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I've TOTALLY experienced that, I just wasn't sure what he meant if it was social or biological conformity...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/16 06:09 AM
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BECAUSE FEMINSIM IS JUST THAT AWESOME FOR EVERYONE TO SEE. I never said or implied that I "embraced" feminism. Until there is a "humanism", I have to stick with what addresses the problem now. There is no other movement that has taken a firm enough foothold that deeply addresses and aims to rectify social inequities. And, never said or implied that "feminism is good because feminism says so", I merely argued that the media is implicated in the way we as a society currently understand it. Also, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 12:47 PM
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Are you saying all women do this? Never seen this in my experience but I grew up in a very multi ethnic city...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 03:14 AM
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What do you mean by women are conformists?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:33 AM
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Absolutely. Very disheartening, even as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:32 AM
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There is no concentrated effort by anyone to actively bring down women. It can all be explained by marketing and our biological preferences as men and women. The "patriarchy" is just the female equivalent of Illuminati Really? What on Earth then, is the Red Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:32 AM
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what is iois
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:31 AM
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again, not trying to troll, trying to discuss. I'd be really curious on your bad experience with the institution of feminism so we CAN debate instead of just resorting to personal attacks (calling me a troll etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:31 AM
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Of course you do. Disagree with my reasoning so naturally you'd insult my intelligence and then, insult a topic (making an assumption that it was in gender studies, which it was not). Also assuming that All PhDs are Scientific because Science= Good, is again, a very historically male, and misogynist way of approaching arts, philosophy, sociology etc. The media has convinced the uneducated (on feminism's premise, history, purpose) that feminism is a dirty word, equating ALL feminists with radical…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:28 AM
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So do TERPs. It's the same construct, albeit on opposite sides of the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:24 AM
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They make us men out to be rapists and criminals, blame us for everything under the sun while simultaneously making all our problems out to be our own fault, and worst of all, insult our intelligence by constantly arguing that our failure to embrace feminism is because we're not sufficiently educated on it. That if we just knew what feminism was really all about we'd be signing up in droves. Who does this? Which feminists? Like any group there are radicals, and the majority of card-carrying femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:14 AM
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why people don't mind objectification is because women take advantage of it for personal gain, so if you want to give up being seen as an object you must first give up what you have gained from it Some women do. Most women don't and can't play in that field. They become seen as less worthy to society because they're not sexual objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 09:09 AM
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So if everyone who is saying tinder online dating etc, how did women/men ascertain this BEFORE online dating? It wasn't that long ago....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:13 AM
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What is feminism in name vs feminism in practice? What advantages do we want that we don't equally want the disadvantages?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:12 AM
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How is patriarchy not real? The badass chicks you know wouldn't write on this because maybe, they're not reflective or funny enough to share these things, or perhaps its like the author said in her title, these are things women wont/wouldnt/can't tell men. A lot of women I know American and otherwise (growing up in a major US city, now live in a peaceful country with much less violence than the US) DO think this way. They DO worry about getting raped or physically assaulted as "the weaker sex". …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:11 AM
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What if many of them do? What if many of them actually do want men to have a space to not be subjugated by an oppressive masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 08:07 AM
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I would argue that comes down to intelligence. He wants an intelligent partner, not a trophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:47 AM
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Totally agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:43 AM
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Objectification being one of those buzzwords that nobody really has a solid definition for and can't explain exactly why it's a bad thing. Objectification is a bad thing because objects don't have real power, Subjects do. One case where it made a difference? Do honestly you think that's all there have been? Men (and women) still believe that women's clothing choice impacts rape "decisions". Of course this is still an issue if its still a part of the general consciousness. http://fcs.sagepub.com/…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:42 AM
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Amen to that! Makes perfect sense to me, and I'd bet if there was a study done on RP men, many of them would have homoerotic tendencies, neatly veiled in women hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:20 AM
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I hate to say it (as on some level you're right) but this is almost the same thing as saying "don't expect women to be logical" (as we're seen as being emotional creatures). Are the two mutually exclusive? Do they have to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:08 AM
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FYI she's a british comedienne/author, so obviously some of the humour will be lost on Americans, but still, she raises valid points in an effort to help men understand the reality of being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:02 AM
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Nope not a troll post, I'd actually appreciate some debate on the article itself. Why is it "terrible"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/16 05:01 AM
