman. Life would be easier. If you’re a woman with a career but without a family you’re judged, told “you’re wasting your potential”, and basically blamed for the downfall of society. If you’re a woman with a career and children you’re statistically going to still be taking on most if not all of the childcare and family planning even though you also work and provide. If you’re a stay at home wife without kids you’re a gold digger and if you’re a stay at home wife with kids you’re probably still going to get called a gold d…	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/23 05:06 AM
1	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? I gave an individual answer to the question asked but keep telling me how I feel when you’ve never met me I guess. Also you don’t understand causation Vs correlation. Guys with certain characteristics are more popular with women so are more likely to have higher body counts because the have more chances. It’s not the higher body count itself that are attractive to those women in most cases. Most guys who boast about their body counts are trying to appeal to other men either to seem cool or to se…	/r/ExRedPill	14/06/23 07:28 AM
1	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ I’m adamant in defending people’s ability to not date anyone they don’t feel like for any reason. They shouldn’t feel pressured into dating someone they don’t want to because of social pressure. It’s not fair to them or the person they’re dating. You’re response are really coming off as a short person mad some people aren’t going to date you regardless of any circumstances because of your height. You won’t actually be happy until you realize everyone has something about them appearance wise that…	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/23 07:12 AM
1	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ If it’s wrong for one category of people to do something excusing another category because it’s “less common” isn’t a very good moral argument.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/23 06:15 AM
2	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ Funny how in the original comment I made I mention a guys post who said “no short girls” and how it got mostly positive responses when a height preference post from women gets negative responses and you went on a rant about women’s height preference proving the point	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/23 05:51 AM
2	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ The funny thing is you don’t get to decide what’s reasonable for someone else’s preferences. I’m sure there’s some you have other people would think are shallow too because to some people any physical preference is shallow.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/23 05:34 AM
3	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ Yeah I realize but dealbreaker works the same in what I said. It. Does. Not. Matter. What. Dealbreakers. You. Have. As. Long. As. You. Treat. Everyone. As. People.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/23 05:21 AM
11	The myth of ‘girls only liking tall guys’ While there are girls that prefer taller men I’d agree that the red pill community over plays how many women it is especially when they start making claims about all women. Though what I hate more is how women who prefer tall men are talked about. Having a preference by itself is not bad. In the dating sub a man asked if it was okay not to date short women because of his preferences and the responses where overwhelming positive but when a post about women having height preferences is posted they…	/r/ExRedPill	09/06/23 04:51 AM
7	Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners? That’s because your first response was a one word insult then on your next response was you talking about debating as if “slut” equals a debate. The other person also never claimed to be debating you. With that said, I’m going to assume you’re not so stupid you didn’t already realize that. I’m also assuming you’re just acting out for any form of attention since you never got enough from your parents. I’m done giving you that attention. I hope you heal as a person.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 07:47 PM
6	Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners? That’s when you look at the study. Normally there’s someone online who’s already debunked it but if you can’t find it look for faults in it yourself. Issues can include: small sample sizes, who funded the study (do they have a reason to want certain results), was the study done on animals instead of people (one of the studies they use for this was literally done on birds), does the study prove what they say it does (some people who’ll cite a study that’s kind of related but doesn’t actual prove …	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 06:14 PM
9	Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners? The thing is when you assert an idea the burden of proof is on you. So if one of your aquatints makes this assertion it’s on them to provide non-biased, peer reviewed studies. It’s like saying people with green eyes are inherently evil without providing sources and then expecting someone to pull out peer reviewed studies that say green eyes people aren’t evil. It’s backwards.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 05:25 PM
15	Is it true women with high body counts are unable to truly commit to their long term partners? You calling someone a slut does not equal you debating them. You’re a very broken person and I hope you realize that and grow as a person.	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/23 05:19 PM
5	I think I can ask women questions in this sub. "Women only like the tallest, richest, and most handsome men and don't give the others a chance" and "They don't care if a man with these qualities is an asshole." Why do you bother about when we say this? It’s because there are some people who will take those false ideas and use them as justification to mistreat or abuse women. Spreading those thoughts increases the chances of it happening.	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/22 07:42 AM
19	The red pill has many truths but it will not improve society Feminism is about equality under law not biologically. Men being stronger than women on average should have nothing to do with the rights people have. Being physically weaker shouldn’t take away your right to own property or have control of over your bodily autonomy. I’m not saying you said that but the reason you most likely receive push back to “men and women aren’t equal” is because when most people talk about equality they’re talking about rights under law and treatment in society. It’s also…	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/22 11:42 PM
