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Meridianpurple/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:34 AM
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Meridianpurple/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 11:10 PM
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Right but there's a difference between a 3 month gf and a more than a decade mother of your children... And sure you'll have a great relationship with the new person, but it won't be the same relationship, each one has something special specific to it. So there's still that... Other than that I guess I get what you're saying. (sunken costs was a helpful analogy)
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:31 PM
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... "If i am not for myself, who is? " Your SO doesn't want to be the center of your world. You need your own center. Find it.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:14 AM
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That is the kind of dark secret that should probably not be revealed till late into a relationship, and of course it's going to be very important to have actually changed and reformed. Unless you're being screwed by sex offender laws such that this is public knowledge? Right now though it sounds like the biggest issue is feeling intense shame and "below zero" . A relationship isn't going to help with that, it's going to scratch those issues up even more. You're not doomed to be a monk, but it mi…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 10:02 AM
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Wow, the premise of this question is really insulting. Anyway. My dad is great, I don't need another dad. The support and leadership I want from an SO is very different. My dad and I are not a team working together as a unit to accomplish shared goals in life. I respect my dad out of gratitude and also because I recognize that he's a person worthy of my respect. But his say in my life decisions is as a source of advice, not a second half. I respect my SO because I made a decision to trust him, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 09:28 AM
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Freeeeeeuuuuuuuuuuuuudddddddddddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 09:08 AM
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Redpill is gender assymmetrical. That means that red pill advice for a woman is not "be attractive for sex" because red pill assumes this is the easy part for women. Red pill advice for women is "be attractive for commitment" because red pill assumes this is the challenging part for women. Reverse for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 08:07 AM
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Can't you at least spend a little brainpower on having compassion for why they come to those viewpoints? Can you try to examine what truth they're building a lattice work of additional beliefs on top of? At the end of the day, underneath the more extreme BS, redpill is about 1. Guys are sexual 2. They should have enough self-confidence to be open about that 3. They need to stop pedestaling women, it's not effective for getting the kind of relationship they want. 4. They can and should openly, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 07:48 AM
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And yet, I know that sitting swilling in certain perspectives makes me unhappier. Spend too much time reading a specific type of feminist blogs and you start looking at all men as complicit in creating this oppressive atmosphere of objectification. (although the main evil of certain feminist blogs is that they reek to high heaven of spoiled entitlement.) Spend too much time reading a certain type of trp and you just feel sick (whereas I find LTR trp blogs to often be okay) You can't choose your …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/14 07:28 AM
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This is so dependent on culture and frame of reference that it's difficult to explain, but while, no, I don't want him wrapped around my finger, that's also exactly why if he broke the rules for me I'd lose respect for him because he'd prove he was weak-willed and hamster-brained.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 05:49 AM
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Thanks to this chart, I have learned: Easily the most important muscle area, to me, is pecs. This is good to know.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 11:49 AM
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T a little, plus I'm nervous that I myself am not being rpw enough and might be self sabotaging a bit. We had a conversation about gender roles where he confessed that while he felt capable taking charge he also felt uncomfortable doing it like it was arrogant. I told him I felt he'd been very balanced thus far, deciding things but checking that I was okay with it. Then I complained about an ex who was incapable of listening to my input and basically overrode anything I said. Looking back at tha…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:19 AM
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Thanks for sharing. The I want to be around him all the time chest explodey thing that developed down the line... Was it just a matter of slowly developing trust? Ie, is there a turning point you can point to?
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 08:14 PM
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‘Why is it your business if my wife wants to bake cookies?' This. All this. It's people like Helen Mees telling me how I'm supposed to be happy (and it's always about grunting away at some hack job instead of investing in relationships) that annoys me so much...
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 07:58 PM
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Well, it's not like a zero percent thing. He's definitely had his manly moments. He had tremendous integrity and a strong leadership streak... He's just being very careful with me because he doesn't want to lose me, which, unfortunately, is a totally valid reaction on his part because it's still a real possibility only I don't know that it helps the situation. I guess I still feel hopeful that if I can respond correctly, he'll feel encouraged and bolder. Although of course the situation right no…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:07 PM
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Alright, then can I ask a silly question? What made you fall head over heels for yours? How did it happen? How soon into the relationship? I know that for me it might well be different, but I wouldn't mind having some sort of vague target image to keep in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:02 PM
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What is that? /newbie
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:00 PM
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But is there a way of making it more likely? I'm thinking of the extension bridge effect... Maybe there's some way to bring it into play? I might be wrong, but I wonder if I could just get the initial kick of tricking my brain into infatuation, I'd be able to maintain it. He's far too good for me to let go without at least trying to make those feelings happen... Honestly I'm kinda annoyed at my hormones for not just being under my conscious control and doing what I want them to do... (but you're…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:59 PM
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