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How can you possibly be so presumptuous? According to you I have no other answer? If you want to know the truth happy to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:12 PM
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when did I ever say I was engaged? And yes I do let go with him in many ways....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 07:05 PM
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Wow, you really don't understand women do you? Do you know how vulnerable and scared women can and do feel when they are in that position? I had never fully let go in that capacity either because I'd never trusted someone fully or wasn't confident in my own sexuality and right to an orgasm as I'd been raised (as many women are inculcated to believe in this society) that sexual pleasure is for men and women are there to serve men. He taught me otherwise (in a myriad of ways I wont go into here) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:49 PM
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And I'd argue that the majority of RP men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 06:46 PM
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Biology. It's not as simple for women as it is for men. The majority of women don't orgasm from v stimulation alone and the majority of women who "do" are faking it sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:14 PM
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definitely not a CF. In my relationship I'm much more deferent than anything else, but not a doormat either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:06 PM
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why do you assume I hadn't tried before? Believe me, I'd tried many many times and still, no gold. I'm a communicator, it is definitely not down to communication or lack thereof.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 12:04 PM
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I'm sorry if it came across as flippant, if its any consolation, 10 years on I still feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 11:54 AM
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What is wizard status and why did you get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 04:57 AM
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Also I was hoping my feelings would eventually change because he was such a nice guy and so good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 04:51 AM
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I've never known a more "beta" dude (according to the RP definitions) and no, no attraction at all. He was really nice to me and I needed comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/16 03:56 AM
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He would still stick out as a man who treated me very well and was lovely and whom I cared about just wished I was more physically attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 11:19 PM
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men pretending to be alphas but they are insecure omegas on the inside, wearing the alpha mask to protect themselves, like a shield. Yep, absolutely, I was married to one for 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:58 PM
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I think people on the internet recognise a lot more complexity! Maybe I'm naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:57 PM
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What would the response from the Internet be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:40 PM
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Shouldn't it be all the alphas in my past who give me "tingles" who I WANT to be with sexually? How did the Beta make me experience that, as from my reading of the RP, its the Alpha sexual thing that RP seems to advertise.... Betas apparently don't do it for women? Or is that do it just long haul?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:39 PM
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Yep absolutely. And it did change me forever and get me more open to the "sensitive" guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:38 PM
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Great point, and definitely the case in my experience! I don't really know how much I buy into the whole beta alpha thing, but was more curious if the RPers would see this experience as validation or negation of their black/white worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 10:38 PM
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I think TRP breeds sexist attitudes because many of the men on there are hurt and feel like they have been mistreated by women in the past, either through bad relationships or being cheated on or by not getting what they feel they are are entitled to (read: hot girls to fuck them). It's entitlement first and foremost. They should be able to have sex with as many hot chicks as they like (but nope, women the rules don't apply to you whores), so if they hadn't got that in the past they feel like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 09:10 PM
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What about shunning TRP and get out there to meet and connect with a woman who will like you for you? Going to meet ups and talking to women not as sexual objects but as people you'd like to get to know as friends? Getting to know women, being a friend, treating them with respect, approaching and talking to all kinds of women (not just the models), doing what you love and what you're into and then meeting women who are into similar things, are all ways of meeting women that would give you the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:16 PM
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When women are seen as and treated as sexual objects,(and that's really what we are in contemporary society, objects for men to look at, fuck, etc) and they think sex is a way to get a guy to like them, of course they will have had sex. If you want to be the first or second to stick your flagpole on the moon, I suggest you find a girl who is unattractive enough(in society's standards) to not have had sexual attention from men and/or a religious girl who is saving herself for marriage. It's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 08:04 PM
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Weird thing tho-- back in Nov we'd all had a couple drinks, last week it was like 9am and we were all stone cold sober!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 04:38 AM
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I think it's unethical, especially when you know a guy is into you. A good friend allowed a guy she was just about to dump to buy her a new phone, and I found it gross and repugnant. To me it was yucky because if gifts=care or if gifts=love or if gifts=expectation of sex and you know deep down he ain't gettin' none of any of that, why take his shit/money? To be fair, when I was young I was guilty of this, but I was involved with him, although he knew it would never be anything more than a FWB sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 03:59 AM
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