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wtf how is he a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:40 PM
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It's also easier for heterosexual women to catch an STI or UTI than heterosexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 11:03 PM
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amazing. never change gloomette
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:59 PM
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Gosh yeah it does seem like managing diabetes especially type 1 is a constant thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:56 PM
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Waitt type 1/autoimmune type or type 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:51 PM
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high schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:48 PM
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oh no! did your blood sugar drop after taking insulin or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:18 PM
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Honestly... does it matter what's said here? Obviously there are plenty of average people out in the real world in healthy relationships where they both treat each other great
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:56 PM
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https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14681994.2012.678825 Admittedly smallish sample size but this study has the advantage of being dyadic -- both members of a given couple are surveyed. "Men and women were equally likely to be the member of the couple with lower sexual desire relative to their partner."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:37 PM
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Interestingly, on r/DeadBedrooms the ratio of high libido male users to high libido female users essentially matches the ratio of male:female reddit users overall. I guess at least for reddit users in relationships, men and women are equally likely to be the one who wants more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:24 PM
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No, lol. Men love bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:55 PM
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"Couples married in the late 1960s and 1970s were 70% more likely to divorce when wives earned the same or slightly more than their husbands compared with couples where the husband earned more... For couples married in the 1990s, however, the divorce rate for those with female breadwinners had fallen to 4% higher than male breadwinners." https://cde.wisc.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/839/2023/05/More-Wives-Now-Outearn-Their-Husbands.-They-Also-Stay-Together-Longer.-WSJ.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 06:47 PM
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"it only counts as rape if it's violent" kys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:36 AM
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Am I insane or is someone that voluntarily abstains from sex (both penetrative and oral) past like ~22 not basically guaranteed to have a lower libido and/or not value sex that much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:50 PM
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*bangs head against wall repeatedly*
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:47 PM
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Were the nudes also a mouthful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:46 PM
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Have the youth lost the art of no contact
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:21 PM
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through actions lots of women come off as promiscuous online wat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:06 PM
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somehow this may be the most "I get zero women" comment you have ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:03 PM
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But what I was saying that someone who wanted to have sex with as many people as possible will be able to do that more easily than ever before. I understand that's your point, and I disagree. For a woman that wanted casual sex in the past, she likely just went out with her friends to the bar or club and found a guy there. Casual sex used to be heavily driven by socialization, alcohol, drugs. Those things have dropped off a lot. Pre-AIDS epidemic, we weren't really aware of the sheer health impac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:35 PM
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However, more women than ever before have had 30+ partners I don't agree that this is true. People used to be so much more social. And a big thing is that alcohol usage amongst young people has just plummeted, which leads to a significant drop in casual sex. Between 2004 and 2014, the number of bars in America decreased by 17%. From 2005 to 2015 the number of nightclubs in Britain decreased by 45%, and I have to imagine that America saw something similar. AFAIK covid only made these trends worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:22 PM
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I would simply have not left and told him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:53 PM
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Situationship is just the gen z word for "it's complicated" (which was a facebook relationship status option!). Casual sex has also declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:51 PM
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...are they? I saw that one tiktok of the woman saying she has had 300 partners but that's the only thing that comes to mind. Usually it's men online that go on and on about women who have tons and tons of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:40 PM
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If you polled PPD men what's the chance that many would honest to god think that young women today are on average having more sex than young women a few decades ago
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:31 PM
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Hm yeah 7 average seems fair and definitely it's like some experience with casual sex in between LTRs. The whole "women ride the cock carousel till their 30s then settle" thing is so laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:27 PM
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I think that's bullshit honestly, we way overestimate how much sex young people are having but casual sex and casual dating are way more common than that article makes it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:10 PM
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So am I... Benni is a fit 6 ft white male...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:07 PM
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I think a 6 ft fit white man could get laid decently easily in southeast asia without paying a fee tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:58 PM
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agree like why not just go to a country where being white and tall has even more currency... or honestly a sugar baby works too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:52 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:49 PM
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I believe I'm a catch on paper and a nightmare in person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:30 PM
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he's a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:29 PM
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It's worse because that's the first message *after* the first date...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:28 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:28 PM
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It wasn't a follow up, I told him to send a text after the date because they hadn't communicated at all afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:27 PM
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wtf is your advice for a guy after he goes on a first date then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:27 PM
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oh true I didn't even think of this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:26 PM
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Black market birth control, wealthy going to other countries to get long acting forms of birth control, huge increase in abortions, emigration
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:25 PM
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Is there a trend in America to have children outside of marriages? Yes, and I am talking about divorce. American temporarily embarrassed millionaire syndrome is a disease
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:12 PM
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choppy choppy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:08 PM
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What did you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:07 PM
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I can name a hundred things women fear that have a low likelihood of happening. I'm not saying it's a low likelihood for any given person. I'm saying that for the majority of Americans it's impossible. particularly the problems I see is that you can be held accountable for a child you didn't want to have in the first place or that the woman can be encouraged to fight for a kid she doesn't want in order to get alimony from a particularly wealthy man These aren't divorce related...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:07 PM
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umc strivers yuhhh marriage as business model ya
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:59 PM
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In the past people who did not want to be married did so because of societal pressure. Same with having children
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:56 PM
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The vast majority of Americans are not "getting their daughter married"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:55 PM
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Doesn't this just mean that nowadays the people getting married are more likely to genuinely want to be married and are therefore less likely to get divorced Also, marriage comes with social status. Especially amongst higher socioeconomic classes and the highly educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:53 PM
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But you understand that you just described an extremely specific scenario, right? That the vast majority of Americans never see a significant growth in their earnings like that? That most Americans really do not have any significant assets by 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:51 PM
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Overdramatic opinion for most
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:49 PM
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I feel like 6 months afterwards is acceptable especially if the spouse did not die in a sudden, unexpected way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:46 PM
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Then date and marry within your socioeconomic class, with a woman who has no interest in being a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:44 PM
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What percent of single people under 35 have assets even worth talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:42 PM
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Yeah idk most people don't have any significant assets til like 30-35+
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:40 PM
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In the US 52% of wives with at least a bachelor's degree make at least 40% of the couple's combined income. 43% of wives who make $100k+ make at least 60% of the couple's combined income.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:37 PM
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Historically that's been true in terms of child custody. That is changing as states increasingly make joint custody or 50/50 custody the assumed split. Of course the situation is not perfect and it varies significantly by state. I don't see how splitting the marital assets in half = favoring women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:35 PM
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Yeah and people usually marry within their socioeconomic class and to people with similar education levels. And as a woman's education and income increases, she is more likely to be in a more financially equitable relationship. 52% of wives with at least a bachelor's degree make at least 40% of the couple's combined income. 43% of wives who make $100k+ make at least 60% of the couple's combined income. Plus, for more educated couples this whole thing is less relevant. Women with a bachelor's deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:32 PM
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My parent's culture has a huge taboo on divorce and I grew up thinking that one of the worst possible things life was divorce. And I kept hearing that 50% of American marriages end in divorce. Imagine my surprise when I learned that divorce rates have been trending down for decades. And that women with a bachelor's degree have a 78% chance of their marriage lasting at least 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:26 PM
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I think it's very interesting that the rhetoric around divorce is that men lose half of "their" stuff (as in marital assets get split down the middle), even though less than a quarter of marriages have a male sole breadwinner and 45% of marriages have the wife making at least 40% of the couple's combined income. Not getting to spend time with your kids, not getting 50/50 custody totally sucks. But splitting the marital assets in half just makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:11 PM
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I'm not sure about phobias. For neuroticism tho I definitely disagree that it's significantly more common in either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:07 PM
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Phobias of all kind: for spiders, lizards, cockroaches, which are just stupid but can be ignored. Then there are women phobic of PUBLIC TRANSPORT or making a fucking phone call. Neuroticism: women afraid of saying no, of standing their ground, of asking questions, of asking direction, who feel ugly, fat, useless, and who let that affect their decision making, who really can't survive on their own, and who expect men to cater around it. The fact that you think these things are gendered is hilario…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:11 PM
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I would try for a bit then bail if nothing changes. In my experience if the chemistry isn't there, that's my subconscious picking up on issues / our lack of compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:01 PM
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Do you live under a rock away from any people who have sex? And if what you’re saying is true then why have I had sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:52 AM
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So you are trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:41 AM
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Are you not indian and a surgeon or smth Why can’t you just looksmaxx a bit and get an arranged marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:41 AM
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And yet women who have sex with women are highly likely to orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:39 AM
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Nope the clit is decently sized with both internal and external parts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:38 AM
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Oh fuck off they’re not characterizing “wanting a family” as that and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:31 AM
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The clit is not an accident. The clit and the glans of the penis (the tip) are embryological equivalents. They are literally derived from the same structure during fetal development. The clit is also large, with both external and internal parts, and the internal part can be stimulated from internal vaginal pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:30 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:20 AM
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It’s involved in sex as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:19 AM
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I grew up in middle America, not super religious but not atheist. I would say I grew up with the idea that masturbation was generally a male thing. Desiring sex, enjoying sex, all that was for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:17 AM
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They don’t exist obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:12 AM
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Your last paragraph… what 😀😀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:07 AM
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It’s kinda funny that you linked TwoX and the top post right now is a woman talking about losing her virginity last night and how amazing it was and how great her boyfriend is Also, your paragraph about the clit… thank you for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:58 AM
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explain band kid phenomenon then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:43 AM
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despite what (some) men here like to claim, the vast majority of women marry within their own socioeconomic class. so a woman in poverty would marry a man with basically nothing. afaik people in poverty also have lower marriage rates and higher divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:22 AM
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serious mental health problems and/or addictions reading helps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:05 AM
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can't the same be said of an inkwell who hasn't semi-dumpster dived
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:04 AM
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oh my god you solved addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:03 AM
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Wut then why not just travel to different countries and see where you’d have higher SMV as a tall white guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:03 AM
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Okay, I guess as long as you’re getting regular periods and not having hair loss/thinning. And no headaches or brain fog
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:50 PM
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Are you the one who was talking about wanting to get a summer body + do treadmill…? You’re like 2 pounds from clinically underweight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:46 PM
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Damn, STEM school with more men than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 PM
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Damn. That sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:39 PM
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I mean ofc the vibe wasn’t sexual it was a first date… and many people won’t go for a third drink on a first date, that’s a little hookup-y. Also personally I do not generally talk about “do we want to do this again” in person during the first date. And many women will not message first after a date — they view that as the man’s task. She didn’t unmatch you, right? So at least it didn’t go badly. I think you should send a short message. Just a I had a nice time, we should do it again, maybe __ (…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:38 PM
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Oh. Relatively social school ? College is like the single easiest environment to not rely on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:30 PM
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What do you think the complex is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:27 PM
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An hour or 2? That sounds good for a first date. Were you both able to chat somewhat freely, joke a bit, or did it feel pretty awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:27 PM
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Hmm and I’m assuming you got basically zero likes? I feel like the rub is that apps basically don’t work for guys below 5 8, but it’s so hard to build social circles post college Also I just realized that I made a comment to you a few days ago about social status that was entirely college centric. Totally forgot you already graduated. Whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:15 PM
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How was your date sir
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:10 PM
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If we’re defining chad as 8+ I doubt it… Btw unrelated are you in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:08 PM
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I def believe that being both below 5 8 and black makes it very rough. I’m guessing even putting 5 7 wouldn’t actually help. Did you basically send likes and never/almost never match?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:07 PM
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Then why do some guys here get dates through apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:04 PM
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Everyone? Also did they not have eyes/any observation skills in like middle school? Or even elementary tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:03 PM
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Hinge racial filters are a godsend tbh especially for women who aren’t as in to white men. Tinder just feels like an endless exercise in swiping on white men. Also people keep saying this about Hinge but you can’t filter for height with a free Hinge account. I don’t think it’s common for women to pay. And tbh at least in my age range easily more than half of guys are listing their height on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:02 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/uIRbhiQ5eA Various people talking about Hinge vs Tinder results. Some say neither worked, some say Hinge is better. I do think for people in my age range you have to be near a city for Hinge tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:00 PM
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Obviously there are shitty and/or very selective women on every app like be fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 PM
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Wasn’t Dahmer gay…?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:51 PM
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Some men need a whole ideology to teach them that looks matter, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:47 PM
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Underweight is definitely a thing with negative health impact … but it’s a lower weight than most Americans would imagine IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:27 PM
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At dive bars I feel like it’s more effective to just talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:26 PM
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Heck yeah second round’s better anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:33 PM
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One big thing is how often you want sex. And that can’t be found out until you have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:57 PM
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I was using 2 methods and still couldn’t control the panic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 05:55 PM
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The stress over possible pregnancy was nearly paralyzing for at least a year after I started having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:39 AM
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Wut? There are so many other reasons dead bedrooms can happen. Still important to establish the compatibility at the get go. It just doesn’t guarantee continued passionate and frequent sex til death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:37 AM
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It’s partially a symptom of other issues in the relationship that have strained intimacy, and it’s partially health/mental health related. One of the guys struggles with depression and it lowers his sex drive. He and his gf have both gained weight and I feel like it makes them less willing to be naked/have sex. Another friend of mine (not one of the 3 I initially mentioned) was in a close to dead bedroom for some time because of her bf’s depression (not a medication, but the depression itself) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 09:16 AM
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Look up the kama sutra
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 08:54 AM
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You realize that condoms were a thing far before the pill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:40 AM
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Nope not what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:05 AM
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Your last sentence is one of the single biggest issues I have with Red Pill rhetoric because it is so far from reality. Most dead bedrooms are couples that began with a good, passionate sex life. Then other issues got in the way. All 3 of my 24 y/o best friends are in dead bedroom LTRs. Their sex lives were initially passionate, frequent, and experimental (women tell their friends a lottt about their sex life). The reality is that pretty few women are getting into LTRs that begin with duty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:04 AM
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I believe that the obsession with anal sex amongst straight people in the last several years is almost entirely porn based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:01 AM
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Fuck I hope she resurrects Smh what was she even banned for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:58 PM
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Men will never know the joy of wearing little, going to the club, screaming and jumping along to Kanye, and getting late night food. That is female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:57 PM
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Nooo we need J__
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:54 PM
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Why d8 instead of d9?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:44 PM
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It seems like American white women are tough on white men below 5 8/5 9. Probably have to go for women of color but if you’re in rural America that’s tough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:41 PM
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If you’re white, I wish you luck. If you’re Asian and in a reasonably diverse area you got this dating wise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:36 PM
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Huh you’re older than I would’ve guessed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:34 PM
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5 7?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:33 PM
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Tiktok algorithm finally picked up on the mommy issues I’m finished
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:32 PM
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We’re like 5 days without __. Oppression fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:21 PM
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And nerdy men want attractive women who are not nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:10 PM
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Lobotomies have been a meme for like a year at least keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:23 PM
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I believe that many nerdy women want nerdy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:15 PM
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Really? Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:14 PM
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False.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:58 PM
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…ew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:56 PM
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Ok. But you’ll still be low n count w a high n count woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:44 PM
