MemiMimic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	"You are good enough"		MemiMimic	/r/seduction	19/10/17 12:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why Won't She Reply? It's the right move, don't WASTE time hating her, USE time to get someone else.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 07:59 AM
2	Why Won't She Reply? Without the chat log I can't tell you WHERE you fucked up but you clearly know that you did. Move on and retry in 2-3 months with a fresh frame.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 07:43 AM
1	Are Pickup lines truly Effective or just a myth? Pickup lines work because they create immediate emotional response, they are by no means the best way of doing so but are functional non-the-less.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 07:39 AM
2	"You are good enough" I agree and don't adhere to any dogma that reproaches analysis and improvement. This post isn't "You're perfect, no need to keep improving," it's very much, you have a foot in the door already, what you lack isn't a physical feature but game. "...girls will fuck anything with looks or game" is exactly the point I'm trying to get across. You have the tools (or the knowledge of them), what you lack is the attempt.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 07:37 AM
1	How do you get rid of approach anxiety when you don't have a reason to approach? "I don't know what you mean with this question." Approaching =/= Selling yourself If I guy came up to you and started telling you how cool he is would you like him? Probably not, same principle applies, get her to tell you an interesting story so she is chasing after you, you are the buyer, she is the seller. "I want to achieve a level of confidence to where I'm willing to put myself out there to everyone and be myself, free from the worry of anyone's judgement....Does it just come down to pract…	/r/seduction	20/10/17 03:32 AM
1	Where/when did the "Number Of Dates" threshold originate? Are you writing a report? If you're trying to get someone to ignore these rules by throwing historical context in their face you won't get far.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 02:30 AM
1	How do you get rid of approach anxiety when you don't have a reason to approach? My reason is, your reason is whatever you want it to be, but having a goal is important. You tried "to be smooth and act confident," but why? Every action you take you want it to get you one step closer to your goal. What's easier, her coming to you or you selling yourself to her? Spike emotion -> lower emotion -> Spike -> Check for Response -> Escalate -> Failed/Succeeded? -> Adjust -> Repeat This works on everyone, with any goal. Have you heard you can't win an argument with an idiot? The real…	/r/seduction	20/10/17 02:25 AM
1	So how exactly do you make small talk with a girl and what are common examples of small talk? Small talk is important, it allows you to bring down the energy and extend the interaction. Conversation is small talk with emotional peaks in-between.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:59 AM
3	Mixed Signals / Need Advice Attraction/Sexual desire doesn't last forever, its a window of opportunity. You have to ask her out while she is in this window, that's why signs of compliance are so important. Think about it like a mouse trap, you have to activate the spring while the mouse is at the cheese. Pulling the trigger when there's nothing there (even if there was at some point) is useless.	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:48 AM
2	How do you get rid of approach anxiety when you don't have a reason to approach? What you're describing is an excuse to talk to her not a reason to. Your reason to talk to her is to sleep with her. Further; 'Hey I haven't met you yet, what's your name?' There's is nothing forward about this at all, this is a normal, polite thing to do. Are you going to go through a 4-year degree with her and never learn her name? Even, "hey you look cute and I wanted to say hello" is not forward or even risky. The rest of your "reasons" are just excuses; "I've got braces but I didn't think o…	/r/seduction	20/10/17 01:42 AM
6	"You are good enough" Absolutely, it's crucial to understand that self-doubt is a useless set of emotions. What's everyone going to think of me? Am I too ugly? What would my mother say? Useless. Is she talking to you? Yes? Then keep building that attraction/comfort and escalate. "What if she gets defensive?" Then make her more comfortable and try again. Until she completely ejects there is no reason for you to question "whether you have a shot" because your focus should always be on getting one step closer to taking …	/r/seduction	19/10/17 09:44 PM
1	25 year old virgin (m) in need of some clarification... "What do you guys do? do you get closer, do you strike up a conversation somehow?" If you're intention is sleeping with her of course you do. If she is already displaying interest (dancing with you etc.) that's already half the job done. Build on this, start dancing WITH HER, and make it clear you are doing so, point to her, shout at her, get her attention in some way. This ultimately saves you time as it builds attraction quicker then having to do it gradually over conversation. After you're do…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 12:08 PM
1	Game advice for the youthful looking dude Let me make this easy for you, for you to not fuck a girl what does she have to be? For me it's chubby/fat, disabled, disfigured, old or stupid. She can have a 3/10 face but I'll still be down most of the time. Now, will she be my first option? Of course not but girls don't get to choose who hits on them. In fact, only 1 person can hit on them at one time. Looks only matter as far as getting your foot in the door, after that she goes through a checklist, Needy? Insecure? Charming? Serial Killer?…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 03:42 AM
2	Haven’t gamed in 3 years, where to start? Life Order First thing is to ensure you are in good health and financially stable or are taking steps to do so. Approach Of course you can save your pride and research a routine or watch a million videos and reduce you're failure rate before starting out. Or you can save TIME and start now and chances are something will stick anyway. Reflect Supplement you're approaches by analysing what you did wrong, FR are great for this, so is the sub-reddit, google and youtube. "Did I push too hard," "Did I…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 03:31 AM
1	Game advice for the youthful looking dude By sending that image it's pretty clear that what you lack is confidence not looks. Have you not seen 8's and 9's walking around with there chubby boyfriends? There's a guy in a wheelchair that goes out to a popular bar in my city who get's fucked consistently by backpacker chicks. There are people who do a lot better with a lot less. More accurately you're thinking from the girls perspective, "am I good enough for her." Why? This doesn't get you anywhere, go in knowing what you want from a conv…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 03:20 AM
1	What are some ways to practice non neediness and vulnerability? To be non-needy just don't do things that are needy, simple as that. Somebody in a conversation ALWAYS has to be the needy one, just make sure that they qualify to you and not the other way around. Common example is not hearing somebody at a bar/club, most people will lean in and get them to repeat. Instead, point to your ear and let them lean into you. They are trying to tell YOU something, you are not trying to listen to THEM. Vulnerability is best practised by disqualifying yourself and being…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 03:10 AM
1	Game advice for the youthful looking dude As with all physical features it's never as big a deal as your making it. Getting fit (as suggested) should be an important aspect of your life in general, not just in the game. Get on it. Short term though, the way you dress, act and speak is more telling and representative of your age then physical features ever will be. You can dress better to appear more mature, speak more assertively, make more eye contact etc. If you're getting instant blowouts, (they just ignore you or look away) just dis…	/r/seduction	19/10/17 02:59 AM
3	23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any Situation I absolutely agree, another thing that people miss is framing qualifiers positively. Not every qualifier has to be a neg, in fact most shouldn't be. You Neg or diminish social value to get initial investment but after that you want foster "positive" emotional response (pride, happiness, sexual tension etc.).	/r/seduction	19/10/17 02:30 AM
7	23 Good Questions to Ask a Girl You Like in Any Situation This is a great rule of thumb but remember to take setting into account. For example, at a loud bar/club it's much better to ask a concise, clear question then risk repeating a leading statement 3-4 times.	/r/seduction	19/10/17 01:02 AM
1	You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you. "The moment you think you are good enough, you will never be any better." Thanks man, really. If anything should be in bold it should be this shit, that's some bhuda level wisdom right there	/r/TheRedPill	01/10/17 09:59 AM