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Right? The timeframe tells the whole story, I'm afraid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 05:16 PM
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Rants against cancel culture are the epitome of low value. Literally--there are too many of them, they all (deliberately?) demonstrate poor to no understanding of the very thing they're railing against, and they all emanate major stan vibes. By now they can be (and in some cases probably are) auto-generated with a few lines of JavaScript. You could have spent this time in so many better ways! Learning a language, taking a nature walk, baking something yummy, practicing Krav Maga, reupholstering …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:35 AM
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"If you can hang and watch sports with me, that's a big deal"--so he doesn't have any buddies to watch with? Also suggests that even post-pandemic, this man's free time will still be divided between the couch and the toilet. Hard to think of anything less attractive. Now factor in that his hands are in other people's mouths all day, and 🤢🤮 ugh, so much no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:04 AM
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Made it up entirely to spam it to every ex he'd ever had, is my bet. Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:09 PM
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Hell yes! It's literally soul-destroying to live with men like this--ask me how I know. Especially because you know they would never, ever treat another man this way. They know that doing so would be an invitation to an ass-whupping. But it shouldn't take the threat of violence for men to do their fair share, or to give up their manipulative, gaslighting ways. A need to have basic self-respect should make them want to act right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:02 PM
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Speaking only from my own experience, which mayn't be similar to yours: The best I've ever seen men behave is invariably at work. They value each other's opinions, and work is where they are most likely to encounter each other, so they generally put their best foot forward. The effect of #1 is even more pronounced in guys who are after a side piece at work, and prefer the good-girl type. The only male coworkers I've ever written this many words about were ones I had feelings for. I hope your exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:51 AM
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Yeah, I can't argue with any of this. Plus, too many "look at this horrible guy!" posts lately read like poorly disguised promotional material for said horrible guy. The fuck do I need to see some red pill clown for? I know they're out there but the less of my energy they take, the better off I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:38 AM
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I feel terrible for her. Wish she could see the truth: the trash took itself out. If he doesn't think it's time to grow up at 33, it's unlikely he ever will. Now she only needs to focus on improving her vetting, so a clown like this can never waste two years of her life again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:40 PM
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It's so cute when they write their Scrotemas lists early like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:45 AM
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Yep, read 'em both. Like you, my jaw hit the floor on reading Joanna's description of their "courtship." Even pre-FDS, I was horrified. You didn't finish Capital Gaines and I don't blame you! What plays on television as a little childish and a lot hammy, comes off as just plain entitled douchebaggery in print. Off the top of my head, two things that thoroughly disgusted me: An incident Chip describes in which he puts his infant child in some sort of go kart contraption he's made that is naturall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:49 PM
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...see, but like once a week someone brings him up in a dedicated post with his name in the title including links/promo and a very polite request for "discussion" --then claims to have done so iN aLl iGnOraNcE. So all I can say semi-civilly is, I sure hope the fucker pays well. He probably doesn't, though, because so many pick-mes are happy to work free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:21 AM
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He once tried to WHAT?!--No! Never mind! I don't want to know (and you no doubt wish you didn't). Ye gods. I'm so sorry! Blocking's almost too good for him. I turned off the notifications about profile views--a view is not an interview and I only want to know about actual events, not potential ones. Definitely brought down my stress while job hunting this spring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:56 PM
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I'm clear on why they do it. I'm sure we all are! My aim was to stick a pin in their ever-ballooning egos by noting that it's a paltry, low, unmanly "achievement," and no, they didn't get a gold star for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:01 PM
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It's so telling that he chose to mention that, no? It's 2021, dude--come on out of that closet before you wind up as wrinkled as your shitty clothes are. I promise you that your doing so will bother exactly zero women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:49 AM
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Ten to one he bragged to his guy friends afterwards about how he "made sure to get one last fuck in" before he peaced out. Leave it to scrotes to delude themselves that being liars is some kind of tremendous accomplishment. It's not some elaborate, meticulous con job they're pulling; just plain old cowardly lying like you see from misbehaving toddlers every day. Pure clownery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:28 AM
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Sigh. This poor young woman! The irony is how much he looks like a fat Niall Horan, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:21 AM
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in reality, I dodged a bullet You dodged $1000 worth of bullets! Jesus, that gave me the shivers. Men's appetites for violence are bad enough when they don't have ready access to firearms and plenty of ammo. That was the reddest of all the flags, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:13 AM
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Yes! Praise Alana Massey for stating it plain. Reading her essay launched me into the barest beginnings of a mindset shift that's still ongoing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:22 AM
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And then, and then, he blames having to buy a gift for his son for part of those expenses. Fuckin' Father of the Year, all right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:02 AM
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What year was Clueless released? It's been a complaint of us American ladies since at least then. Last time American men were even close to dressing on par with their European brethren was the 1940s, far as I'm concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:28 AM
