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Not all of these relationships involve sex. I knew a girl who would get $5k a month just to be available to chat and party with a guy. She was most definitely a sugar baby. I’m sure most of these relationships involve sex. But not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:01 PM
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Although parentage may have been an issue historically, we now have DNA testing. Why would it be wrong for a man to not know definitively the parentage of one of his children while ‘your friend’ claims it is acceptable for a woman to stand by their partner knowing that their spouse has fathered a child out of wedlock? What justifies this double standard? I believe “your friend“ is attempting to justify an unethical relationship dynamic. I am a firm believer in ethical, non-monogamy, and there is…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:44 AM
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Why would I be threatened if my partner had male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:51 AM
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Lawton, is that you? 30?! I fuckin knew it!
/r/TheRedPill26/09/23 04:03 AM
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There’s no hard and fast rule. When I really click with someone i begin revealing pieces of myself and history as it unfolds naturally. It’s part of that getting to know you process. I wouldn’t commit to someone before revealing those parts of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 04:06 AM
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🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:21 PM
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We sure as fuck are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:00 AM
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A lifetime partner is absolutely real without a marriage license what are you even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:55 AM
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Yours is also an anecdote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:36 PM
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Wrong. I’m always romantically attracted to women I’m not sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:38 AM
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You did post it in other threads you weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:45 AM
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Im against marriage and love satan. I just hate liars and misinformation. Delete the misinformation then considering it was just an innocent mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:24 PM
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Sleeping with 100 men turns out to be a lot easier than sleeping with 100 women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:34 AM
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Dude you look like you are posting this chart from multiple accounts and then responding to the incorrect information you are posting from Alts. Wtf is your weird agenda in trying to make women look more promiscuous than they really are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:11 AM
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finally a sane person in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:05 PM
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I’m not the only person in here to give my personal preference. But I seem to the be the only one you called out. Strange.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 05:42 AM
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16 people is NOT ridiculously high. I would have no issue dating a woman who has been with 16 people at that age. I dated a woman that slept with 13 guys at 19 years old. The sex was phenomenal. That being said, keep your body count to yourself. You clearly have hang ups about it so why advertise it. Even if they ask! Say you find it to be an unhealthy fixation people have and you’d rather not give it energy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 04:32 AM
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I agree there are hurtful stereotypes surrounding emotional expression for both sexes. However, if a woman is emotional it’s waved away by saying “that’s just how women are.” If a man is overly emotional, his manhood itself comes into question.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:31 AM
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She already told him it isn’t happening between them. And I told her in the beginning that i couldn’t match her energy but she insisted on giving it a shot. The fact is, she’s pretty amazing and I’m not getting any younger so I thought I would see if maybe whatever chemistry we do have could develop into something deeper. But it’s been only a month and I can already feel myself pulling away. The obvious thing would be to break it off. She just has so many qualities I want in my ideal partner. Da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:10 PM
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You really put into words experiences I have had. And I have been on both sides. I had to cut out an ex that friend-zoned me all while I was attempting to win her back. This occurred years after we originally broke up and she had re-entered my life. She would date other guys and then reach out to me only when she was single. Exactly because I safely filled those emotional roles of a partner without her risking much in a return. It was pretty despicable behavior that took me about a year to recog…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:56 AM
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There doesn’t seem to be transparency in your relationship when it comes to finances so it is foolish to have any expectations around money. You can request transparency. If you do not receive it, don’t expect to ever have a healthy relationship around money. You’ve been warned.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:21 AM
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If you don’t know what your partner is making from his family business, how can you know whether or not he is capable of supporting the two of you. Sounds as if you are going into this commitment blind. I also agree with your partner that you should pay your debts quickly. I also don’t think you should be taking on any extraneous expenses while unemployed. I would take this as a bad sign from a woman I was to marry. It can be seen as irresponsible. It is very difficult to say whether or not he w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 08:29 AM
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The advice is for you. You took the time to answer but you didn’t answer any of my questions and instead deflected. It’s lovely that you are a loyal partner. I commend you for wanting to stay by his side. Just be certain your loyalties are well-placed. And I still recommend you get yourself an education and a career path. You will need one with him. And you will need one without him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/23 05:48 PM
