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Field ReportMemitim901/r/seduction08/10/12 03:44 PM
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Memitim901/r/seduction07/09/12 08:10 PM
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Memitim901/r/seduction29/08/12 05:18 PM
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So many step 1s..
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:14 PM
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honestly dude, get a hooker. You may be over analyzing sex and freaking out about it. Get a hooker, have some fun, then relax and start living your life. Maybe see a specialist about the anxiety? I'm not sure on that front.
/r/seduction17/12/15 03:25 AM
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take your slut shamming back to redpill.
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:35 PM
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There are three fundamental things that need to be in place for a relationship to work. Those three things are a consensus on sex, money, and kids. If you do not have a consensus on those three things your relationship will fall apart. Note that love is not in there, people can fall in and out of love, its a flexible emotion, and is heavily influenced by the three requirements. I suggest sitting down with her and talking about your sexual needs. This should not be uncomfortable at all, you're an…
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:01 PM
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I disagree, I think he needs to use this sub to work on being his best self. I would hazard a guess to say that he probably settled for someone who showed him attention and fell in love because it hasn't happened to him before.
/r/seduction27/08/15 03:56 PM
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I'm in the bay, but traveled all over. It's not harder to meet women here, it's harder to meet ANYONE here. Nobody wants to commit to even seeing a baseball game, everyone is terrified they will miss something. The bay is full of people too scared to live their lives. Just do you, you'll eventually run into someone looking to join you.
/r/seduction30/06/15 04:23 PM
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While I don't necessarily disagree with the content of the article, I don't think this is the subreddit for it.
/r/seduction21/06/15 12:53 AM
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Fuck buddies still want to have fun. You may not date or be in a real relationship, but she still wants to have a good time. At least you know for next time.
/r/seduction15/06/15 03:44 PM
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Leading is perfectly fine, it is what you want to do, it's what (most) men like to do. That doesn't mean you lead someone into something that sucks. She set the tone with sexy pics, you should have carried through with that. Take her to a bar, shoot some pool, go dancing, have some fun. Try to look at it from her point of view. She finally hears back from a guy she is interested in, to keep him interested she sends a sexy picture of her ass. His response is to take you to a hot sweaty park with …
/r/seduction15/06/15 03:31 PM
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Your idea of a first date was to sit on a bench in the park with heat, mosquitoes, and NO activity! No frisbee, or deck of cards, nothing, and that doesn't sound fun. To top it off when she expressed that she didn't want to have to do that, you were an asshole about it. You put too much emphasis on a persona, "holding your frame." Fuck that it's fine to be yourself and be confident, but there is a big difference between wanting something and working toward it and being a douche-canoe for the sak…
/r/seduction15/06/15 02:22 PM
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If he has lots of options, be the best option. EDIT: without changing yourself, don't try to be something you're not.
/r/seduction18/02/15 11:11 PM
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Learn from your mistake and move on. Moderate your alcohol better, and let her contact you, she will if she is still interested.
/r/seduction25/11/14 12:38 AM
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I'm not a lawyer or anything, but in my experience, the U.S. is the only country that extends any kind of rights to visitors. Also, similar to a driver's license, having a visa is a priveledge not a right. I'm sure they can be revoked for whatever reason the government (regardless of which country) feels like providing.
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:55 PM
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At first glance, I thought this was some overblown, over-reaction by an over the top feminist group. After reading through those tweets etc, I'm disgusted that people like that associate with our community. I'm all for being assertive and confidant, but being emotionally abusive is not cool any way you slice it. The fact that he is able to attract enough people to pay him to host seminars is flat out depressing. I hope those involved find a better alternative to improve their lives.
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:48 PM
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starting on page 2: Every single message you sent has a smiley/winky face. "What do you like to do for fun?," isn't getting to know her its a generic questions that says you don't know how to have a conversation so please say something I can work with. Her saying "What abt u?," Isn't showing interest, its again a generic come back to a generic question. Making guesses about her is cold reading, I think it works well. You respond to her question with "I'm into business, sales, marketing," That so…
/r/seduction27/10/14 04:51 PM
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Next time you see one, go say hi.