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I wish you a very high n count gf who lies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:33 PM
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White was def one of thwm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:27 PM
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I think you can rule out a person within 1 second but not rule out them in
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:25 PM
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Well clearly you don’t deserve better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 08:26 PM
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Then go for an overweight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:45 PM
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Lord and a half. No one is unconditionally loved, loved just for who they are. That’s life. Romantic love is inherently conditional and transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:39 PM
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That it’s over unless you’re genetically gifted with top 10 percentile height and whatever amount of bone in your jaw ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:30 PM
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Wtf then why are you blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:23 PM
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So how into hamilton were you in hs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:02 PM
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That is a complete misunderstanding of the madonna whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:53 PM
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What about sexual stuff other than PIV? Aren’t you jumping the gun a bit, especially if you’re young? Like there’s so so many ways a woman can show her desire for you before you work your way up to sex or after you’ve started having it. Like why just assume a woman will never be enthusiastic about getting with you? At least at my age there is no epidemic of women having duty sex with their boyfriend or just laying there and tolerating the proceedings while he does whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:15 PM
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Have you had sex with a woman before…? Did you feel like she wasn’t that into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:48 PM
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Are you trying to tell me that you think most women do not enjoy sex with their boyfriend before they’re in love? 😀😀😀
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:47 PM
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What about early on before they’re in love… yknow, the phase of the relationship where people tend to have the most sex……
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:38 PM
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I feel like this isn’t what he’s saying tho, he said visceral desire specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:36 PM
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I actually can’t tell if you’re being serious or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:34 PM
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They’re just c0ping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:21 PM
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What does this even mean bruh you think you’re never going to get enthusiastic sex from a woman who’s really into it and you? You think a woman you’re dating will never jump you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:20 PM
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If you show up to a date drunk or even pretty tipsy that is not going to be a positive first impression at all……..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:42 PM
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It’s just not worth talking about SA and rape with the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:03 PM
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No true scotsman vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:52 AM
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And men are more likely than women to leave if their spouse gets cancer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:42 AM
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… pure… and … innocent ? 😀😀 backs away slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:36 AM
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This is why there’s a sound on tiktok that’s like “if literally everything men do gives you the ick, you are a lesbian” except it’s a song and it’s vibey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:14 PM
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Then maybe you should find the woman in this post and get her bf to break up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:12 PM
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I’m not sure. This does remind me of Diane from Bojack Horseman tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:11 PM
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If you care about fat women then why don’t you date one and personally support her through weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:08 PM
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Actually, I forgot to include a part of what he said. He said people that didn’t go through adversity at a young age, and were given unconditional support and love by their parents. I’m not sure. All I know if that basically everyone gets slapped in the face by life at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:07 PM
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My friend and I discussed this a few years ago. He was saying that people who don’t go through some form of adversity at a pretty young age (which often looks like a difficult home life), they end up getting a very rude awakening later in life. Often through the first form of adversity they face - dating. Heartbreak, rejection, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:03 PM
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Chaddd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:57 PM
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This is the reality that most people should inherently understand by their teen years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:55 PM
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The impact of gaining muscle would be pretty minimal on abdominal loose skin, especially the amount that many women have after multiple pregnancies + losing the weight. Somewhat effective for like legs but not really there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:54 PM
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Are you jealous that she’s cuffed and you’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:52 PM
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I don’t understand why many here are so obsessed with unconditional love and relationships. It only exists from a parent to their child, and even that is pretty finicky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:50 PM
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Really? Like a college library or a public one? Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:42 PM
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Dog park if he has a cute dog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:42 PM
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Why did she single out copper IUD specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:41 PM
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I wouldn’t even know what he did, I would be screaming too loudly and running in the opposite direction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:40 PM
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This guy fs woulve been cuffed at my hs, assuming he’s 5 8+. So many nerds and theater kids, good times
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:19 PM
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I mean the mental health professionals suspect it but I won’t pursue a formal diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:55 PM
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I thought lanky meant thin men esp tall ones
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:53 PM
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Yeahh I dunno I have to imagine that getting to normal BMI is the single most effective non-surgical glowup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:53 PM
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Oh bs. A 6’3” skinny ish man with lean muscle would absolutely be viewed as lanky in a positive way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:39 PM
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I dunno he’s just got to find the theatre girlies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:35 PM
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Do you think you would benefit from losing weight? Just bc like the lanky look is pretty well liked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:19 PM
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Can I say something kinda mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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Do you get full from 1 egg 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:17 PM
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Wut? That guy is literally cute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:16 PM
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A paid internship the summer before she starts college is unnecessary. Shadowing can also be done over smaller breaks where a paid internship isn’t possible. I disagree that shadowing is boring. For fields that I like, shadowing made me feel so alive. For stuff I didn’t like, I didn’t like shadowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:14 PM
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No. Too bulky. Some lean muscle is good but this is way too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:00 PM
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Tummy tuck results can actually look pretty decent especially for someone who has a lot of loose skin from multiple pregnancies and losing the weight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:59 PM
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ONS for the sake of upping notch count is cringey but I don’t thinking having like 2 FWBs and the occasional ONS is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:57 PM
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Would def recommend shadowing a dentist for a week. Would recommend several hours for at least 3 days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:55 PM
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10% of divorces have alimony involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 06:42 PM
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Starbucks is a terrible date. Plenty of other good $20 date ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:20 PM
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I'm a young woman who finds the idea of going for a man more than 5 years older than me disgusting. Even 4-5 years older is pushing it unless the guy looks younger. The vast majority of my friends prefer men our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:34 AM
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How? Is someone tying you down and forcing you to listen? Or are you actively seeking out this content on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 11:27 AM
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What are we defining as decent here? Average income of 60k cannot support a home in the suburbs with the current loan interest rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:35 AM
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So true trad women don’t care at all about how much money their sole provider makes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:31 AM
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Ah yes, the two types of women. Virgins and OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:26 AM
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I mean, I think wanting a house to raise children in is a reasonable trad expectation. And that takes more than just 1 “decent” salary nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:10 AM
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I should’ve included the /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:08 AM
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Traditional women care less about income? Are fine with a man who has a decent enough job? Be so fr. A decent job would not at all cut it for being a sole provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:05 AM
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earn significantly more than their female counterparts, are over 6ft, are handsome, drive a nice car and don't live at home If you think these are the basic requirements that young women have then that's a you issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:45 PM
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wym height and fitness preference was literally created by social media and Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:39 PM
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Can you point to where exactly in history it was working perfectly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:38 PM
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personality...?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:46 PM
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Subs like that make me so depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:44 PM
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What’s the chance they’re ever going to hit 6 figures anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:49 PM
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Uh huh. And how do you know it’s true? Some podcaster said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:48 PM
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fucking a new guy every other week like most young women Lol. Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:41 PM
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I’m pretty strict about body type for men, somewhat skinny with zero bulk (lean muscle is a plus) 95% of the time I can’t deal with much facial hair at all 5’9” is ideal but I can deviate a bit above and below 4 inches is too small For women - can’t be shorter than me or more than a few inches taller. Can’t be too skinny. A/B cup is a no go
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:55 PM
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$90 each date This man has never been on a date in his life clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:40 PM
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But what age group does that mean??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:38 PM
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How dare you insult AO3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:26 PM
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You into fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:40 PM
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Are you fucking w me keeby
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:31 PM
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I feel like not forgetting an LTR is unlikely because they’re usually buffered by alcohol (+maybe other substances). I honestly can’t give much in the way of specific details about any of my sexual activity before like the past 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:29 PM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:17 PM
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Am I having a stroke or does orange not correlate with any of the age groups
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:12 PM
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1) Serial monogamists are modern day locusts sent by god to punish us 2) This is why I don’t understand centering the concept of alpha widowing around n count / hookups, it’s clear to me that alpha widowing would happen moreso with relationships than ONS or FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:29 PM
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Months/years later? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:15 PM
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Maybe you just mean men who are on campus to party, not literal “gangbangers”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:17 PM
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You said “to them you are just a flavor of the week on rotation”, implying that women are restricting themselves to having sex with just that man and desperately chasing after them. Some men are just community dick. I went to an academically rigorous school so no, I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:07 PM
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Why do men here act like college women do not also treat men like a flavor of the week on rotation lmfao Also, gangbangers on a college campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:57 PM
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If you’ve ever been on a college campus you know that the men fucking the most women are very open about what they’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:40 PM
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YES THANK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:20 AM
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The nuclear family as we traditionally think of it existed for like 15 years post WWII during the American economic boom as Europe laid in tatters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 08:05 AM
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Ick. He should fight me sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:38 AM
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1-2x a week minimum. Some steady FWBs I really like + some ONS No STDs is a real game changer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:27 AM
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Not more than a standard deviation from me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:33 PM
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Nah, much higher income potential
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:22 PM
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Do you not know a single healthy couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:05 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:20 PM
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everything is communism actually if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:14 AM
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Why argue with men who are unable to grasp that this is the desperate move of a company teetering on bankruptcy and grasping for straws, not a response to female user feedback
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:53 AM
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Average age of virginity loss is 17-18 in the US (from CDC). So like senior year of high school. Approx 80% of men have had sex by 22. 90% by 24. For me, being a virgin after 23 gets an eyebrow raise for sure. https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/ Search “better data: the nsfg” to skip to the chart I’m referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:46 AM
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https://www.macroaxis.com/invest/ratio/BMBL/Probability-Of-Bankruptcy Probability of bankruptcy in the next 2 years is 54%. https://valueinvesting.io/MTCH/probability-of-bankruptcy#:\~:text=The%20Probability%20of%20Bankruptcy%20of,current%20fundamentals%20and%20market%20conditions. For Match Group (owns Hinge and Tinder), it's 5.2%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:22 PM
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drop that man expeditiously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:01 PM
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isn't it the internet men who are telling us that our insta DMs are full of dozens of guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:00 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:23 PM
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What career? Their $180/month before taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:50 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:50 PM
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I am currently in Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:49 PM
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It’s been in trouble for a while. Both the CEO and president stepped down last year I believe. Blackstone also like halved its stake. Also laid off 30% of staff a few months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:46 PM
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It’s not a response to women’s complaints so much as a desperate move to prevent the whole company from going under. It won’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:25 PM
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I wonder what’s worse health wise, being obese from middle age or chain smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:22 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:08 PM
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Maybe Europeans are just skinny because their food is shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:59 PM
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🥹🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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Looksmaxxing is the way. With skin especially
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:51 PM
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Just post ones below 8/10!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:44 PM
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The obesity rate for our age group is so much higher than I thought it was (though I would not say that fat people are/were rare on my campuses). The obesity rate for 12-19 y/o is 22%, and 39.8% for 20-40 y/o. And that’s not even counting overweight people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:22 PM
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You should post some pictures of pretty boys you like. For research purposes ofc. Not the like uber hot ones but cute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:07 PM
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Oh she’s a bitch. Men love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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I generally don’t have anything to say against my two exes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:53 PM
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We’re in a pretty boy drought 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:46 PM
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I mean yeah lot of options education/career/income wise. My sister and I were talking about how it’s just not worth going after like a hella tall attractive guy in finance bc he’d just have too many options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:44 PM
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The real deal breaker for her would be broke tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:15 PM
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I think a decent portion of chronically single women in NYC have crazy standards
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:10 PM
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More quotes from my Stacy sister On the fact that decently good looking men with good jobs in NYC can go on 3 first dates a week if they want: “I’m not used to men having that much… power” Also “I’m not into the very hot guys. More the medium ones. I want to be the hotter one.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:47 PM
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I dunno man it sounds like they started dating when she was literally 20
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:45 PM
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They’re so pretty :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:48 PM
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Ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:46 PM
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Yeah exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:43 PM
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The hookups that women will admit to are with men that are as attractive or more attractive than the guys they date. But at the end of the day a hookup is just a guy that’s getting your rocks off. He doesn’t have to be shown around publicly. And ONS especially tend to happen through a haze of non sobriety. So there’s a range in how good those guys actually look. My exes definitely had the best bodies (bc shared values around fitness).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:42 PM
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Lol Inb4 locked because not neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:29 PM
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People don’t move out at 18 anymore? Huh? Then why did me, my sister, and the bast majority of my friends do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:04 PM
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My field is slightly majority women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:30 PM
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I am very familiar with academia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:15 PM
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How are tenured professors “permanent students” who “get to uni for free, all tuition paid” and needed only “a pulse and a vag”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:44 PM
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That stat from Pew has been repeatedly called into question. Other studies show a far higher singlehood rate in young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:32 PM
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Many such cases. Too many guys giving their gfs shit for the crime of not being east asian nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:09 AM
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My body would seize up Exposure therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:05 AM
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Lol, there’s definitely times where there is just no accounting for taste. Just now while touching grass I was observing a mid-late 20s couple where the woman was pretty skinny and cute, like an American 7. Her boyfriend was like 5-6 face + beer belly + balding at the crown. He was ginger and like 6 ft tho. They were fawning over each other. The heart wants what it wants ig
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:02 AM
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No, lol. It’s not a competition thing, at least not in my circles. One of my friends is athletic/6.5 prob and she just likes guys who are… plain faced. Last time she showed one someone was like “😀he looks like he’d look better in person”, trying so hard to be supportive but very clearly thinking he was totally unattractive. I think there’s just tons of subjectivity once you get below like 7 and women are fast to cast judgement. I remember one time a friend in high school was so thoroughly confus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:58 AM
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Lol saying your friend’s bf looks like a rat is unmatched Women have really, really different tastes. Huge joke on TikTok about women having to defend their new guy in the group chat. Literally like this salivating over a guy who is objectively like a 5 face wise <image> When I used to show a picture of me and my ex together my friends would just look at me like bffr. Got a fair bit of whys and what are you doings
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 09:40 AM
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That’s not possible in the US. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:17 AM
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Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:54 AM
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None of my business what my sister does tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:22 AM
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Yapper
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:16 AM
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Lowkey this would work for some women lol the double date angle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:04 AM
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Technically it takes very little social aptitude to line up dates from Hinge tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:00 AM
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If I repress my emotions does that mean I’m crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:50 AM
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real, same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 05:49 AM
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Hmmmm some of your language choices are interesting to me. Did you love her and also feel loved by her? Like idk you keep saying that a relationship is about you supporting her, you caring for her, you listening to her bitch about work all the time. That you weren’t able to do all that (and you didn’t want to do all that), and that makes you undeserving of romance. That line of reasoning doesn’t make sense to me. But maybe I’m not understanding what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:23 PM
