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| 1 | Red Pill Theory: "Lucifer's Daughter". How common do you think this type of woman is and what kind of men fall for her?Normies are incapable of logical thinking except in very specialized instances, e.g. working a math problem or winning a game. The issue is that we're assuming they can do something that's out of their wheelhouse, I suppose. We're asked to believe that they're rational actors because they can show fleeting glimpses of logic, but these instances are all within a pointless game, demonstrating a lack of logic in the bigger picture. Fun. Anyway, then our difference is in how we define utility, speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Theory: "Lucifer's Daughter". How common do you think this type of woman is and what kind of men fall for her?That's different than maximizing utility, unless "getting a kick out of it" is the utility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Women enjoy casual sex far more than they let on.Perhaps different types of women with different senses for impulsivity and delayed gratification. I don't have a desire to cheat, but have also never had a desire for casual relationships. I built a good relationship with an individual that's highly satisfying for me and have no desire to sabotage that. If I were dissatisfied, I still wouldn't take such risky behavior as lightly as some people do, because it's not in my personality and I see no advantage to doing it. What could I gain from infid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP : You have to drop your child off with a stranger, all you know is their occupation. Teacher, or stripper. Which do you choose?Answering here because I'm RP: I'd choose the stripper because they can probably teach the kid more about making it in real life than someone who, worst case scenario, makes $16k/yr to read books to kids part-time and probably has a stick-in-the-mud conservative personality. I don't think that I want anyone who doesn't know what weed smells like teaching my kid. I'm just stereotyping school teachers here based on ones that I knew, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like feminine women?Appearance doesn't matter so much in factoring disposability as whether you'll sleep with them. I have a coldly logical personality, so that's off-putting to the average guy. If they know that you're not single, then it becomes a matter of who your SO is. Men who knew me started to treat me better with my current LTR. I got more shit as someone who was dating or out alone, but that could also be because I was socializing more. My username is based on a book that I read, which offered some red-pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.To you, it's not indicative of anything. It's something that others bring up all the time. It means something to the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like feminine women?You were mocked for these things? All of these are examples that happened to me, and I've also seen some other women deal with what appeared to be the same. How would you rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10? On what trait? Rating myself on subjective qualities such as appearance or personality is difficult because I'm inherently biased to think what most people who don't have shit-tier self-esteem think, which is that I see areas for improvement but am overall trying to be the best self that I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Women prefer the sex of their more attractive lovers than the men they end up with long term.Beyond certain basic standards of hygiene and being reasonably normally shaped, quality of sex has little to do with physical attraction. Someone can be attractive and charismatic and a totally rotten lay because he puts in no effort. Odds are that he may not need to demonstrate any effort in bed because he keeps getting new women who are lured in by the outer appearance instead of his skills. He gets off with them in a ONS and never sees them again, but doesn't care. However, if a man is good i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like feminine women?-- Interests in subjects that aren't labeled as masculine (e.g. biology) -- taking on feminine roles in anything (this is an especially fun one because of being asked to do something like clean-up work and then being mocked for not being biologically "good enough" to do anything else) -- taking an interest in anything appearance-related (this is usually a hypocritical one -- like when this came from a bf who took more time to get ready than me -- and a catch-22 because you risk being labeled as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Theory: "Lucifer's Daughter". How common do you think this type of woman is and what kind of men fall for her?I've never seen someone who was interested both in maximizing utility and causing undue harm. Those come across as conflicting desires. I have no qualms with using others to achieve a goal -- especially a mutual goal -- but sadism is too much. Indirectly guiding someone into doing something that they want to do or which is best for them is arguably a moral act, so there can be good forms of manipulation and it's not always wrong. Think of a parent who has a child that wants to do well in school … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like feminine women?This is a dead-end line of inquiry. Tone is what makes something come off as mocking or teasing. You can't know tone from a transcript of a conversation and can always make a subjective claim that it was meant to be teasing. School-yard bully tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.approach you I can't think of a single date that I went on where I didn't approach first (although he may have indicated interest in body language). I've usually turned down guys who asked