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Gotcha, will make sure not to in the future. Old habits...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 08:00 PM
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OYS #13 35 yr old, 6'0, 163.8, 13.6% BF (navy) . Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1F, 3F, 12F step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger, TWOTSM, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. Reading 48 LOP. Lifts all 5x3, in pounds - BP: 145, OHP: 90, Squat: 200, DL: 205. They have stalled and will probably continue to do so until I finish my cut and complete the move from skinny-fat to skinny. One more month of cutting, tops, then lean bulk time. SHIT I AM F…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 05:39 PM
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OYS #12 35 yr old, 6'0, 165.9, 14.6% BF (navy) . Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1F, 3F, 12F step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger, TWOTSM, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck. Reading 48 LOP. Lifts all 5x3, in pounds - BP: 145, OHP: 90, Squat: 200, DL: 205. They have mostly stalled and will probably continue to do so until I finish my cut and complete the move from skinny-fat to skinny. UNFINISHED BUSINESS 1 Before I got rule 9'd two weeks ago,…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:17 PM
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So why are you concerned with getting out more? It's a red area of mine that I need to improve on for the sake of my mental health and overall development as a man. It makes me less boring and gives me a missing part of my life back. If the "other people's opinion" is "he's a woman because he hangs around his kids too much"...whats the "your opinion" about it? I think I'm a great dad and good husband for being with them so much. I disagree strongly that it makes me like a woman. I think a lack o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 04:18 PM
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You included those bold pieces since my frame is nonexistent and I give way too many fucks what other people think and say about me. Both of which are connected and which are bad things for someone who is unplugging.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:52 PM
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I didn't mean it to come off that way. I spend all my time with my kids and I get called a woman. I want to spend less and I get called a bad dad. I can't win.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 03:35 PM
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OYS #11 35 yr old, 6'0, 170.0, 15.6% BF (navy) . Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1F, 3F, 12F step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger, TWOTSM. Reading 48 LOP. Lifts all 5x3 - BP: 145, OHP: 85, Squat: 200, DL: 200. I lifted 3 times last week even with my kidney stone because fuck it, Chad wouldn't let a kidney stone stop him from lifting. LAST WEEK’S OYS I got predictably and deservedly eviscerated in my replies, saying that I act like a woman and m…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 11:50 AM
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You're right. Truthfully I want less time with my kids, I want to be the one leaving and having a life instead of being with them all the time that I'm not working. I would kill for a week's vacation away from my wife and kids to just be alone and do me, whatever the hell that even looks like anymore. Instead I'm a bitch who is still stuck in his wife's frame even after 10 OYS posts. Looks like I've identified my next goal, also not 'acting like a woman' eg time to lead.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 11:04 PM
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Shit. Edit: responses like these are why I post still. Every time I think I'm doing good someone finds a blind spot of mine and calls me out. I have a lot of work to do still.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 01:53 PM
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OYS #10 35 yr old, 6'0, 171.5, 16.6% BF (navy, updated - I keep losing 1/2 inch on my waistline every week). Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1F, 3F, 12F step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger, TWOTSM. Reading 48 LOP. Lifts all 5x3 - BP: 140, OHP: 85, Squat: 195, DL: 185. I lifted 0 times last week for reasons that will become apparent further down. First off, about last week's OYS. My goodness do I write like a woman sometimes. 'I'm gonna do this…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 10:22 AM
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If you want your woman to be your spiritual and sexual consort, not just your housemate, you must skillfully maintain your household and livelihoods so that the potency of your union is not diminished. From TWOTSM. We know he's alpha and attractive enough (I have work to do in both areas). But if he didn't take care of his shit, and have a life of his own, it would be unattractive and needy. I've failed both of those as well, especially the second one.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 03:15 PM
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Fuck, you're right. I tried to write about proof of concepts this week but had a blind spot that I didn't see it was still about sex. I'll say that my anger is fading fast after reading this post, so I know that will help steer my focus onto myself and positive changes. What do I want besides that? I want to make enough money to do what I want to do. Take a month off and go travel and fish. Start a few SEO affiliate websites and make some passive income. Get my body in the top 25% of men so I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 06:03 PM
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OYS #9 35 yr old, 6'0, 172, 17.5% BF (navy, updated). Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1, 3, 12 step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger. Reading TWOTSM. I see there's 2 new course prerequisite books on the sidebar to read, so added them to the pile. LIFTS All 5x3 - BP: 140, OHP: 85, Squat: 195, DL: 185. Lifted 3 times this week. I switched to GZCLP now that I finally know how to do all the exercises properly (had to tinker with my squat not being d…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 11:46 AM
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Thanks for the positivity, man. I'll keep at it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 04:14 PM
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I worded it poorly. I meant if I get a hard no, I can't do anything about it. But I'm actively trying to raise my SMV to be higher than my wife's so I will have more indirect control over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 12:30 PM
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Fuck. Let me try this mental model instead, 'the man I want to be gets out of the house and has a life outside of his wife and kids'. I'm going dancing monkey hunting this week, I got my tag and know just where to find him.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 12:34 AM
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Thanks for that post, I hadn't seen that before. Act like a bitch, get treated like a bitch, that nailed it for my emotional (un)attractiveness. Thinking on your reply, I have 3 choices when denied sex: 1) Get butthurt and own it, making me an unattractive retard. 2) Get butthurt and lie about it, fooling only myself and making me a lying unattractive retard. 3) Don't get butthurt. I'm going to choose 3. I say choose because while at this point in my MAP I don't have any direct control over gett…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 12:32 AM
