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| 2 | Some Website Forum Upgrades Happened! .... Is It Better now?There's literally a term for it. Male as norm. Urgh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/22 04:43 PM |
| 162 | Some Website Forum Upgrades Happened! .... Is It Better now?I really dislike getting addressed as a guy all the time on the internet. Also I miss old Reddit FDS. 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/22 12:04 AM |
| -8 | Are You Having FDS Website issues....?I'm not a guy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/22 03:49 PM |
| 32 | Are You Having FDS Website issues....?I miss the community too. It was really unique. I tried following the Instagram, but the discussions are not really discussions. The mods just repost old posts from Reddit and then people in the comments agree with it and post emojis. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 3 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimsCriminal record and register is unfortunately not available to the public here, and after 2 years your record is deleted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimsHonest question, how would reporting him to the police safe another woman from him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimsI don't want to waste one inch of my time on him. The police probably won't believe me and even if he gets plead guilty the court will give him a small sentence because it happened so long ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 08:50 AM |
| 5 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesToxic people like that will find a way to fuck anything up for themselves and everyone they care/don't care about. With good people, you don't have to create all these rules, micromanage and communicate every little boundary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 10:12 AM |
| 12 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesDepends. HVM don't cheat on your with their ex. LVM does. That's the difference, just avoid LVM and it's all good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 08:25 AM |
| 10 | What would you do when you want your ex to delete nudes you sent them?I would show up physically without warning and force him to delete them while I watched him. No mercy, I wouldn't overthink it. He has something that belongs to you. It's time to return it. But it depends on your style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 07:40 AM |
| 27 | Men created the nuclear family and that's what destroyed society.It's called the nuclear family because it should be nuked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:05 AM |
| 7 | My ex knows about this account, how do I get my alternative account FDS-verified?Thanks, can you DM me a name of a mod? I can't find it on the page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:17 AM |
| 4 | How do you “TREAT YO SELF” and Celebrate Your Accomplishments?Close my eyes for a moment and think about what the nicest (little) thing would be right now. And then I go and get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:35 PM |
| 20 | When did you realize that FDS was working for you and helping you make better dating decisions?Dudes have to compete against my own company rather than nothing when I assess if they're worth dating now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 308 | Be careful about helping "disabled" men!(potential trigger warning!)From my experience, people with disabilities never ask strangers for help, unless it's a super unlucky situation or they have problems with their equipment. Treat people with disabilities as you would treat anyone else and you'll know when something is off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:39 AM |
| 13 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Wow. This is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:49 AM |
| 26 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.My heart is breaking too. So many years of war, so many lifes lost and then the terrible terrorist organisation takes it all in one week. It wasn't perfect when the foreigners were there. But it was better than what is going to happen now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Thank you, this is useful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Start embarrassing them for low effort or for seeking a mommy, calling it out helps combat some of the scroteryIt's better to be alone. If it wasn't for FDS I'd probably be in a relationship now because why not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:01 PM |
| 22 | Start embarrassing them for low effort or for seeking a mommy, calling it out helps combat some of the scroteryAt our age it's usually too late. You will find yourself fighting over the bare minimum with a man child who can't cook, clean, say thank you and doesn't see the point in learning it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 26 | Ikea knows what's upHahaha, I love this. moooarrr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:15 PM |
| 22 | HVM BehaviorSaw him live on a festival in 2013 and really liked his vibe and music. Got super worried when I saw a post about him on FDS until I read what it was about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.none of the above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:07 PM |
| 2 | What progress and solidarity looks like."All the other girls from your country are boring, but not you" ... Uhm, thank you i guess? Then why are you even here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this? I was raised to pick up after myself, and help the host clean up if needed. Male/female doesn’t matter. Does that make me a pick me? :/I always clean up my mess at parties. Like any decent adult should. Sometimes I'm not in a condition where the results are 10/10, but at least I try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:38 AM |