first because I simply wasn't interested or available. make physical contact This was usually initiated by me (after asking) or he asked if we could hug or hold hands or something. Again, not risky. Same with kissing. grabbed your ass while you were making out or started taking his/yours clothes off Nope. I br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like feminine women?Considering that some of the best guys that I've dated have mostly complimented me on things that aren't traditionally feminine, and some of the worst mocked any femininity constantly and even did ridiculous things like talk about what restaurants women prefer to ones men prefer and judge women on that... Seems like what men like depends on what they want from the relationship. If they want a marionette, then they prefer your femininity. If they want an equal or a better half, then they prefer y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The Problem with “No Means No” is Men always Think it’s Negotiable.Sorry that this happened to you. IMHO a lot of men just aren't going to get it, because they don't have to. Might makes right. The law is on their side in many cases because it's too damn hard for women to do anything unless she's beat up, and even then he gets like 6 months probation. None of this "life ruining" that they keep crowing about. You did everything right and he was wrong. You can try talking to a lawyer about it to see if they think it's worth pursuing. Personally, I wouldn't go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are lying when they say they want to challenge male gender roles. They only want to destroy female gender roles as to allow maximum sexual access to the best-looking guys.This might be true if feminism was a RP strategy for women and not a BP mess that's of little benefit to the common person. Some good examples of how feminism is a mess for women is the height/weight thing. Being overweight is objectively bad (and medicine is proving that our current BMI standards are too high because many "normal" people are getting diseases of obesity) and losing weight is easy if you know what to do based on hundreds of years of science and don't listen to scammers trying to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do women act as if sex devalues them?Hey, if a man wanted to give me a vibrator on a date, that would be one way for him to convince me that he was going to do well sexually. It would be sending a different signal for me to just bring my own, however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/18 12:21 AM |
| 3 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationI think the issue is that she wants it under her terms but fails to communicate it that way because of a fear of being blunt. Some men become troublesome when they don't get their way, and unfortunately, some women acquiesce to that instead of learning that it's not their problem. Or, they fear violent retribution. In the example of Grace & Aziz, it sounds to me as if she did mean "slow down" but he continued to push boundaries and she didn't continue to tell him exactly how she wanted to slow d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women act as if sex devalues them?That sounds like some furry stuff. Not into animals. Apes are enough to wrangle with. I don't date and don't own an overpriced piece of plastic with a vibration motor. Both are a waste of my time. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.Those aren't IT jobs. Think about who benefits from these situations. If I, as a woman, were doing things to benefit women, I would give them training in real jobs that pay them well. Not make them accountants. This doesn't benefit them. That leaves us with the question of who else is benefitting? Who made these decisions, and why? Women have been saying for one hundred years that men want office ladies around just to play grab ass with them and find a Mrs. Today, they can do that while virtue s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.I can't tell you what it's like to have a penis except through second-hand stories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do women act as if sex devalues them?Males treat women as if sex devalues them and as if women are masturbation aids that they can then brag about how they tricked them into sex. Getting no pleasure and getting laughed at on the way out is no fun and not appealing in anyway. Judging by rhetoric, this kind of behavior seems to be common from many men of all political stripes. If more men were concerned about women sexually, then casual sex would offer something for women. I don't feel devalued by sex with a man who isn't dominant or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.To shit jobs that accomplish nothing and pay little? lol. That sounds like "feminism" from men. Ah yes, jobs for women... prostitution and office ladies getting coffee. Empowerment! I maintain my original position that feminism is by and for men. Again, look to your boys who hired them for some answers. That feminist establishment is run by males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Why not issue ultimatums?I would say that all or most relationships are transactional, but that's difficult to prove, so I'm going to estimate that it roughly follows the 80/20 rule. Throughout my day, I will be friendly to most people that I interact with, maybe even pretending that we have a genuine friendship because we see each other often -- or maybe we do have a friendship because we need each other and would lend a hand if needed, I don't know. However, few of those relationships are based on anything like real a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why not issue ultimatums?80% (or more) of relationships are transactional. That's a reality that's a bit much for some people to handle, though, so you can't always come out