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Hmmm you’re right, most people do want to view themselves as average. Who knows who’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:53 PM
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My issue is that I feel that men here, particularly the ones my age or younger, have little real experience with women and have created this very distorted view in their head. My point is that when you look at the pool of women who have engaged in casual sex, 12 partners in 1 month is on the extreme end. Within that pool, it’s nowhere near average. Yet it seems like young men here have built this view that the average single woman has a constantly revolving door of “chads”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:35 PM
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Wouldn’t you rather take the significantly lower chance of divorce even if it means that if a divorce does happen it’ll almost for sure be initiated by the woman? Casual sex is very, very common on college campuses. “Riding the cock carousel” is some weird red pill thing but the reality is that having some level of sexual activity outside of a committed relationship is viewed as normal in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:07 PM
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Could you explain the good girl gf vs slutty fwb dichotomy. In what way did you treat her like a slutty FWB? In sounds like, to me, that maybe you were in this relationship and from the jump you were thinking something like “why is she even with me?” or “I’m inevitably going to fuck this up”. Does this sound accurate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:01 PM
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Oh come ON. Why did you just jump to an absolute extreme and nonsense scenario? I went to a party school and shit like that is not common at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 08:00 PM
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Look, I’m just going to speak from personal experience. Even a short, athletic daughter can fight like hell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:57 PM
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Higher education is correlated with lower divorce rates. Individuals with a Bachelor’s degree or more have a divorce rate of 25.9%. And divorce rates have been going down since the 80s - “nearly 78 percent of college-educated women who were married for the first time between 2006 and 2010 can expect their marriages to last at least two decades”. https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/#:~:text=The%20Census%20Bureau%20reported%20the,levels%20and%20lower%20divorce%20rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:53 PM
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Evopsych is like top 3 nonsense fields
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:34 PM
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Oh, blah blah blah. If you have eyes and you’re on a college campus it’s clear that’s not true. Plenty of people, men and women, have casual sex at times and loving relationships at others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:34 PM
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Lmao the threat of force doesn’t mean jack with a teen
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:30 PM
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12 different partners in 1 month is extreme. The men here tend to dunk on lower body counts over a long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:29 PM
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This is not true in my experience. The women I know who’ve been in LTRs and had plenty of (healthy) casual sex between relationships have had no problem following in love and attaching to a new guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:27 PM
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No, they’re not. The first scenario looks like a woman coming into college and getting with different guys because she doesn’t feel attractive (or like she’s worth anything, or getting out of a relationship and immediately getting with different guys to try to fill that emotional void, or trying to get with all the ex’s guy friends as revenge, etc. Those scenarios are very different from having FWBs/sneaky links and maybe ONS between long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 07:25 PM
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Hmm it’s hard to keep the conversations I’ve had here straight, you’ve had some amount of romantic success with women before, right? What changed to make you feel like you don’t deserve romance? Or did you feel like this even before you started dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:56 PM
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No, it doesn’t lol. We’re absolutely nowhere near artificial wombs scientifically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:40 PM
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It’s really easy to get a sample of a person’s DNA without them knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:38 PM
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You may be thinking about a different type of gel, the one that was heavily reported on in the mid 2010s. I actually had never heard of this gel until today. Plus there’s the nonhormonal pill in the UK that just started human trials, and another option that’s in the pre-human trials phase at Cornell. The change is that the money is there now - the NIH has been putting millions into this for the past few years. Researchers just have to throw enough shit at the wall now and see what sticks. https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:26 PM
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I’m sorry that you feel like you are negatively impacting them in some way by being attracted to them. Imo there is nothing wrong with discrete and quick looking. That’s very different from like staring at a woman’s chest while you’re talking to her or near her. We’re attracted to people, that’s just a part of life. Can you dig into your second paragraph a bit more? Why would you prefer to kill your libido? Is it out of a sense of hopelessness, an overarching sense of guilt with your libido, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:16 PM
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We are so, so far away from artificial wombs. The age of viability has been creeping downward for decades but it’s still ~22 weeks (technically, with the best possible resources. Realistically more like 24). I highly doubt there will be artificial wombs in my lifetime. Tho I do think male birth control will be available in my lifetime. The small human trials in India (procedure) aren’t going as well as hoped but there’s different types of male contraception that have started human trials in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 05:04 PM
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Ha I think I actually started being emo before I realized I wasn’t straight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:54 PM
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Relationship with parents tends to be a good predictor for promiscuous behavior that’s being used as a validation bandaid for insecurity and poor self concept. It’s not a good predictor for people who have sex outside of LTRs because they just enjoy sex. For some reason the conversations here conflate the two scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:53 PM
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What lack of US history education does to a mf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:53 PM
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Never watched porn? Nah. Not watching porn in the relationship? I dunno. Maybe not realistic but I guess it is what it is. I’ve seen some women say they’d rather like the guy use pictures/videos of the two of them instead. I guess probably there would have to be some way to compensate if the guy’s sex drive > hers I do think I’d ask questions if a guy was regularly watching porn while in a relationship. Unless it’s long distance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:35 PM
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Imo if a guy’s at least 5’6”/5’7” face trumps height, but a guy that’s 5’6”/5’7” can’t rely on apps almost at all and has to be able to date irl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:31 PM
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Can I ask why you feel guilty?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:27 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:05 PM
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3 4 2 1 3’s pulling the most but if 4 is around a good pool of short women then he can be a promiscuous boi
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:37 PM
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Wut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:35 PM
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Girl on girl bullying is pretty bad tho mental and emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:21 PM
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Tbh I can believe that the woman gets affirmed more often even if she’s not right. But why would the counselor try to push her towards a divorce? That’s throwing away a repeat customer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:34 AM
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It would still be expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:38 PM
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What about people who grow up with parents who have roughly equal child custody? Do we have stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:31 PM
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No literally
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:13 PM
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I dunno people say that men are more likely to have avoidant attachment and women are more likely to have anxious attachment but I think it's all about equal for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:32 PM
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oop
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:30 PM
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Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:29 PM
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Yeah there's definitely a niche of women who don't care but it's not a huge amount unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:28 PM
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Avoidant personality Edit: I mean avoidant attachment style
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:24 PM
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The road to acceptance and normalization is rocky and winding but hopefully we will get there !! Soon
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:23 PM
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Jesus are there really that many Americans who can't run up a flight of stairs even?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:22 PM
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:(((( I don't think this is true for like my age and my circles in the US but in older generations and in larger society ://
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:21 PM
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I think a significant amount of women think this. Societally we should make gay relationships hotter and also not gross
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:19 PM
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Still plenty of people more than 1 standard deviation away from the curve
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:18 PM
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Yup. Very very very few men would commit violent rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:17 PM
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it's not about an average dude tho it's about one picked completely randomly....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:16 PM
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nooo normalize bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:15 PM
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Every belief system is just the red pill actually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:01 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:59 AM
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“If they say all their exes suck, run” is tiktok dating advice 101…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:56 AM
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You would be surprised. Definitely a generational thing. Women around my age on tiktok talk about their insecurities with boyfriends or ex-bfs who follow insta baddies of a specific type that looks nothing like them (ex. race)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:57 PM
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He was not a chad. At all. A chad wouldn't have PIED because he would have enough irl sexual experience from his teen years and afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:29 PM
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He wasn't on an SSRI or any sort of antidepressant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:27 PM
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Ngl I left like half of what happened out and that half is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:26 PM
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What percent of women even want an orgy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:22 PM
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Most of my friends and I have never encountered a man with porn induced erectile dysfunction but one of my old roommates did. This man could not hold an erection while he was actively inside of her without looking at insta models on his phone at the same time. She was like ummmm I'm not really comfortable with you doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:16 PM
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Fuck are you serious Every minute I spend here the men outside are getting older and less capable of a full erection
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:09 PM
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You're forgetting the band kid rule -- nerdy and unconventional couples go crazy together Edit: Mm actually that doesn't make quite make sense does it, that's moreso for nerd couples that get tg pretty young so I have to imagine the guy couldn't have developed PIED yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:05 PM
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8 months pregnant? Fuck no. I shouldn't be standing outside for hours like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:04 PM
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You're assuming that PPD women are an accurate sampling of the population, which is incredibly suspect at best
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:03 PM
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I tend to say that, it's an exaggeration to make a point. Guys appear to evaluate their looks solely through the lens of female attention, and seem to assume that women do the same. Of course male attention is a big factor, but there are so many other things at play. Women understand very, very young that looks will hugely influence all aspects of their life and their perceived worth as a person. A big one is relationship with mothers. Many Gen X and older women tie so much of their self worth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:00 PM
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uhhh what almost all couples fart around each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:30 PM
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low pitched female voices are soo annoying I hate them soo much I would be soo upset if a female with a low pitched voice slid into my DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:29 PM
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The trends are all over the place https://ifstudies.org/blog/is-the-sex-recession-over
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:54 PM
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Leggings are nice for checking yourself out in the mirror while you do leg exercises tho
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:43 PM
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Eh even decent sex is better than a vibrator imo. Kissing alone is better than a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:34 PM
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Not to be a bitch but sir your picker is so off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:29 PM
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Fuck bitches (Bumble) get money (Hinge)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:25 PM
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Yeah I was just generally asking a question about this whole divorce rape thing like idk kind of seems easy to avoid especially because support is generally just child support...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:24 PM
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...then don't go for average? The vast majority of people date people with similar educational and socioeconomic backgrounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:18 PM
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Nickelback isn't even that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:16 PM
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I prefer the homeless oversized sweatpants look generally but leggings are very comfortable especially for working out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:11 PM
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I don't understand why men can't just go for women who don't make orders of magnitude less than them and also ask for joint custody of children in the case of divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:10 PM
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If you could get married to any random woman (you do not get to choose, complete dice roll) vs go your whole life without female attention, what would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:03 PM
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That's why vibrators were made
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:57 PM
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*You* would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:30 PM
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Uhhh I just skimmed her case and how can you say "much higher intensity torture"? Have you been gang raped? Have you been repeatedly beaten, raped, and tortured for 40 days? Have you been forcefully anally sodomized? Have you been burned on your arms and legs with lighter fluid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:26 PM
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How is a quick death worse than long form torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:20 PM
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I'm thinking I'll add 5+ to my make out count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:06 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:58 AM
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France is so weird they don't seem to believe in freedom on any level
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:54 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:33 AM
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Oh I thought you were responding to women choosing the bear in the man vs bear thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:46 PM
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A bit besides the point but I don't understand why guys here pathologize women who like confident and assertive men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:32 PM
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I agree more men should fear me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:30 PM
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:// would you be able to rock a bald look until HT?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:29 PM
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I'm assuming you're being sarcastic but living in constant fear does seem to be the American way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:25 PM
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I think we can still ask what type of bear is it tho /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:24 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:23 PM
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what is the chance that you are not 35 and are in fact an 18 year old going for women your age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:19 PM
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ooof and he's so young. He's got a pretty good face too his literal only issue is his hair
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:18 PM
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I already laid this out to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:14 PM
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Doesn’t this just support the idea that getting attacked by a bear unprovoked is really really uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:56 PM
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Already explained that’s not women are saying when they choose bear, you can scroll down to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:54 PM
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There is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:53 PM
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If that’s actually your biggest issue you may be underestimating yourself as 5. Otherwise there are creams and serums that can help with dark eye circles. You can look up some dermatologist recommended options. Sleep hygiene and WATER are also helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:48 PM
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Yeah I’m sure there are women who genuinely take advantage of the guy “friends” but I bet a lot of the time the actual case is what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:47 PM
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Yuhhh tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:45 PM
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Bear. I’d rather be ripped to pieces quickly than risk a significant chance of being subjected to all forms of torture before dying anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:49 PM
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Because like attracts like. I don’t understand why people here get so shocked about things like this. Did you never look around in the middle school cafeteria and see how people grouped together?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:15 PM
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Wanting a long term relationship partner who’s compatible on having children or basic personality/interests is nitpicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:10 PM
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Okay. That’s a far cry from women thinking a man under 6 2 is not a human being. If you think women just don’t go for men under 6 2, you’re c0ping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:09 PM
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I mean, the reality is that any given person is relationship incompatible with the vast majority of people. Apps like Hinge really allow you to lay all that out. Don’t want kids? Swipe left. Never drink or go out? Swipe left. Stereotypical frat boy that I have nothing in common with? Swipe left. It doesn’t mean these men have some “horrible malaise”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:53 PM
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Less Gen Z adults have used dating apps or sites compared to millennials. Only 28% of partnered Gen Z males report meeting their SO online, and only 14% of partnered Gen Z females report the same. Not sure why there’s a discrepancy but even if we go with the higher number, meeting online is far from the norm. And this is generally meeting online — doesn’t account for OLD vs instagram or whatever. Plus the numbers are even lower for heterosexual couples because gay people are way mote likely to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:45 PM
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And the data shows that approx 2/3 of Indians in America marry other Indians, and Indian men and women are approx equally likely to marry a white person. Plus for second gen Asians overall it looks like the number marrying white people is decreasing. And yet these people continue bitching because they don’t want to admit the problem is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:38 PM
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“Under 6 2” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:35 PM
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Lol and he goes on to say that he refuses to date fat women. In a country where 40% of adults are obese and another 30% are overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:34 PM
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Yes, they do. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/#time-allocation-across-marriage-types
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:07 PM
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I sympathize to some extent. I know that I never would've been happy if I had committed to one person without ever trying to date both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:12 AM
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The most dangerous thing you can do is go for a man who got no play growing up, then leveled up in looks or status around the time you started dating him or after you started dating. He will start getting attention, and he will start resenting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:01 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:33 AM
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Telling a slutty woman to only date slutty men will infuriate her. wut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:43 AM
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Gym bro and chubby girl pairing strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:40 AM
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Nah new Zendaya propaganda just dropped, fruity guy summer is coming
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:09 AM
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For casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:19 AM
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And just yesterday men were swearing up and down that they were not dogging on the humanity of promiscuous women. Incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:02 AM
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Key word is dabble. Manwhores absolutely can be and are fuckzoned by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:54 PM
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How in god's name are you determining if her body count is too high for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:55 PM
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Doesn’t necessarily mean many partners. A man with 2 LTRs has had a lot of sex usually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:40 PM
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Do you understand how big the gap is between 5 a d campus slut / to the point that other people will be making comments
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:38 PM
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Usually that means relationship experience (because that’s where you get good at sex), some casual sex history is fine. Huge difference between that and a manwhore
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:36 PM
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Yeah right lol no significant amount of men are turning down an attractive women because she has a 20 n count
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:35 PM
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Maybe true for the 50+ count chads. Your run of the mill 20n frat boy is marrying a sorority girl that’s had her share of fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:33 PM
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She’s clearly exaggerating to make a point…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:32 PM
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You conveyed the whole “I was straight up considering her” with incredulity (to my perception) which made it seem like you thought you were better than her…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:29 PM
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I think I would rather die. I already have enough issues around sex and trust and general paranoia— I don’t think that I would ever come back from experiencing rape on top of all that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:40 PM
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He’s so AWKWARD and CUTIE
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:35 PM
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“Men have no understanding of female weight” strikes again Anyone 5’2” or taller has a healthy BMI if they’re 132