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:33 PM
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Fair enough here is what I had typed out, I added the things in the parenthesis though just now. I'm 6'7" and used to be huge, 360lbs. I'm not currently at 260 and getting close to my 10% body fat goal of 230. I usually bring up my weight loss cause I'm fucking proud of it, and then ask her how much she thinks I weigh. I almost always gets a number close to my actual weight 250-270 on average. I then usually tell the girl I actually weigh 300 lbs ( this is the part where I started thinking why t…
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:05 PM
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you know I just spent like 2 minutes typing up a shit test that I put girls through, and halfway through realized how stupid and ridiculous it is. Thanks for asking this, now I know to not ever do this again.
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:00 PM
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I don't want to play the same game she does, I want to play a better one.
/r/seduction18/07/14 04:38 PM
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next...
/r/seduction18/06/14 10:42 PM
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That makes sense too. I think maybe the best approach would be to do a different thing often enough to make a difference but not regularly. Although, now I may be putting too much thought into dirty dishes.
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:52 PM
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I agree, except for that last part: And, you can always as "Is there anything I can do?" You are an adult, you should know what you need to do. The dishes are dirty? Don't ask if she would like you to do them, just do them. Laundry needs to be folded? Fold it. These are all things that take 10 minutes to do and for whatever reason women (in my experience) adore men who help out with this stuff without being asked.
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:06 PM
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Associate the persons eye color with their name. Helps you keep eye contact, and builds a bridge for remembering their name.
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:47 PM
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Nobody is perfect, so she has one trait that you aren't so into. Why don't you paint her nails for her one day (or send her to get a manicure) and comment on how sexy it is? Bet she will start painting her nails then.
/r/seduction14/08/13 08:26 PM
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Don't be sad, it's cool to have nerdy hobbies who the fuck cares? I play the FUCK out of some MTG, and in fact just got Serra Angel tattooed on my arm cause that's how I roll.
/r/seduction01/05/13 10:18 PM
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Don't sleep with people on your team, don't sleep with someone who has a management position over you, don't sleep with someone from HR, and if you travel or do expense reports or anything like that don't sleep with anyone from finance. Everyone else is fair game.
/r/seduction28/04/13 05:39 PM
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/r/OkCupid
/r/seduction24/03/13 05:44 AM
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Alright gonna need a story on this one.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:10 PM
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I learned Russian about 8 years ago, through the Air Force, but don't have anyone to speak with so it has just decayed to slightly better than gibberish. I really need to get back into it though, thanks for the corrections!
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:04 PM
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Come back to my place pretty lady - verneetas na svaya mesta krasavitsa what is your phone number - shto vash nomer telyfona my personal favorite because it sounds really sexy when a girl says it: excuse me, please tell me the time - Izvinitia pajaluste, v kakoye vremya eto
/r/seduction07/01/13 04:06 PM
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You should probably try /r/relationships
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:59 PM
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What the shit is with people not having time to text? it literally take 6 seconds to hammer out a line on a phone. Do it will you take a dump, or right after you buckle your seat belt, or next time you get up from your desk to stretch. Not having time to text is bollocks.
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:58 PM
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stop watching porn by yourself. If you have a girl over and she wants to watch it to get all riled up go for it. Porn does nothing but damage the way your brain works. /r/nofap
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:50 PM
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My initial response was to OPs situation of a girl calling him a bitch for holding her purse, in which case fuck everything about that purse. If she legit needs you to do something and can ask like a human being then sure be a purse holder.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:23 PM
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it's not about holding a purse. If a girl asks me to do something in a manner that shows she actually needs to me to do it, i.e. "hey I need to go do x can you hold my purse please?" sure I'll hold the fuck out of that purse. If a girl says a BS comment about how now I'm her bitch? fuck that, shit is going on the ground.
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:05 PM
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Want to hear a joke about paper? Never mind it's tear-able.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:05 PM
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Drop that shit on the fucking ground, eye contact and arch an eyebrow in challenge. You're a man not a fucking purse holder.
/r/seduction23/10/12 04:02 PM
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girls don't know what they like. They all tell you they want mr sweet nice guy, and everyone here knows that it's not true. That being said, you are probably asking this in the wrong subreddit try out /r/askwomen
/r/seduction22/10/12 10:45 PM
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me being 6'7" I love moving through crowds, but my usual method ( walk forward and people will gtfo ) doesn't work when I'm with a girl, so I tested something new out. Give her a piggy back ride! she can see what it's like to tower over people, but it also shows you are fun and spontaneous.
