| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 322 | NVM destroyed me | MINDSET SHIFT | MeowZsa | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:01 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 92 | We are living in a clown world 🤡Galanes’ response is absolutely bonkers crazy! If the daughter finds satisfaction in shooting up heroin, should the mother respect her choices as well? But this guy’s audacity though? Holy shit. Thinking you can join your side chick’s family vacation and have them pay for you? These scrotes need to be flung off this Earth into the space | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 230 | girl whatOP really got me with her Edit 2 as she sounded like she got the YTA vote. I was terrified her last edit will be of her apologizing to HIM for being rude. I am so happy she got rid of that dead weight who thought he was better than her! Another LVM to the dumpster 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:21 AM |
| 39 | girl whatI totally get what you’re saying and I totally agree; however, you are discounting the fact that someone who wants to be a surgeon or a doctor will not be going into nursing even if the pay is triple. Being a doctor is a prestige, and many won’t give it up for nursing. And there is actually a shortage of primary care doctors - very few choose this specialty because it pays very little when compared with other specialties. Also, it’s not as cool. Lastly, imagine having to take orders from some sc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:01 AM |
| 52 | girl whatI’m not CRNA but one of my friends is an ICU nurse. She was in CRNA program a few years ago but dropped out. The program is extremely competitive and hard because CRNAs are in the top pay bracket. There is a serious nurse shortage right so some places pay as much as $10k per week for an experienced nurse. Yes, $10k per week! I know my friend makes the same as OP as a traveling nurse, so money is really good right now but, obviously, working conditions are quite bad. So it’s not necessary to be a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | NVM destroyed meI will check them out, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 12 | NVM destroyed meI couldn’t have found this sub at a better time. It was after one of our arguments which was my fault, of course. I thought, wow maybe I am really asking for too much? I cried and cried after reading all the stories on this sub and was shocked to see women supporting each other and uplifting each other. You are so right about pickme friends. At the beginning of my relationship, I saw the red flags and thought about breaking up with him quite a few times. But my pickme friends convinced me that “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 7 | NVM destroyed meI have heard about codependency and I wouldn’t be surprised if that’s something I have. I will look into therapy, although I am very scared that facing all these years of trauma and talking about things he did and said will send me into even bigger depression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | NVM destroyed meThank you so much for the encouragement! I am going to cycle right now. Must do it for me ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:21 PM |
| 3 | NVM destroyed meUnfortunately because of my autoimmune disease my joints are toast, so I can’t run. But I serviced my road bike and been meaning to go out and cycle. I have set it up as a stationary bike for now but most of the time it’s difficult to find any energy to cycle. It sounds though as losing weight would be one of the first and important steps to gain the control back. Control of my body and taking away control from him. My weight is his main weapon to put me down, and if I take that away, I’m not su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | NVM destroyed meI will look her up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | NVM destroyed meI am so sorry this also happened to you 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | NVM destroyed meI am so sorry this also happened to you. They completely break your soul and body. I tried to confide to my mom once but she couldn’t understand it. I can’t blame her - all she sees is a wonderful and caring husband. I will definitely check out grey rock! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | NVM destroyed meI’ve seen few of her videos and the photo of “before and after” and I could not relate more. I will watch more of her videos! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | NVM destroyed meI will thank you! If I stop reacting to his provocations he continues until I break down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | NVM destroyed meI will read the book - thank you! I have visited some of the narc forums but like you say, many women are still looking for answers when there’s really no why. I can only describe it as a true cognitive dissonance. Calling me fat, but then buying me flowers the same day. Even after all these years and realization, there’s still hope in me that there’s a good person buried somewhere inside of him. If there wasn’t, he surely wouldn’t be buying me flowers? Only when that hope is fully killed can on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | NVM destroyed me💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 19 | NVM destroyed meYes, I know!! I noticed that if we don’t argue for a while, he starts provoking me and doing things to purposely upset me or make me angry. He continues doing it until he finds the right button to push. Once I get upset then I am mEaN because I expect pErFectiOn when he tries so hard. Then, of course, I have to apologize because I got angry. Until I am ready I have to continue on this cycle because if I tune him out, he’ll be desperate to gain control over me. Sometimes I wonder if I did somethi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 7 | NVM destroyed meI am so sorry this happened to you. It makes me sad knowing just how many women are out there permanently scarred (or worse - dead) from relationships with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:16 PM |
| 20 | NVM destroyed meFunny thing is, after my previous divorce from LVM, I took 2 years off from dating to focus on myself. I was blocking and deleting scrotes left and right! Then I fell straight into a trap. I think no one can see the narc coming if they have never come across one before - even then it’s still hard to recognize them. I do not wish this on anyone. I am also not surprised that many of my health issues started around the same time after we moved in together. I will definitely read the book you recomm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 17 | NVM destroyed meIt means so much to me to hear this. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 2 | The most disgusting age gap I've ever seen. Grooming, gaslighting and manipulation is what you should expect sis.Eww. I knew a couple exactly like that! 30 year age gap. He was beyond controlling and completely gaslighted her into believing it was a normal behavior. Any time me and her would go shopping or have dinner, he would call 8 times. One time we just finished eating dinner at a restaurant, he called telling her that the dinner he made is getting cold and she needs to come back home. I chuckled and pointed out that she just ate. She said she’ll have to eat his dinner too otherwise he’ll get upset. E… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Emotional trauma?You should see a therapist. It will help you recover faster. I’m currently with an LVM and the last time I saw his cum and penis, I gagged and threw up. My disgust for him manifested into physical symptoms. Of course, now he can’t have sex with me because he is no longer attracted to me. I am stuck in this relationship for now and any man just disgusts me. Unfortunately, my previous ex also emotionally abused me and it took 3 years without therapy to put myself back together until I was able to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:55 PM |
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