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:34 PM
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My second link the aging male section: “To evaluate pregnancy rates in different age groups, a French study examined 901 cycles of intrauterine artificial insemination. They found that the most significant factor contributing to probability of pregnancy was the age of the male partner. After six cycles, men aged ≥ 35 years had fertility rates of 25% compared with fertility rates of 52% in men aged < 35 years, representing a 52% decrease in fertility rate.” There does seem to be evidence that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:32 PM
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I’m queer too I think I’ll continue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:53 PM
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Women’s fertility falls off a cliff. When it’s over, it’s over for women. That’s not true for men, they theoretically can have a child well into their 70s. But that doesn’t negate the fact that men also face increasing fertility problems and declining sperm quality after 35-40. Your anecdote aside the data does not show that it’s peaches until late 40s+. And I didn’t even touch on shit like schizophrenia risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:52 PM
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Ope it’s just supposed to say “not getting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 PM
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Smh it’s because they just want to dance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:48 PM
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Exactly. Or those children will turn into caretakers in their teens and early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:46 PM
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Obviously I’m talking about men who want kids or are considering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:45 PM
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What is 65% of your body weight equal to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:44 PM
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You say she’s a 3-4, are you not also a 3-4? I’d have to assume so since you’re a virgin at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:43 PM
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We can only go off of what are they are explicitly saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:40 PM
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Earlier I was looking at an old PPD post and saw a man complaining about women calling Michael Cera a 5, because if that were true then he’d be a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:38 PM
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Then why do straight women flock to gay clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:35 PM
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I don’t respect men that say that women face their biological clock in their 30s but men don’t need to similarly scramble for children. Wtf sort of father are you going to be for a child that’s born when you’re 40+? And that doesn’t even touch on the fact that males do have fertility issues as they age, particularly related to sperm quality. For a woman under 30, getting pregnant with a man 35+ increases her chance of first trimester miscarriage by 56%. Men over 35 have a 52% lower fertility rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:29 PM
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Women are also repulsed by fat men usually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:59 PM
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Taxi cab theory
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:45 PM
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I don’t think settling necessarily means you think you could’ve done better. Settling can mean taking the best that you can get, while not getting what you want. Compromising on certain characteristics in favor of others can equal settling, but doesn’t necessarily mean that person think they could have done better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:45 PM
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Every man that says being friends with women is pointless is c0ping. Several reasons for this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:39 PM
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Oh, Im saying that I’ve got some theories cooking in my brain. Did some scientific experimentation last night and will continue sometime this week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:16 PM
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Who is her?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:14 PM
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Theories cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:12 PM
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Is she absolutely anywhere near bottom 2.5%?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:10 PM
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Maybe this is just how some male men think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:09 PM
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Maybe you don’t know what women in their mid 30s look like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:07 PM
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Looked at the truerateme guide, they put Sandra Oh in the bottom 2.5% of female attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:06 PM
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Do you have any idea what an average 22 year old looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:04 PM
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A 4 is either more overweight or has worse facial features .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:56 PM
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That ignores the realities of what young women look like on average today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:51 PM
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In that case the woman would not be a 3 facially or overall, assuming no exaggerated features like this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:46 PM
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At a certain point this is just mental masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:45 PM
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She appears to be normalish weight with zero exaggerated features. Automatically a 5 at minimum. Hard to say without more info as all we have is a shitty still image of her face in a weird position and words on top. Those images are averaging of a bunch of faces. They do NOT produce a 5. When you average a bunch of faces their imperfections start getting balanced out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:43 PM
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This whole conversation is pointless. Men and women are not inherently better or worse than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:38 PM
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Evil in different but roughly equal ways. Men do more grotesque physical and sexual violence
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:32 PM
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Tbh men are the ones that act like women are moral princesses. Women tear viciously at each other from first grade
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:28 PM
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He’s cutie 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:26 PM
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Ohh damn I thought you were being sarcastic sry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:26 PM
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Yeahh that’s fair I internally react negatively when white men hit on me in the wild because I’m just not going to be attracted usually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:24 PM
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Those people have a face > 3 then unless they’re deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:22 PM
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<image> You can’t see her body, yet you can tell she’s obese. Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:21 PM
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Do you think calling that girl at best a 3 is accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:21 PM
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Did you know that when you’re obese fat distributes to your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:18 PM
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Is the bear cutie?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:16 PM
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You think that’s what a 3 looks like? A 3 is obese. Men are so delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:14 PM
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It is a little annoying when you’re 18 and a scraggly man in his 30s approaches you like what did you think I was going to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:12 PM
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There’s like 1589731 asian women in toronto
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:57 PM
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Women tend to flock to big cities with good public transport ig
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:56 PM
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Isn’t toronto a huge city with tons of young people and more women than men…? Like NYC……
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:49 PM
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Their own prime, not their prime in the eyes of others. “women with the highest sex drives are aged between 35 and 44 - with 17 percent rating their libido as 10 out of 10” “women between 27 and 45 had more frequent and more intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women. They also had more sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:48 PM
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I think it’s more accurate to say that a woman will not date down in terms of class. An upper middle class woman will 90+% of the time not date down to lower middle class. There’s more flexibility within class in terms of the exact numerical earnings, and the data reflects that. A signficant amount of women making let’s say $150k are not going to limit her options to only men making $150k+, but will usually not pick a man who makes $50k either Tbh I don’t think it’s super super common for a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:41 AM
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I’m not nearly sober enough for this, what did you mean when you said 3 nHz originally?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:20 AM
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Ok I looked it up and max 3 new partners a year seems really fair honestly as a standard to have. I think I’d start asking questions at 5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:10 AM
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Smh she’s clearly saying that fucking in an alley is super uncommon, to the point that she’s only seen it in popular media
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 06:04 AM
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What does that equal out to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:59 AM
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What # in 1 year where she is not in an LTR at any point would you consider slut level
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:49 AM
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Guys around this age just seem fuzzy about what they want tbh. Been going on some dates with this 25 y/o guy and we were talking about kids, I said that I wanted 2 and will starting having them at x age. He paused and was like hmm I guess I've never really thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:27 AM
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trying to figure out if this is satire
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:54 AM
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Survey Center on American Life found in 2022 that 45% of women 18-29 women are single, vs 57% of men. The General Social Survey found in 2021 that ~52% of women 18-29 were single, vs ~62% of men. GSS asks Married, Cohabiting, Married or partnered but living apart, or Single Survey Center for American Life asks Married, Living with Partner, In a Committed Relationship, or Single Pew splits it into 2 questions: What best describes you? Married, Living with a partner, Divorced, Separated, Widowed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:40 AM
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Or there's an issue with the Pew survey, as other surveys from that time period showed much higher rates of young female singlehood. Even when they used similar definitions of not being single like married, partnered and cohabiting, or in a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:20 AM
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Yes because young men are much more able to naturally perform sexually (men's testosterone levels start dropping in their 30s and are less able to hold erections and have longer refractory periods) whereas women tend to hit their own sexual prime in their 30s and 40s (barring hormonal/other health issues/small children stuff). So it makes sense for younger men and older women to pair up for shorter term or casual stuff. Also that stats been heavily criticized tons of times on this subs, other su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:18 AM
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Of course it's better to have too many matches than none. reading helps! hope you learn how to some day!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:59 AM
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Oh I'm not saying that men are actually interested in only top women. I'm saying that dating apps fuck with everyone psychologically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:58 AM
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Honestly I had no idea a substantial amount of guys my age genuinely thought that women were inherently kinder and better. Less physically violent? For sure. More nurturing of children? We do get told that a lot. But inherently more moral? That's crazy to me I dunno I guess my childhood taught me really really early that women can be horrible. I remember in 6th grade we were taught that boys and girls were equally likely to be bullies, but for guys it looked like physical violence and for women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 01:42 AM
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It’s okay I’m sure you’ll lose your virginity some day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:25 PM
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Those 3 I listed were the one’s that I don’t do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:19 PM
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Cigs/vaping, no tattoos yet, only “jobless” in a technical sense like not a NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:56 PM
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Only because people straw man blue pill as thinking the world is rainbows and unicorns
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:12 PM
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I was hoping to go 11/11 on these describing me but didn’t get there :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:18 PM
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I literally gave the Hinge data, analyzed by a Hinge engineer, that shows it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:09 PM
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Generally I know now but didn't at 20 for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:40 PM
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"I'm going to shirk my responsibilities to the #1 people in my life, my children, because I just can't deal with the woman I chose to have children with"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:38 PM
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This is beyond gorgeous. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:36 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:36 PM
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Yeah lol like you, a 23 year old man, should not worry about AFBB. You have no buxx. That 21 y/o wants your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:31 PM
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Significant difference in how people treat you when you have whiter teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:26 PM
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Well, you're not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:22 PM
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exactlyy who cares if voluntary retirement is rapidly becoming a pipedream for many americans
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:19 PM
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Women don't appreciate the male body? You've never talked to a room of college freshmen girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:16 PM
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WesleyFRM and athletic girl arc when
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:10 PM
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Shit, did you wait till marriage to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:07 PM
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oddly specific haha
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:57 PM
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What's interesting to me is that this whole wall thing and AFBB isn't even applicable to tons of men here because they're in their 20s and going for women in their early-mid 20s. I first saw all the pill stuff in about 2013 and back then the average age seemed older with a lot of men who had been through divorce. Nowadays it seems that the demographics have skewed much younger and less experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:56 PM
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ooh men and their slutty little waists https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/slutty-waist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:48 PM
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Tbhh I don’t think standing out tends to be done through text. Don’t wait too long to ask her on a fun date. Bonus points if it speaks to an interest of hers. (My lesbian go tos are bookshops and thrift stores lol.) If she’s saying no or giving you the run around when you’re trying to plan a date, she’s just not interested. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:43 PM
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Yeah. People like to say that the only reason women attempt suicide more often according to stats is because women will give themselves a shallow wrist cut for attention and it gets counted as a suicide attempt. It’s not true tho. People don’t realize that even downing a bottle of pills can get you 1 week in the ICU and cognitive delays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:40 PM
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My inclination 1) she's interested but talking to multiple guys or 2) interested but bad at texting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:13 PM
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How short? 1-2 words or 1-2 sentences?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah even if people pull through normally in a physical sense, cognitive impact or delays are not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:09 PM
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I don’t want to get too specific but my career is in this realm and honestly, you’d be surprised by the number of truly grotesque non-firearm methods of suicide that people survive from. Even when they were clearly really trying to never wake up again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:57 PM
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It's called the "gender paradox of suicide"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:50 PM
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Seems strange to equate an old person with health issues to a monkey
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:44 PM
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I dunno this might be true for the bottom third but I feel like there's room for growth for people that start in the middle third
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:25 PM
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My point is that your original comment is demonstrably wrong. There already is an app with artificial limits in place, and women do not become pickier on it. Go look at the tinder subreddit and see what guys say about hinge vs tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:19 PM
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I'm starting to suspect that the men here haven't actually been on these apps before, they seem to have no idea how they're even set up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:12 PM
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So many people glow up in college and the years post grad tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:06 PM
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big tiddy goth gf big tiddy goth gf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:05 PM
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Agree the best post I ever made got taken down in an hour. Immaculately cited and everything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:54 PM
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Yeah I’ve heard this before. I’m not really sure tbh it’s not something I look into
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:51 PM
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Studies show that women overestimate how thin men want them to be, and men overestimate how muscular women want them to be. These overestimations are even bigger when thinking about short term relationships. https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bjop.12451
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:50 PM
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Are you insane, a masochist, or were you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:44 PM
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Someone should do a study on PPD men and rigid thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:34 PM
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Bro what Bumble is the deadest app on the market. That shit is legit going to go under https://www.gurufocus.com/term/zscore/BMBL https://www.macroaxis.com/invest/ratio/BMBL/Probability-Of-Bankruptcy Get on Hinge wtf 😭 especially if you’re young that’s where we’re shifting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:33 PM
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I feel like a guy adding 1 inch is really not a big deal but more power to you. Obviously what you’re doing is working. What app are you using?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:27 PM
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Yeahhh guys go on and on about women catfishing but honestly men are super likely to have really old photos and/or photos when they looked better or much thinner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:25 PM
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You can’t auto filter height with a free account on either Hinge or Tinder. And straight women don’t pay. If they’re manually filtering for height obviously they’re going to see what you wrote in your bio Are you talking about having incorrect age on Tinder? Are you 30+ or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:23 PM
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Seems like a strawman… 20 year olds are definitionally adults but that doesn’t change the fact that people in their early 20s are stumbling around blindly and usually have no real sense of how their life will turn out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:18 PM
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Benevolent Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:15 PM
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I dunno man I just see the news and the anxiety over it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:14 PM
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Yeah exactly. We assume the guy’s lying. So if a guy lists their actual height they’re needlessly kneecapping themselves This gets hard if the guy’s really short tho like 5’4” because even a 5’2” girl is immediately going to be able to tell irl how much he lied. A 5’7.5” guy saying he’s 5’9” and going on a date with a 5’1” girl tho? Lowkey chilling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:13 PM
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You can’t auto height filter with a free account and straight women don’t pay generally. I like the ethnicity filter because the pool for mine is too small for manual filtering to be effective Yeah this makes sense. I wonder if Hinge and Tinder have dramatically different algorithms — I wonder if Hinge shows more people around your ranking rather than the best people first You’re right it’s a pro overall I think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:11 PM
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This is real life, not a Disney fairytale. Most men on these apps are lying. Women are aware of this heightflation and will assume everyone’s lying by a bit. Many obese women try to hide their weight online through filters and only having face pics. If a woman does not have 2+ full body pics then I assume she’s trying to conceal her weight. So I swipe left. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:05 PM
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The area I grew up in is mostly middle class, some UMC, mostly white with a decent Asian population and some of all other groups. The biggest mall in the area has had multiple issues with trafficking in the past like 5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:02 PM
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Yeah this is true. I just get frustrated when people have go on and on about Tinder when Match Group literally launched an other app that IMO effectively deals with some complaints about tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:00 PM
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Yeah but you’d have to only swipe on pretty short girls like 5’2”-5’3” and below. Still a decent pool tho. You can do that manually or pay to use the height filter. Basically all girls know that guys are lying. We generally get annoyed if there’s a measurable impact on the experience (online he says he’s a few inches taller than you, irl he’s actually shorter than you)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:59 PM
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Waittt guys here are remembering to add 1-2 inches on their OLD listed height right? Have to be careful about going for women too close to your actual height tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:49 PM
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Yeah height below 5’8” is going to torpedo guys on dating apps tbh regardless on the app I think Hinge > Tinder for mid average height guys for sure. And what guys are saying on the tinder subreddit seems to bear that out
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:45 PM
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I feel like I’m losing my mind when people talk about tinder here. Do people not see how much this app has gotten way worse in the last 5+ years? The sheer amount of fake profiles and scammers? None of my friends even have Tinder anymore because it’s such a cesspool. I only have it to swipe on women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:43 PM
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Yeah they allow everyone including free users to filter based on ethnicity. Some people don’t like that They openly show you who you’ve been liked by. Some women get stupid about it and decide to only go through their likes and not swipe at all. And idk why but when you start on the app your likes tend to be… really not good looking. Mine got better over time tho Also because everyone has few likes you have to be strategic who you like — have to think who you’ll be most likely to match with. A p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:40 PM
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No, using Tinder is such a bad aesthetic. Unless you’re in college and looking for other students at your college. Or are a homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:37 PM
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It naturally limits choice paradox to an extent because the # of likes is seriously limited (8/day). You’re also openly shown the people who like you. Some women actually don’t swipe at all and just go through their likes, further limiting their pool. I suspect Hinge has some mechanism in place to limit the # of likes you can have pile up. They also give you warnings if you have too many matches but try to keep swiping. The pool’s somewhat different — higher quality for young people. Way less fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:33 PM
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You’re friends with Hitler?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:26 PM
