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1

My advice is to wait with the sex until you have been on a few dates with a person who you like. They will probably not leave if they get invested in you emotionally.
/r/seduction01/07/24 02:45 PM
13

I can confirm this. I am chatting with a guy who will go days without chatting to me. He still seems very interested when he does. But I am losing patience.
/r/seduction11/08/23 03:38 PM
1

The bio can also optimise your luck. It has to be funny, clever and sell you as the best option out there without making you seem like a selfish asshole.
/r/seduction29/10/22 11:04 AM
-5

I think it's pretty clear that your friend is on drugs. You should hold a intervention for him and get him into rehab.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:50 PM
0

She is not worth your time.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:31 AM
-4

I am just pointing out that it's not the same for everyone
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:59 PM
-6

I meet my boyfriend on a dating app.
/r/seduction01/09/22 10:06 PM
5

Ask her and if if she doesn't answer then it's her loss. Move on.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:08 PM
4

Yeah it really sucks. I really had to fight to be taken seriously. I am proud of you. I really believe you are at great spot in your life. Sometimes a amazing relationship just finds you. I am very happy for you. 🤞🏻
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:52 PM
5

I tried relationships with very mentally ill people and seemed to tricker my own disorders more so I don't recommend it. I hope you will be able to solve or lessen your problems. I believe that growth is important. She is lucky if ADHD is her only problem. I feel like my conditions clash and makes everything way harder then it has to be. I dream of proper treatment. Being mentally ill sucks. Sometimes age isn't the issue. I dated men who where 20 years older then me and I was the mature one in t…
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:30 PM
13

If I was in your shoes I would schedule a second date. She sounds like a keeper despite everything.
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:24 PM
2

My boyfriend is a nice guy. Your status don't hold water.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:08 PM
0

Yes it abseloutly is. We wanna avoid the worst possible outcome. I can't listen to my voice machine because I fear getting random rape threats. It happened more than once and I never found out who it was.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:42 PM
2

Exactly. Thanks. It has happened many times that I get creepy messages and it easier when I just blocked then when I confronted them. Sometimes I might over react. But its out of bad experience that I do it.
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:35 PM
20

No its the fear of a angry confrontation that makes girls ghost. Not always a wallet reason but it does stem from a real place. Maybe one bad episode. I had and ex who would call and tell me he would find me and kill me because I broke up with him after finding out he had another girlfriend in a different city. Its not okay to ghost but its not done for a laugh.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:24 AM
2

Its good to gain new friends with different interests then the ones you already got. I think that's a great idea. You can always hire a professional photographer and tell the person that you don't want it to look to perfect and it needs to look casual. Well there you go. You still got it. Take that confidence and run with it. 😊
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:06 AM
1

Aw damn. Ok how about you just go with your best friend and take some pictures and then hopefully they won't be bad? 😅😂 It's more about showing that you can have a good time then looking like a hunk. Women likes a nice smile in a beautiful setting. Even mid laugh can be good.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:47 AM
1

I think you need to go to a festival or or whatever with a friend who is good at photography without making it look to professional. Then just have a good time, act natural and care about the light. The light will determine how good you look. I think it could also help to make a good profile text that isn't to long, shows who you are without giving to much away and throw in some humour.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:38 AM
0

You just gotta keep trying and maybe get some better photos taken?
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:30 AM
-2

Do you have friends who has other single friends with similar interests as you? You could ask them? There is always the dating websites. I met my boyfriend on tinder.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:41 AM
2

Are you seeing a therapist? I think that might help. 🤔
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:59 AM
1

I have AS and have dated guys who has AS. I think its important to at least try to learn to adapt improve your skills. It's just seems like most AS guys either can't or won't even try learn. I have met the expectations but they are rare. Masking all day is exorsting so I get why some people choose to be stubborn and say my way or the high way.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:15 PM
1

You are still young. You can make up for lost time. My early 20s was not exactly successful and I am now a 32 year old woman with the same boyfriend trough 5 years. I have friends who have been single for 13 years with barely any action and friends who is still virgins after the age of 30. It's ok to be a late bloomer. You are still very young. I know most people start in their early teens but its okay not to be that person. This is your year. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:37 PM
1

I am 5'5 and have dated men who was the same height. It really doesn't matter to me personally.
/r/seduction16/07/22 03:14 PM
9

You need to get help. Go see a psychiatrist. I really don't mean to be rude. It's in your own interest to do so.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:27 AM
5