and tell someone what value they bring -- unless it's flattering to them. It might be flattering to tell someone that you want to have kids with them because they're a great person who will bring more good to the world. It's different to tell them that you need to have kids and are looking for a warm body to do it with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.I don't know if I would blame it for women getting shitty jobs that don't help them. I'd blame poor management in your company and the people who are so low-bar as to want to take those jobs. Feminism doesn't force anyone to be a poor manager or to have terrible judgment. That's on those (probably male) individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.I got curious about the "useless degrees" thing that gets trotted out so much. How many women are actually getting these? My university didn't even offer gender studies. As I thought, it's a fringe minority of students: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/rampage/wp/2017/04/13/what-happened-to-all-those-unemployable-womens-studies-majors/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 05:59 PM |
| 6 | In light of the current state of the dating world, do women still think there is something wrong with a guy if he is over 35 and has never been married/had kids?This would be too situational to easily judge. I've learned to be wary of older divorcees, too. If a guy puts the "best years" of his life into a marriage and then leaves it in his 30s/40s, he's unlikely to do that without some issues. If he wants to date women under 35 and doesn't already have kids, he is probably looking for a baby momma, so stay away from that! I don't want to raise an older guy's kid, especially if he's over 35: https://www.menshealth.com/health/age-and-risks-of-fathering-a-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?Don't confuse radfems (the fringe element that oppose porn and relations with males in general) with mainstream liberals in the 4th (or whatever) wave, who call porn and prostitution "empowering." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?Theoretically, but I still bet that it is still an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?I've noticed a pattern that a significant number of the guys who post here about bad luck with love are guys who aren't white. I'm sorry that society is racist, because I'm willing to bet that's a factor in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?I don't know about "ever" — but doesn't mean that they don't earn less than men and so get a better quality of life by dating a male based on his qualities other than appearance (unless he makes a living off of his looks). I find that intelligence is first on my list of qualities, and appearance (beyond hygiene and good taste) is flexible/low-ranking because I've found a variety of "types" to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?Isn't the traditional wisdom that women date a man for his career and wealth, not appearance, because the female depended upon the male for income? Therefore, male appearance was mostly irrelevant. Dating a male for his appearance or virility would mainly be a phenomenon for independently wealthy women. Think Demi Moore. They're rarer than rich men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Why are feminists so obsessed with 'nice guys' when the men in relationships (and thus committing abuse and whatnot) are anything but?This seems deluded. Feminists are pro-porn, pro-sex work... How is that demonizing male sexuality? It's catering to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (17 February 2018)Perhaps. I was thinking more that it feels bad to be on the other side of knowing that this person isn't picky. I tried dating someone like that, and the chemistry was terrible, because you can tell when someone really isn't that into you (they just want you to fill a role) and that you're nobody special to them. You're lacking a feeling of connection or loyalty which can be important in a LTR. The only people who are fine with a lack of these in their romance are the ones who also want to only … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/18 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenWho actually says “what’s the big deal”? Guys on Twitter, apparently, because I've seen this conversation more than once. Has nothing to do with feminism because many women talking about this are not feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (17 February 2018)I have this theory that, counterintuitively, not being picky can negatively impact romantic success in some cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenThen why do men ask what the big deal about rape is? That's the kind of question that I'm answering. If you've actually reflected on it and know what the issue is, then good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenThis, right here, is a huge misunderstanding. Many men seem to not understand what is the big deal about rape, because they see it as simply bad sex. They don't realize that rape is physically and psychologically traumatic. Someone is being held by force, against their will, pinned down by someone larger, and having objects forced into them, causing tearing, bleeding, and more. Men should think of it like if a much larger person than them crushed them against the ground, pinned them so that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenI think that you understand more of the nuance of the female experience than most men or women on here do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is unattractiveYep, yep, yep. Also true. I had similar run-ins at grad school. Honestly, it seems like a class issue. put effort into hygiene and grooming Takes money and good role models in the home. I knew kids who stank to high heaven because their single parents didn't ever do laundry, and they never learned how, either. Really sad. interests outside of porn and videogames These are two of the lowest-common-denominator interests. Generally, higher class people have ambitions beyond beating a game of beatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Intelligence is unattractivePeak Dunning-Kruger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 07:48 PM |