/r/seduction22/10/12 10:43 PM
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LMR = last minute resistance it's something lots of girls do when they want to have sex because they don't want to come off as "slutty." I understand that it might sound like it's kind of sinister, but I assure you we aren't here to rape women.
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:37 PM
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I just recently took up yoga to help out with my flexibility. While originally I was thinking, yea there should be hot girls there in yoga pants, once I started going and getting into it, I had to focus more on the poses then the women. Now they are just objects that get in the way when I'm trying to make sure my back is straight in the mirror... and now they are opening me up because I'm not that creepy dude who went to hit on girls in a yoga class.
/r/seduction22/10/12 03:19 PM
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working out is good advice, but don't start out at these numbers. Start where you are comfortable performing the exercise correctly, and increase the weight slowly and progressively. 5-10 pounds a week is a good goal.
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:39 PM
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please fix your formatting.
/r/seduction15/10/12 05:20 PM
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yea it's going to be a shitty phone call, but you are about to cheat which is way worst, so you're already doing something shitty. If you aren't happy in a relationship why drag it out and cheat in the first place.
/r/seduction15/10/12 04:36 PM
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And each of those reasons is not good enough. If your going to be the douche that cheats anyways, just pick up the phone and break up with her first, your already a shitty person so it's not going to make you any worst.
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:24 PM
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nothing wrong with texting right after splitting, it reinforces you in her head. Stop concerning yourself over this one girls and why she hasn't texted you back, go out and find another girl, and another, and another.. abundance mentality will make your life better.
/r/seduction10/10/12 10:25 PM
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Nobody can justify to you about why having multiple FWB is good or bad. It's your own decision, some people put more emotion into sex than others and would be uncomfortable with multiple partners and there is NOTHING wrong with that. If you enjoy having multiple partners go for it, if you don't then don't. Nobody, should judge you and nobody is going to say omg killmyselfthrowaway only bangs one girl at a time someone tattoo AFC4LIFE on his forehead.
/r/seduction09/10/12 06:17 PM
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I was thinking a cat tail whip or something like that, but I didn't read the book, does he use a strap on?
/r/seduction09/10/12 04:49 PM
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How about Christian Grey from 50 shades of grey? A suit and some sort of bondage toy or something.
/r/seduction09/10/12 03:52 PM
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I just wanna piggy back on something here. Make sure you are familiar with phones. If you have an iPhone figure out how to use androids and vice versa, same with non-smart phones. You look really dumb if you take her phone and don't know how to put your number in it.
/r/seduction09/10/12 03:27 PM
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They all walked away. One guy kept asking her over and over again as soon as I turned around or went to the bathroom or w/e, which I thought was hilarious. However, I'm a pretty helpful dude, so I pointed out a girl that appeared to be a 3rd wheel in a FFM 3 set, and off he went. I just hope he didn't go all stalkerish on her too.
/r/seduction09/10/12 03:06 PM
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Well I did kino her, she just didn't kino back. And yea, I wasn't looking to get laid, I'm just trying to meet new people. I got her number about 15 minutes into the set and stayed to talk much longer after that. I do think that next time I may move around more and open up more sets, just to get the social vibe going a bit.
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:30 PM
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"yes, i bought your silly cunty duckface three drinks and launched a charm offensive for the past hour because i want hairy man asshole wraped around my tongue" I fucking laughed my ass off and got weird looks at work, so good job on that! Why are you buying her so many drinks? I usually just buy her one, after she buys me one (usually from losing to a bet) and call it good at that.
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:08 PM
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well ignoring your username... besides her not touching me back we were having a great time, buying each other drinks, laughing and joking etc.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:16 PM
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oh god funniest video on the internet Perfect to segue into dumb things you've done while inebriated.
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:01 PM
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Well, as far as kino. I started early with a simple hand shake when I told her my name. Then a few times during the opener I touched her to emphasize a few points in the story. Throughout our conversation I continued to touch her shoulder or arms, and when we talked about her hair, I made sure to touch it a bit. However, when we got up from the bar, I put my arm around the small of her back to guide her and she visibly tensed up. She relaxed eventually, but she never touched me a single time.
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:34 PM
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you should check out /r/okcupid Just treat it like you would any other date.