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"Block and delete" keeps being repeated around these parts for good reason, as you're beginning to learn. They never come back better. Usually the opposite. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:10 PM
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"Weren't you married like 2 weeks ago?" took me out. How does he not die of the cringe?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:07 AM
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Thank you so, so much for this. It is all too familiar. You've given me great insight into my former situation. (Because you're right, they don't do relationships, so I can't call it that!) That man had more excuses for why he couldn't reply to texts in anything remotely like a timely manner... why he couldn't demonstrate basic, basic give-and-take in conversations... why he should ever express kindness, warmth, or empathy to anyone... and so on. Greeted all attempts by me to cOmMuNiCaTe about t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:02 AM
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Same! I told my mother when the lockdown first began, "I feel like I've been training for this my whole life." There was a pause before she replied, "I guess you have been, now I think about it." 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:57 PM
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Could you please elaborate on "Avoidants don't respect relationships?" That seems to sum up an ex perfectly and now I really want to know more. The last time I searched for any, information on APD was kind of scarce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:32 AM
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Completely agree that that's what SHOULD happen... and 100% doubtful that these officers have any shame to feel in the first place. 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:19 PM
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He needs to borrow money after you paid him for 6 months up front?! He's addicted to something--could be anything, speed, shopping, gambling--and that makes him zero value. Ugh! I'm so sorry. They can't be professional at even the most basic level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:27 AM
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Yeah, not super happy that the comment I replied to has been edited so heavily from its original that I now look like an Olivia Munn stan. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:25 PM
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She's an inspiration to me. No hyperbole. She makes (among other art) the most beautiful Victorian lampshades I've ever seen in my life. I love her style (I tend towards maximalist myself).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:37 PM
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"Assertive." "Determined." "Leadership material."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:30 AM
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I'm definitely old and he still needs a bath. I would fear for the condition of his sheets, but fortunately, we know scrotes like these don't own any.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 11:51 PM
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Baby oil, bronzer, and highlighter all have their appropriate cosmetic uses. Those uses do not include mixing them all together and paving yourself with them. He looks like a walking puddle of motor oil. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:49 PM
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Abridged version of an admittedly long read (and a massive TW for abuse and violence): Pick-me marries NVM. Adopts daughter. NVM is a rapist who likes to break-and-enter women's homes, tie them up, and, well, you know--why dwell on it. Surprise surprise, rapist begins abusing adopted daughter. Adopted daughter tells pick-me mom. Mom accuses her of lying. Father eventually murders daughter when she's 14; claims it was an accident, but he's not the truthful sort. And pick-me mom? --continues to de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:07 PM
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This reads like one of those disingenuous attempts by conservascrotes to get their views propagated by any means necessary. Note that I did not say you intended it that way. I am saying it gives off major "I'm just aSkInG tHe qUeStIoNs" and "can't we have a cIvIl dIsCuSsIoN?" sea lion energy. Plus the framing is all wrong. The question should be, "Why are liberated women a threat to clowns like Jordan Peterson?" and the answer should be, "Who cares?" Edit: Someone's gonna have to explain to me i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:49 PM
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Gen X here too and exactly. Exactly! Total con job--maybe not deliberate (though Steinem was a spook, so who knows), but ineptitude plus wishful thinking can do just as much harm. Needn't be malice aforethought. My mother is just that smidge too old to be a Boomer, so she wasn't exactly down with the sexual revolution (what'd we win in that one, anyone know?). She TRIED to tell me. I thought she was only perpetuating harmful stereotypes though 🙄, so listen I did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:15 AM
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Yes! Way to be! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:14 PM
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!!! I just read about this guy like, two weeks ago? Maybe three? As soon as I saw "Texas" and "neurosurgeon" I knew who it had to be. Absolutely abominable. I don't support the death penalty, but I do support (1) blindfolding him and plunking him in the middle of an interstate and (2) wishing sleepless nights and permanent migraines on every person who could've stopped this bumblefuck and didn't. I could barely stand reading the article, though, so there is no way I could watch three hours on th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:13 PM
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I love it! An entirely scrote-free couple of days and perhaps a bit of a breather for the hardest-working mods on Reddit? Yes, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:06 PM
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Yep. Entire subreddits filled with this type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:41 PM
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"Wait!--That's right: You were the eunuch who swept out the stables! Now I see it. ...I mean, wow. You haven't changed much at all, really!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:50 PM
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Right?! I know we didn't because if we had, I would have run the other way the instant I spotted you this time through! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:55 PM
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Just waiting for "I feel like we must have known each other iN aNoThEr lIfE."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:14 PM