| 59 | Comeback queenI'm a "clean up after yourself, love me endlessly, respect me, add value to my life"-kinda girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 237 | Comeback queenI'm an empathy girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Ashnikko - l8r boiMy roomie had a similar experience when she was 18. She was touring with a famous musician (man) and sometimes the crowd would boo at her. Then he had to come out and shout at them until they stopped. So annoying that you need a man to make others respect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Ashnikko - l8r boiHe was a boy, she was a girl Can I make it any more obvious? He was a punk, she did ballet What the fuck does it matter anyway? He didn't try to make her cum On top of all that, he was a little dumb Honestly she was better off alone Now he's breathing down the phone [Chorus] He was a skater boy She said, "See you later, boy" He wasn't good enough for her She's not a therapist, don't wanna take care of him She's an independent girl Ha, uh, huh [Verse 2] Me and my bitches We have way more fun with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:51 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?Does it (Aaron) at least clean after itself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 44 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?Depends on the kind of anime he watches and the manga he reads. Strong female lead? Nice. Has he watched every episode of One Piece? Nah, sis. The problem with anime is when a guy makes it his personality or follows er series that has 800+ filler episodes without questioning his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:27 AM |
| 12 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Never thought about this. Shit. Those poor women. :( And there are so many of those videos out there! Men are basically jerking off to torture sessions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 5 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieI think you can learn a lot from it with critical eyes. Same goes for Bojack Horseman and similar shows. Just because the bad guy is the main character doesn't mean you should identify with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:46 AM |
| 5 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieMy ex watched two and a half episode of Avatar the Last Airbender and dismissed it as a kids show. It is my all time favorite and I learned so much about life from it. The fact that he didn't want to give it a chance or even ask me about what I liked about it says a lot about our relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 3 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieYou might find this comic relatable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:18 PM |
| 14 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieI dated a guy that heard the same songs over and over. He had one playlist with songs he liked and that was it. I have a background in music and has a good ear for it, so I started to notice other songs that would fall into his taste and suggested them to him. Whenever I showed him something, it was something I knew he would like. Whenever he showed me something, it was something he liked and hoped I liked too. He made me watch Breaking Bad... I learned to like it, until he started to glamourize… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 24 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lie"Hey, you look like you're not having the best day today. Would you mind sharing what's going on in your life?" - HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 41 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a liePlease turn into a man and date me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 41 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieI have definitely dated men that were able to shut up about how they felt for years. But I have also dated men who weren't able to differentiate between universal truths and their personal opinions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 52 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieI keep a document on my phone with a list of important people in my life, their date of birth and random gift ideas I come up with during the year. I never ask for wishlists from anyone. They know I already know what they need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 77 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieAnd then the excuse is always something about how our ancestors used to live in the stone age where men had certain responsibilities and the role of the woman was to bla bla bla. So my inconsiderate behavior is determined by biology. Happy birthday, Sandy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 105 | "Women expect men to be mind-readers" is a lieThat is why it's important to dismantle these myths. We should be praising emotionally and socially intelligent individuals that clearly shows how emphatic they are. We should learn from them and protect them from being bullied for being 'simps', 'overreacting', 'too emotional' etc. The way they are seen as a 'threat' by narcissists and treated by society is destroying them before they grow up. I know so many good people with mental illness, stress, ptsd etc. because other people decided to put … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Do any of you have HVM dads?Yes, my dad is great and it makes dating super hard because I see through all their bullshit. 🙂🙃 Having something to compare with is everything. If you have only had bad entitled men in your life, you start to think you can't demand anything from a partner and gaslight yourself into believing you're being too needy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:44 AM |
| 58 | "My bf doesn't do foreplay so I cOmmUnicated, countless times, but he won't change... why?!"It's so annoying when they do this when women express what they need verbally. If he had just been honest with her, she would actually have something to work with and probably figured it was best to dump him since he doesn't care about her. He could have said: No, I'm not going to do it/No, I don't think I should need to do foreplay/No, I don't understand what you mean I just say random stuff to make you happy. But instead he keeps wasting her time and holds her as his emotional hostage. I'm so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 28 | Saw this on dank memes and laughed cuz they do be useless thoNo, I was describing the nature of the king chess pieces. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:01 AM |