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:18 PM
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Hot girls have hot friends. be her friend and use that network to find more girls. If her current relationship doesn't work out you can then pursue that avenue. It's bad form to dismiss a girl just because she has a BF, you never know who she knows, or what parties she can get you into it. There is nothing wrong with friendzoning a pretty girl.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:16 PM
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"Accidentally" bump her leg or foot, and pretend like nothing happened. Repeat until you can keep your leg or foot against hers, again just act like it's a totally normal natural thing to do.
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:38 PM
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Honestly man, everything you learn here isn't always about picking up women and getting laid. Confidence, conversation skills, body language, and a myriad of inner game skills all contribute to being successful in life regardless of what you are doing. Everyone needs these skills whether you are approaching people on the street for a charity or closing international deals in skyscrapers, they are all the same skills.
/r/seduction04/10/12 03:08 PM
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nope
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:05 PM
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I was in the same situation as you. To the point where I would finally get the "balls" to do out, drive all the way to the bar and not be able to get out of my car. Some people are not programmed to be social. To top it all off, I just moved to a new place and don't know anyone here, and I'm not in school anymore, and I work by myself. How did I "fix" it? Motherfuckin kareoke son. I can't sing to save my life. I would call a cab, get blitzed while it was on the way, go to said kareoke bar, sing …
/r/seduction03/10/12 12:03 AM
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good write up, except for one thing, please don't slut shame. It sucks for everyone, I for one would be much happier with more sexually liberated women.
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:16 PM
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I've had good success with making it sound like it's her idea. For example, You: "I have to go catch up with my friends but I enjoyed talking to you. Maybe we can talk some other time." Her: "Yea, that sounds great!" You: "Great so how would we get in touch?" Her: "I can give you my phone number." Sometimes you end up with facebook requests, or e-mail addresses, but in my experience, this has reduced the number of flakes I get, and it's also her qualifying herself to you in a way.
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:56 PM
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don't pick hobbies based off of what you think a woman might like. Pick something that YOU are going to like, it's going to be a part of your life not hers.
/r/seduction28/09/12 11:56 PM
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you tried to take her shirt off without kissing her on the lips? Slow down, look at the dicarlo escalation ladder. It doesn't need to be followed precisely but it is popular for a reason. In my opinion if a girl isn't kissing you on the lips she isn't emotionally vested enough to commit to anything more than that. Draw it out make it slow and sensual, amp up the tension, and then go for it.
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:15 PM
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My best friend is also my wingwoman. I usually send her to the venue 30 minutes before I get there, and every time she integrates herself with a group of women. I get an instant introduction to the group, and she does nothing but beam positive things about me when I go to the bar for a drink or w/e.
/r/seduction28/09/12 03:34 PM
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I know that feel bro
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:14 PM
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You are supposed to DHV. Asking her about her schedule does not do this. Make her think your time is more important, such as "hey I'm going bowling on Tuesday meet me there at 8." If she says no, or she's busy, a simple, "ok your lose" is good enough. Go out and have fun anyways. Try again in a few days, if she says no again forget about her and move on.
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:43 AM
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it's boring if they are just going out because it's the weekend or whatever, but if it's someones birthday or other special event you can use it for kino, or any number of things.
/r/seduction26/09/12 11:28 PM
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Our trip was Okinawa, Kobe, and Tokyo. The touristy parts of each city we were treated well, but as soon as you go someplace a little less touristy, even in Tokyo my friends were immediately looked at totally different. In Tokyo we were going to hit up a strip club and they turned all of us away because it was for Japanese only. And this is pretty much just my limited experience, from about 5 years ago. Times and people change and the very small percentage we interacted with hardly represent the…
/r/seduction26/09/12 10:37 PM
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I try to ask something that gets them talking, such as: 1 ) how do you all know each other? (also, can help determine who is single) 2 ) what brings you out tonight? 3 ) so who is the one that usually gets into trouble? You can also use a backup opener to get more talking going, my favorite is, "do I look like a drug dealer?" and then talk about how people keep asking me for drugs. I usually lead it into a subtle neg like, you must not have that problem you don't look adventurous enough. Like wi…
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:23 PM
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While I was traveling in Japan on business (i'm white), my friend (black) and my business associate (brown) were treated way worst than I was. Lots of flat out discrimination, flat out saying my friends couldn't go to a bar with me because they were "too dark." In some asian cultures the lighter your skin the higher status you are, presumably because you don't have to work outside. It sucks, but that just means she's close minded and not worth your time anyways, plenty of other women out there.