| -2 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenJust as domesticated animals enjoy the trappings of domestication, so do people who were domesticated by the ruling class. We've ruined ourselves by breeding our own species to serve us, because when an "alpha" mates with his slave who comes from a long lineage of servitude, his offspring are getting both sets of genes. Servile neoteny intensifies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.As I mentioned in another comment, nothing happened although surely hundreds were affected by the issue. I personally asked a civil rights lawfirm about it and they declined to pursue it. I'm thinking that legality of the issues and the supposed litigiousness of our society isn't as real as we're led to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Theory on why violent porn is the most popular category for womenWell said. I find the women that you mention completely alien to me, because I came from an UMC background and functional family. However, I've met those kinds of women in my community. Abused by dad, abused by bf, abused at work, raped at a party, etc. They would be most likely to declare an interest in BDSM and also identify as submissive. It's also theorized that those who like child porn were sexualized as children. Seems like a similar issue. For me, the majority of porn and erotica is actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is unattractiveNeuron density can correlate with intelligence. Which is why I emphasized the lack of study of this in humans. It's possible that bigger brains in humans may have more neurons and that this could be meaningful to intelligence. This hasn't been tested. In other animals, it's found that neuron density varies depending on their order. Cetaceans and elephants have bigger brains than humans, but lower neuron density. A bear and a cat have different brain sizes but similar amounts of neurons, so likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Intelligence is unattractiveIf most people are stupid, then it stands to reason that most of them are only going to find stupid people to mate with. Let's say that they're the 80%. There are exceptions who fantasize about someone who can read a book. Let's say that they're the 20%. They really want someone else within the rest of the 20%, but it's difficult to meet those people due to odds. Odds are that a number of them will just hook up with the 80% for sheer convenience. It sucks to be in the 20%. https://www.nytimes.co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is unattractiveThis could be basic biology — larger body, larger brain. The largest brain doesn't always mean the most neurons, however. I haven't found a study that correlates human height with brain size and with neuron count, so this is currently unstudied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.Yep, men are a big part of their audience that they have to pander to, so that's another way that men are involved in shaping feminism for themselves. It's the most obvious with the rhetoric around porn and sex — this is pure capitalism, and the women on the bottom rungs aren't the ones profiting. I had a good laugh when I saw an article about sex work in the real world that gave some actual numbers about what pimps collect: 80-90%. Empowerment! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.Women and men face the same judgments. Why do those matter so much to what he decides to do? Why doesn't he decide for himself what to do instead of being pulled back and forth by competing judgments from outsiders? Like any adult. Men complain that they don't get unconditional love with no expectations —which they imagine is what women were traditionally getting — but don't seek to fill a woman's role of supporter in a relationship, which is what women were doing to actually earn that "uncondit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.Not running all of it — just the media. It's possible (even likely) that the men who we know are controlling the media are controlling what feminist messages get through, and only allowing ones that they like, e.g. free love, porn is empowering, work hard for less pay, your husband is an idiot so take care of him in return for nothing, and so on. There are fringe movements that mainstream liberals revile and will beat the supporters of on sight. Think of radfems and their fights with transwomen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | The supposed "nice guy" paradox comes from the fact that most men will love any woman provided she's nice.You were the one that seemed to want discussion that was in agreement. I said my piece: men have an emotional need for female validation (whatever the end — if you believe in evopsych rather than evolutionary accidents, then it all goes back to procreation), while women don't have a corresponding emotional need. Hence the mismatch in whether "niceness" (emotional validation) matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 03:47 PM |
| 19 | Women dress provocatively in order to entice alphas, while promoting feminist nonsense about catcalling and slut-shaming to disincentivize betas.TL;DR: I don't think that feminism is for women, because the tradeoffs haven't paid off I dislike feminism because I found that feminists were asking me to give men all of the privileges normally given to males and females sans all the responsibilities. Meanwhile, women had to take on the responsibilities of both while not enjoying the privileges because our male "allies" would complain about how our female privilege and their male responsibility was a raw deal for them, but they did nothing to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 03:39 PM |
