Mephaala Archive

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2	Girls won’t meet up again after sex Hmm it's a bit strange to me that you're trying to establish a long-term relationship after something that looks like a ons. Usually people who are looking for a committed relationship get to know each other first before they jump to bed, so girls who are willing to have sex with you on the first date aren't probably looking for a long-term partner. If you're looking for something more than maybe you should a) try apps that are focused around matching people based on personalities and what kind …	/r/seduction	08/08/21 10:01 AM
2	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. I went on two dates with that one guy, first to a restaurant, then to do some ice skating. Already after the first date I felt rather disappointed, but I really wanted to give it a second shot. I thought to myself that maybe he was tired, nervous or w/e. And the thing is that I felt physically attracted to the guy but that was it - I was bored as hell, we really couldn't get the conversation going in a way that would make me feel attracted to the guy. So, when the guy actually tried to escalate …	/r/seduction	05/07/21 02:37 PM
1	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. Sure, understandable	/r/seduction	05/03/21 09:10 PM
0	A woman's POV Idk where you're from or what media you're talking about but I haven't seen a single "do not approach women" message literally anywhere. If anything it was quite the contrary. So please drop the tone.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 03:28 AM
2	A woman's POV Woah, that's super weird to me. I mean, I totally understand this approach if a girl had some bad experiences in the past, with guys who wouldn't take "no" as an answer etc., but I bet that it's not the majority. That has to be super confusing for all the guys out there, to be encouraged by some women and discouraged by other. Feels bad	/r/seduction	05/03/21 12:18 AM
3	A woman's POV That is so strange to me, imo there's nothing wrong with that. My ex bf used to be this way, he thought that approaching women randomly on the street is creepy. Meanwhile I feel like if you're both polite and respectful then there's no reason for anyone to get upset.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 08:12 PM
1	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. Hmm, now you're generalizing quite a bit. I am a woman and I'm far from obsessing over any of these things, I consider it all to be extremely shallow (I also know plenty of other women who don't fit in your description). But I suppose that if that's your target group then it explains your approach to the matter. As much as I do agree that looks matter I also feel like you're overestimating its importance. If a model guy has no personality there's no way you'll force me to date him, no matter how…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 01:02 PM
1	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. Not really, I wouldn't say it's the priority here. If you think about it, a woman going for an older partner does make sense in many cases. If a young woman (let's say around 25) wants to find someone to start a family with then it is understandable that she might go for a 30-35 yo dude (40+ seems a bit too much, but that's just my opinion). Contrary to the guys her biological clock is ticking, I remind you. A slightly older guy is: 1) probably more mature than a typical 20-25 y.o. guy, there's …	/r/seduction	04/03/21 12:42 PM
1	Blew it. I really don't think you should see you being open and interested in talking to her as the reason why she ghosted you. I think it's normal for people who are into each other, to want to spend time with the person they are attracted to. So don't blame yourself and DEFINITELY don't force yourself to play the cool, distanced dude if you don't truly feel this way. Of course, it's important to have your own hobbies and not see the person you're dating as the only "distraction" in your life, but I don…	/r/seduction	03/03/21 10:55 AM
3	How to keep a girl interested in texting and ultimately get her to go out with you? If you get bored of texting quickly then take it all step by step - propose one or two voice calls, then a video call, then an actual meeting irl. It's gonna give you some time to get to know each other a bit better. But no matter what you do don't be pushy, a lot of women hate that. Be honest and open about your feelings, if someone is not ready to move at your own pace then you're better off dating someone else.	/r/seduction	11/02/21 05:05 PM
5	Women that “like sensitive guys?” Its a trap! This. I definitely want my partner to open up about his feelings, but I definitely would hate it if he started crying and whining about truly unimportant things. It's normal to feel moved/to be emotional, it's annoying when someone sees her/his own little issues as the end of the world.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:51 PM
2	Women that “like sensitive guys?” Its a trap! As a woman I disagree. You can't really put all of us in the same basket. Sure, I bet there are women who consider sensitive guys weak and unattractive, but trust me - once you find someone who truly loves you then she will care about you and your feelings, instead of seeing it as a reason for a break up. That being said, it all depends on what kind of sensitivity we're talking about. When anyone, women or men, are being oversensitive, if they're overreacting and making a huge deal out of the sm…	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:45 PM