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Invite every first date home. Don't try to give interest or other dead ends. Just by doing this you will automatically get better results.
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:11 PM
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These are facts. Both men and women get unrealistic expectations for who they can date.
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:24 PM
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Just try again. Maybe have a better build up to sex so that the girl is more turned on. Try massage.
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I like pubs over clubs too. This works
/r/seduction22/02/25 12:40 PM
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Agree. I don't think any of the 'recipes' are inflexible though. People have to adapt things as they learn. Any advice should be taken with a grain of salt, and an open mind.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:56 PM
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Based on your experience or perception?
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:38 PM
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Glad it helped.
/r/seduction27/12/16 10:52 PM
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That happens too but it's not a given.
/r/MensRights01/12/16 07:57 PM
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Because I was with them when they either would or wouldn't. The loyal women wouldn't come home at all, some tempted fate but in the end didn't do anything, and others just went with it. Most girls who wont cheat will emphasize the fact that they have boyfriends, too.
/r/MensRights01/12/16 06:41 AM
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It's a crazy world. One reason I'd never donate sperm.
/r/MensRights30/11/16 11:28 PM
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I've met a lot of women who would not cheat while traveling. Think your 2 weeks rule is inaccurate. Met plenty who would, too, but people should be judged individually.
/r/MensRights30/11/16 11:25 PM
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Finally! Good news.
/r/MensRights30/11/16 11:23 PM
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This judge is an idiot.
/r/MensRights30/11/16 11:23 PM
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Crazy woman.
/r/MensRights27/11/16 09:34 PM
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Typical
/r/MensRights25/11/16 06:37 AM
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Yeah, just conning some suckers. "Buy me stuff!"
/r/MensRights04/11/16 12:46 AM
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Obviously he has no argument, just making assertions. Facing fears and learning to handle rejection is crucial. People who avoid rejection avoid learning and will be soft, too. When I started approaching women the "shock" from being rejected was pretty intense. Felt very embarrassing but after a while I became desensitized.
/r/seduction26/10/16 09:17 PM
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Np. Hope you have some sweet success.
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:16 PM
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Good for Marx but it still stands. The same people who are attacking men for their gender also think that differences between the genders are exaggerated. Logic is not their strong point.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 02:01 PM
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Disagree. This shit is part of the whole social Marxism phenomenon going on. It's not the opposite of what social Marxist want because they love to have an "oppressor" to point at. At the same time they're attacking the differences between different people. Ignorant? Look in the mirror.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 01:33 AM
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WTF this shit is seriously out of hand. Can't let commies run the show.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 12:30 AM
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It sounds like you're doing the right stuff already. Some girls just wont reciprocate, but as long as she's still standing there keep going. You may even want to challenge her, asking if she's this dull with everyone (with a smile on your face). OR just stand there and stare. Seriously. Keep your eyes on hers and most likely you'll start smiling or laughing because it's going to be awkward but funny. That could force her to make some kind of response. Also, I wouldn't worry too much (on approach…
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:04 PM
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Why would you bring it up? If you want to eat hers, just do it. If you want her to eat yours, see if she'll go for it. Will explain more if that's what you're aiming at. Otherwise for her, just do it.
/r/seduction13/10/16 07:09 PM
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Good points. He's also wasting tons of time texting instead of doing real shit. It's not very efficient and it's misleading to the girls.
/r/seduction09/10/16 03:18 PM
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lol just take #4 and repeat it four times
/r/seduction05/10/16 04:12 AM
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Surveying women would be the worst way to find out because women don't even know what they like.
/r/seduction05/10/16 03:06 AM
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Yeah, guys overthink it. Too much screwing around will just end up turning girls off.
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:10 PM
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Good.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:04 AM
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Seemed fishy from the beginning.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:04 AM
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Justice.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:03 AM
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lol so equal
/r/MensRights23/09/16 02:57 AM
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Wow, sanity.
/r/MensRights23/09/16 02:57 AM
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Men for the #win
/r/MensRights21/09/16 07:41 PM
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Work on yourself more. Get fit, challenge yourself socially by doing things that are uncomfortable, and go on more dates with women. Also, what "kino" are you doing exactly? If you're doing it wrong and not reading these women well then you could be pushing them away. Eye contact is much more important and so is the use of your voice. Keep your eyes on hers, speak slowly and use the lower notes of your voice. Keep the conversations focused on the girl and keep her talking at least 60% of the tim…
/r/seduction19/09/16 02:23 PM
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"there are plenty of examples of men assaulting or killing women simply for saying no" name one. If that's your standard then you're living in fear needlessly. You may as well not go out, stop dating, and avoid contact with anyone ever again because there are people in the world who might kill you. It's not harassment for guys to try and meet girls.
/r/MensRights22/06/16 05:45 AM
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Attractive women put on makeup, wear revealing or stylish clothes that accentuate their shape, and do up their hair to get more attention. Most men don't go violent when rejected. One of the points I made with celebrities is that they also want the attention, but just like anyone else, they don't like the negative attention too. There just isn't any way around it though. Same for attractive women. They can show themselves off and get the attention they want, but there is no way to ward off the n…
/r/MensRights21/06/16 05:47 PM
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Yeah, nobility is a great comparison.
/r/MensRights20/06/16 10:11 PM
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Definitely different sets of rules.
/r/MensRights20/06/16 10:11 PM
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That's interesting. I like that term, "genetic celebrity". Still haven't read any of Warrens books.