| 22 | Makes me wonder what age these "women" are.Bears, bees and lions? I like how specific Martin is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:39 AM |
| 23 | So this is empowermentIf I ever came in that imaginary gaslit situation where I would get pregnant and marry that LVM, having 5 other women around would actually make things easier. I hope they dumb him, take all his money and travel somewhere nice with all the kids when they realize what they signed up for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 67 | Saw this on dank memes and laughed cuz they do be useless thoMen in chess are so fragile. And if they go, they take the whole game with them. Why do they have to be so dramatic all the time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?I'm grey ace and most of the time sex is not worth it. Most heterosexual males have never even understood the concept of rape, and my partner kinda need to understand that in order for me to feel safe and loved. The thought of having sex with someone I don't know that well is a big nope. Why would I share the most intimate part of myself with someone I don't know how will treat my insecurities and worries? Because of my sexuality, not having sex is fine. Too much work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 10 | This was toxic for the girls. I think at the end they should have flipped the script and said “Okay ladies now rank the guys.” What do you guys think?This made me sad inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 01:21 AM |
| 10 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manIt's kinda degrading you assume I can't make my own assessments and think for myself. You don't know my friend, so why do you push your own ideas upon my situation in such a condescending way? I'm not a pickme, jeez. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 7 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manYou're putting words into my mouth. He doesn't declare that he's a HUGE FEMINIST™, but his respect for other people shows through everything he does online. He's always calling out trolls, denying low key harassment, even if they try to hide the insult. Standing up for ourselves shouldn't be our responsibility. It should be everyone's responsibility to stand up for everyone imo. Watch this and see if you agree https://youtu.be/8OZ9wmajs4o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:18 AM |
| 1 | A little reminder for everyone 💕Uhm. This is how my ex felt about me. 1) He felt it was complicated, because I didn't just enjoy everything but sometimes complained about "subtle" things he did, such as not helping other people do the dishes when we had dinner etc. 2) He was worried about how I would react because he saw me as an angry witch that would burst into anger at the smallest things, but the truth is I was very clear about what I didn't tolerated. 3) He didn't feel peace because he didn't listened to me. If he had lis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 39 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.Feminism taught how to spot sexist behavior. FDS taught me to not feel bad about reacting on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Guys, what’s your opinion on couples pretending to be strangers at a bar/place and then flirting with each other?I had a boyfriend that kept insisting I was myself 100% when we had sex, flirted etc. and never did any roleplay as he felt it was creepy that my personality changed in bed. Like. Dude. This is how I am! Society has forced me to act in a specific way and conform. I want to be able to try things out and feel safe with you without getting judged. I think couples that does this seem to be healthy if their intentions are transparent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.'He seems so desperate. I imagine someone bored reads his post and decides they want to mess with him. He is optimal for catfishing; that man thinks he is dominating, but his desperation makes him naive and submissive. Poor lil guy, hope his wife finds out and dumps his ass. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:26 AM |
| 26 | Analyzing who HVW chose to be their husbandSome people try to devalue his behaviour by saying it's just a facade and he might be different I private. Uuhm, what? By speaking so respectfully about his wife, he makes an example for other men to follow, and people look up to Michelle. If he didn't treat her well I private, she would have so many better options because of her status. I want that kind of relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Ladies what's your beauty routine like?Eat vegan, wear sunscreen, be really social, bike everywhere, say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:18 PM |
| 156 | HVM anticipate your needs!I envy future generations of women that get to experience when this considerate and sweet behavior is normalized. I want more men like that in this world. Make it happen quick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Goodbye loser 🥰Please, yes. I really don't want to hire a bouncer for her funeral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 10 | This is honestly too adorable for wordsI hope they remove them after taking the photos. One swim and they would freeze to death. :/ Edit: Thanks for clarifying everyone. It's rare to find a sub where you can be wrong about something without getting downvoted into oblivion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 2 | Why did the LVM walk into the bar?He fell into it and you couldn't hear the bump when he hit the bar because it was so low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:04 AM |
| 7 | I swear to God I have a neon sign over my head.Many guys are cowards and they're afraid to get rejected. Older dudes must either feel less terrified by us or not care to get rejected because it has happened so many times for them; they got immune to shame. Why they choose women not their own age can also be because of beauty standards or because they think, a younger woman is easier to be around, because her boundaries are still untested and flexible. I think the list is endless, and a lot of reasons are not noble at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:09 AM |