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Why are you, a young person, complaining about dating apps while never having tried Hinge? Hinge has several mechanisms in place to limit choice paradox and also has a less picture forward setup. Not to mention a better pool of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:22 PM
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Natural intelligence? Yes, up there. Acquired skill? Not even close but I’ll get there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:18 PM
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Who says I’m just average intelligence wise even within my field?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:14 PM
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Do people not know that the second biggest app on the market has already started these artificial limits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:11 PM
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Fun fact! An app already did something to that effect! It’s called Hinge and young people are shifting to it! And yet people here only talk about Tinder for some reason. Go to the tinder subreddit and you’ll see men talk abt how Hinge is better for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:08 PM
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Yup. My field depends on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:06 PM
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What’s wrong with hanging out and getting high
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:03 PM
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That’s fine as long as we’re in compatible careers/ have that mutual understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:50 PM
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Not a ton of space to go up intelligence wise, and at the significantly higher level that’s a very very very small%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:48 PM
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I’ve seen women who are seriously trying to look for someone kinda quickly do that. Like swipe enough on Hinge to get some viable matches —> go on dates with a handful —> narrow down and date. But tbh a lot of women, especially my age and younger, don’t have that short term goal so we just swipe for the vibes or validation or whatever. Admittedly Hinge does help with this because you only get 8 likes a day. Another thing is that women do tend to try to create a viable pool of matches, but by bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:42 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 05:14 AM
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Of course it's better to have too many matches than none. But the end result is the same because of the choice overload psychological phenomenon. It gets too overwhelming and leads to just quitting. Trader Joe's actually effectively leveraged this phenomenon to artificially limit product choice and improve their sales. It works on both men and women. https://www.choicehacking.com/2020/08/24/trader-joes/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:57 AM
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Like 25% of American dating app users are females and honestly a decent chunk of them are just there to swipe to get validation or pass the time. Especially amongst young women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:54 AM
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Then why are gender ratios so lopsided on apps if it's just an incredible endless conveyor belt of dick for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:47 AM
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Significantly smarter than me overall? I think that like barely exists. Smarter than me tho? Yeah that's fine as long as we vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:46 AM
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More of a comfort/familiarity thing, I would prefer to date someone who is also not straight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:41 AM
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You think Facebook is known for its moderation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:38 AM
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We've reached critical mass with dating apps. Tinder downloads and paying users are starting to fall. Match Group (owns Tinder and Hinge) stock has dropped tremendously. They are scrambling to squeeze every last cent from their user base, and in turn increasing gatekeeping and making these worse and worse for users. And, of course, Bumble is dead. Gen Z seems to have particularly negative views of the apps. This was always the natural end point of apps, I think. Their goal was always to maximize…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:37 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:49 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:43 AM
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No, my stat says that 57% of wives who make 100k have husbands who make more than 40% of their combined couple income. Unfortunately we can only speculate what % are egalitarian earners (each makes 40-60%) as Pew didn’t give that day. Notably, though, in every other category of women studied the egalitarian earner category is larger than the women breadwinner category. Your claim that “most rich women want an even richer man” is only true if more than 50% of wives making 100k have husbands who m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:41 AM
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A few comments down I looked at wives that have at least a bachelor’s. I used the 100k thing because I’m tired of seeing men here talk about how when women become highly educated and high earners they massively shrink their dating pool by hypergamously only wanting men making more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:35 AM
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The fact is that Hinge is different from other apps. It forces men to make those decisions to send likes (especially since you can see the likes you’ve been sent). And men’s liking habits are pretty lopsided. Yes, women’s are still worse - more unequal in terms of Gini coefficient. But men’s are still pretty bad. I’m not saying men are actually only attracted to 20% of women. i’m saying the apps are inherently fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:29 AM
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Their evidence is OLD but IMO works for the way some women experience attraction to men, but definitely not all. I think women's attraction to men has three categories: Men that they're attracted to based on basically just photos Men they're attracted to after meeting them in person, being around them, etc. It really is vibes - the guy's sense of humor, little mannerisms, body language, everything. Men they are not attracted to IMO women vary in our distribution of guys in category 1 vs 2. But a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:26 AM
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Yes. I also separately looked at the data for wives who have at least a Bachelor’s. That point was entirely separate from the 100k one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:20 AM
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Men on apps like Tinder have a tendency to swipe on everyone, or many many women. When they are forced to make actual decisions (like women are), their selection becomes much more similar to women’s. Hinge only gives user 8 likes a day. On it, the top 10% of women receive 45.7% of likes, while the top 10% of men receive 58%. A disparity still but you still see pretty similar trends for both. I would also argue that OLD is not aligned with many women’s attraction towards men. It certainly isn’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:18 AM
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6%? I gave stats for marriages where the wives have at least a Bachelor’s degree… Anyways I often see the claim here that as women become more educated and high earning, they just keep demanding a man who is more educated and is making more than her. This is overdramatic at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:12 AM
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We’ve lost third spaces and general societal structure encouraging real life socialization. We’re more isolated than ever Social anxiety and depression rates have spiked in young people Body and self esteem issues are growing amongst young men. And it’s brutal for an average guy to hop on a dating app and get almost zero matches Dating apps suck. They cause choice overload, force women to make decisions almost entirely off of pictures, remove other contextual factors necessary for many women’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:10 AM
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What issues are “princess” PPD women generally wanting an imaginary authority figure to fix lmao This whole sub is about men’s issues in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:58 AM
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Fruity men are for sure a decently sized niche nowadays lol. I think it tends to be alternative, emo, goth, or bisexual women who go for these guys. I’m emo (in spirit but not really aesthetic) + bisexual. I usually go for guys who are at least a bit flexible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:30 AM
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Oh yeahhh they’re not looking for an LTR at all Where are you even meeting them? Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:08 AM
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Hey hey some of us actively want a guy who’s experimented with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:47 PM
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Believe me I get it. Last girl I was seeing got irked by my inability to escalate and at the end of our long second date she planted herself between me and my door and was like “I’m not leaving until you kiss me”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:45 PM
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Damn that sucks. Do you always invite them back to your place during the first date? / do they invite you back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:42 PM
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You’re chilling but y’all should for sure kiss next time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:34 PM
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You can def argue that the 60% is a silly cutoff for breadwinner. But the fact remains that many educated and well earning women do not care if the man they’re with makes as much or slightly less than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:33 PM
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That sucks that you feel like you have to have sex with them :/ are you currently looking for a serious relationship rn? And what if you escalated without sex? Like a heavy makeout sesh then leave the woman wanting in like a teasing way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:32 PM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:30 PM
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Did she laugh at least a few times? Or a decent amount?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:29 PM
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Nope, it’s from Pew Jan 2023. They defined the breadwinner as making at least 60% of the couples combined income, and egalitarian earners as when each spouse made between 40 and 60% of their combined income. “43% of wives who earn $100,000 or more are the breadwinner in their marriage.” 19% of wives with at least a Bachelor’s degree are the breadwinner in their marriage, and another 33% are egalitarian earners. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 11:09 PM
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I think it’s really sad how Gen Z women have become so impacted by social media and obsessed with our physical flaws that we fear pregnancy because of the impact on our looks. How we react with disgust to pregnant and postpartum bodies. Not the difficulties of motherhood, medical complications during childbirth, how pregnancy can trigger other health issues. More than anything else it’s this fear of pregnancy wrecking our looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:50 PM
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This is sad tbh most of those guys really were handsome esp the ones that reacted pretty negatively
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:44 PM
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It’s the only way that makes sense to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:38 PM
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Idk to me there’s no issue with not wanting a serious relationship. We all have those stages in life. But racking numbers is interesting because no one needs to do it to be sexually active — much easier to just have 1 or a few FWBs. So a person who’s racking numbers is purposefully cycling between different people. More than half the time I think serial ONS is due to mental health issues/low self esteem. But there’s definitely people who just enjoy meeting different people and having sex with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:36 PM
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Nah we def do especially for the ones who are clearly into serial ONS because of mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:30 PM
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Adding 10 or more in 1 year Even adding 5 in 1 year can be a little side eye for men and women tbh depending on the circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 10:22 PM
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Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:13 PM
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Waittt are you not white ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 08:10 PM
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You would need to compare the experiences of young women today vs young women in the past to prove that young women are more promiscuous than ever. And the data does not support that. The age of loss of virginity for females has been trending older for decades. CDC data has showed significant declines in teen female (and male) sexual activity. Teen pregnancy has dropped a lot and that is partially explained by less young people having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:27 PM
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You don’t have significant emotional baggage? That’s laughable. Every man in these pill spaces has significant emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:18 PM
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Nicer than mine? Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:07 PM
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Again I feel like this is only true if you narrowly define nerdy as things that men are more into like anime…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:31 PM
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A nerd girl who goes for nerd guys is not necessarily turned on by his command of homological algebra………
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:25 PM
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Is that true? I feel like the booktok and fanfic girls tend to heavily fall under the nerd umbrella. And there’s soo many of those
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:22 PM
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Mm it’s easier in high school and college when nerds are more grouped together/interact more regardless of their major or track
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:10 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:01 PM
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Nerd guys tend to have one of these problems or more: Looks Social issues Refuse to go for nerd girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:59 PM
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43% of American wives who make 100k+ make at least 60% of the couple’s combined income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:57 PM
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Where did you get that stat? Genuinely curious Also one issue I have is that men on the sub keep saying that loss of carnal desire is due to looks but I don’t see how that can be true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:52 PM
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The chaste women are heavily concentrated in Muslim countries, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:42 PM
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But in those cases the women still carnally desired the man for some period of time, no? Even if he's part of the "bottom 80%"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:40 PM
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Oh damn idk I missed the second part of your comment entirely, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:54 PM
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This shit is so stupid, what does "carnally desire" even mean? Doesn't a woman being actively engaged during sex fit that bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:48 PM
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I'm sorry, in 1936 did women have hundreds of billionaire oil sheikhs in their DMs willing to sugar daddy them to Dubai to live it up? So overdramatic for what. This realistically. Only the most attractive women are being flown out by billionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:46 PM
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Sexual activity has been dropping for decades and age of virginity loss has been getting later. There's a reason that teen pregnancy rates have dropped tremendously and it's not just access to contraception. In 2018 ~19.1% of women 18-24 y/o reported no sex in the past year (and 30.9% of men).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:43 PM
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Noo don't ruin his worldview that the only men that exist are Jason Mamoa lookalikes and horribly disfigured men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:07 PM
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Do you understand that this thread is about virginity and how even people who "wait for marriage" are generally doing that in name only?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:05 PM
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You're so right. Rooting for you finding your absolutely pure 23 year old virgin who's never been naked with a man. I'm sure that's what she means when she says she's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:59 PM
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How do people genuinely believe this? It goes against everything we know about sex. People with greater access to technology and alternative forms of entertainment have less sex, not more. Young people in America are more sexless than ever. Do you actually believe that women in India have only chastely kissed a man by the time they get married? That women in sub-Saharan Africa are hitting 18-21 without having had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:51 PM
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I don't understand why men here genuinely view women in the third world as more chaste. This goes against everything we know about sexual activity -- that age of virginity loss is higher in first world countries, access to the internet / alternative forms of entertainment plummets sex rates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:27 PM
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very promiscuous at the young age Why have so many people fallen for the absolutely bonkers idea that young women are more promiscuous than ever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:11 PM
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Dating women comes with plenty of challenges but as someone who's dated both, I 100% recommend trying it. I spent time avoiding men and only went for women. No regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:07 PM
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As someone who has been in these pill spaces, including the OG subreddits, for 10 years, doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:02 PM
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Get out of there. Honestly. Stop listening to all this stuff. Being in these spaces as a teenager will absolutely damage you. It can rob you of any real trust of men and can make it really difficult to form relationships with them. Once I started seeing the actions of guys irl match the rhetoric I saw online, I generally stopped being able to make close guy friends. And dating? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:57 PM
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Not if it's a no true scotsman deal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:54 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:42 PM
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Technically it's correct because we have excessively elevated PIV to an entirely different class of sexual act. Even though we now have IUDs with >99% effectiveness. The reality is that basically no one is legitimately waiting. Even the BYU students who get married at 20 are doing every premarital sex activity they can think of and are telling themselves that it's not really PIV intercourse. This is why virgin discourse here is so out of touch and laughable. Like that's so funny, you actually th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:38 PM
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Exactly. It's so stupid. Almost no one actually waits. We just end up pushing all this guilt and shame and lack of knowledge onto kids for zero reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:32 PM
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It's actually the exact opposite. Like definitionally opposite of Madonna Whore, which is the concept of men viewing women as either saintly Madonnas or debased whores. The man feels love toward the Madonna, but sexual desire towards the whore. These two feelings are mutually exclusive in a man who has this complex. So actually, "princess in the streets freak in the sheets" is literally describing 1 woman being both a Madonna and a whore. The exact opposite of what's described in the complex. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:24 PM
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I definitely know women who are "waiting till marriage" but have done everything up to and including oral sex. I just don't get what the point is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:01 AM
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I'm sorry that your parents disowned you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:33 AM
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Nay 98% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:27 AM
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Hmm. Interesting. I hate being submissive to authority usually so I guess it makes sense to experiment to with submitting to authority in a controlled and safe environment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:23 AM
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Hmm. I'm not sure tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:21 AM
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Ooh punk you say? What type of music are you into? It's for the aesthetic. This is interesting and I'm not really sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:14 AM
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There's not enough pretty boys on the apps in my area smh get that muscle shit out of my face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:08 AM
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You can stumble around blindly in different ways. Very few people have all major aspects of their life together in their 20s. For example, dating wise I'm definitely stumbling around blindly but that's not true professionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:06 AM
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Hmm. I agree that men are easier to make come. But I feel like in terms of actually learning how to do it and do it well, going down on a woman is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:04 AM
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Gotta remember that it's absolutely not the norm to have your life together by 22. Most people stumble around blindly until 30 at minimum. Join the crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:02 AM
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Q4W: What brought you into spaces like this? What's your origin story? What keeps you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:00 AM
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probably
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:49 AM
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I can't help but laugh at people who think that simply changing government policies on welfare and divorce would turn back the clock like this. We saw in Iran a real turning back of the clock with the Islamic Revolution. Nothing short of that would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:44 AM
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More illegal abortions, less voluntary children, less marriages, more IUD placements, vibrator sales increase
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:38 AM
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you don't see ugly people in derm or plastics. lmaoo real
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:33 AM
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How old were yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:32 AM
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No one is talking about value as a human Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:32 AM
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Milfs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:31 AM
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I believe that there are absolutely no confounding factors and yknow what there's actually 100% causality. I'm sure of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:30 AM
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Caretaking for a serious medical health issue is 100% the most intimate act two people can share. I used to work in high risk obstetrics. The love between couples as they navigate threats to both the mother and fetus's lives is incredible to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:29 AM
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All just part of the ride, I've been rejected and flaked on plenty of times by women too I hope you're able to socialize there both friend wise and romantically tho. Great city. Gotta get on the beach and show off those gymmaxxing gains
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:26 AM
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Kinda fucked up for an attending to personally lecture a resident or student about their weight tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:22 AM
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Probably more than 0.1% of women are sexual harassers so uhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:15 AM
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Repressed catholic girls are not into submissive stuff in bed, quite the contrary. The trope is that they are very willing and aggressive in bed contrary to how they are outside. Hmm I don't know if I agree with this interpretation. It's more like they're particularly willing and adventurous in bed --> kinky --> submissive for women usually https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIPJrrQlxzY Starts ~1:24, idk I interpreted this as her wanting to be uhhh tied up, gagged, whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:14 AM
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So you're not a feminist deep down. Are you a moron? I truly hope the new generation will have a better time. I hope so too. I know way too many women from my culture who have or had shame based vaginismus. Basically the fear causes involuntary muscle spasms in the vagina that make penetration very difficult. So much pain, so much blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:08 AM
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I'm hoping you're just a virgin spouting idiocy Not actually talking about your sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:02 AM
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This is the harm of being in these pill spaces from a young age. Imagine thinking that bikinis are whoreish instead of just appreciating the hot women. And imagine complaining about spending summer in an area known for hot women. San Diego has a good lesbian community, I would go crazy there. Being in a beach area for the summer is literally easy mode like there’s going to be soo many beach parties and shit. Plus you’re athletic so you could just become a surfer chad or smth Go have a summer fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:56 AM
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Uh huh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:50 AM
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r/thathappened
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:49 AM
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Definitely an adrenaline junkie, I love rollercoasters not very feminist That’s a stupid argument and you know it. Obviously shamed based messaging while growing up, abstinence only and fear mongering sex ed, and being told that wanting and enjoying sex is unbecoming of a woman all have a lifelong impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:48 AM