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Saving to nominate for the handbook. I can hear the squawks of protest already from the usual suspects, but no matter. This is theeeee truth I refused to accept when I was in my 20s and 30s, because I was a feminist and the feminism of my era said that men and women were essentially the same. They. Are. Not. And even if they were (but they're not), they're socialized in such disparate ways that they wind up wired differently. Het women forget this at our peril.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:14 PM
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Maybe he should be dating someone His own age! He should be dating someone his own age. Oh, I hate that she thinks she needs to be more considerate to this creep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:59 AM
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sabotaged himself with amphetamine abuse Oh, is that what we're calling being a tweaker these days? This is why it's crucial to refrain from ever using future tense when it comes to men. Don't think in it, don't speak in it, because you can only date (or block-n-delete) the man he is today. And the not-a-doctor this man is today is a pile of yikes in a human suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:25 AM
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Why in the world would you watch a "reality show," which succeeds precisely to the extent that it does not reflect reality, to learn about real-life behavior? I know we're in a panhandle and it's not really practical to go outside and observe people, but there's gotta be a better way to learn about people than this. Come on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:32 AM
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😂 I will never quite be able to reconcile all the leveling-up/mindset-shift/former-pick-me rhetoric on this sub with all the equally intense worship of TikToks by (1) scrotes performing feminism at the most basic, remedial level and (2) three-quarters nekkid women made up like drag queens doing the same. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:25 AM
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First of all--thank you for raising this topic. There are times here, especially lately, that the line seems to blur between FDS and regular Reddit. Second of all, I never want to see that meme with the half-off press-on nails (and the obviously-added-later "pick-me" text) again. How are you going to learn to discern high value from low if you can't even spot trashy racism bait when you're posting it on Reddit? Finally: I don't personally think truly high-value women spend much of their time dwe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:43 PM
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That thread! That thread sent me my favorite flowers, took me to the best restaurant, and called to make sure I got home safely. "You don't wanna be out here learning tiktok dances and falling off milk crates" nooooo not the milk crates! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:16 AM
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Like father, like son!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:44 AM
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Can't read that "oh are you asking me out to the movies?" without mentally seeing that heinous "is for me?" meme and feeling nauseated. The bullet you dodged here! I hope next weekend's date is wonderful in every way to help make up for this scrote (and because queens deserve)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:57 AM
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Granted, I don't know their lives because duh, celebrities? But for me, this trope always brings to mind Warren Beatty and Annette Bening. The story, when they wed around 30 years ago, was that fuckboy Warren finally found The One. The rumored story was that fuckboy Warren got old enough to start not only having younger women reject his advances, but having them openly laugh at him or display obvious disgust in response. And we know all too well how marvelously men cope with women's ridicule, do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:45 AM
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This isn't about left vs right wing It is absolutely about that, but I guess we'll have to wait for Roe v. Wade to be overturned, a couple hundred million more COVID denialists to expire in the ICU, and Seattle to undergo full desertification from climate change before some political pick-mes figure that out. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:49 PM
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Yeah, that's a good point--he won't just hand over an unlocked phone to the next woman after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:46 AM
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Hey, not sure if this is where I should ask (if it isn't, I'd appreciate being pointed in the right direction), but: are we still doing meme-free Mondays? If so, what are the hours for that? I was really enjoying them, so I hope they haven't gone away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:32 PM
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When will leaders do something? When they have no other choice but to, and not one moment before, because status quo is working just fine for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:42 PM
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Like that he's married with a kid! The audacity. I hope his wife finds FDS and dumps this clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:20 AM
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Oh NO. How disappointing! But thank goodness you got away safely. I wish guys like him would even once grasp how much they are truly their own worst enemies. Instead, they let their entitlement take over and ruin everything. Then, like the sO-lOgIcAl sex they are, they blame women for their failures in life. Thanks for the reminder to check their social media, though! Always good practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:57 AM
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This imagery, omg! 🤣 PERFECTION.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:29 PM
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If it were reversed and we were the ones who never brought them to orgasm, we'd never hear the end of it. Hell, we never hear the end of their so-called "needs" now and they're the ones getting off all the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:18 PM
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This is likely it--you can never overestimate how bone lazy these scrotes are. The p0rn only worsens it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:15 PM
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Well, I see there's been a little resistance to your suggestion, but personally, I love it. Maybe because I'm older and running out of patience, maybe because I'm blunt myself, or maybe because of all the times here I find myself wondering how some women's stories got as far as they did. I don't think that is necessarily a poor reflection on the younger women, but rather an indication of how far downhill things have gone since I was their age. I mean, some of the shit men pull now was the shit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 05:07 AM
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I was blaming menopause for my low interest, but reading your list, plus mentally adding a few items of my own to it? ...yeah, this is not solely hormonal. Might not even mostly be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:32 AM