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I’m very curious what work your partner does at 22 that you expected him to be able to support the two of you. And how was he supposed to support you long distance? By sending you money to pay your bills? Was he at one point sending you money to pay your bills? It’s sounds to me like you have a poor grasp of reality. My advice would be to focus on yourself, get an education and become self-sufficient. You will have a much easier time meeting a guy that makes 6 figures if you are on a similar car…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/23 05:32 PM
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I believe there is evidence to suggest humans compete at the level of spermatazoa. Instead of simply competing for which male is stronger or smarter our sperm compete for paternity. There is a biological spermicide in the last spurts of semen to ward off any would be competitors that may bed your partner within a short time frame after you. Additionally there is a protective enzyme in the initial ejaculations to shield the second lovers sperm from the spermicide of the first. Surely these tools …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:19 AM
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Haters will say “this happened.“ But from experience I’ve had three girls in a single day. Breakfast. Lunch. And dinner. When all of your energy goes into getting laid it’s entirely possible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:14 AM
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I believe the Bonobo Has this mating style
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:12 AM
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I for sure thought you were right wing based on your previous responses. I guess I was wrong. I’m not a liberal myself. But I am also not afraid of shifting cultural values. I think we adapt to change. Some of these things we can lament and others we can embrace. I do believe in creating stronger communities. I agree that may minimize promiscuity. But if you think man and woman did not evolve in promiscuity you are sorely mistaken. Promiscuity is a non-issue where paternity and disease are non-i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:24 PM
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Simply put people are not marrying as young. Partly because of the economic difficulties you mention. So during this period of young adulthood - which is in a way a new phenomenon - people are sowing their wild oats. We basically have an entire decade to figure out who we are, what we like and who we like. I think it’s this freedom many people are uncomfortable with. I wouldn’t have it any other way. We have the freedom and time for self-discovery that our grandparents could have only have dream…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:32 PM
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People are horny. They go out on a date, there’s an initial attraction and so they fuck. Maybe they convince themselves sex will lead to a relationship. Maybe they just need to get laid. Maybe they’re looking for validation in all the wrong places. It’s definitely a let down when the sex is subpar but that can happen even with a long term partner. Sleeping with someone prior to a relationship is a means of vetting them for compatibility, if not just pure hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:05 PM
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What culture is it that is dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:51 PM
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What in the world are you insecure about that parallels your fears in dating/relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:30 PM
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I love that you got me. The poster is just wrong on multiple levels. You don’t have to align with toxic masculinity to think trophy wives are representative of toxic femininity. The thing that no one ever mentions is that it’s cheaper to hire a personal chef or meal prep service and a housekeeper if those are the services your maid/girlfriend provides. Sex and comfort are also things someone with the means can buy regularly. The only thing money cannot buy is true connection and devotion. I’m ju…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/23 03:25 PM
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Thank you. I made an effort to really paint the reality of the vast majority of these arrangements. After writing it, a friend of mine pointed out two points I may have missed the mark on. One being that the type of woman seeking this likely does not think little of herself but instead the opposite. She has an inflated sense of self. The other, that there are arrangements where this may be a fair trade off. Such as partnering with a man who owns a property that truly needs love, upkeep and maint…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/23 06:57 AM
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Yes you can find this. But you will be sacrificing your essence and autonomy to obtain it. The majority of men that will be open to this arrangement fall into two categories. Religious/traditional, both of which will want children, or misogynistic and controlling. I know the type of men that want your arrangement and this is who they are behind closed doors. He thinks as little as you do of yourself and your abilities. You are seeking an unequal arrangement which means you are giving up your pow…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 09:16 AM
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O
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 09:14 AM
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I actually agree with this. A woman that does not know what she wants is straight up obnoxious to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:58 PM
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I never said anything about not loving the child. What I’m saying is there is no guarantee that a lie will stay a lie and that it is despicable to ever consider deceiving a man about the parentage of his children. I imagine in this circumstance it will be a lot easier to stop loving the woman than the child. The child is innocent in all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:56 PM
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All it takes is a 23andMe DNA test for funzies 15 years down the line for the kid to discover they’re related to whole different family tree. How could you justify deceiving a man about the parentage of his child. That is so deeply damaging and immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:02 AM
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