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I bet it’s more correlated to the culture they grew up in and the shame they were taught to feel about their sexuality. The freaky repressed Catholic girl trope comes to mind. There also tends to an overlap in parents/cultures being heavy handed in encouraging excelling in school/work, and encouraging sexual shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:35 AM
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…anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:32 AM
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Out of curiosity what race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:31 AM
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Yeah I feel like people here are getting confused and thinking choking = crushing the trachea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:31 AM
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I specifically said age gap and n count stuff. The reality is that irl no one blinks an eye when a 20 year old dates a 25 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:30 AM
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You really are the most based person on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:27 AM
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Basic but antifragile fs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:26 AM
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The universe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:25 AM
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No Feeling small and vulnerable is an adrenaline rush. Also, I would say a lot of women feel significant shame around their sexuality. Being a sub and giving up that power to a dom helps alleviate that shame and overloads the senses. There’s a reason we say that no one’s freakier than a repressed catholic girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:24 AM
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Damn, I’m that transparent huh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:22 AM
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This is prob the right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:21 AM
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Vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:20 AM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:20 AM
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Being into one of those or more? Prolly half at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:13 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:12 AM
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“Being into BDSM means equality and feminism are lies”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:08 AM
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It feels good idk not like pressing hard or anything close to asphyxiation but just a hand around the neck and maybe some light squeezing on the sides
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:05 AM
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Men complain more about women complaining about age gaps and n count stuff than woman actually complaining about that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:02 AM
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Personally find going down on a woman to be easier than giving a blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:01 AM
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0.1% Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:59 AM
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They’ve met up 4 times and hooked up twice in what world is that a pump and dump. Yall just be saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:58 AM
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I mean like most of this is just being funny in a sarcastic and flirty way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:55 AM
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ope lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 12:16 AM
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Omfg thank you. Definitely agree that slim and toned is the most commonly liked body type. Guys here go on and on about roids, gigachads, how women want an unrealistic volume of muscle, all that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:49 PM
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You said yourself that you have good text game, that women like you over texts. What personality traits do you show over text?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:43 PM
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Eh I feel like women do tend to have a preference for muscle vs lanky, like I really am not attracted to any jacked guys. And I definitely have friends who are only into the muscular type
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:42 PM
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This is so overdramatic for what Who gave all these men a copy of the DSM-5 smh suddenly everything is a cluster B personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:39 PM
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Exactly!!! I need to see the guys body language, his twitchy nervousness, feel his aura
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:38 PM
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I mean, honestly, you're going to choose to believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:37 PM
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Girl to be honest you think way way too much about this whole "wall" and "women are expired after 30" thing. Women who spend time on forums like this need to do their best not to internalize what is being said. Remember that the vast majority of men are not on subs like this. Most men are out in the world vibing, dating, fucking. The reality is even the people who say "women hit the wall at 30" don't really believe it. You have the money -- go take care of yourself, improve any glaring issues wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:36 PM
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Eh idk this doesn't really track to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:31 PM
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This is interesting. I guess women just have to go off the height that guys list on their profile, and women tend to set some arbitrary cutoff. But in person it's different - you get that feeling of looking up at the guy and all that, and a few inches here or there really doesn't change how that feels usually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:28 PM
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I mean I disagree on vast majority. He was a lanky boi. Plus plenty of women aren't into hipsters or aren't super into white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:26 PM
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I have a pretty strict type so idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:25 PM
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Princess in the streets freak in the sheets is a tiktok trend for a reason. Also different versions of this adage have been around for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:23 PM
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Princess in the streets freak in the sheets is a tiktok trend for a reason. Also different versions of this adage have been around for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:23 PM
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Yeah you can lol I laughed at a guy when he tried to incorporate the whole "daddy" thing into dirty talk. We did not recover for that round but it didn't take too long
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:19 PM
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Yeah there are several different factors at play with OLD. It encourages being heavy handed with deal breakers in a way that people just don't do irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:14 PM
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This too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:13 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:13 PM
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Mm idk I just feel like it comes down to socializing and meeting people irl. Just like how people did it before OLD. The vast majority of couples I know met in person tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:13 PM
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I mean, a few days ago someone asked on the daily thread about what successful guy's matches looked like vs the women they pulled irl. Like 4 guys responded and all said their matches were a fair bit worse. I doubt that they are alone in this experience and it's worth digging into the several reasons for this disparity. Also just speaking from personal experience and the way OLD really just doesn't speak to my attraction to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:10 PM
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I just tried to swipe and find one that would fit for me but couldn't lol. I did see 1) a man of my ethnicity with a pretty good face and great beard and 2) a golden retriever type tall white guy with hipster style, I think they would fit into some women's category 1s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:07 PM
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I think women's attraction to men has three categories: Men that they're attracted to based on basically just photos Men they're attracted to after meeting them in person, being around them, etc. It really is vibes - the guy's sense of humor, little mannerisms, body language, everything. Men they are not attracted to IMO women vary in our distribution of guys in category 1 vs 2. But at the end of the day these feelings of attraction are equal. OLD used to really frustrate me because I would lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:58 PM
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Your comment was deleted but I wanted to say this: A few days back someone asked on the daily thread how successful guy's matches compared to the women they pulled irl. Like 4 guys all responded saying the matches were a fair bit worse. I would argue that for many (but not nearly all) women, dating apps just do not work for how we experience attraction. Often times I need to be around a guy, hear his voice and laugh, notice his little mannerisms, know his sense of humor, etc. A picture alone jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:41 PM
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And men here say women are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:29 PM
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You're right and you should say it But I'd take it a step further - have to remember that getting dickmatized is absolutely real and women tend to find it difficult to walk away from good dick. LTRs have a lot of potential in this realm especially early on for young people, just gotta have open communication + be adventurous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:57 PM
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People always say this but it was never a status quo feminist opinion. "Sex work is real work" and "decriminalizing sex work is harm reduction" were mainstream ideas for years. Sex neutral feminism's been gaining steam tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:17 PM
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No chance you actually believe the 666 shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:00 PM
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Jesus christ I was so clearly making a joke because I was responding to someone with 6'4" in his flair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:55 PM
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oh wait I thought your question was what makes a guy unfuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:53 PM
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If he was a serial ONS or serial dater I would have questions about his mental health. FWBs and the occasional hookup tho? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:51 PM
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I originally talked about relationships from teen years. You’re the one that cited sexual scarcity data over the course of years. I simply showed why your data is misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:33 PM
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Looking at that 2018 GSS data split by male age group gives a better picture of what is actually happening. <image> https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:52 PM
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Over the course of decades? 44% of adult Gen Z men report not dating during their teen years. This number was 32% for Millennial men and 23% for Gen X men. Sounds like if we go back decades, the average man is and has been dating from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:32 PM
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Oh blah blah blah even the men that talk about being mislead admit that they're referring to their parents/grandma telling they're such a special wittle boy and being kind and smart will get them a great girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:16 PM
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80% of men in their late teens + 20s are single and celibate? Fascinating let me go inform them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:14 PM
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Being below 6'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:14 PM
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Poisoning their minds via things like social media and OLD to the point of utterly warped perceptions of what “average” means for starters? What is the proof of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:12 PM
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"I'm lonely because women are shallow and hypergamous and only want to fuck Chad and then try to use me for my money and make me raise somebody else's kid and all these land whales think they're so hot because they get pumped dumped"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 05:05 PM
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this is why they end up with douches anyone else could see the red flags from miles away. So true, women only choose asshole abusive chads and all the wittle angel virgins are left in the dust
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:46 PM
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"I did everything they said I should do but I was ignored in favour of men who I was told weren't what women wanted" who tf is they
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:40 PM
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How tf you do read that comment and equate that rhetoric to simply being critical of women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:38 PM
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"giving up"? what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:38 PM
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"did you dash"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:23 PM
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Yeah she literally got married at 27. She was probably in that LTR from like 19-31 y/o. The amount and nature of the hate she's getting is pretty telling. It seems like a decent chunk of men have convinced themselves of this whole "cock carousel thing", that women below 30 just chase chads who only hook up with them, that e women just forgo relationships because of their inflated egos, that LTRs are exceedingly rare for women in their late teens and 20s. So beyond delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:22 PM
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Wtaf I honestly feel like people (mostly women) who believe in the “power” of friendship/social community/social connections as a “bandaid” or “magical drug” that can fix almost any emotional or physical situation. Not a magical fix, but damn close.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:12 PM
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boo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:53 AM
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Yeah agree with that too like if they weren't touchy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:40 AM
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Good kissing just like... feels insane. Kissing incompatibility is a huge dealbreaker imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:25 AM
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No I mean that I personally find going down on a woman to be pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:19 AM
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I feel like the question with fake boobs is if they feel similar or not yes, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:18 AM
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it's a line from a TV show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:17 AM
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people are gay steven
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:14 AM
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Hmm I feel like it's not fair to compare cuddling to sexual acts because they're completely different experiences. Like yeah cuddling is better than sex but hardly a replacement I feel like kissing > cuddling > PIV > other sexual acts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 04:13 AM
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https://twitter.com/The_OA/status/811285048603226112?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:56 AM
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Controlling parents make the sneakiest kids
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:55 AM
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Yeah. I mean you're near the end of college. Definitely an appropriate time to start setting boundaries and assert yourself as an independent person. Have you commuted throughout?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:54 AM
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Going down on a woman is a pleasurable experience actually
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:50 AM
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Remember to do it to people's faces irl. That's key
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:49 AM
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ooh what's your way of dealing with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:46 AM
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I think that you should take up this mantle. I think you should dedicate your time to fat shaming with the noble goal of reducing obesity rates. Especially irl you should definitely fat shame people. It's just the right thing for you to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:43 AM
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Went from overweight BMI to normal (always had decent muscle). Only did so after learning to view myself and my body in a positive light. Curious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:36 AM
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are you actually stupid enough to believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:30 AM
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no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:29 AM
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I'm saying what I view as the ideal view going forward. Pharma companies have seen how much money is it weight loss drugs. We'll see more research into this, hopefully the drugs will advance and production will ramp up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:28 AM
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Part of it is she's not what straight girls view as pretty, and also she looks a little AI-like and too airbrushed in that video Madison Beer's definitely pretty attractive tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:26 AM
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Breaking: reddit man finally, miraculously solves an epidemic that's been developing for decades and effects more than 40% of American adults (with another 30% being overweight). We can all go home now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:27 AM
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Do you think obese people have never tried a diet in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:23 AM
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On a good hair day probably a bitchy 7 with some chance of autism. or maybe a delusional 5. who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:21 AM
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Nah it's like specific girls I know who were overweight in college and have now lost a lot of weight. I've seen some of these girls irl since graduation, or at least in other friend's pictures as well. Lot of women I know irl have started diets this year, lot of "oh no I'm okay" when asking people about getting lunch or dinner nowadays. I have also lost a lot of weight since college grad and I'm decently sure I am not looking at an AI filter in the mirror. Just a cultural shift brought along by …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:19 AM
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This bias can increased in recent years IMO, largely driven by an increase in mistrust of the healthcare system (in some ways understandable). And that's partially driven by the rise of anti-intellectualism. I think one could make the argument that our absolutely ridiculous obesity rate is a pretty clear sign of natural processes failing in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:14 AM
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yikes on bikes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:01 AM
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yeah but your comment was still a brain rot moment in response to my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:01 AM
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This shit is exactly what I'm talking about. "The easy way out" what are you talking about bruh. Why is """natural""" weight loss some lofty moral ideal? Next you'll be telling a patient with high blood pressure that taking medication is the "easy way out" and they should rely only on diet changes And cheaper -- it depends. Patients with diabetes can and do get these drugs covered by insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:59 AM
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This just does not track with the real experiences of people who are on these drugs There is a mad rush for Ozempic-type drugs. Celebrities are paying out the ass for it, cities like NYC have a ton of doctors who prescribe it to their wealthy patients. This isn't coincidental. This shit works. Yes, it has to be done in combination with lifestyle changes. And yes, many patients will need to continue a lower maintenance dosage. Just like SSRIs you're stuck on the medication for months *4-6 weeks f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:48 AM
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Oh please, don't pretend that you read these examples and genuinely thought those guys were just "trying to relate 🥺"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:38 AM
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brain rot moment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:37 AM
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Man it's weight loss city out there, kinda cool cultural shift My soapbox: obesity is a chronic medical illness. American society treats obesity and weight as an issue of morality, and it simply is not. Fuck "natural weight loss". Who gives a shit? Weight should be managed by doctors who treat through a combination of drugs and lifestyle recommendations. We don't demand that diabetics forgo insulin and that they treat themselves solely through changing lifestyle. Why tf should we do that with ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:25 AM
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Hosting pregames was soo much fun in college. I miss it. Loved making jello shots and blowjob shots
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:18 AM
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smoking cigarettes? dirty european detected
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:15 AM
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Yknow for a long time I just thought this whole male insecurity thing was just a talking point. But the things me and my friends have experienced while dating... and it's not only money related Like guys asking about ACT/SAT scores (at our big age) on a very early date, any mention of career being met with "oh yeah I thought about doing that but I decided it wasn't a good decision because xyz", guys straight up not understanding that we're actually in the major or career path that we say we're i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:10 AM
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oh that really sucks :/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:06 AM
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what are you TALKING ABOUT were you not like . 15
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:00 AM
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I feel like asians are more bimodal than other races, my asian friends are generally really into drinking and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:00 AM
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I do that shit with roommates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:58 AM
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wtf how were you a druggie then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:56 AM
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That makes sense you're basically adjacent to asians
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:53 AM
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I was a major bitch from a young age so I would've done some shit like blockade the door Depending on the culture you're from / what your parents are like, they can and will dictate every little step of your life. Gotta buck them off fast and establish boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:48 AM
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So how many of y'all fr did not have friends in middle or high school? And Q4A: what were those years like for y'all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:48 AM
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damn I thought stoner high schoolers had a circle of stoners and also they were all fucking like band kinda
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:46 AM
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People always say that and I think it's an overly dramatic take tbh. You have to factor for all the advantages of having roommates too. Plus you don't have to go with total randos off the street
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:44 AM
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Yeah this is a rough question to even approach because we have to apply modern understandings of ethnicity to ancient humans, which is idiotic at best. Especially because the US generally defines middle eastern people as white
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:42 AM
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I'm not following your logic honestly. I think you have to separate between brown (as in middle eastern or south asian) and black, first of all. or most of history you'd be discriminated against based on your race no matter where you ended up Is this true, though? Like throughout most of history I think south asian and middle eastern people generally stayed in that area. I feel like discrimination based on their race wasn't a part of every day life until they were surrounded by or under the empi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:40 AM
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Hmm I wish I knew more about ancient history to dig into this more. And if you think too much about what "white" means this gets complicated I guess you'd have to map out the major empires, the quality of life of the middle class and poor, how brutal the demise of the empire was, and then categorize the people by modern conceptions of race The quality of life part is huge because to my understanding a lot of nonwealthy white people lived in horrific, unsanitary conditions under major european em…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:34 AM
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don't live alone oh my god. get roommates your age. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:28 AM
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class clown? damn you must've had hoes in high school jestermaxxing is real and guys here underappreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:27 AM
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"women moment" I would bet money that men are more likely to hold onto treasure troves of their ex's nudes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:26 AM
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Hmmm but you have to go percentage wise to maximize chances. Choosing a white guy could mean an upper class European in the 1700s, but it could also mean a jewish guy in 1935. Maybe I could get on board with the generic brown guy answer (like modern day equivalent of middle east or south asia) but I have to think when you look at world history overall, white people have been most successful empire wise
