| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | People with success first of all how big is your pp | Logistics | MeorOtherMe | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 10:41 PM |
| 0 | How big are u? | Logistics | MeorOtherMe | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 04:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Any men in their 30’s who have or had success with dating women and getting laid while still living at home?Move out with random people. Here's what I think, that vacation or trip you always wanted to go on. Take it. The scenic route do it. Life is whatever you make it, but it's never been about being reclusive. So I think go find a house with random roommates and one old dude who owns the house. Life is stacking on moments after moments. | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 10:02 AM |
| -5 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Well I'm not being down voted, so a majority agree. Maybe it's not gay, and it's normal. Like glancing at a woman's features. But personally I find it erotic, personally but I think most dudes won't find it that way, but still glance. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 07:19 AM |
| -6 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.That weekend both ways, usually men who have smaller packages wil eye men who have bigger ones | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 12:16 AM |
| -11 | For the guys with 100+ bodycount, what’s the 1 girl you can’t forget?Damn she was taller than u? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?Alternatively. If you masturbate excessively, you're technically more manly, because your emotions will be like a man who's married/and or a girlfriend that is apparently so acceptable/attractive, you don't engage with women, so satisfied your emotions are, that it doesn't engage with women. .lnot what your thinking, and how you feel not going after that one girl, but your emotions dictating you're fine not chasing. | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 04:49 AM |
| -19 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?It's not weird, it's not dumb, then what is it? What kind of response is that no constructive criticism just echoing what they said | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 04:09 AM |
| -5 | Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same timeSo? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:02 AM |
| -2 | Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing?Not really. Sex isn't a forefront. You can travel the world together and that's infinitely better and fulfilling then sex and a 9-5. Health is overrated, you got 40 years, then your health is toast anyways. If OP is already past 20, then that is only 20 years and some change more. Eventually, it does not become about health anymore. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 08:37 PM |
| 10 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Simply just don't know the lingo | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there any way that telling a girl you're gay could actually help get you laid?Goodbye. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 07:57 PM |
| -9 | The one belief that turned me from “nice guy with female friends” into the guy actually fucking themSo | /r/seduction | 09/12/25 11:06 AM |
| 14 | This is the main reason I am frustrated with online datingOnline dating (apps) is secondary. It's "in the background." Meanwhile joining clubs, hobbies, meeting people in public is real. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 05:14 AM |
| 28 | ONS ruins soul and mindYou think ONS, or one offs with coworkers example.. is a false desire for what you actually want? A partner, someone who's gonna cuddle with you every night, or say yes to coming along to a simple grocery run, or be there to pick you up when you get off work? | /r/seduction | 17/11/25 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I’m a loser in high school and no girls like meNig even the ugliest have their own friend group... You want good friends, carry yourself like your worth. Go ask some random dude that you see a good amount of time to hang but everything in a mature manner. "Hey would you like to hang out?" "All good brother lmk if you wanna bro" Just be down to earth and there for people. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 10:44 AM |
| 45 | Confrontation Openers Are Amazing!Up the shut fuck! | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 4 | I got approached by a girl just 20 minutes agoImagine if she was just like, "who's someone thats not in on it, that I could ask, and who's nearby?" you. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 08:44 AM |
| -10 | How big are u?Only when your gone... | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 05:21 AM |
| -12 | How big are u?You know me? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 05:20 AM |
| -6 | People with success first of all how big is your ppGoof. Are you Drax from guardians of the galaxy? Do you take everything literally? Notice these little symbols: "" That is the equivalent of someone doing air quotes with their fingers before they say something before followed by, like: which is a figure of speech. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 11:23 PM |
| -4 | People with success first of all how big is your ppIt's part of the bigger picture, in that it is a factor in "returning customers" | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop being goody shoes.No such thing. When you don't know a person you are respectable, and courteous. When you build up a rapport you show your emotions. If you hang with bros, you first met them you must've been nice, or courteous... Now, after some time (rapport) say your lying on the couch, they ask you to do something, you say "fk that i'm chilling" it's no different for a girl. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Can an average/short guy really get consistent results in cold approach?U saw his dick? | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 11:06 PM |
| 13 | FWB is having a breakdown. What is my role here?Maybe a "I'm here for you type shit" which could look like 2-3 simple generic 'here if you wanna talk' messages | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to one girl in a room full of peopleGirls have the same soul you got... Approach how you would like to be approached. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I break the ice with pretty women at the gym?You tell them hey I jing jing jalleyway | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think I’ll ever get a girlfriend and I don’t know what to do about itU could try saying a buncha smart shit. Say a dude's like "haha don't help her, let her do it!-" and u noticed she's been asking for things lately, be like, "she always got a job for me!" This got a good reaction. First of all. Never forget every moment, it's casual and seeing where things go until you generate enough energy to be able to 'go all out' | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 02:09 AM |
| -1 | Moving to SF from NYC. Am I fucked?Honestly...don't feel like there's a difference. Just a big area there's a lot of people living at. Just like any other place. If you were moving to Jerusalem I'd tell you there's a difference. Also, I doubt there's a large difference between Santa Cruz people, and San Francisco people, shouldn't be unfamiliar. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Cell phones are the death knell'clientele' I guess it's better than bitches or females... You're a man right? Just like how you are suppose to invite the pretty lady out, it should be your job to 'fill their phone usage time, with something better' that something better is your energy, vibe. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 12:46 AM |
| 5 | I keep hearing stories of guys on dating apps getting a girl to come over directly to their place and having sex, how do you do this?That's a good point, just get far enough to 'suggest a nice lil time' movie night in, Netflix and chill, restaurant.... | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What happened to u/HistorianOk2573Interesting. Lil website right there | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 12:54 AM |