| 9 | Woman Has 57 Psychological Theories About Guy Who Just SucksJesus. Did you do that? I just finished all the thesis-stuff this month, and I can't imagine working on something like that for so long. Did it help you heal and did you contribute with new knowledge to the subject? Well fought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:03 AM |
| 24 | "Friends" swiping right on OLDI used to swipe right on all my friends on tinder, as I found it fun to be able to chat with them over the app. But you seem to sense this person is more serious about his swipe...? Trust your guts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:13 PM |
| 28 | Mood? Do not give LVM your energy and soar by yourself.The audacity of crows 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:18 PM |
| -8 | Don’t forget to peep around his room a bit!Why not confront him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 17 | What will you not do until engaged or married?But it's fun to travel, it's fun to live together and you learn a lot about the person when you do it. I wouldn't marry someone I've never lived with before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 5 | Looking for FDS Friendly Song Recommendations to Add to My PlaylistI only listen to music like that, no lana del ray for me. billie eilish: my future Lizzo: soulmate little simz: offence the carters: apeshit doja cat: rules mitski: townie lucy dacus: night shift hole: voilet azealia banks: heavy metal and reflective Agree with u/glitterdaisy23 on: Hi, It's Me - Ashnikko | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:56 AM |
| 50 | What will you not do until engaged or married?Marriage has a less important cultural and legal meaning where I'm from. But for me it's the other way around: I won't marry someone that I don't feel comfortable doing all the above with. I won't say yes and invite all my friends and family to see me walk down the church floor unless I feel comfortable with all the above and is sure he's good company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 129 | Pickme pickme pickme !!! 🙋🙋🙋I get your points, but I think it's also okay to not be perfect at FDS when you join. We're all here to learn and we've been socialized into this behavior we're trying to unlearn now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 10 | This reminded me of all you wonderful ladies.. keep being queens! 👸💐I get flowers every Sunday, I'ma marry me one day - Lizzo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 24 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.Good idea, but I suggest we use the term intersectionality. I think using the scientific term creates awareness that this is actually well documented by scholars and people experiencing it are not alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!He can take your name. Then you'll practice with his last name. <33 <3 <333 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!I know. People on this sub is generally not attacking anyone. I found it important to add my point to the agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | How many dates in should you expect him to stop seeing other people?I imagine we would nudge people into becoming better persons if all the cool people started to think like this. Imagine if we just cancelled everyone that didn't treat us what we deserved. I used to think I had to earn everyone's respect, but then I realized I always gave everyone respect without even thinking about it. Treat others like you want to be treated and cancel people that take you, your work and your time for granted. We deserve so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!it is important that women assert themselves and are unapologetic for being knowledgeable. Yes. This is so true. I agree 100%. My comment was, as you clearly understood, about there being a different perspective on sociolects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Thank you! I'm so calm now. It went really really well, but I thought there was a chance I didn't pass when they were voting. I think it's a curse to think ill about your own work, but this mindset also made me work my ass off to perform well, and it paid off. I feel invincible now. Back to the subject: Women leaders are the bomb. The best leaders I've had were women and the best male bosses had adopted a very 'feminine' style of leading. I think feminine sociolect needs more respect and I think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 4 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!So glad you found my post then! I read an article about this (in my own language) and realized how much I copied male language, when I was actually capable of expressing myself clearly without sounding like a cave man. I still use direct sentences when I really care about something, but I nuance stuff I don't really care about. - Especially if I want to comfort the person I'm criticizing. It's just too much to be angry and direct about a small thing in an email when the person has only made a li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How many dates in should you expect him to stop seeing other people?Thank you for sharing your reflections. I'm in my 20's and used dating apps a lot to meet new people. I 'friend zone' everyone I don't see fit for a relationship that would still make a great friend. I might be really good at screening the dudes and avoid the creeps, but nonetheless: Through these relations they actually wingman me to potential partners that would fit better and I do the same for them. They swiped yes to me because they liked me, I did the same to them. His friends are like him,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 44 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Yes. Women have been socialized to doubt their capabilities. But women are also experts at expressing how they feel and put complex emotions into words. The way women talk should be adopted by men, not the other way around. u/Ntop__ You wouldn't end a thesis with "Hopefully that makes sense, let me know!", so why use it in a discussion? No, but neither would you end a thesis with "This is how it is for everyone, period". In a thesis, for instance, you need to to nuance your arguments, otherwise … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 2 | How many dates in should you expect him to stop seeing other people?0 dates...? Not to make all of you sound like pickme's, but I find it really turn off if I know he's dating other people. If he is so busy to find a partner that he would like to go with anyone - then I don't want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:22 AM |