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He still texts me, too. You haven't blocked him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:31 PM
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I love how you put this and will remember it. It's like I'd only be helping a bad actor prepare for his next role, unpaid, and meanwhile, no lasting change occurs. Waste of time and effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 06:18 PM
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I refuse to make the education of losers my job. I don't really care whether they learn the difference or not, so long as women are able to keep on leveling up without them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:34 PM
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As a former registered Republican who voted for GWB twice, let me tell you something, sister: You're absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:12 AM
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Exactly! Sure, it's a problem when they rage on and on about their "cRaZy" exes... but it's also a problem when the split was a little too amicable. That he didn't seek his current wife's input on this should tell her all she needs to know about the worth of her marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:19 AM
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"Getting Better" is more McCartney's work, lest anyone think John was the only NVM in that group. But Lennon had "Run for Your Life," which is just what you think it is. Literally opens with: I'd rather see you dead, little girl, than to be with another man You'd better keep your head, little girl, for you won't know where I am You better run for your life if you can, little girl Hide your head in the sand, little girl Catch you with another man? That's the end, little girl What a charmer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:16 PM
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Okay, that is truly wild because my guess before even reading it was the guy on the left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:44 PM
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Hey, no, thank YOU for posting it! I love level-up stories. This was so nice to read. And I agree: all love to this sub for getting us all to stop wondering whether we're good enough for a scrote! If that were all FDS did (and it certainly isn't), that would still make for a massive improvement in my quality of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:24 AM
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This post is gold. I'm only half-kidding when I say I'm convinced my CFS stems decades of putting up with exactly this kind of scrotivity--putting up with, making excuses for, cleaning up after, finally fixing it myself because someone's got to--yeah, no wonder I'm beat. I want an FDS rescue for your poor friend! And it's much more dangerous for the very young and the very old in the heat. It isn't right that she and the kids get to roast while that complete waste of water & carbon hits the bar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:34 AM
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I love it! Conjures visions of Lydia in Skyrim snapping, "On second thought, carry your own fuckin' burdens," and kiting off to Skuldafn aboard Odahviing without the player character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:25 AM
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Right? That was my feeling. But someone suggested upthread that he might have said it to gauge her reaction, like "gotta shoot muh shot--she might be into it." And I sorely wish I didn't find that as plausible as I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:27 PM
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I just--there was already so much wrong with this, so so so much--but then, that he felt obliged to reassure her that he's the one who's weird?! No. Fucking. Shit. Though it's not so much weird as it is exactly the kind of depravity one has tragically come to expect from these pornsick bearers of the failed evolutionary experiment known as the y chromosome. These scrotes are gonna trigger a worldwide shortage of clown wigs the way they're going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:53 AM
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they only run back because they don't have anyone else to run towards Perfectly put and all too accurate. Might have to embroider this one someplace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:22 PM
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I love how he makes it abundantly clear that getting to see you is a top priority for him, by scheduling ahead promptly--which is also very considerate of your time. Super encouraging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:55 AM
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Chloe Grace Laws, I think. Found it attributed to her elsewhere on Reddit, and her name is at the bottom of this image at the very right, though not that easy to make out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:47 AM
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Exactly--telling on themselves as usual. Something-something judging others by your own half bushel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:56 PM
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I'm new, so take this with a grain of salt and all, but... no, I do not think an HVM would choose complete disengagement from a woman he had genuine feelings for, especially under the (purported) circumstances, and especially after said woman had shown him unconditional support. If anything, most men in this situation would clutch onto a romantic interest all the more fiercely, on account of how they aReN't gOoD aT fEeLiNgS, and apparently can't type "therapist near me" into a search engine eith…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:51 PM
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He wished feminist would say thank you to men for trying WHAT trying. If you want to be thanked for something, you have to do it first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:36 PM
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All that for a walk date? AND a walk in the woods at that?! I'd hear "walk in the woods" and immediately think, "so my body can never be found? No thank you." All that, and he doesn't have even enough sense to be grateful that he's getting a woman's time and attention for free. They can never leave well enough alone. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:18 PM
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They're such liars. I don't believe for a minute that they actually think this; they're just hoping to convince us of it. They also know we aren't stupid enough to buy into this of our own volition, so that's where the attempts to indoctrinate us from the cradle that we need them (lol for what?) come in. If those don't fully work, there's always the negging, the whining, the manipulation, the threats, and all the other scrote-tastic behaviors they choose to rely on rather than face reality. Porn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:09 PM
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