Get him to get hes nails cut shorter. I really think you are getting to a point where a sex therapist is needed.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:12 PM
1

Maybe go see a sex couch or whatever it's called. I think that's really the best option that are left to try 🤔
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:04 PM
1

If he cares about that then he's a complete prick and don't deserve you. Edited pictures has ruined so man people's confidence. You need to love your self for who you are. If he truly cares about you then it won't be a problem.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:02 AM
2

He is not worth your time. Move on and find yourself a single guy who is only into you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:42 PM
1

Hang out with her a bit more before you tell her how you feel.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:12 AM
6

Don't message her constantly but maybe once a or every second day. Something funny and light that says thinking about you but not needy.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:30 AM
1

I think you should take the hint and leave her alone. But then again if she gave her Instagram then I guess it was just an accident that one number was off. I guess it dependents on how she seemed to feel about it all when you did the exchange?
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:46 AM
1

Please don't call me bro. I am a woman. Her body language is good, alright. So just shop there often and make nice conversations. If its meant to evolve then it will do it naturally.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:06 PM
2

Either she wasn't interested or she just cares to much about her job to risk it. If you really like her then stop by often and talk with her. Maybe eventually she will like you enough to not care about the rules. But yeah read her body language. Either she is interested or she isn't. We can't force people to like us 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:52 PM
1

There is ways to improve your social skills.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:30 AM
2

Well its either the way you ask, your vibe or maybe they dont want to talk with men on the streets out of fear in genial. We need more context to help you out.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:26 AM
6

He sounds like an asshole. Regardless of what he wants from you, then he is a waste of time in my opinion. Move on girl. Guys like that never gets to date me again. I don't need these shitty games.
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:54 PM
0

Self medicating isn't the solution. It my worsen your issues over time. You probably need to see other mental health care providers then just your psychiatrist.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:09 PM
2

You shouldn't ignore your ptsd. You need to have very specific therapy for that.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:06 PM
2

Maybe find new people to be around? In q environment that are more suited to your specific interests 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:03 PM
9

The fact that she works at Hooters should already give you a clue.
/r/seduction04/07/22 12:52 PM
5

Good. Read her signals more closely before you make a move.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:46 AM
3

You just met her. So kissing her in front of other people was over the line. Especially because it was her friends. You didn't read her correctly. If you had then you would have waited until later that evening. Better luck next time.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:43 AM
1

Funerals and a hospice.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:19 AM
2

Give her time, make her feel comfortable and just have fun in a way that you are both ok with. Sure it sucks that you are notcon the say page right now. But if you really love her then she needs time. Give her that space. What's her hobbies?
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:22 PM
2

She is still young and isn't ready. Either wait for her to be ready or move on to someone more mature. She shouldn't be pushed into something she isn't ready for. Edit. I should add that you could be direct with her ask if she sees you more as friends then someone she wants to move forward with. But the way it looks from here is that you are not on the same page and that creates tension might make it difficult to move forward at all. Listen to your gut.
/r/seduction01/07/22 11:33 PM
1

Personally I matched with guys who had the best bios and a sweet smile. The hot dudes where either dead silent, not able to hold a conversation or just rude. When personality shine through in profile it will be noticed. And don't use pictures of you with your mates. It will just come across as lazy instead of trying to put good pictures of yourself and if you have a hot friend on the group photo on as much as one picture then you have lost before the conversation has even started. Matched with m…
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:42 PM
1

Funny men can be sexy as heck. But don't be a clown. You gotta have a serious side too. Describe a specific situation for me where you where Mr funny guy and got rejected. I will give you a woman's perspective on why it didn't work.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:24 PM
1

Not sure what you mean by simping? So far so good. I am sure you will be fine.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:48 AM
1

She likes you. Nothing wrong with that. Go with the flow. See where it takes you.
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:53 PM
1

Then you will probably have to hit the gym and find a style that reflects what you want. Clothes can change how you will be presived.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:07 AM
2

Maybe look at what you can and want to change about yourself to change things up. Is it really that bad to a romantic interest though? It's at least not a friend zone kinda ordeal. 🤔
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:59 AM
-4

I would say run. It's huge turn off for me if a guy tells me to call him daddy. I would run for the hills if I was a dude being called daddy. Heck no..
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:10 PM
3

I used to have a boyfriend with a big dick. I didn't enjoy it at all and he was clueless in bed. So average is better in my opinion.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:02 PM
1

I was just using attractive girls as an example. You can either except defeat or work on yourself. I am working on myself all the time. Not for my boyfriend but for myself.
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:31 PM
1