3	Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness? Okay so a few things. Tinder has a mostly male user base some places the platform goes well over 70%+ male users. So of course women will have more options. It’s not about an inherent value they have it’s lack of competition. Now the reason women are a minority on that app probably comes partly from women being concerned for their safety and that women get slut shamed even in the most liberal societies. Women simply have more to lose from tinder and hook up culture in general. Furthermore, your …	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/22 06:07 PM
4	Andrew Tate got banned from Facebook and Instagram Yeah. And it’s been out for a long time. Before he was known for his MLM he was on Big Brother and got kicked off the show because a video came out of him being abusive towards a woman. There’s been some other videos but everyone him and his fans play off as something like a kink or “the women were playing along” but the videos I’ve seen the women seem like they’re actually crying. If you google him getting kicked off Big Brother you’ll at least find that video.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 10:07 PM
8	Andrew Tate got banned from Facebook and Instagram Don’t forget the videos of him actually hitting a woman instead of just talking about.	/r/ExRedPill	20/08/22 09:44 PM
3	What Do You Think of the phrase "Men love unconditionally; women love conditionally?" While I agree with some of the other comments I’ll also say a relationship and love that is healthy NEEDS to come with conditions. Yeah some people take those conditions too far but love being conditional on someone treating you well, being emotional available, not taking advantage financially or emotionally, and not being a shit person to other people outside of the relationship is healthy. I hate the way some people use that phrase to make it seem it’s so morally superior to love someone uncon…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/22 07:19 PM
3	If were supposed to disregard stereotypes about women by and large, why do so many gender roles/stereotypes apply when it comes to dating? Why does some or even the majority of people falling into a stereotype mean we should endorse or believe the stereotype? Even if the precent of people who don’t follow the stereotype is smaller with billions of people in the world it’ll be no small number of people who don’t fall into the stereotype so if you use a stereotype as a rule or allow yourself to build a bias around that stereotype you might put yourself into situations where you misunderstand or accidentally distance yourself from som…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/22 04:03 PM
12	Does a man with a high body count impresses you? No. The answer is no.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/22 05:08 AM
3	I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW today Almost all of your “truths” are blaming men’s actions on women. It’s both insulting to men by implying they are all slaves to their genitals (even if you or others think that about yourselves doesn’t mean all men do) and it’s insulting to women because it puts the responsibility the behavior of men on them by having to use themselves and their bodies as “rewards”. It’s dehumanizing. Also while I have an issue with all your points the one that baffles me the most is blaming women for the politica…	/r/ExRedPill	08/06/22 07:02 PM
3	Should you never reveal yor weakness and vulnerability to women? These comments were found in Tribe of Men's video "Woman with A STRONG FATHER FIGURE tells it how it is" If you can’t express your emotions to your partner you’re in an unhealthy relationship. Just keep in mind man or woman emotions need to be expressed in health and non-harmful ways. That means your emotions are not an excuse to act aggressively or an excuse to mistreat your partner. Your partner also isn’t responsible for your emotions or responsible for fixing your emotions. For example saying things like “if you don’t do whatever action for me my depression is your fault because you aren’t doin…	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/22 04:26 AM
1	women don't want to be judged by their body count then why do they judge men if he gets an escort. The thing is you don’t have to put up with it. Just like how women cut out people who judge them for using their own bodies you can cut out people who judge you. It won’t stop you from being judge but it won’t be your problem that way. Personally I wouldn’t judge a man for just going to see an escort. The men I’d judge would be the men who use the service then talk down about women who do sex work. In that case its the hypocrisy I’m judging. I’d also judge a man who didn’t make sure the person h…	/r/ExRedPill	10/05/22 06:37 PM
2	Following common sense will make your life harder. Sometimes it is okay to lie Yeah what you said	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/22 11:04 PM
6	I don't think this sub is the place to quit redpill anymore. I see more women here to humiliate redpills than men who want to get off the redpill now. This place no longer looks like a safe space. There are plenty of men who post asking for other perspectives to challenge their own. Some specifically seek out women’s point of view to help them challenge their own red pill way of think. Limiting who can comment limits perspectives. A lot of the people who ask for different perspectives have the issue of not seeing women as people in the same way they see men as people. Limiting their interactions with women, even more so women who are willing to challenge the opinions the posters are tryin…	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 11:19 PM
3	Do women have it easier than men? You’re missing a few things on the disadvantage of being a women. Though even the ones you do mention most have to do with physical safety and crimes people have to actively do to you. Where as on the men’s disadvantages you list mostly things that led to or directly are a lack of validation. So instead of actions being done to you it’s about what people are not doing for you. It’s weird to me that based off your own list you judge men has having it harder when you list people being the victims …	/r/ExRedPill	02/05/22 06:30 PM