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GAME I need to work on my game, because we all know that truly eager, great, and plentiful sex won't come if you can't get it anywhere else, or at least have the impression you can. When I think of it as 'running game', I choke and find excuses not to approach, but when I think of it as just talking with other people, I succeed. I'm great at talking with strangers, it's a skill I've had since retail, I just haven't used it in years. It's going to be hard with a mask on since I'll have to do all …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 12:46 PM
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OYS #8 35 yr old, 6'0, 173.5, 18.5% BF. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1, 3, 11 step). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger. Reading TWOTSM. BODY I lost 3.5 pounds last week between buying a scale made this century, and a stomach bug putting me down from Saturday night to Wednesday night. My goal remains to cut down to 13.5% BF before I bulk again. Gotta lose the belly, I don't want to have to suck it in to look good. I was a 6'0 135 twig for all of …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 12:45 PM
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Alright, I'm up for the challenge. I usually do jack it 3-4 times a week, and have been using porn about half the times I do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 02:09 PM
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OYS #7 35 yr old, 6'0, 177, 18.5% BF. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (1, 3, 11 step). I have gained 7 pounds in the last 3 months, and not all muscle. I am going to cut down to 13.5% BF before I bulk anymore. I still look good naked but I would look even better without the slight pudge on my belly. I was focused on getting bigger at all costs, now I'm realizing that it's not everything. Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C, Rational Male, MAP, Bigger Leaner Stronger. Reading TWOTSM but I'm not …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 01:45 AM
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Thanks man, just messaged my doctor asking for an rx. I want injectable so I don't accidentally give any hormones to my kids, plus it seems to work better from what I've read. I am not sure how to approach FB guy. If it's truly an orbiter then I look insecure and weak (which I am didn't, but I didn't let it show at least when it last came up). If it's an actual threat then I should just kick her out for an affair. Even an emotional affair counts in my book. I'll probably trust but verify but if …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 10:22 PM
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OYS #6 35 yr old, 6'0, 170, 18% BF. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (7 mo, 3 yr, 11 yr). Read NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Pook, 16 C. Reading Rational Male. Lifts: there are 2 gyms in my area. I was talking with one and he charges $100 A WEEK, no thanks. The other one can only have 25% capacity so there are people lined up outside every time I drive by it. I'm very close to draining my savings and spending a couple grand on a home gym. It's sad that the hardest part of doing so would be justifying it t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 01:05 PM
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OYS #5 35 yr old, 6'0, 170, 18% BF. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (7 mo, 3 yr, 11 yr). Read NMMNG, Pook, just finished MMSLP this last week. 50% through WISNIFG. Rational Male teed up after I finish WISNIFG this week, and bought the MAP for $3 on Kindle on sale, woohoo. Frame I had a few successes at home to report, but some failures at work. Home - I had a very productive week, got a lot done around the house that I had been putting off for literally years. I feel great about what I accomplishe…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 12:58 PM
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Will do, you too man, we got this.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 05:38 PM
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It is legit but i do not feel successful yet, not by a mile. My problem is I'm an underachiever, and I have tended to take the path of least resistance in my life, so I need to sustain this even and especially when it's difficult. That's part of why I laser focused this OYS on frame again, because the pussy boy who gets bent out of shape from not getting sex is still right there waiting to come out. And that's just one small part of frame but it's the weakest spot of my overall very weak frame. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 12:47 AM
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OYS #4 35 yr old, 6'0, 170, 18% BF. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (7 mo, 3 yr, 11 yr). Lifts can't be quantified yet since I'm in a lockdown state and haven't lifted before the whole quarantine thing started, BUT I did initiate a conversation with a gym very close to my house regarding rates. Will seal the deal this week and start lifting actual weights, I think (gyms have to be at X capacity and still aren't open but will this week - not sure how this will all play out). Read NMMNG, Pook, just …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 05:13 PM
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Thanks man. His feedback did upset me enough to take my head out of the game a bit over the next few days, and not just because he was right, but because I'm still lacking frame and still having a hard setting my own value. Your words are helping me move towards that, I'll have to remember the feeling the next time I screw up and immediately default towards bringing myself down.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 02:06 AM
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Thanks for the push, edited. I should really get a set template like the rest of you guys and stick to it week by week - still a noob but I want to progress every week here.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 11:09 PM
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OYS #3 35 yr old, 6'0, 170. Married 3, together 8, 3 kids (7 mo, 3 yr, 11 yr). Read NMMNG, 50% through MMSLP. Really going to lay myself bare here, it's embarrassing. But reading some of the pro's old posts on here made me realize we all started here, so go nuts - be as harsh as you want, I like honest feedback, no sugar coating. Frame Still shit. I'm baffled at how I can have a big ego, and low self-worth, but I do. I need help working through that. Still very angry at all of this in general, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 01:10 PM
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I have much beta to get out of my mindset, I appreciate you putting it like this. I've read the shit out of the sidebar, but it's like drinking water from a fire hose - it's going to take me multiple times to internalize and apply what I read. Seeing your journey from start to where you are now gives me hope, like fuck man you have your shit down and I want my life to be like that. I should also tell you that most every time we do it she gets on top because it's easiest for her to cum in that po…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 08:36 PM
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OYS #2 - I have been absent a few weeks NOT owning my shit, and this is a new username that is MRP specific. I'm sure the industrious could connect the dots. ​ Frame ​ Still shit. I read NMMNG and have a lot of anger about everything, realizing that even my parents failed me in large part. My dad was always working, and thus left my mom to raise me. I'm a textbook "nice guy" and it will take more than a few weeks to fix. Reading WISNIFG and MMSLP currently - finding both interesting, I should re…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 07:38 PM
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