/r/MensRights20/06/16 10:10 PM
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Give her a massage, then go for a kiss. Good way to build up and turn her on.
/r/seduction18/04/16 03:40 PM
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Doesn't matter too much, just move on and find another girl. Being super self-conscious about fucking up with girls will make you act weird, and basically, fuck up. Seems like you did well. I wouldn't be too stoked if I was her boyfriend though.
/r/seduction17/04/16 03:04 PM
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Good video. I need to get a drone to do some of that sweet ariel footage.
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:55 PM
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Awesome. Be direct. Tell her why you're approaching. Could just be, "I thought you look nice so I wanted to meet you." Exact wording won't matter so much right now, just talk to someone and you'll start to figure it out. Women will give you instant feedback.
/r/seduction16/04/16 04:47 PM
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Usually, yes. But you don't need every conversation to turn into a friendship. The point is to get good at conversing, and among the conversations you have some will go farther. You'll also feel happier just for reaching out to strangers. This has been shown in at east one study that I saw. As you talk to more and more people you'll figure out how to "close" by getting the person you're talking to take some sort of action. Usually, that will mean a phone number, and sometimes it could be hanging…
/r/seduction16/04/16 04:45 PM
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What do you like? If you like something, do that. Try new things too. Lots of options. Anything that involves people, AND talk to people on the street, cafes, grocery stores, everywhere.
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:38 PM
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Good that you've started your journey. If you want to become interesting then read a lot more and get familiar with different topics. Be polarizing too. If you try to please everyone you'll come off as generic, so state your true opinions. Also, go live in another country and learn a new language. You'll add spice to your personality nd opinions soon enough. It's all about experience.
/r/seduction15/04/16 10:36 PM
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I was in that position before. All of my friends were super negative, and so was I but I wanted to change. Dropped all of the dead weight and then was friendless for a good while. Hitting the gym is great, but keep looking for more ways to challenge yourself. Immerse your mind in personal development content, and make sure you take action on what you learn. There's probably a reason that you don't have friends beyond just going out to meet people, so figure it out, and work on yourself so that y…
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:03 PM
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Think it's pretty mainstream already...sort of. In a negative way though.
/r/seduction08/03/16 09:59 PM
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Don't need to look like David Beckham, I certainly don't. For online dating there is a methodology too, and messaging too much is no good. Has to be done the right way to work.
/r/seduction08/05/15 06:08 PM
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Nope, used to be my mainstay. Can do it with online dating too having never even met the girl.
/r/seduction07/05/15 11:28 PM
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Critiques are a good thing, for sure, so no disagreement there. Appreciate the feedback.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:35 AM
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I agree however that the title could be different, it wasn't my intention to be misleading. Guys with this problem don't really need a dating tip though, they need a push to do something different.
/r/seduction27/04/15 12:04 AM
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It's not about being pathetic for liking a girl, it's about being stuck with an infatuation and not doing anything because of singular focus. "People already know" but in reality they don't, they keep doing the same things. It's obvious to you, and to a lot of guys, but plenty of guys are stuck in this conundrum. A lot of seemingly obvious things are not obvious for a lot of inexperienced dudes. If you already have it handled why are you watching peoples vids?
/r/seduction27/04/15 12:01 AM
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Just means she's listening to music, not a big deal. If you're a cool guy then she's going to be a lot happier that you approached instead of just listening to the same music she's listened to everyday.
/r/seduction22/04/15 09:07 PM
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Obviously, except for all of the guys who don't know. As a coach I come across this question ALL OF THE TIME.
/r/seduction22/04/15 07:02 PM
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For newbies only.
/r/seduction22/04/15 05:24 PM
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You might be acting too needy and calling it "passionate & romantic". If these are women you've just met there is no reason to be super romantic, just be chill and casual. Too much too soon will scare women away. 2 why would you have to treat them like crap? There seems to be a disconnect somewhere on that one.
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:25 PM
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Everyone commenting has already made good suggestions, but I would add: Say good morning to everyone you pass by, every morning. I did this before I was able to cold approach to build myself up. Start real conversations with anyone you interact with at a store, including the clerks. Make a comment on their mood, something they're wearing or even the weather if you're stumped. Become observant and you will never run out of conversation pieces. If you go to cafes then start conversations with wome…
/r/seduction01/04/15 09:16 PM
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I agree with Yoyoz69 on all of these points, except you don't even need to wait 5 minutes to create a connection/impact. It's about how powerful (the impression you make) you are during whatever time you're talking to her. I've had many interactions work out in under a minute, and I prefer it that way unless I'm taking her on a date right away. Cutting it short puts the control in your hands, avoids wasting time, and will leave her wanting to know more (if done correctly). 3 yeah, never give her…
/r/seduction01/04/15 08:37 PM
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Yeah, true enough. It really is simple though, but can be tough if you don't believe in your self.
/r/seduction01/04/14 04:32 AM
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Yes, anywhere, but the Vancity Buzz is a Vancouver publication and there are tons of bitter people here lol
/r/seduction01/04/14 04:31 AM
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Tony knows what he's talking about. As he mentioned, he's not a big player, but planning a date so that it's a good date - whether that means sex or skipping and holding hands, is crucial if you're going to get what you want out of it. Don't waste your time and go haphazard and at the end of the night be disappointed because "Nothing happened." You make it happen or nothing. Follow a path or be a leaf in the wind.
/r/seduction27/01/14 10:25 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it, was a good experience meeting him.
/r/seduction15/09/13 11:21 PM
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