| 3 | How to be rough in bed with your guy?Practice some wrestling. Pins and holds. Work on upper body strength. If you put his arms above his head and hold them at the wrist, and hold his legs at the thigh with yours, most people can't get out of that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | The supposed "nice guy" paradox comes from the fact that most men will love any woman provided she's nice.This is what emotions are driving him to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why don't we see amoral talk on RPW?Why not? Some people see everyone as competition. Trolling is also a possibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 03:04 PM |
| 2 | The supposed "nice guy" paradox comes from the fact that most men will love any woman provided she's nice.Interesting premise. Perhaps a relevant point: I've encountered more than one guy who tried to date me because they assumed that I was a nerd that somehow needed their help — a shining Knight kind of fantasy. In fact, one compared me to some Hollywood character that he apparently fantasized about rescuing. When he found out that this was just something that he was projecting on me and that I didn't "need" him (in his own words), because he really had nothing to offer me aside from companionship … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Low n-count is a dating strategy and therefore amoralI consider that a pro. Chad sounds boring. Chad probably has or has had STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why don't we see amoral talk on RPW?I'm relatively new to RPW, but I talk about amoral strategy. This is what brought me to RP, actually. Not sure what else it would be for. In light of RP being amoral, I don't trust every word written by others on those subs, because I assume that at least some come with an agenda. Ex: there was a question on RPW today about what to do about some posts making her feel inferior as a woman. I suggested thinking about whether anyone telling her that may have ulterior motives. I'm not surprised if so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Are women physically and sexually attracted to men based on socioeconomic statusI'm a sapiosexual and elitist, and intelligence and good taste sometimes go with high SES, but not always. If a man was wealthy but a dumb, low-brow slob, then I probably just couldn't tolerate him. I've tried dating guys for their looks or supposed cassanova status before, and quickly became bored with them. It's not enough to sustain a relationship for me or get me turned on. Neither was smart, cultured, or of decent SES. The good-looking celebrities that are lusted after in the media are usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/18 04:08 AM |
| 16 | Why not issue ultimatums?There's nothing wrong with being blunt if it's effective on that individual and will help you achieve your goals. The thing is that many blue-pilled people have no idea what they want, or don't have such clearly outlined goals, and will be put off by someone who does. It'll also shatter their illussion of being special and coming to these sorts of decisions spontaneously. They might feel used to fulfill a goal, which will definitely shatter their fantasy that they're a unique human being born de… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/18 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Little Ways to Show You CareWhat kind of hobbies and interests do you or your boyfriend have? Doing something within those would be more meaningful and personal than acting as an interchangeable maid for his friends. This would be a better way to show that you care. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/18 08:04 PM |
| 5 | I [23] caught my boyfriend [25] masturbating to pictures of women we know and I don’t know how to respond.I fully sympathize with you here and don't want to make light of it, but in your situation, I couldn't help laughing at him. It's just so ridiculous. I'd ask him about why he's doing it and talk through it. Your only other choice is to ignore it, which is fine if it doesn't bother you, but it sounds like it is. Having his honest perspective would help. As others have pointed out, it is unusual in that you know these people, so it's not the same as normal porn. You might just want to find out wha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/18 08:01 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my bf's blue pill sisters don't like me..It sounds like you're using "blue pill" as a synonym for non-traditional. They have different lifestyles than you. Additionally, you can't win over everyone with favors. Some people only respond to a show of strength or scorn (I like to say a Vulcan Hello), and not niceties. They may see nice as weak, especially in your case, as you choose to live differently. Now, if that's not in your nature to do, then don't do it. Ignore them (that can also be a useful strategy). Not all family are an asset … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How do I not hate myself for being female?Why on Earth do you think any of that? I'm red-pilled and see none of what you're talking about. The red pill is just strategizing to do what's most advantageous to you by looking at how women and men really work instead of the fairy tales that they believe and polite lies that they say. No one can make you lesser than others unless you let them. No matter what you do, someone — maybe a lot of people out there — are going to think that you're worse than them. You can be the most brilliant woman … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/18 02:35 PM |