3	Why do Red Pillers hate western women? Because they’ve realized in a culture where they have to be wanted instead of just being needed, women will not settle for the bare minimum as often.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/22 05:47 AM
6	MGTOW YouTube channels are quite literally just woman hate channels Your rant felt cathartic to read. I don’t have a problem with MGTOW as a concept because everyone should be able to decide how they live their own lives, but like you said the people participating in the common has made it a cess pool.	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/22 05:00 AM
3	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? What a wonderfully crafted argument. I bet people tell you all the time how great a debater you are. You’re so dedicated to the art of debate you’re scrolling through almost a month old post just to keep your skills sharp. Impressive 😌	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 03:41 AM
14	How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history? Women are people. Many people enjoy sex. The way you talk about sex gives off the feeling sex is something women do to get attention from men or get some sort of validation. A person in an unhealthy mental state might end up in that situation man or woman but most people including women have sex because they enjoy it. Casual sex in particular is just an activity some people like doing because most of the time it feels good and relives stress. As long as it’s done safely and no one is misleading …	/r/ExRedPill	21/03/22 06:50 PM
1	I’m insecure and don’t trust my girlfriend Your girlfriend is giving you emotional support when you need it which is important in any type of healthy relationship. The proper response is NOT to mistreat her afterwards and yes being distant to manipulate her to behave how you want is mistreatment. That’ll build resentment and put distance between you two not make her want you more. Thank her and show gratitude so she feels appreciated. Be supportive emotionally when she needs you. Her knowing she can count on you to emotionally support he…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/22 01:25 AM
4	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? The point is there could be other issues causing you to have a hard time connecting to women but you’re focusing on something that can’t be fixed that while may not be attractive to some women is attractive to many other. Your therapist is probably right. You’re only paying attention to couples who have a man who appears more traditionally masculine and for some reason hyper focusing on interracial couples. It’s concerning that other people’s relationships make you write things like how you “res…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 02:22 AM
9	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? It’s not your feminine traits turning people off. It’s the you think you have a right to be mad when a woman of your race dates someone outside of it. Not only does it scream racism but it also screams entitlement like those women owe you a chance over someone else because you happen to be the same race. Those women are strangers to you and owe you nothing more than any other stranger.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 02:03 AM
5	explain why i am wrong(actual redpill) Do you know when you make things illegal you only create black markets? It always happens and leads to organized crime becoming more powerful. Also it’s forced modesty that creates an environment of over sexualization. It’s why most men wouldn’t think twice about seeing a woman’s ankles now days but it use to cause a scandal. Overall, it seems like you want to heavily police other people’s bodies while having free access to them for yourself. Your statements contradict anyway. You want access to…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/22 08:16 PM
1	My husband is taking on his best friend's negative views of women. Is there anything I can reasonably do? If you can’t convince him to go to therapy you should go yourself. The worst thing would be for him to convince you, you deserve the way he’s treating you. And just to be clear. He will never stop cheating on you and when he complains about women you are not an exception. He wouldn’t act like you are meant to be his servant if he respected you.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/22 05:04 AM
2	In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy? I’m my personal situation my boyfriend is 6 months younger than me and we make about the same money. Though most red pill men would dismiss me saying I’m not the normal for that and the fact that I’m the one who owns the house we live in. They dismiss and talk over an woman who’s different than their stereotypes and basically ignore their existence when making arguments.	/r/ExRedPill	19/11/21 12:53 AM
5	In reality what will happen if you approach younger women as an older guy? Honestly I’ve been taught a lot growing up not to trust older men who go after younger women both by family, schools, and even strangers. It started around the time I was becoming a young teenager and even though I’m now 23 it’s really stuck with me. Like to the point I immediately get my guard up anytime a man significantly older than me starts to act flirtatious or ask too many personal questions and won’t really date anyone more than 5 years older. The point is I’m sure many other girls aroun…	/r/ExRedPill	18/11/21 06:14 PM
6	I swear PPD is just filled with closeted red/black pilled guys. They’re not there to really debate anything. They’re just there to drop their opinion they know will upset a lot of people and dip I was convinced this was a troll until I read the comments and now I’m just glad knowing this guy will probably be single or in very superficial relationships forever.	/r/ExRedPill	02/10/21 05:52 AM
