| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 392 | First day of approaching girls - Failed | Field Report | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 61 | Fear of awkward and creepy interactions | Inner Game | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Get rid of anxiety around girls when being a teenager | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 08:22 PM | |
| 7 | What can a loser when it comes to girls do, to change it? | Fundamentals | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls day two: little success | Field Report | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Severe anxiety around girls in certain situations | Inner Game | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Going out for approaches became just going for a walk | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 07:38 PM | |
| 1 | How To Stop Caring What People Think Of You | Inner Game | MemoryCrafty | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 06:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?Please never ever try to change your feelings or energy levels. Accept them and focus on other people instead. Trying to change your feelings is linked to mental health issues. It will not help you in the long run. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Losing confidence after a bad night outPlease do not listen to the answers in this sub here. They are not just not helpful but even harmful. If you go out and get rejected it is perfectly natural to lose confidence. But that confidence can and will come back if you let the negative feelings of the situation stay. Acceptance is linked to greater mental health. | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | What can a loser when it comes to girls do, to change it?I just hate being like that, I want to change it... | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Cut Some Slack For Men Who Don't Want To Approach WomenSeems to be primarily a problem in the USA, doesn't it? Nearly all reports seem to be from there | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Fear of awkward and creepy interactionsThat I need more practice | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 25 | Fear of awkward and creepy interactionsI fear having nothing interesting to say and that the conversation will turn into some sort of interview | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 09:33 AM |
| 1 | What can a loser when it comes to girls do, to change it?And what do you think of the advice of u/Mysterycasanova to approach girls and ask for advice for being shy around girls? | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 09:06 AM |
| 3 | What can a loser when it comes to girls do, to change it?Thanks, was a little bit emotional because I went out for approaches but couldn't get one done... | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How to progress after asking questionsThe problem is finding girls or places where I can approach them... | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Get rid of anxiety around girls when being a teenagerThanks will try that | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Get rid of anxiety around girls when being a teenagerGot it, will go for some approaches today! | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Get rid of anxiety around girls when being a teenagerI feel really awkward stopping a random girl and talking to her. I asked one girl for directions a few days ago, but now I'm just sitting around being afraid of doing something more challenging. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Get rid of anxiety around girls when being a teenagerI'm going to Graz, Austria. However, joining groups isn't possible | /r/seduction | 02/08/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | First cold approach properly in a whileAlso want to start doing this (17M). Where did you approach her? | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Approaching girls day two: little successGermany | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI know that's the thing. I thought that I 'd just say my battery died | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls day two: little successNo, some people yesterday complained that by asking a simple question by approaching girls would creep them out | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 09:22 PM |
| -1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI can't understand what the problem is with getting asked the time or directions to somewhere? That's all I do | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedOk thanks | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI don't think that I have problems with my self-esteem. I am happy with what I have achieved considering my age. Starting my own company actually is something I'm currently working on. But there is of course still a huge margin for improvement. The problem is that I have developed some sort of anxiety around girls. I can't tell why, but I want to get rid of it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:15 AM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI'm just asking what time it is and will then go away... | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:06 AM |
| 2 | First day of approaching girls - FailedWhat else should I ask instead? At this moment, I don't want to get any number, until I feel confident enough to make a ”real” approach | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:04 AM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI feel with you. Have been really shy some time ago too. But if you start working on it, it will get better over time. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI totally agree with you. But the goal with doing this, is to get rid of the anxiety around girls and the fear of rejection. As long as I haven't achieved this, it will stay ”just a mission”. And it's clear to me that it will probably never completely go away. I just want to get it so much under control, that I can approach and flirt with the girls I like. And not regret in 20 years that I haven't done anything. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | First day of approaching girls - FailedWill make another post today! | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 07:40 AM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI think that I can do it, just need another try. I mean it isn't a big problem for me to ask a waitress something either | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 2 | First day of approaching girls - FailedNo I haven't, whats that and where can I find it? | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 3 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI also just training using body weight. Just try it! I would suggest searching for a suitable training plan on YouTube | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | First day of approaching girls - FailedThen you could start working out and eating healthy. I also started doing that, and as soon as I saw results I never stopped because I don't want to get back to where I was | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:50 PM |
| 7 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI know, this is just to get started. I'm doing this challenge: https://get-a-wingman.com/how-to-attract-girls-fast-and-easily-30-day-dating-challenge/ | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | First day of approaching girls - FailedWhy do you think that, if you don't try you will never know? | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 07:41 PM |
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