| 161 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Not to say you do anything wrong, but isn't it kinda sick that we adopt this simplified way of expressing ourselves? Sometimes it's neat to be able to nuance the way you share your opinions; otherwise you devalue strong opinions. If I wrote what I just said in male-language it would sound like this: It is sick that we adopt this simplified way of expressing ourselves. You must nuance the way you share your opinions. The current practice devalues strong opinions. ^ I don't feel so sure or strong … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:17 AM |
| 9 | What wall?!This is not just good genes. She clearly knows how to take care of herself, and anyone who discredit her don't know what they're talking about. https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/fd52fd/salma_hayeks_red_carpet_looks_1998_2020/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:08 AM |
| 22 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!no, be whatever the fuck you want, your parents' opinion shouldn't matter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How FDS has changed my relationship he past 3 monthsHis LVM behavior: - inept at cooking and cleaning- to proud to ask about stuff he's unclear about (used my roomiee's tooth paste because he's too proud to ask me which one is mine)- too attached in public without socializing with my friends- many many more that I forgot about What I did was to tell him what he did wrong why it was wrong what he could do to change it he always come up with different solutions, but they worked out because he knew my intention. Example: Toothpaste: I know you're us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:21 PM |
| 11 | "The Way I Are" Is probably one of the most Anti-FDS songs out there...He can't even afford flowers rip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 8 | How FDS has changed my relationship he past 3 monthsSexolect is a sociolect specific to gender. Women use a lot of discourse markers (such as: I think people of color feel, often, sometimes) to nuance language whereas men talk in statements and with fake confidence. We can distinguish between “feminolect” or female speech and “masculinolect” or male speech. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:40 AM |
| 55 | Game show where they have to find the fake gamer. Girl finds it out all by herself, then the guys vote her out because she's a woman and get all the prize money.Oh god I watched that when it came out and I hated it. The comment section agrees with us. Classical example on bro-codeism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:21 PM |
| 11 | I have no words.h o tt /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Title says: My girlfriend cooked this so I guess I have to do it myself next time (LVM trash talking his girl's homemade vegan dessert for karma online)Imagine the first thing you do when your partner prepare something edible is think: Hmm, what should the title of my funny Reddit post be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 8 | Title says: My girlfriend cooked this so I guess I have to do it myself next time (LVM trash talking his girl's homemade vegan dessert for karma online)Some of the comments: I assume it's mistake you didn't write ex-girlfriend (top post) "Haha... She ended picking up the one from Arla with egg and milk... [...] jesus, 2020 😑 Also asked for a Cold Carlsberg, but I don't dare go out and check fearing it's alcohol free" (OP) "My condolence" "Yeah [make it yourself next time] then you can get the one with real milk ;)" "Goes straight into the toilet" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder ✨Not to ruin the message, but diamonds break easily if you hit them with a hammer. I'm just saying it to prevent some dude from mansplaining it to you in case you use the quote IRL later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 40 | Billie Eilish's newest song screams FDSHer audience is mostly teenagers and they treat her like the Bible, so I hope this track will plant a seed of self-love in them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 73 | Billie Eilish's newest song screams FDS'Cause I, I'm in love With my future Can't wait to meet her And I (I), I'm in love But not with anybody else Just wanna get to know myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | I love Lizzo's messages. She's an absolute QueenLittle Simz - Persons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 72 | Looks MaxingWhen I'm not in a relationship I don't need a man to compliment my looks. When I'm in a relationship I feel like something's wrong if he doesn't compliment me. I took it as a sign of weakness: I was just a craving girl. But then I realized how messed up it is that you have to come up with a strong case and a good argument every time you want to receive a compliment from someone that's supposed to be a positive factor in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:21 PM |
| 14 | Grimes’ baby father is wildin’ on the Internet and she just came to collect him. Embarrassing.I thought he referred to binary pronouns when I first read it. What does this even mean? So annoying that billionaires get to write random crap on Twitter and have fun while the proletariat waste their time trying to figure out what it means. I wanna boycott all celebrities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:52 PM |
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