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:24 AM
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That's crazy. He looks like a whole new guy. I really need to work on my hair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:14 AM
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Wait what if that's what you mean then the literal only answer is white male
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:12 AM
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I feel like the objectively correct answer is white men born in the US at a time where they could maximally benefit from America's post-WWII economic advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:09 AM
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Grew up with a non-abrahamic religion but my parents were always chill about it. "Have a relationship with god and go worship occasionally" type beat without overly strict rules. Plenty of cultural guilt but it was not tied to religion at all in my upbringing I hate organized religion (I have the biggest complex with authority figures ever) but I still cherish my relationship with god
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:07 AM
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I feel like a more interesting question is just "what would you pick" rather than specifically going for "highest chance of a good life"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:04 AM
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Boo religion boooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:00 AM
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I thought of something else I wanted to say more and I try not to have too many main comments close together in the daily thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:00 AM
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Bruh no shit you had guilt about masturbating then Catholic guilt goes crazy regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:59 PM
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Look at the post about Billie Eilish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:58 PM
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aren't you literally muslim
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:58 PM
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So many crocodile tears about "women's sexuality is celebrated, imagine if men were able to talk about their sexuality openly like that !1!1!" https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/paul-mccartney-john-lennon-masturbation-gq-cover-8474624/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XI28FwgS8fc https://bloketoys.co.uk/en/blog/post/20-male-celebs-proud-of-their-wanking https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/towies-jon-clark-masturbated-eight-9956454
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:54 PM
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Guess what! I actually don't have to imagine! https://www.billboard.com/music/rock/paul-mccartney-john-lennon-masturbation-gq-cover-8474624/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XI28FwgS8fc https://bloketoys.co.uk/en/blog/post/20-male-celebs-proud-of-their-wanking https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/towies-jon-clark-masturbated-eight-9956454
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:51 PM
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Sure, but it's nonsensical. Women here trend towards being educated with decent income, which are both negatively correlated with obesity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:40 PM
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why would we have failed PE class...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:31 PM
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Female sexuality is seen as beautiful hahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:10 PM
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The claim that guys are pretty good at sussing out what guys suck is one of the funnier PPD ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:09 PM
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Rage b8. been tons of body count bait lately
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:06 PM
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Sounds like women are more caring and friendly to each other than men are to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:17 PM
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No what I'm saying is that asian males and females go through equivalent education regimens -- the total sum of their education is equal. If the way that young children are taught inherently disadvantages men, then we would see a deficit in young asian male educational achievement *in comparison* to young asian females. But we do not see such a deficit in elementary and middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:33 AM
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I *am* asian. I'm saying that if girls were advantaged in early education because of how young children are taught, then within every race we would see a gap in performance. But we don't. (I'm saying compare within race, like Asian female vs male, white female vs male. That accounts for baseline disparities between races)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:26 AM
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Contrast this with men who go entirely off of their own tastes. hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:52 AM
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I mean yeah but asian american males and females are doing the same amount as each other in and out of the classroom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:43 AM
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Most men who are lonely should focusing on building a solid friend group first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:38 AM
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I made a comment far down this post with various studies showing that men, especially overweight ones, are not really able to estimate their attractiveness effectively. I can tag you in a comment on it if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:36 AM
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Do you believe that you have to be prettier and constantly self improve be as valuable and attractive as you can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:27 AM
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I would say that life slapped me in the face by the time I was 4 or 5. So I can't imagine that sort of thing. My friend commented on this sort of thing once -- people who are given unconditional support growing up without real expectations/goals or struggle at home generally have difficulty adapting to real life. Often times dating is that first big slap. Sometimes it's grade school friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:23 AM
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Then you should know how many women have difficulty finding self esteem from within and only viewing themselves as valuable if they are attractive as possible. And how many women have absolutely fucked relationships with food and their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:16 AM
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Lmfao. The former. For sure. Have you met a woman ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:11 AM
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no I've actually never taken a math class in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:10 AM
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How does early education favor female learning style? Asian American male children perform equally to Asian American female children in elementary and middle school (unlike whites/other races)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:03 AM
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Yeah I can't even imagine having coddling parents to the point of being told that I'm special and sweet and all I have to do is be myself for someone to fall in love with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:57 AM
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Where in god's name did y'all go to school bruh Or who is shorter than her. No shit, did you not see how much guys who hit early growth spurts were treated in middle school? Especially if they were athletic? Most women still won’t pursue men We grew up with school dances, and guys pursuing and asking girls was absolutely the norm. To the point that we had Sadie Hawkins dances where the girl did the asking. This was 1 specific type of dance each year because the girl asking was absolutely not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:41 PM
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Where the heck did y'all go to school bruh You heard that from other children? The famously not sweet and brutally honest children?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:33 PM
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I still don't understand how a boy can go through middle and high school without easily seeing the impact of looks, confidence, status, charisma, and humor on a guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:32 PM
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What about the other children tho? Children are brutal to absolutely anyone and everyone, and social hierarchies based on looks, athleticism, charisma, confidence, etc are formed as early as elementary school and 6th grade
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:31 PM
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I'm unsurprised by the mother part but the school part is very strange. Young kids are absolutely brutal and will tear apart anyone they can over the smallest things. The idea that the best looking and worst looking guys were talked about as equal is so at odds with my own experience of like 6th grade and older
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:29 PM
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But does all this talk about "we were told that women don't care about looks, they want nice respectful guys, they just care about moral character unlike men" line up with your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:27 PM
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What? That's not true at all. Most people on Reddit are not from NYC or SF proper. The young people are heavily from suburban areas and many are from middle america
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:26 PM
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Wilddd it's not like that in middle America at all. But tbf your experience is an outlier. The men here skew young and suburban
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:24 PM
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Apparently they all also grew up homeschooled with no male authority figures and a mom, grandma, etc who told them over and over that they were sweet amazing boys who could get women by just being themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:22 PM
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Lol and they're just responding to you with more lies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:21 PM
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Tbh I've heard guys and girls in school talk about the importance of confidence in guys since like 7th grade
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:19 PM
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The trolling started several months ago when their baby was like 1 y/o, I have to imagine they were both in kind of a fragile state. Cruel imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:07 PM
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"In 2024" they're literally high school sweethearts, she's been with him long before fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:02 PM
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I mean you're not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:01 PM
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His looks are hardly a barrier...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:00 PM
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I think the whole "alpha widow" thing is men not understanding that a not uncommon scenario for a woman getting dickmatized is an unhealthy relationship. If a guy is pushing and pulling and being inconsistent, then that's equivalent to variable reinforcement, which we know from mice studies is very addictive. The swirling adrenaline, fear, confusion, all of it together can feel really intense and make the sex seem incredible (at least at the beginning). A healthy relationship will not and should…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:58 PM
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They just gotta get with a woman with nipple piercings and they'll change their mind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:51 PM
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No no you're good. I get the joke now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:32 PM
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Nice, goth girls are hot. Some piercings and tattoos >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:58 PM
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I think this is where a lot of people are at, the reality is that they will continue killing each other for decades and there is nothing we, or even really the US govt, can do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:56 PM
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It's just a weird mindset I see on this sub like if you're attracted why does her BMI matter... it's not like men can guess a woman's weight to save their lives so like (hyperbolic I know)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 PM
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Genuine question how have you as a biracial guy fared with emo, goth, alternative, indie, and witchy women? Any types that worked better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:37 PM
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damn a broken clock really is right twice a day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:35 PM
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why are you like this if you get so much attention from women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:35 PM
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Nichemaxxing is real and effective That picture is a nice look I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:33 PM
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Hmm you could be right
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:40 AM
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It depends how premature but switching positions helps, taking breaks or doing something else, multiple rounds (second feels the best anyways), he can masturbate beforehand, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:38 AM
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I'm ngl I would feel like shit if oral + PIV was never enough to get him off even without a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:34 AM
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Heavy on ego boost lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:32 AM
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Yeah there's decently easy work arounds for premature ejaculation. Pain is worse
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:32 AM
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I wonder if it destabilizes relationships tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:24 AM
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It starts to hurt. I mean 10 minutes straight tho, of course it's better with breaks/switching it up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:21 AM
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Is it? Idk. Don't even know if having a threesome or whatever is good for couples
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:15 AM
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Yeah more than 10 minutes can be a problem imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:13 AM
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There can be issues with maintaining erection during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:02 AM
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i dunno what the fuck is yours (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 05:00 AM
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...no, just showing an array of women around that age and showing what average looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:57 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:54 AM
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I think watching "Sex Lives of College Girls" the tv show would help in giving context, showing Renee Rapp and other women. Makes it clearer that she is not what average looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:50 AM
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Interesting. I have seen a few couples like this but I thought they were the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:44 AM
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No. I'm fr confused now. Yall actually think that this is what an average 24 year old looks like tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:34 AM
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No. I've been told I kinda look like Ice Spice lol I'm not saying she's the next Margot Robbie or anything. But I'm in her age group and looking at her no makeup / less made up pics, she just is not what an average woman looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:19 AM
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Because men here are always talking about how women are chasing chads and not understanding what their actual looksmatch is, not understanding what the average man looks like. I'm in Renee Rapp's age group and she, just factually, is not what a "slightly better than average" woman looks like. The average carries more weight and has a less favorable fat distribution. Overall her body is simply not average. And the average woman has a worse face/is uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:15 AM
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Wtf weirdest comment I've gotten on this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:08 AM
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why are you lying tho like what's the point in feeding into this idea that she's actually average? especially when men here go on and on about women not knowing what average is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:06 AM
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https://www.fabmood.com/renee-rapps-aesthetic-odyssey/renee-rapp-outfits-3/ I think she basically doesn't have makeup or just like brow gel/pencil and a little concealer in this pic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:03 AM
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stop exposing our secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:00 AM
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... dude. come on. you know that is not at all what an average woman look like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:58 AM
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yuh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:56 AM
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I just googled her no makeup and idk how to say this exactly but that is not what an average woman without makeup looks like. At all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:56 AM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:40 AM
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Mhmm renee was pretty young when she was cast in broadway mean girls, she also got tons of shit and developed an eating disorder. And then when the Mean Girls movie trailer dropped a bunch of inkwells came out of the woodwork to call her fat and Avantika ugly. Very much telling on themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:39 AM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:37 AM
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This reads like fanfiction
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:21 AM
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In a broad sense I feel that weight and size wise, the guys here with zero/almost zero experience have crazy opinions and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:18 AM
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fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:07 AM
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General population is overweight Exactly. Renee Rapp's a lot less made up than other stars, she doesn't really conform to those standards. She literally wears oversized t shirts and boy shorts during tour performances
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:05 AM
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Think in terms of the general population, not just actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:55 AM
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Men who've spent too much time in pill and inkwell spaces think like this, tearing apart attractive women over silly perceived flaws. Normal people just go "ooga booga"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:53 AM
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The rational response would've been to acknowledge that she's 1) not fat and 2) very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:49 AM
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inkwells really out in full force lately I see
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:42 AM
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It's not even close to a full face routine. The big changes come with foundation and contour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:35 AM
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I specified more than once that I was talking about social people...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:31 AM
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PPD men will go on and on about women not recognizing their league, trying to punch up, having no understanding of what average men look like, then turn around and describe Renee Rapp like this: I still stand by the point that she's on the bigger side, could even be fat in the past. She has that 'fat legs' thing where they are don't have much shape, just sort of cones with knock knees, meaty arms and a heavy face. She's kinda like out of shape Kairi Sane. What a joke. I suspected as much. https:…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:29 AM
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That's interesting, what race(s) are these WOC?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:25 AM
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Idk I thought poor people fuck a lot too but men here swear up and down that only men making 6 figs can have casual sex. Who knows what the truth is And honestly for social people, college can be a sexual free for all. Same with NYC and that definitely extends to people making 150k+
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:23 AM
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oh nice nice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:21 AM
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And various ethnicities of men tend to overrate east asian women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:19 AM
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Yup, they want a skinny white woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:18 AM
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aww
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:17 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:16 AM
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Are you white? If yeah then duh of course you do best with Asian girls I don't have a huge preference any way, tho I'm pretty picky with white people and there's some demographics I'm not interested in. My history's heavy on asian guys, black girls, and gingers (their skin is so PALE like vampires)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:15 AM
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Don't want to be too specific but let's just say a form of brown -- think middle eastern, north african, south asian
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:09 AM
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Mmm you're right I did. I assumed that if you weren't white then you would've known that my original comment was true, not racist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:09 AM
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if you're in a diverse area literally go blink at a woman of color. Someone will fall on your dick honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:04 AM
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I think it definitely used to advantage even sub 5s but it's becoming less common now as people openly mock women of color, particularly asian women, who do stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:03 AM
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Because if they're young and in a diverse city or environment (like college) the reality is that they should be able to easily pull a looksmatch (or better) woman of color. So many POC overrate white people to an almost ridiculous extent. I've seen horrors, up to and including a skinny, decent looking woman of color dating a 5'2" m'lady fedora type white guy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:52 AM
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"You can't expect exclusivity until you have that conversation" is pretty status quo amongst Gen Z. You're going on dates --> exclusive --> in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:47 AM
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This is why I have little sympathy for 5+/10 white young men here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:41 AM
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There's plenty of women of color around. Good looking men of color are fucking plenty, trust Also have to remember that a decent amount of POC add points onto white people just because they're white. Entirely possible that you saw a 6 and he saw an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:02 AM
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Ye I'm just saying ideally, especially for people who get with both men and women. Also the numbers change a lot when you limit to social, college educated, upwardly mobile people I think. My ex was objectively average face wise (tall tho) and that man was a hoe. Wasn't dumpster diving at all either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:01 AM
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I mean let's say a decent looking man or woman is single for 1 year postgrad in NYC, then is in a 2 year relationship, then is single for another year, then finds their forever person. Add in 1 from high school, some amount in college, and postgrad and I can definitely see a person with a healthy relationship with themselves and sex having an oral + PIV count of ~25. Especially when you factor for the sheer number of young people, esp in big cities, who experiment with men and women. And the fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:51 AM
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Nah I mean if someone chooses not to have casual sex throughout their life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:48 AM
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I think unless someone finds their forever person pretty young or completely avoids casual sex, 5-15/20 people is probably an ideal mix of experiences. Maybe up to 25/30 if they are single living in like NYC or LA post grad (This number is including oral sex, unlike usual discussions)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:39 AM
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are you insane
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:22 AM
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"Full face" half my friends don't even own foundation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:21 AM
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Mm I don't love the cut of it but I def need to buy some similar ~girls are out~ tops for this summer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:20 AM
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wack
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:16 AM
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fuck, probably have HIV too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:42 PM
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damn turns out I'm a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:37 PM
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100 is almost always indicative of some underlying issue (for both men and women). 1-20 could easily just be someone who really enjoys sex and has casual sex between relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:36 PM
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there's a huge difference tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:29 PM
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...? It's a mix
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:28 PM
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A lot of women internalize slut shaming rhetoric and shame themselves tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:23 PM