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:05 PM
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treat her just like you have been, the only difference is you fuck the shit out of her every once in a while. The trick is to treat it like not a big deal.
/r/seduction26/09/12 07:39 PM
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sounds like a bunch of excuses, stop making them. If a girl comes up to you, flirt with her, doesn't matter what she looks like.
/r/seduction24/09/12 05:26 PM
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get rid of your one-itis, next girl that comes up to you asking about your feelings or whatever, seduce her. Don't get hung up on one girl, and as far as your ex is concerned.. who cares, ignore her.
/r/seduction24/09/12 03:54 PM
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I'm in an in-between place with my body. I've been going to the gym for about 2 months now, but I still have a good 25 lbs to lose before I'm going to be comfortable. I just say no thanks I don't react well to chlorine and bromide, and say I get a nasty rash. Then follow it up with, some cheesy grin and a comment about them in their bikinis.
/r/seduction21/09/12 10:49 PM
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Boyfriend of 2 years... she's not single, I know some people on here don't let that stop them, but there are a TON of SINGLE attractive women out there. Getting cheated on in an LTR sucks, don't be an enabler. Go find a few single girls and have some fun with them.
/r/seduction19/09/12 04:51 PM
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honestly, that sounds risky to me. I could see that embarrassing her, or scaring her away, I could also see her taking that as an opportunity to cheat, or friendzone you to talk about her boyfriend problems. Here is the video I was talking about.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:56 PM
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I'm not sure about eHarmony, but I'm on OKcupid and it's pretty brutal. As a guy you have all the power taken away from you, and girls on those sites base everything off of looks, whether they admit it or not. You may want to check out /r/okcupid for some generic online dating advice.
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:10 PM
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I'm at work so I can't find the video, but there is one by David Wygant (sp?) that is applicable here. Think of dating like stock brokerage, sometimes you will meet a nice girl but she will have a BF or w/e. That doesn't mean she isn't an option in a few weeks or so. Keep in contact with her, invite her out with groups but make sure she knows your intentions. Who knows maybe she will break up with her BF and then bam, you've already laid all the ground work!
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:01 PM
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Well I just moved to a new city and don't have a wingman, but the way I'm looking at it is if I am the alpha, I'm going to pick the girl I want. If she is taken, no worries, I'm the alpha and I'll just pick another. That's not to say you should leave your wing hanging, but hey I'm the alpha not the wing.
/r/seduction14/09/12 10:53 PM
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There will be more wonderful girls, don't fret over a single one. Abundance mentality is important!
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:29 PM
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I don't think there is set rule for this. There isn't a count to seven then look away for 4 and then back for 18, just be natural with it.
/r/seduction13/09/12 03:23 PM
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http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html was the first google search, I can't remember where I read it at originally, but it has done wonders for my sex life.
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:21 PM
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Do keigals man, figure out where your pelvic muscle is next time you pee, by stopping the flow of piss. Remember what flexing that muscle feels like, and every time you click on a new link on reddit flex that bad boy for 5 seconds and release it, do 5 reps for every link, when that gets easy move up to 7 seconds. This muscles does 2 things for you, first, it gives you control over your orgasms, you can squeeze that bad boy tight to prevent blowing out too soon, and second when you do cum.. holy …
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:17 PM
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I don't know if it's just me that thinks this way.. but girls flake and cancel plans men do not.
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:39 PM
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go visit /r/nofap and you will see why. In a nut shell, every time you masturbate you release chemicals that make you feel great. If you masturbate too much, especially to porn, your brain starts to associate these feel good chemicals to non-existent women. Frequent masturbaters often end up with things like ED, and lose motivation to go out and find a real woman because they can just stay home and masturbate.
/r/seduction11/09/12 03:54 PM
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I would be hesitant to open on a pair like that (i haven't opened any groups at all yet though) specifically because say the blonde is unavailable you effectively alienated yourself from the brunette.
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:56 PM
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on your approaches, always assume they are attracted to you. If they turn you down who cares, onto the next girl.
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:22 PM
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hey at least your first approach you had the balls to go up to a 2 set, I still haven't done that.