| 5 | How to get smarterGo find a relaxing chair, sit in it, close your eyes for over then minutes and just picture a pretty girl with many texts and men, how she sees texts, replies, openers, the aura of the text messages and then you will you will understand | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | What's with girls telling me they're busy?It's reddit, a bit safer place to be a little kid... But if you say, "that was blunt." To a woman, I'ma cringe just as much. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What are some things that made you better at talking/starting a conversation with women?When I'm in the right mood... | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 05:52 AM |
| 0 | How to get quiet guys to make noise?No. It'll just be a vicious cycle of her maintaining a courteous facade, and the other ignorant. OP should match the energy. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Does loving yourself help with finding better quality women?One petal of the flower. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Does loving yourself help with finding better quality women?The difference is someone at an event with their bodies on sitting down till it's done. Versus the guy who's smiling, with energy, going around etc. Etc. | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Decent attractive guy, haven't dated in a while, life's a mess & angry at the worldBut there are chicks who would. | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 02:21 AM |
| 43 | She said she was off limits to me"a gentleman always complies..." Man shut yo corny as | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Should i use a hat to approach women if i have a receding hairline?Bald, and finick around with a beard. As a beard offsets the bald. By doing so, you're going for that I don't care what others think, meaning I'm not unstable look. With the beard a matured version of I don't care what others think. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 12:50 AM |
| 5 | How do i get laid for my first time?He's 18, just starting life. You can wait for friends, wait till you feel great, wait till you have a car... But, for most of the average humans, you're gonna wait really long time. To that I say, go fucking do it. Go two cities over, and go walk down the street with the most nightclubs, go be like "OOGA BOOGA" to a hot group of chicks. It don't matter. You go back at the end of the night, process, learn, and understand that embarrassing moment that happened two cities over. Will. Never. Follow.… | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 05:43 AM |
| 47 | How to win against physically attractive guysWin?? Like mortal combat? Don't even entertain this thought young buck. Get to the point of not caring about what other people do in front of you, or not in front of you. | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 03:44 PM |
| 5 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfPerspective. No one should be one sided you think tf | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Are there differences in what younger women and older find attractive in guysExactly. You got a small dick, she'll fuck out of pity, then ghost. Basically same shit. Money same shit said. Let's bring this out of -4 upvotes, and at least +2. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Talking to women at the beach feels dirtyWhat I would do, like any start to convo. Super professional, like you have your guard up, but are now open to spending time with said person, possibly. "Would I want to give this person my phone number? And will they treat me well/human. Mindset... And if nude I wouldn't even look down. Probably stern looking face with good eye contact, unless your a 10/10 and going for a "hey baby girl wyd tn?" I'd play it cool. Only a proper joke or a quirky thing would positively affect my face pretty much. … | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Fumbled this attractive girl, how do i deal with this?I don't know if you know this, but that's a problem. 🫤 | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Need help with sexI think I would just pick a number, 4 maybe, and push for that number and judge reaction. If she's gonna go silent, then I'd findanother way to get the answer. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Sick on date?Text im sick, fever, gonna take medicine, would you still like to go? feeling fine, i will be careful to distance xoxoxoxoo as long as u feel fine. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 11:58 AM |
| 11 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeThought about this before, and just the glaring points that come to mind is/are, flow state. Someone says something, you either respond mmm, "oh yea" "that's right"... Versus being able to come up with something slick, smart. I figure improv will get your brain 1. Socially warmed up. And basically beyond that, growing and learning being in that warmed up state. Think it's similar to a chef- high stakes restaurant. They're doing 20 things at once, cooking, but they're so game, that their speech/s… | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Approached a worker at nightclub☝️ if she didn't initiate, there's a perspective perhaps she was just being nice and enjoying/reciprocating your energy you're giving her. But if someone appears ...to her disliking for lack of better words, like maybe if you were pressy as an example. And we're like hey can I get ur number, she might give it, then block or ignore your texts/call, and hope to never see you again. I've done it. When someone struck a conversation with me, I just wanted to shop. So I just played being nice and exch… | /r/seduction | 02/03/25 05:16 AM |
| 8 | Shot my shot at a lifeguard,Took an L. Do I look bad now?"You're nice to talk to, too." Seems weird, yk. It's like a first thing that came up, to say that felt appropriate. I would've said, "it was a pleasure to talk to you." Which isn't indicative of anything. And for lack of better words, shows awareness to the situation and reality. Who gives af if it was embarrassing. I try my best to not let things like that affect me. For you. Its a memory that remains in the past simply. For others, likely at most it should be, "...ooooh yeaaaaa! I remember tha… | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How to navigate night gameHere his how you navigate night game. If you're gonna be hunting in the dark I recommend headlamps, optic scopes | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Anyone in Los Angeles/Orange County area?I will go, if provided housing. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I walk up to a woman if the time and place isn't really right for it?Yeah that was a joke | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 10:03 AM |
| 6 | How do I walk up to a woman if the time and place isn't really right for it?Life happens where you least expect it. Need advice? If she is stuck at a spot like deciding which candy to get, go grab a candy bar, and drop it next to her. She picks it up, flirt. If you notice she doesn't, she don't want it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Older guys and single dads - how do you source girls with limited timePathologically you'll know that it's equivalent to doing it in another country, you'll never have a chance of seeing anyone you be weird to. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Older guys and single dads - how do you source girls with limited timeGoing to a different area kinda far and being borderline predatory. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 01:30 AM |
| 0 | How to approach a man with my eyesWow, telling a girl to man up. You totally get it man. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Do you look for eye contact first?Your gonna die if you don't not notice it. Notice it. Face it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guyBe top self. Good personality, clean, creative things like: new hairstyle everyday. | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 02:18 PM |
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