| 7 | Predictors for infidelity and divorceThat is really interesting! Speaking anecdotally about dating around as a woman (I didn't sleep with guys, but dated a few), I got very tired of them and ready to work on developing a strong relationship with one pretty quickly. I was in the situation of having a high school sweetheart that I stuck with, but questioning if he was right for me because I hadn't dated enough, and he had also dated more people. So I dated more, and yep, found that I wasn't missing much there! Building a stable partn… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | How to stop being so egocentric?First of all, realize that you may be fighting human nature, here. Think about why humans have egos and why you have an ego. However, this is not to say that having a big ego is conducive to how you want to live. Not everyone wants to be an insufferable genius. This is also fine. Adjust your lifestyle to your goals. If you want a big ego, then be excellent to rise to meet it. The simplest answer is to be logical and practical. Apply logic to social situations to acquire your goals. Be Machiavell… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/18 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Why would a high-quality man marry?TL;DR: some men want to legally/ideologically lock down a partner and be able to expect her to provide certain services; he wants to care for a family better from a legal standpoint, or take certain legal advantages; he wants to feel generous (or just show off as better than the poors) in a role as a provider Answering this based on my experience as a non-religious, pragmatic woman, in a LTR with a man that I considered high-quality due to his IQ and talent being high despite his upbringing: The… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/18 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill FitnessWorking out has been great for my mental health and productivity. I push myself to walk to places and walk FAST, and I do strength training, too. At least once a week, I walk to the library, then walk to the park or gym and read there. Also great for removing distractions, as I get away from home, work, and the PC for a while. I look for new places to go to to keep it from getting boring, like heading to a different park or book shop than usual. Reading while doing cardio at the gym also keeps i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 04:57 PM |
| 3 | I found out on Valentine's Day my BF cheated on me a while backSounds like you know how you feel, then. Take care of yourself and be strong. ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 04:44 PM |
| 4 | I found out on Valentine's Day my BF cheated on me a while backIsn't this the idea of the red pill, to look at sex and relationships amorally, and not as emotional soap operas? So why make a moral judgement about she did/he did kinda stuff? People are gonna do what they can do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I found out on Valentine's Day my BF cheated on me a while backNo one can answer if the relationship is worth it except for you. Is he irreplaceable to you? Is your history together more good than bad? If he hurt you too much during your time together, and you could see yourself finding another man who makes you just as happy, then you have your answer. If he's someone special to you, no other man has made you as happy (assuming you've dated a few for comparison) and your shared life means a lot to you, then there's your answer. Speaking as someone older an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 02:28 PM |
| 4 | I think I need to fix my issues before entering any relationship. What do I say to my suitors?If you have time management issues, look into strategies for dealing with ADD. I don't recommend prescription drugs for it (they're similar to meth and affect your bone health and teeth), but finding out what the issue is and where it comes from can help you to look for and avoid it! Sadly, internet use is one of the biggest issues for those with ADD (and others who are prone to distraction/addiction), particularly social media (which I avoid other than a few minutes on Reddit) because it's desi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Valentines Day DinnerLots of hearts — mine cut and grilled a heart-shaped ribeye. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend wants me to start transitioning to stay at home- I'm apprehensive.That's great news. The US is expensive and has no safety nets, so be careful and good luck. It's a very Darwinist country — get sick, and it might mean being out of work and home for good. Only the really strong and lucky or those from money do well. Keep a way to go back available if you can. I'm sure you've heard of the situations of Americans forging Canadian ID. One of my best friends from the US found work in Ottawa and wouldn't leave it for anything. Another American friend married a Canad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend wants me to start transitioning to stay at home- I'm apprehensive.If he has flexibility in where he works and can make decent bucks anywhere, then why did you move to be with him? Generally, the man leaves his family and home to go to his wife. It even says this in the book of Genesis (I'm not religious, but these traditions don't come from nowhere — Socrates also says don't throw them away if they're not broke). That's because relocating is easier on him, and finding a job is easier for him unless you're a genius in your field. Moving for a man isn't a good i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | 20, Transgender and Red pill? Is it possible? (Serious question)Yes, I knew a transwoman who is a RPW and into BDSM too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/18 08:13 PM |
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