We don't choose to get that much attention. It just happens. You just have to accept that the more attractive the woman is the more competition there is going to be.
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:21 PM
1

Well there is usually a sea of men around us women so you have to stand out to get the attention. In this day and age you could be competing for the attention with up to 700 other guys. I am not making this up. Its a real number if a girl is really attractive. Of course we girls also need to make an effort. But its not necessarily because we are competing. As a woman I have to set a standard in order to dismiss some of the guys. We can't just choose someone based on a here and now consept. This …
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:31 AM
5

Give her your phone number if it will be fitting for the conversation and see what she does next.
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:14 AM
0

Young woman here. How can I help you? Being cheated on is not nice.. But its hard to avoid it from happening. Especially if a relationship is about to end.
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:07 AM
1

Sure.
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:13 AM
1

Become more interesting than them, talk about things that will be exciting, topics she will find intriguing, be funny. As a woman I can tell you that funny men har super attractive. Make her feel wanted without being over the top. Give genuine compliments that isn't about how she looks. Create conversations that will make her stay awake at night analysing your conversation over and over again.
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:10 AM
1

Say no. She is giving you mixed Signals. If you want to go out with her still then arrange a new date on neutral ground. If she cancels again then it means she has to many personal problems and isn't worth your time.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:55 AM
2

Same with handsome men. Sigh. Haha. She is probably not so mature yet. Maybe it will be different if you met her by chance in a few years. Right now it's best to stay way. I used to chase complicated men. But now I am with a guy who makes life less complicated and a lot safer.
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:36 PM
4

As a woman I can say that this girl is not worth your time. She might have truly forgotten about it. But she sounds like an exorsting person to deal with. Forget her looks. She isn't behaving in a manner that I consider responsible. She clearly has some things to deal with and that shouldn't allow your evenings to be ruined. I dealt with flaky people all my life. Male and female. Doesn't matter what context it is. They need to learn that they cannot repeat this behaviour without missing out.
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:41 PM
5

Better luck next time.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:03 PM
1

Are you never invited to parties? Maybe if you meet someone you really like then you would be able to get it out of your system.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:26 AM
1

I think you should look at who you find to be the most attractive people inside and out and spent time on them. Try not to feel FOMO about saying no to some people. Thry won't all be worth your time. If you really don't want to let go of them then try to plan hanging out at later date. It's not a complete no and you will still have time for other things.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:56 PM
1

Ok. Maybe you just haven't found the right person yet. I have been on a lot of dates before I met my boyfriend. These things takes time.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:40 PM
1

Sounds like it just wasn't the right person or therapy. You need to seek help elsewhere.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:43 PM
1

Ok. But what do you talk about?
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:30 PM
2

Here is a crazy idea. Stop drinking and doing drugs. Seek professional help to talk about all your issues and find someone who knows how to help people with anxiety.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:28 PM
1

Dude I am sorry to say this but I get the feeling that it's your over all attitude that ruins the chance for second date. Tell us what you usually say to this woman and then I can tell you why they won't go on a second date with you.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:22 PM
-9

Excuse me.. But.. Equal pay is bullshit to you? Why?
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:22 AM
1

Guys with big dicks don't need know how to use it. Maybe focus more on your seduction technique. That will make all the difference.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:10 PM
0

I found my boyfriend on tinder.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:29 AM
1

Depends on how she reacted to the idea?
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:45 PM
0

Well you are still very young so I think you have plenty of time to improve yourself. I know many people who struggle just like you. My advice is to go on YouTube and look up channels that talk about all the things you struggle with. You should sit with a note pad and write down key points to remember them. My own comedic sense has been improved by watching a lot of comedy and spot what kind of things that worked. Pm me if you want a mentor.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:35 PM
1

Work on your social skills and humour. Those things can be learned. It will help you a lot in many aspects.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:50 PM
1

I don't have a dick. I am a woman. I just meant that no birth control is a 100 % safe. Maybe 80 or 90 % even if there is just 1 % chance of pregnancy it can still happen.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:59 PM
2

What do you usually say to them?
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:04 PM
1

True to a point. I know several women who got pregnant even though they where on the pill. It can still happen even though its less likely.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:37 PM
2

Even if it is true. Birth control isn't 100 % efficient. Pregnancy can still happen.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:14 PM
2

Be funny, charming and talk about interesting things. People will forget all about how you look if they like what you have to offer as a person.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:08 AM
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