5	Is hitting the wall even a thing? Aging happens to everyone surprisingly to redpillers even men. I don’t know why they also act like it’s a gotcha to be like “women get older and I FIND THEM LESS FUCKABLE”. It’s bold of them to assume anyone cares about being fuckable to them.	/r/ExRedPill	22/09/21 06:33 AM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? On average you could argue women have lower sex drives but with billions of people who have different levels of sexual urges there are plenty of women with higher sex drives than the average man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 04:45 PM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? You aren’t in the right spaces. I’ve read many arguments from women asking for more research on women’s bodies in general since the medical industry for a long time only looked at how medication or treatment only effected male bodies even when the treatment was meant for women. I’ve also seen many women call for safer birth control and birth control for men to get more research. Also many women don’t use the pill and use some sort of other birth control so it might not matter as much to them. Pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:50 PM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? I get you lol it’s frustrating to always be told how much sex you want by a stranger on the internet or be told that something about you needs to be fixed when there isn’t anything wrong with that said thing. I just feel like this type of subreddit forgets about asexual people and paints everyone with a broad brush so I feel the need to bring them up sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:32 AM
2	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? Hmmm slight disagree. Someone women and men have low drives regardless of who they’re with and asexual people exist who don’t like sex at all. Though regardless of what someone’s libido is I don’t think they’re is anything wrong with it or that it’s something that needs to be fixed unless there’s outside forces effecting it like medication or depression and the person wants to work on fixing it for themself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:25 AM
5	Would increasing women's libido fix the dating market? That last sentence was very nice to read in this comment section. It’s like people really think high sex drive women don’t exist or are so rare you might as well be looking for a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:20 AM
-1	The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical type Okay okay I get what your going for here and I’m not here to fight it but why rice next to pale and not like a snowflake or something	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:10 AM
1	I'm guessing this is a redpilled girl I came across but no matter what you think of someone's sexual past, comparing it to murder is absolutely gross as someone who has lost a family member to murder While people are allowed to have preferences it seems people with this one start are more likely to talk about it in a shaming way. A person’s value doesn’t decrease because you find them less desirable. I’ve also seen a lot of men blame women that they can’t find women who meet this standard that they want to date. Also I find it funny how people always take up for this preference in subreddits about dating but in those same dating subreddits they’ll be post that shame women who dare to mention…	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/21 01:27 AM
13	Why do so many Red Pillers have a chip on their shoulders about not having been able to get with younger women when they were that age? I’ve heard a lot of old red pill guys talk about how much more “moldable” younger women are since they don’t have experience. In other words, they can’t see your red flags if they don’t know they’re red flags. So I just assume a lot of them go after younger women because it’s easier to manipulate them in to putting up with their toxic behavior.	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/21 06:26 AM
3	Men hit their wall too, at least most men. Funny thing is at 45 guys also start going down in fertility AND carry higher pregnancy risks if they convince a child. Also having a child in your 50s or 60s is irresponsible. You can’t raise a child when your that old the same way you can earlier in life when you have more energy and health to be active in the child’s life. You also most likely won’t be around when they reach adulthood. Or at least not for very long. Also as a 20-something year old can confirm that someone 30+ hitting on me ca…	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/21 06:23 AM
3	Opinion on statement "Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners"? If this is true I would have broke up my ex because I was paying for everything in our relationship for years and not because he cheated on me multiple time after being forgiven for his shitty behavior.	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/21 11:57 PM
3	Does believing in some "red pill" talking points make me a misogynist? I don't exactly see how they're false The issue is you’re still looking at half the population as a group that almost all have similar behavior. People (men and women) vary greatly from each other even if some patterns can be observed there are no absolutes. Having preconceived notions about women as a group can lead you to unintentionally treating a woman a certain way based on her being a women even if she as an individual doesn’t meet the characteristics you believe she would because she’s a women. Also yes women need to be pushe…	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/21 11:49 PM
7	Q4All Why do you think it so that liberal wow no refuse to date conservative men even though they are more masculine and chivalrous? Also why is it that conservative men get so upset about this? I’m confused on why your confused. People tend to date others who have similar views and values to each other which could be either political views, religious views or whatever else. People who have similar views are more likely to be looking for the same thing in life, be looking for the same type of relationship dynamics and it makes raising children easier if that’s what the couple decides to eventually do. Of course this isn’t an iron clad rule. My boyfriend is religious while I’m not. While…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/21 05:09 AM
0	How much casual sex are the women that you know are having? Most of the women I’m close enough to know the sex lives of are either in long term committed relationships or aren’t actively pursuing dates or hook ups. Though even if they were having causal sex as long as the aren’t in committed relationships it shouldn’t matter or be anyone else’s concern because ADULTS can do whatever they want with their own bodies as long as it’s consensual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 07:55 PM