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If I'm wearing a going out top where the girls are OUT and girling then the respectful thing to do is look quickly and then look away Example of such a top: https://www.amazon.com/REORIA-Womens-Sleeveless-Backless-Workout/dp/B0CTJZBGRT?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&psc=1&smid=ALV52DMTUSZYG
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:18 PM
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nahh *-count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:15 PM
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Oh that's a lot. Definitely would not want to have a child with 100+ bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:11 PM
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No that's too dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:05 PM
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oh that's chill
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:01 PM
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When we're saying thot son thot daughter do we mean like 10-20 or 100
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:28 PM
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yuhhh that's peak
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:19 PM
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Now let's think about why talking about what the victim was wearing (or the victim's sexual history or whatever) is effective in swaying the opinions of juries
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:40 PM
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Mm I wonder if that's true in the US. And I wonder how women's girth preferences compare to avg sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:43 PM
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only 5% of men are 6-6.5 inches or more ?? that can't be right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:30 PM
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ope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:07 PM
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yike
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:56 PM
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Ok and
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:49 PM
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...yes. Just like how people in the US complaining about food deserts are valid even thought there are people legit starving in parts of the third world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:45 PM
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Have you considered that almost this entire sub is first world problems
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:45 PM
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Doubt on 7-8 being ideal for most women. Other studies have found 6 - 6.5 being ideal and that sounds about right. And yeah below 5 is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:35 PM
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6.4 vs 6.3 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:29 PM
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I mean there's a middle ground between short dick and gigantic/pounding cervix
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:27 PM
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There's a range but some of those men are definitely on the same level as her. Young white men tend to add points for East Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:07 AM
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She's not a 3/10, especially when you consider that young white men have a tendency to add points for East Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:04 AM
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That's wild, I've never been able to understand the viewpoint of some men here that they'll just give up on society, ambition, and career altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:51 AM
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b8
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:46 AM
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Yeah single. I'm sure I'll feel like that once I'm in a relationship. I don't really want to sleep with lots of different people tbh. I had two FWBs last year and that was ideal. But if counting men and women I'm getting too close to double digits to keep doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:45 AM
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unrealistic depending on your definition of hairy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:40 AM
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I definitely like some lean muscle, but a skinny look overall. I've tried but I'm really just not attracted to guys with upper body bulk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:34 AM
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The high N women I know just really enjoy sex Tbh if I wasn't deathly scared of getting genital herpes I'd probably be high N
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:06 AM
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Mm I'm sure it does work yeah. I'm really not attracted to buff guys at all but I'm sure I'm an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:00 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:52 PM
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I think guys make the mistake of thinking that a left swipe = thinking a guy isn't attractive or tall enough For a few days I tried swiping right on most guys that I thought "ooh he's kinda cute" without applying other criteria and got hit with such an avalanche of matches and messages that the whole app feels unusable now You really have to apply a set of harsh criteria (sensible or not) and get caught up in your sense of an ideal partner to make these apps usable. There's a reason I usually on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:51 PM
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Bisexual women can be normal weight girly girls. So can alternative women tbh especially if they're the indie type
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:47 PM
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I dunno what to tell you. Textbook. Been hearing it since middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:43 PM
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That's silly. I think girls with some tats, piercings, heavy eyeliner are hot asf, but okay fine that's definitely a niche. Bisexual women? Doesn't make much sense to eliminate them entirely unless you're religious or something. And sure obese women aren't attractive generally but overweight BMI with favorable fat distribution? C'mon now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:38 PM
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I don't really understand your confusion honestly. Yes, many women do view some lean muscle as *ideal*. But skinny guys, including ADHD guys who can't really put on muscle, can be and are attractive tho. Comes down to a cute face imo Actually, lanky men are a niche. Tall, skinny men tend to be liked by women who are alternative/emo or bisexual or plus size. And I don't think "not attracted to masculinity" is a fair characterization. Plenty of young alternative or bisexual women are into guys who…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:36 PM
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You're meaning to link to the comments right? Which explained that the post title was seriously misleading?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:24 PM
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Hmm 110? That's like legit underweight for most guys right? I remember when my 5'8"/9" guy friends in high school talked about feeling too skinny they were like 130 pounds. I'll agree that women generally don't like underweight guys. I meant more the Timothee Chalamet, Machine Gun Kelly, Pete Davidson type. Lanky guys. They tend to be a niche liked by alternative/emo, bisexual, or plus size women. There's also an idea amongst women that skinny guys, especially tall skinny guys, have big dicks. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:20 PM
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Honestly do you think any of those women were trying to hit on you? "Did you eat today? Did you drink water?? You need to eat and take care of yourself!! You're so skinny!!" type stuff seems pretty textbook hitting on someone/expressing attraction to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:08 PM
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Hmm I'll agree on the prefer aspect -- a lot of young women like the lean with some arm and back muscle aesthetic. But plenty are also attracted to legit skinny guys. A lot of young guys nowadays are on ADHD meds like Adderall. Those meds make appetite plummet and they end up pretty skinny. At least at the college level they really don't suffer with women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:06 PM
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Not just looking at the guy but after like 1-2 conversations or a little time just being around him, I've definitely felt intense + spontaneous lust. Permanent blush on my face, ~things are flowing~, etc. These guys are definitely my type and have cute faces but they're hardly 6'0+ jacked chads. I feel like a lot of women feel intense lust for men (and not just the top 10% of men) but few women feel that within a second of looking at a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:00 PM
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I'm most likely to get overwhelmed and just close the app or continue swiping to pass the time Otherwise I'll apply a few hard criteria that filter really heavily, which is usually going for guys at my school and/or in fields that compliment my interests I feel like women commonly do this sort of thing to artificially limit their options and create a workable pool tbh. Some limit to only their own ethnicity, guys of a certain height, career, etc. The apps almost force you to use restrictive crit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:51 PM
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Yup exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:47 PM
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Wut
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:21 PM
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Are you graduating next month or do you have more time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:19 PM
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This whole "women want jacked roided men!!1!1!" thing is a huge example of PPD men having selective hearing. How can y'all know about the number of women who like lanky guys? Or guys with light muscle but no bulk? Or guys who are skinny to the point of looking like the wind will carry them away? Pretty boys have been in for the past several years, I can't even go to big social events nowadays without seeing attractive skinny straight men wearing rings or simple chains or earrings or nail polish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:08 PM
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I don't even understand how men can say things like this, do y'all not hear the number of women who are into lanky or skinny pretty boys? How could men like Timothee Chalamet and Harry Styles be considered jacked? Young Leonardo DiCaprio? Younger Dylan O'Brien (LOML)? Andrew Garfield?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:04 PM
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80% of men are not being left out. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:53 PM
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Yes especially if he's around my age. So traumatizing to lose a parent that young
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:32 PM
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Weed shouldn't be used regularly, especially if it's being smoked because of effects on the lungs. Edibles are a lot better in that respect. Yeah. Nah. For most people the social benefits of alcohol outweight the risks of moderate intake. We need to be able to approach health risks rationally rather than trying to eliminate all negative behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:09 PM
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When I say hookups I mean any form of casual sex, from FWB to ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:23 PM
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I'm not talking about ease. Straight casual sex has all sorts of issues in terms of communication and meeting what everyone wants out of the encounter (physically and mentally).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:19 PM
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Damn, I guess I didn't really swipe on guys so I don't really know what straight Hinge looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:15 PM
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Heterosexual casual sex might just be unworkable, too steeped in gender issues and politics. The lesbian and gay hookup scenes are so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:11 PM
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Interesting. I'm a WOC and do miles better with women on Hinge vs other dating apps, but maybe I'm an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:57 PM
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Women tend to be pretty hesitant about sending likes, especially to men. I paid for a week of Hinge+ (unlimited likes) and it was definitely worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:55 PM
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I meant the former. I was thinking about how young men are more likely than young women to have very limited social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:51 PM
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If you're a young person spend that money on Hinge tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:50 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:49 PM
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Yeah young women's socialization got hit pretty hard in the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:48 PM
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Do you think that men and women need to have equal social skills in order to make same gender friends? I'm inclined to think yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:45 PM
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In their 60s? What? My grandpa just turned 80. And yes my grandparents are from the third world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:45 PM
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Acting like men don't do similar things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:57 AM
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Okay but how about your actual experiences with these women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:50 AM
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Intriguing Which women were the least forward when they wanted to hook up? And how do class and political ideology play in?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:49 AM
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Hmm I could DM you a more in depth analysis/explanation if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:39 AM
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And Stacies!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:34 AM
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Interesting. Any observations on white vs black vs east asian vs indian women? I think I've picked up all the big ethnic categories except east asian women and black men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:14 AM
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In my culture mother in laws have historically been some of the biggest upholders of patriarchy and the biggest torturers of their daughter in laws. This isn't exactly unusual for the area they grew up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:12 AM
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Taylor Swift is popular due to a mix of extremely talented + targeted marketing and consistent catchy hits over many years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:10 AM
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Are you a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:09 AM
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Weird ass question. Family members in my parent's generation. The 13 and 20s thing is just a fact tho I've seen their marriage photos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:09 AM
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Q4W: What do you think of this whole "average women are chasing guys out of their league who are pumping and dumping them" narrative? Do you think this is happening on any sort of large scale with women throughout their 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:03 AM
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This is overdramatic, I'm assuming you live in the US. White people are the beauty standard. They are treated as more attractive. Every brown or black woman has experienced the same thing in terms of not being viewed as attractive as white women. There's no point in stressing over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:59 AM
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My grandma's mother in law used to beat the shit out of her (in an effort to make her a good wife). My grandma was 13 and my grandpa was in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:51 AM
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...yes. That's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:47 AM
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If a brown guy is like 5'7"+, healthy weight, 5+/10 face, in a diverse area, and going for looks matches, he will do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:44 AM
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harry potter crossed generations. there's also percy jackson. and generally hunger games has staying power with people around my age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:22 AM
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normal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:21 AM
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If you think there are widespread quotas for women in education then I've got a bridge in London to sell you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:10 AM
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wow what an effective strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:07 AM
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No. That is simply not how evolution works. Change in allele frequency throughout the population almost always takes many generations. The idea that birth rates will self correct is also silly because in the next generation we're going to see all sorts of issues like social security collapsing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:06 AM
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so then zero solution lies in incentivizing women to just pair up with some man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:03 AM
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What about all the women in relationships and also on antidepressants?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:58 AM
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so overdramatic for what
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:57 AM
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Waiting till marriage only works if people get married by 20-22. And there's zero way to make the average age of marriage drop significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:55 AM
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How many generations do you think it takes for the effects of evolution to be seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:53 AM
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Big law and investment banking are different. There's plenty of 150k+ jobs for new grads where they work 40-60 hours tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:44 AM
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Lotta Asian girls are making pretty good money in the bay Don't worry though, plenty of them are psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:37 AM
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Mm yeah it's like dating around with zero hurry to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:36 AM
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This just isn't true lol the people I was with are all tech/finance/consulting. 1 was a true trust fund baby but they're generally making enough themselves to cover their lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:34 AM
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How do you know that we're talking about different types of attractiveness...? But yeah the women I know are like 22-24 But it's not just the top 10% that have rosters full of hot men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:13 AM
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I'm still not a fan of men going on and on about how much they hate Western women and how submissive 3rd world girls are sooo much better. But I've definitely become a lot more sympathetic to guys here who genuinely can't attract women and make a legitimate attempt to meet women in a place where they will inherently be viewed more positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:12 AM
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Going off scales online I'm definitely not commenting on 5s Stacy doesn’t have a roster. Lol. What do you think hot sorority girls are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:09 AM
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I'm unclear on what a Stacy looks like vs a Becky Going off the scales online, the women I run with are generally 6.5+, the ones with rosters of both men and women were prob 7.5+
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:06 AM
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If we define lesbian experiences super broadly to include kissing a woman while drunk at a party, then I agree. Otherwise I don't agree, that doesn't fit with my observations in high school, college, and postgrad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:58 PM
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I don't have a ton of sympathy for grown women in long term committed relationships who are not able to advocate for what they want. Or women who are consistently faking orgasms. If the guy just isn't listening then he needs to be kicked to the curb At the end of the day no one is coming to save us. We have to save ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:55 PM
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They don't just masturbate to gay porn, they hook up with guys and say they're actually straight Any gay guy can tell you the sheer number of DL/closeted/publicly straight guys that are trying to get with them I also knew a ton of out bi guys in college
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:52 PM
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I got poison lol My descriptors include "cut to the chase" "crying doesn't help" "consequentialist" and "i'm the best"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:50 PM
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If they're Gen Z, it's better to assume they're not straight. With men too tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:48 PM
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The idea that attractive young women in big coastal cities are chasing commitment from "Chads" + getting pumped and dumped, rather than having their own roster of Chads and Stacies, is funny to me Source: Spent a weekend in NYC with a bunch of yuppies recently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:47 PM
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natality is not going to be reinvigorated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:41 PM
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Concerts are for getting to the rails and losing your mind as your favorite band performs just feet away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:29 PM
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The first person I fell in love with (a woman) was decidedly not my type. I definitely did not think of her that way at first. But she became beautiful to me. I don't think this is relevant to OLD and meeting strangers, though. When you're just around a person without the pressure of dating that attraction can for sure grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:26 PM
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Is the man kinda cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:25 PM
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I've held a decent amount of side jobs and it's never been an avenue for dating/getting laid tbh. 100% agree that young people should do it tho, good for building responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:23 PM
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it's really only the wine that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:21 PM
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more than anything Gen Z needs to be getting outside and expanding their social circles. especially the ones in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:29 PM
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I would argue that having an in person community and network has always been necessary for dating in recent American history. Teenagers and young adults often "went steady" with people in their hometowns, high schools, and colleges. The community was generally well connected in places like suburban middle America and families knew each other. More than 3/4 of Baby Boomers and Gen Xers report having a girlfriend or boyfriend in their teen years. Today we're more isolated than ever. Young people e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:14 PM
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You think that female minors don't look at pornography?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:42 AM
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I don't need anyone's trust I'm just stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:28 AM
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never
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:28 AM
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Men trying to advocate for male issues without making the whole thing about attacking women and feminism <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:14 AM
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cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:11 AM
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Fun fact: Intersectional feminists have begun advocating for attention to male specific issues on an institutional level. In my personal experience this has included improving education about male survivors of sexual assault/rape (by female or male perpetrators), identifying and supporting male victims of domestic violence, understanding specific barriers that male DV survivors face (like a lack of shelters), male mental health and suicide rate, etc. There's also a male health organization on ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:08 AM
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yeah and a woman could totally coerce or badger a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:59 AM
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Men love bitches An opinionated bitch capable of rational compromise is probably best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:58 AM
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"Waiting for marriage" while doing everything but PIV is stupid and nonsensical Unless you're getting engaged at like 21 it's stupid to wait until marriage (29+ y/o on average), you're throwing away prime years of physical and sexual intimacy for zero reason This is especially true for people who aren't sure about kids / the whole traditional white picket fence lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:57 AM
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later in that video and in the comments they explained how this was not a normal pat down and did not follow general guidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:52 AM
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Abuses of power and directly going against protocols for personal gain should always be punished
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:43 AM
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I guess it's some repressed christian or repressed good girl thing Pretty unusual tho, hella women are submissive and kinky but urine's a bit extreme. And 5 in a row is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:42 AM
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How do you feel about your job or career path? Hate it, It's fine it pays the bills, Generally like it, Love it ? I'm like 2/3 love it 1/3 like it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:36 AM
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are you into tats piercings goth girls etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:31 AM
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honestly if you're in an urban area have you tried meeting people through city specific subreddits / r4r / sites like fetlife? or any modern day equivalent of craigslist tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:25 AM
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I wish stupid people a very single and sexless life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:28 PM
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