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:20 PM
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I too cannot dance to save my life, but here is what I do. Keep your feet moving to the beat, it doesn't have to be complicated, just shift your weight side to side and maybe every once in a while adjust your positioning to stay close to the girl. Keep one hand on her at all times, and use her movements to feed into yours, it makes you look like your in-synch with her even though you have no clue wtf you are doing. I actually have no idea if this works, but I haven't heard any complaints yet so …
/r/seduction07/09/12 10:04 PM
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I would say that saying you are busy wasn't a bad thing, but you did it for the wrong reason. Like mangobear said, being busy, and showing them you have options isn't a bad thing. However, you should be saying that for THAT reason and not because you are anxious like m00se11 said. Being busy is a good thing, being anxious (while normal and understandable) is not.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:22 PM
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Keep doing it, I'm still going through my awkward initial approaches, and you just have to remember to take something away from each one.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:03 PM
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send your brother to this subreddit, and develop an awesome wingman.
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:41 PM
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you should have texted her 2 days ago. I usually text within 15 minutes, referencing some joke I made while chatting her up. I don't usually carry on a conversation though, until I've had her out on a date.
/r/seduction03/09/12 03:29 PM
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16 yo getting a HJ, isn't this kiddy porn in some places?
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:26 PM
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I prefer the "make her think it's her idea" approach. Me: Hey I have to get running, but I had a great time talking with you, we should do this again. Her: Yea, that sounds great! Me: Cool, how can we make that happen? Her: I can give you my phone number! I find that when the girl "suggests" the phone number there is less chance for flaking.
/r/seduction02/09/12 08:24 PM
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No joke, best cure for hangovers is a bacon sandwich. Really, it's protein and carbs, but bacon sandwich's are the coolest way to get those. EDIT: source
/r/seduction02/09/12 07:58 PM
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Fuck what other people think. Want to go hit on a girl, do it. Don't ever let other people dictate your actions.
/r/seduction02/09/12 04:20 AM
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Everyone has their own thought on condoms and birth control, but I ALWAYS wear one. She could have a ring, take shots, and the pill with plan B in the drawer, and I'm still going to wear one. Therefore, I don't even bring up a condom, I'm going to put one on or it's not going to happen so I don't bring the fact up in conversation. The one caveat here is that you should make sure to have a few different kinds, and especially a few that are non-latex, or natural or w/e some girls react badly to so…
/r/seduction31/08/12 05:21 PM
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bull, start it now. I'm only 4 days in and I feel like I can't stop approaching. I can tell that my desire to make girls chase me has skyrocketed. Masturbation is like a overflow drain for you desire. Every time it gets used you are less likely to approach. Stop masturbating, start approaching.
/r/seduction30/08/12 11:26 PM
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Unfortunately, I'm only attracted to them about 30% of the time. However, now that I've been reading up here, and on things in the sidebar, I'm starting to get a feel for IOIs.
/r/seduction29/08/12 10:12 PM
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and we have a winner, that one is awesome
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:49 PM
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some of these look to be about my style, thanks for the suggestions.
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:49 PM
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If you can't think of anything to talk about reference current events. Maybe try subscribing to a youtube news channel, I like sourcefed.
/r/seduction27/08/12 11:16 PM
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Fair enough, like i said, my personal experience. I was with a black guy and a cuban dude, and people actually imitated a monkey and pointed to my black friend. Nobody would talk to him, and my latino friend didn't catch the time of day either. Things were much easier for me (white, 6'7")
/r/seduction25/08/12 04:04 AM
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I've been to Japan a few times on business and here is what I've learned: 1)Girls (and guys) will approach you to practice their English, this doesn't mean they are attracted to you, but it still opens up a ton of oppertunities. In order to capitalize on them, you HAVE to learn some simple phrases in Japanese. 2) do not ever fucking wink at them, I honestly can't remember the reason why sorry, I just know that it pisses some of them off. 3) This will sound shallow, but if you flash money they wi…
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:37 PM
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The Faggot Store, forgive the name it is a product of 4chan, but it has a lot of good starting information. If you can't find what you are looking for there, feel free to ask for some help in /r/malefashionadvice. In all honesty though, you don't dress well to impress girls, or anyone for that matter. You dress well to express your style and put a part of your personality out to the world.
/r/seduction22/08/12 06:28 PM
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relevant username?
/r/seduction21/08/12 11:17 PM
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